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I've previously been on here but decided to delete my old profile and start a new one due to not feeling comfortable with my old one. A fresh start was in order!
I'm just wanting a few tips on how to go about getting a first meet? I know age is a factor to most people on here so I completely understand that. Experience is also one thing people look out for, which I don't lack lol.
Feel free to share tips, past experiences and anything else you feel is relevant. Some people may recognise me if you like stalking the forums... Remember that everyone was a first timer on here at one point, so go easy!
I hope you all have a nice bank holiday weekend anyway
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"Change your profile pic to a cock pic so that you blend in with most the other single guys "Thats where I've been going wrong! | |||
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"Change your profile pic to a cock pic so that you blend in with most the other single guys "Hahaha! That's one way of being like every other guy on here! | |||
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"I can't give you any tips that will guarantee a meet. Stick around, chat in the forum, go to a social if there's one near you and treat this as an experience that you will gain something from. Good luck." Thanks! Will certainly stick around and do that | |||
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"Put some pics on your profile and go to a club. Have fun xx" Thank you, will certainly do that xx | |||
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"Accept the knock backs and don't take it too seriously "I take it all with a pinch of salt anyway, thanks mate | |||
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away." Or, he could not get a chip on his shoulder, and go to his local club The Attic for £25 and enjoy himself all night, like everyone else there. | |||
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away. Or, he could not get a chip on his shoulder, and go to his local club The Attic for £25 and enjoy himself all night, like everyone else there." It cost £25 for everyone? Or just the men. Let me guess. It costs £75 pounds for men to go three time but costs women ZERO? Nice try. | |||
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away. Or, he could not get a chip on his shoulder, and go to his local club The Attic for £25 and enjoy himself all night, like everyone else there. It cost £25 for everyone? Or just the men. Let me guess. It costs £75 pounds for men to go three time but costs women ZERO? Nice try." Apologies. It costs men 75 and women, 30 pounds. Only 2.5 times. Better than most clubs! | |||
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away." Why do you even bother being part of a scene that you seem to consistently complain treats you poorly? I'm genuinely interested to know. From your previous fab incarnation, to this one, I've seen almost exclusive negativity, bordering on venomous attitude. Do you need a cuddle? | |||
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"Change your profile pic to a cock pic so that you blend in with most the other single guys "This is true. Sluts get moist for cock shots, don't even bother with any other type. If you can get one with another sluts slut juice dripping from your shaft and balls, you will have the sluts on tap.  TSH | |||
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away. Or, he could not get a chip on his shoulder, and go to his local club The Attic for £25 and enjoy himself all night, like everyone else there. It cost £25 for everyone? Or just the men. Let me guess. It costs £75 pounds for men to go three time but costs women ZERO? Nice try." why does it even matter what it costs women? It's £25 for a bloke to get in, end of. Most people just go and enjoy themselves, others just look for things to complain about and re-affirm their belief that everyhting is anti-man. I'd suggest he pays the £25 and has a good night. | |||
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away. Or, he could not get a chip on his shoulder, and go to his local club The Attic for £25 and enjoy himself all night, like everyone else there. It cost £25 for everyone? Or just the men. Let me guess. It costs £75 pounds for men to go three time but costs women ZERO? Nice try.why does it even matter what it costs women? It's £25 for a bloke to get in, end of. Most people just go and enjoy themselves, others just look for things to complain about and re-affirm their belief that everyhting is anti-man. I'd suggest he pays the £25 and has a good night." £25 is cheap in all honesty, I agree with you. £25 and a fun night equals a happy guy lol. Even if it was just to socialise and talk to other site members, I'd be happy paying that... But you can't please some folk! | |||
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"Never been knocked back for 35 years till I thought , ok this looks interesting, I will see what it's about ? You have more chance getting into the bloody masons . A mature man aint got a prayer mate . There loss anyway but it's fucking hard work . It's like fucking snobbery lol . Seriously anyone who can't laugh ain't got a sense of humour. Well done mate for putting it out there ! X " I know what you mean, some folk do think they're everything! But you can't blame a guy for asking... Thanks anyway mate, I'm sure I'll share a few laughs and fun times with members over the coming months. | |||
