FabSwingers.com forum: Curvy or bbw

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So people where is the cut off point of curvacious to bbw ? And how would you judge this ?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Kelly brook is curvy. Dawn French isn't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is no 'cut off' because it's entirely subjective. Each individual will give you a different answer according to how they see it, so you'll never get a uniform opinion.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I am curvy and big and if I do say so myself beautiful...ha ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no idea what group I fall into, but many people here have made me feel beautiful x

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"I am curvy and big and if I do say so myself beautiful...ha ha"

Same......Does this mean we are Big Beautiful Curvies (BBCs?)

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"I have no idea what group I fall into, but many people here have made me feel beautiful x"

Good on you and them x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I must admit I enjoy the attention on fab as a curvier lady than what I usually get out and about in bars in town x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's probably got something to do with dress size and height plus hip to waist ratio but curvy and bbw are subjective.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am curvy and big and if I do say so myself beautiful...ha ha

Same......Does this mean we are Big Beautiful Curvies (BBCs?)

No BBC means something else and why are women being labelled like this?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love all women, simples.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" Kelly brook is curvy. Dawn French isn't "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I wouldn't say it was being labelled in a bad way as even fab asks your body shape when you join so I guess it's just so people get a rou idea was just a random question not meant to offend anybody X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I wouldn't say it was being labelled in a bad way as even fab asks your body shape when you join so I guess it's just so people get a rou idea was just a random question not meant to offend anybody X "

It not an offensive question per se, it just tends to get under certain people's skins.

What one person would call curvy, another will call fat, and that's where the lines get blurred. There's no one uniform answer as to what is defined as curvy or BBW.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

That's a valid point and taken on board x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm fat....with a fee curves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There is no 'cut off' because it's entirely subjective. Each individual will give you a different answer according to how they see it, so you'll never get a uniform opinion.

Spot on there. I consider myself curvy and I am a size 10/12

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"I am curvy and big and if I do say so myself beautiful...ha ha

Same......Does this mean we are Big Beautiful Curvies (BBCs?)

No BBC means something else and why are women being labelled like this? "

This was sorta my point....

Why does BBC refer to a well endowed man of African descent, when someone from Asia may have a darker skin tone?

We all label ourselves one thing or another, maybe just a way of clarifying who/what we identify with.

What we call ourselves is irrelevant....who really cares how another chooses to refer to him/herself?

I'm just me....I claimed curvy when I signed up, as I didn't feel just average or fabulous at the time.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I am curvy and big and if I do say so myself beautiful...ha ha

Same......Does this mean we are Big Beautiful Curvies (BBCs?)

No BBC means something else and why are women being labelled like this?

This was sorta my point....

Why does BBC refer to a well endowed man of African descent, when someone from Asia may have a darker skin tone?

We all label ourselves one thing or another, maybe just a way of clarifying who/what we identify with.

What we call ourselves is irrelevant....who really cares how another chooses to refer to him/herself?

I'm just me....I claimed curvy when I signed up, as I didn't feel just average or fabulous at the time.

Valid point re the BBC term....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I am curvy and big and if I do say so myself beautiful...ha ha

Same......Does this mean we are Big Beautiful Curvies (BBCs?)

No BBC means something else and why are women being labelled like this? "

It's a good question. They are just overweight after all. I guess they just prefer BBW over the reality?

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"I am curvy and big and if I do say so myself beautiful...ha ha

Same......Does this mean we are Big Beautiful Curvies (BBCs?)

No BBC means something else and why are women being labelled like this?

It's a good question. They are just overweight after all. I guess they just prefer BBW over the reality? "

Which is why you decided to call yourself "fabulous" rather than morbidly obese?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I am curvy and big and if I do say so myself beautiful...ha ha

Same......Does this mean we are Big Beautiful Curvies (BBCs?)

No BBC means something else and why are women being labelled like this?

It's a good question. They are just overweight after all. I guess they just prefer BBW over the reality?

Which is why you decided to call yourself "fabulous" rather than morbidly obese?"

No, that's because I'm fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case.... "

Because there's words like petit, it's just the terminology used.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Clearly a grey area I will change my status of my profile from curvy , maybe fab should ask women to state there dress size rather than there body type x

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By *exyfuncouple-40Couple
over a year ago

Bloxham

Marilyn Monroe was claimed to dress size 16 she isn't classed as BBW def curvy . Would think it's how a lady wants to call herself really ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is like the slim/athletic/average debate - I think it's best not to get hung up on the definition, beauty is in the eye of the beholder- if in doubt use the fabulous option!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Clearly a grey area I will change my status of my profile from curvy , maybe fab should ask women to state there dress size rather than there body type x"

Don't go there! You'll start the "a woman who's 4ft 5 and size 12 is not like a woman 5ft 10 and size 12".... #groundhogday

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case....

