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By *k8ktt OP   Man
over a year ago

Wickford

Why do people on here send loads of messages then arrange to meet and then at the very last minute______ they block you.

Why don't they just say no thanks, I've changed my mind. TOSSERS you know who you are.

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire

They arent really no shows then, they just had a change of mind which they are entitled to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you suspect men pretending to be otherwise?

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Try to do some better research if it happening often. Sounds like fakes behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldnt worry too much about it buddy, it happens loads, by men, women and couples.

The best way to look at it is don't class it as a meet until they are stood in front if you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They arent really no shows then, they just had a change of mind which they are entitled to do"

So you agree with their behaviour??

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's bad form to arrange a meet and then not turn up - report the profile to admin.

It's perfectly ok NOT to turn up as long as they let you know in advance because that's good manners.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lately there has been loads of new profiles on less than a week or 2 weeks. I have looked that some pics on tineye and a few I have found are fake .

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Trust who you know and don't trust who you don't know that's my philosophy

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"I wouldnt worry too much about it buddy, it happens loads, by men, women and couples.

The best way to look at it is don't class it as a meet until they are stood in front if you "

We mostly meet men. We get our fair share. Comes with the territory of how we like to play etc. Annoying very. But the guys we meet that do turn up are 98% fabalicious

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

As we say in our profile , always report the tossers who arrange meets with you and then don't turn up .

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"They arent really no shows then, they just had a change of mind which they are entitled to do

So you agree with their behaviour?? "

Did i say i agreed with their behaviour?? I said they cant be called no show tossers as alls they done is change their minds.. we dont know the whole story what happened between the 2 parties but people are entitled to change their minds

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lately there has been loads of new profiles on less than a week or 2 weeks. I have looked that some pics on tineye and a few I have found are fake . "

I thought that new profiles had to be pic verified now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They arent really no shows then, they just had a change of mind which they are entitled to do

So you agree with their behaviour??

Did i say i agreed with their behaviour?? I said they cant be called no show tossers as alls they done is change their minds.. we dont know the whole story what happened between the 2 parties but people are entitled to change their minds"

Still not the best way to behave is it. So many wind up merchants, wankers and attention seekers on here no wonder people get pissed off.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"They arent really no shows then, they just had a change of mind which they are entitled to do

So you agree with their behaviour??

Did i say i agreed with their behaviour?? I said they cant be called no show tossers as alls they done is change their minds.. we dont know the whole story what happened between the 2 parties but people are entitled to change their minds

Still not the best way to behave is it. So many wind up merchants, wankers and attention seekers on here no wonder people get pissed off. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt worry too much about it buddy, it happens loads, by men, women and couples.

The best way to look at it is don't class it as a meet until they are stood in front if you

We mostly meet men. We get our fair share. Comes with the territory of how we like to play etc. Annoying very. But the guys we meet that do turn up are 98% fabalicious "

I will only meet single women, now after a spate of issues with couples.

It's just fab life and I think people would do well to remember that meeting and saying you want to meet are two different things. When I really was into playing a lot, I simply went to clubs as it avoided some of the issues that fab and arranging meets from fab comes with.

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By *atietvsheffTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Not only no shows that piss me off, it's where you are arranging a meet and while trying to decide if they are genuine and if i want to risk meeting etc so a bit of comms going on, you then agree to do what they fancy doing which in Katie's world is dresssing in the feminine way and style that they want you to with outfits, undies, heels etc, and then knowing it's going to take an hour to dress,prepare,get everything sorted then travel time etc and then they say "oh I've got to go somewhere at 7," which means all the prep and driving and risks and they expect you to be able to all that at a drop of a hat and then they don't have time then to actually do what they say and in the meantime you have turned down other potential meets......... agggghhhh fucking time wasters

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"They arent really no shows then, they just had a change of mind which they are entitled to do

So you agree with their behaviour??

Did i say i agreed with their behaviour?? I said they cant be called no show tossers as alls they done is change their minds.. we dont know the whole story what happened between the 2 parties but people are entitled to change their minds"

He did say they block at the last minute, with no message. Presumably he means at the time of the meet. That's a no-show.

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"They arent really no shows then, they just had a change of mind which they are entitled to do

So you agree with their behaviour??

Did i say i agreed with their behaviour?? I said they cant be called no show tossers as alls they done is change their minds.. we dont know the whole story what happened between the 2 parties but people are entitled to change their minds

Still not the best way to behave is it. So many wind up merchants, wankers and attention seekers on here no wonder people get pissed off. "

People can block for whatever reason they want, sometimes its easier to block than face the whys and what fors

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Just be honest and manners cost nothing........but wasters will always exist and if you do come across one then remember you've spared a village somewhere of an idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try to do some better research if it happening often. Sounds like fakes behaviour."

I've been stood up by half a dozen verified seemingly genuine accounts. It happens.

Yeah, it's grating at the time but people often have reasons. Although a quick "sorry I've changed my mind" message would always be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some times its for the best...maybe you had a lucky escape!

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham


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So many wind up merchants, wankers and attention seekers on here no wonder people get pissed off. "

Agreed this is also why I gave up with regular dating ....

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield


"I wouldnt worry too much about it buddy, it happens loads, by men, women and couples.

The best way to look at it is don't class it as a meet until they are stood in front if you "

Agree entirety. Sad thing is I've become so used to this that it's taken all the excitement out of getting ready for a meet expecting it not to go ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They arent really no shows then, they just had a change of mind which they are entitled to do

So you agree with their behaviour??

Did i say i agreed with their behaviour?? I said they cant be called no show tossers as alls they done is change their minds.. we dont know the whole story what happened between the 2 parties but people are entitled to change their minds

Still not the best way to behave is it. So many wind up merchants, wankers and attention seekers on here no wonder people get pissed off.

People can block for whatever reason they want, sometimes its easier to block than face the whys and what fors"

Still not decent behaviour though really. If you're adult enough to be on here be adult enough to say if you've changed your mind. Don't just disappear and block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wouldnt worry too much about it buddy, it happens loads, by men, women and couples.

The best way to look at it is don't class it as a meet until they are stood in front if you

Agree entirety. Sad thing is I've become so used to this that it's taken all the excitement out of getting ready for a meet expecting it not to go ahead. "

That's the sad truth, I've become jaded with how people treat people when it comes to meets.

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