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"Hi pal the only advice I would give is to not let the lack of a meet bother you. Keep trying to send messages, stay active in the forums and most definitely go to your local club. It's as easy as speaking to some great people who maybe more experienced than You, and they verify you explaining you're a decent guy and it could go from there. Clubs are definitely a good idea to get yourself going. That and just being honest always helps. Abit of a description of what you're looking for and some decent pics. All the best pal" Thanks pal, I'll certainly take onboard all the tips/info that's been given so far. I'll keep trying, I'm sure I'll get somewhere lol. | |||
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away. Why do you even bother being part of a scene that you seem to consistently complain treats you poorly? I'm genuinely interested to know. From your previous fab incarnation, to this one, I've seen almost exclusive negativity, bordering on venomous attitude. Do you need a cuddle? " Im not breaking rules and I've never messaged anyone with hate.I don't need anything from you and it is a free country -I can be here if l want. If you have an issue with it, take it up with fab. Tell them you have a cunt and want things your way. | |||
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away. Or, he could not get a chip on his shoulder, and go to his local club The Attic for £25 and enjoy himself all night, like everyone else there. It cost £25 for everyone? Or just the men. Let me guess. It costs £75 pounds for men to go three time but costs women ZERO? Nice try.why does it even matter what it costs women? It's £25 for a bloke to get in, end of. Most people just go and enjoy themselves, others just look for things to complain about and re-affirm their belief that everyhting is anti-man. I'd suggest he pays the £25 and has a good night." Fairness? Double standards? | |||
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This is true. Sluts get moist for cock shots, don't even bother with any other type. If you can get one with another sluts slut juice dripping from your shaft and balls, you will have the sluts on tap.
TSH"Welcome back  | |||
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"patients is key "Good job I'm a patient person then lol, I won't give up that easily :P | |||
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" Most people just go and enjoy themselves, others just look for things to complain about and re-affirm their belief that everyhting is anti-man. I'd suggest he pays the £25 and has a good night. Fairness? Double standards?" No problem. You stay at home looking at the £25 in your wallet, whining that the women got in for less. Everyone else will be at the club enjoying themselves. Have fun! | |||
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"Never been knocked back for 35 years till I thought , ok this looks interesting, I will see what it's about ? You have more chance getting into the bloody masons . A mature man aint got a prayer mate . There loss anyway but it's fucking hard work . It's like fucking snobbery lol . Seriously anyone who can't laugh ain't got a sense of humour. Well done mate for putting it out there ! X " We've seen lots of mature men having a good time. A good profile and a relaxed, fun attitude pays great dividends. | |||
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" Most people just go and enjoy themselves, others just look for things to complain about and re-affirm their belief that everyhting is anti-man. I'd suggest he pays the £25 and has a good night. Fairness? Double standards? No problem. You stay at home looking at the £25 in your wallet, whining that the women got in for less. Everyone else will be at the club enjoying themselves. Have fun!" Who said anything about staying home? I'm not really into submissive stuff like paying extra because of what l am. If it gets you hard that you have to pay extra, then by all means enjoy yourself. I wonder if they call it a "cock tax"? | |||
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" Most people just go and enjoy themselves, others just look for things to complain about and re-affirm their belief that everyhting is anti-man. I'd suggest he pays the £25 and has a good night. Fairness? Double standards? No problem. You stay at home looking at the £25 in your wallet, whining that the women got in for less. Everyone else will be at the club enjoying themselves. Have fun! Who said anything about staying home? I'm not really into submissive stuff like paying extra because of what l am. If it gets you hard that you have to pay extra, then by all means enjoy yourself. I wonder if they call it a "cock tax"?" Doesn't even cross my mind. I just go and enjoy myself the same as everybody else there. Luckily, the OP, seems to have gone with the positive things he has heard, and is well on the way to having some great experiences. You can do what you like, maybe go and stand outside the barbers ranting that oaps get half price haircuts on a Wednesday, that's not fair either. Keep smiling. | |||