Because there's words like petit, it's just the terminology used."

PBW - Petite Beautiful Woman....??

BBW - BIG Beautiful Woman...??

I think calling women BIG is insulting - buses are BIG.

It's definitely a grey area.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

"I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case.... "

No we just get ignored

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case....

Because there's words like petit, it's just the terminology used.

PBW - Petite Beautiful Woman....??

BBW - BIG Beautiful Woman...??

I think calling women BIG is insulting - buses are BIG.

It's definitely a grey area. "

Why don't you go onto the bbw thread and ask those who the labelling affects?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I refer to myself as big beautiful and wobbly (of course the beauty is subjective!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Indeed everybody has different tastes and preferences that's the beauty in it all x

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case....

Because there's words like petit, it's just the terminology used.

PBW - Petite Beautiful Woman....??

BBW - BIG Beautiful Woman...??

I think calling women BIG is insulting - buses are BIG.

It's definitely a grey area.

Why don't you go onto the bbw thread and ask those who the labelling affects? "

I'll let you go onto the BBW thread, call it homework!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Again there are lots of opinions appreciate them thank you x

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case....

Because there's words like petit, it's just the terminology used.

PBW - Petite Beautiful Woman....??

BBW - BIG Beautiful Woman...??

I think calling women BIG is insulting - buses are BIG.

It's definitely a grey area.

Why don't you go onto the bbw thread and ask those who the labelling affects?

I'll let you go onto the BBW thread, call it homework! "

Ill pass thank you.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case....

Because there's words like petit, it's just the terminology used.

PBW - Petite Beautiful Woman....??

BBW - BIG Beautiful Woman...??

I think calling women BIG is insulting - buses are BIG.

It's definitely a grey area.

Why don't you go onto the bbw thread and ask those who the labelling affects?

I'll let you go onto the BBW thread, call it homework!

Ill pass thank you. "

Ha ha you suggested it....homework!!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case....

Because there's words like petit, it's just the terminology used.

PBW - Petite Beautiful Woman....??

BBW - BIG Beautiful Woman...??

I think calling women BIG is insulting - buses are BIG.

It's definitely a grey area.

Why don't you go onto the bbw thread and ask those who the labelling affects?

I'll let you go onto the BBW thread, call it homework!

Ill pass thank you.

Ha ha you suggested it....homework!!

You want to know why overweight women call themselves big, but you want me to ask them for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is different, that being said aslong as the person you are with makes you feel sexy and confident. we soend to much time being lumped into groups.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I'm not offended at all but it does make me think it's labelling a certain sized lady.

Do we refer to thin ladies as TBWs (Thin Beautiful Women)?

I rest my case....

Because there's words like petit, it's just the terminology used.

PBW - Petite Beautiful Woman....??

BBW - BIG Beautiful Woman...??

I think calling women BIG is insulting - buses are BIG.

It's definitely a grey area.

Why don't you go onto the bbw thread and ask those who the labelling affects?

I'll let you go onto the BBW thread, call it homework!

Ill pass thank you.

Ha ha you suggested it....homework!!

You want to know why overweight women call themselves big, but you want me to ask them for you? "

That's not what I asked dear. Check back and read what I said.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Shall we kill the group so there's no falling out that wasn't the idea sorry X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Shall we kill the group so there's no falling out that wasn't the idea sorry X "

Don't be sorry. No need.

Your perfectly alowed to ask.... that's the fun of the forums?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's watergun weather though so maybe it would be a good idea to turn this into the WWTP (wet'n wobbly T-Shirt party)?

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

We are what we are.....thin, fat, tall, short etc.

Labels are just downright silly.

It's very interesting to read other people's take on this subject which is what Forums are all about but I'm not being cajoled into going into specialist forums to ask questions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I appreciate everybodies answers and honesty xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In medical terms I'm considered morbidly obese for my height to weight ratio. I am what I am, and even if I lost a few stone, I still wouldn't be skinny as it's not my build.

For the record, my hubs says I'm curvy, but in other's opinions I'd be considered fat!

Bea x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't give a shit where the cut off point is as long as I'm at the party with the curvy or bbw women.

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