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" Most people just go and enjoy themselves, others just look for things to complain about and re-affirm their belief that everyhting is anti-man. I'd suggest he pays the £25 and has a good night. Fairness? Double standards? No problem. You stay at home looking at the £25 in your wallet, whining that the women got in for less. Everyone else will be at the club enjoying themselves. Have fun! Who said anything about staying home? I'm not really into submissive stuff like paying extra because of what l am. If it gets you hard that you have to pay extra, then by all means enjoy yourself. I wonder if they call it a "cock tax"? Doesn't even cross my mind. I just go and enjoy myself the same as everybody else there. Luckily, the OP, seems to have gone with the positive things he has heard, and is well on the way to having some great experiences. You can do what you like, maybe go and stand outside the barbers ranting that oaps get half price haircuts on a Wednesday, that's not fair either. Keep smiling." You sound like a zombie. Except you don't drift around looking for brains to eat, you are the living dead of trying to find a fanny. I can see it now. A Romero zombie stumbling into the doorway of the club. Attire? Smart-casual of course! | |||
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" You sound like a zombie. Except you don't drift around looking for brains to eat, you are the living dead of trying to find a fanny. I can see it now. A Romero zombie stumbling into the doorway of the club. Attire? Smart-casual of course!" 
In what way do I sound like a zombie? We go to clubs and chat with friends and have a laugh, then we go and have more fun in the playrooms.
Most times we play with other couples or a single lady, and on the odd occasion we just play together, there's no 'fanny' fixation.
We'll keep having fun, you can do what you do. | |||
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"Come fuck one of the Notts regular crowd with me Im in mmf mode "Would love to
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away. Why do you even bother being part of a scene that you seem to consistently complain treats you poorly? I'm genuinely interested to know. From your previous fab incarnation, to this one, I've seen almost exclusive negativity, bordering on venomous attitude. Do you need a cuddle? Im not breaking rules and I've never messaged anyone with hate.I don't need anything from you and it is a free country -I can be here if l want. If you have an issue with it, take it up with fab. Tell them you have a cunt and want things your way. " Did you read the question? Where in that question did I say you messaged hate? Where did I say you've broken rules? Where did I say I had an issue? You apply your own blinkered views to everyone else's contributions to suit your agenda. And for the record, being the Mr half, I lack the cunt that you suggest I have. That assumption makes you look a little...a lot silly. | |||
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"Don't go to a club. You have to pay quadruple what women pay. So 3 club visits cost a woman 15 pounds...it costs a man 120. It's to keep out poorer and elderly men away. Why do you even bother being part of a scene that you seem to consistently complain treats you poorly? I'm genuinely interested to know. From your previous fab incarnation, to this one, I've seen almost exclusive negativity, bordering on venomous attitude. Do you need a cuddle? Im not breaking rules and I've never messaged anyone with hate.I don't need anything from you and it is a free country -I can be here if l want. If you have an issue with it, take it up with fab. Tell them you have a cunt and want things your way. Did you read the question? Where in that question did I say you messaged hate? Where did I say you've broken rules? Where did I say I had an issue? You apply your own blinkered views to everyone else's contributions to suit your agenda. And for the record, being the Mr half, I lack the cunt that you suggest I have. That assumption makes you look a little...a lot silly. " You are the one offering cuddles, trying to be cute. If you want to pose as mummy, don't be shocked if l - and everyone else - assumes you are mummy.. Now leave me alone. | |||
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" Did you read the question? Where in that question did I say you messaged hate? Where did I say you've broken rules? Where did I say I had an issue? You apply your own blinkered views to everyone else's contributions to suit your agenda. And for the record, being the Mr half, I lack the cunt that you suggest I have. That assumption makes you look a little...a lot silly. You are the one offering cuddles, trying to be cute. If you want to pose as mummy, don't be shocked if l - and everyone else - assumes you are mummy.. Now leave me alone. " He didn't say you were breaking rules, just what you hoped to achieve by only posting negative things, anti-clubs, anti-women, anti-fab. If it's all so bad, why not join something you enjoy? | |||
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