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do people consider 19 year olds or am i just waiting my breath

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not demanding anything but just curious as to wether ive got a chance on this site at all really, answers to my question would be brilliant thanks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely wasting your time.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely wasting your time."

well i appreciate the honesty haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I disagree. It will possibly be harder for you but you won't be wasting your time. Just make sure your polite and mature.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No chance, its us oldies that get all the fun (in our own minds )

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By *opman1111Man
over a year ago

belfast

You're only on the site two weeks!! what where you expecting?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you searched your area? I think the advanced search you can tick so it only shows people who are looking for someone your age. You'll be too young for many people but right up someone's street.

Men have it difficult on here anyway as there are so many men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not demanding anything but just curious as to wether ive got a chance on this site at all really, answers to my question would be brilliant thanks x"

My fb has bra,s older than you.....at 19 the world is your oyster

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There will be people on here looking to meet someone your age. You will need patience that's all . Good luck

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere


"Definitely wasting your time."

He might not be!

I should imagine there are women or couple would like to get together with you OP. It might prove tricky because of your age and the fact that you can't accommodate. Don't give up

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you searched your area? I think the advanced search you can tick so it only shows people who are looking for someone your age. You'll be too young for many people but right up someone's street.

Men have it difficult on here anyway as there are so many men. "

yes i had thought that but never really acknowledged it, thanks for the tip

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not demanding anything but just curious as to wether ive got a chance on this site at all really, answers to my question would be brilliant thanks x"
youre definitely waiting your time

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely wasting your time.

He might not be!

I should imagine there are women or couple would like to get together with you OP. It might prove tricky because of your age and the fact that you can't accommodate. Don't give up

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thank you for the faith and i wont itll be worth it in the long run

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There will be people on here looking to meet someone your age. You will need patience that's all . Good luck "

thank you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I disagree. It will possibly be harder for you but you won't be wasting your time. Just make sure your polite and mature.

PTU xxx "

i will and hopefully it will succeed for me in time, thank you for the advice xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot treatment and a steady girlfriend is what I'd advise most teenagers

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It depends on what your definition of wasting your time is. If you stick around the forum you might learn some useful things and possibly gain an insight in to how people think in my view that isn't wasting your time. If you're here just for sex and I don't think that's a bad thing, you might find the effort and patience required a waste of time.

No harm in hanging around for a bit is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 23 mate and I find it hard, most females on here prefer older which I've found

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not demanding anything but just curious as to wether ive got a chance on this site at all really, answers to my question would be brilliant thanks x

My fb has bra,s older than you.....at 19 the world is your oyster "

They need throwing out haha- bras are only good for about a year and breast shapes/sizes change over time

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

1 meet from a guy already, in 2 weeks, surely you would be happy with that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends on what your definition of wasting your time is. If you stick around the forum you might learn some useful things and possibly gain an insight in to how people think in my view that isn't wasting your time. If you're here just for sex and I don't think that's a bad thing, you might find the effort and patience required a waste of time.

No harm in hanging around for a bit is there? "

if im honest sex isnt complwtely nessecary if the women isnt intrigued or even slightly interested, interesting conversation and amusing banter does it for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"not demanding anything but just curious as to wether ive got a chance on this site at all really, answers to my question would be brilliant thanks x

My fb has bra,s older than you.....at 19 the world is your oyster

They need throwing out haha- bras are only good for about a year and breast shapes/sizes change over time "

hahaha that may be the best thing ive ever seen on here

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Well you're too young for me even though I come within your age preference

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"1 meet from a guy already, in 2 weeks, surely you would be happy with that?"

it was a cam meet and its not completely needed that we meet just genuine conversation is quite appealing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well you're too young for me even though I come within your age preference "

yes you do haha and i respect that fully but if you can have a laugh and a giggle on chat then thats just fine for me

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm 23 mate and I find it hard, most females on here prefer older which I've found"

yeah its a struggle like

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"It depends on what your definition of wasting your time is. If you stick around the forum you might learn some useful things and possibly gain an insight in to how people think in my view that isn't wasting your time. If you're here just for sex and I don't think that's a bad thing, you might find the effort and patience required a waste of time.

No harm in hanging around for a bit is there?

if im honest sex isnt complwtely nessecary if the women isnt intrigued or even slightly interested, interesting conversation and amusing banter does it for me

"

Then I think you should hang about. As lomg as fab isn't your only source of company and social interaction you'll be fine, that applies whatever your age.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It depends on what your definition of wasting your time is. If you stick around the forum you might learn some useful things and possibly gain an insight in to how people think in my view that isn't wasting your time. If you're here just for sex and I don't think that's a bad thing, you might find the effort and patience required a waste of time.

No harm in hanging around for a bit is there?

if im honest sex isnt complwtely nessecary if the women isnt intrigued or even slightly interested, interesting conversation and amusing banter does it for me

Then I think you should hang about. As lomg as fab isn't your only source of company and social interaction you'll be fine, that applies whatever your age."

yes i guess so, well thank you for your help it is much appreciated x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've seen profiles who wouldn't meet anyone older than 21, you're fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The only people who waste their time in here are those with a sense of entitlement, have high expectations, don't know how to decently talk to people decently, and those with no patience.

Otherwise stick around.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen profiles who wouldn't meet anyone older than 21, you're fine. "

really? wow aha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"not demanding anything but just curious as to wether ive got a chance on this site at all really, answers to my question would be brilliant thanks x

My fb has bra,s older than you.....at 19 the world is your oyster

They need throwing out haha- bras are only good for about a year and breast shapes/sizes change over time 8"

That was a tongue in cheek joke but as you say boobs do change and for me as long as they get bigger..........................................................this will be one happy guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The only people who waste their time in here are those with a sense of entitlement, have high expectations, don't know how to decently talk to people decently, and those with no patience.

Otherwise stick around.

"

well i really do hope i dont come across as that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should just arrange a meet up of all us youngsters and whoever is interested in young guys can come along lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We should just arrange a meet up of all us youngsters and whoever is interested in young guys can come along lol"

haha quite extravagant but may work haha

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"1 meet from a guy already, in 2 weeks, surely you would be happy with that?

it was a cam meet and its not completely needed that we meet just genuine conversation is quite appealing"

I don't understand. You have 1 cam veri and 1 met in person veri.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You'll do ok if you follow the fab rules for blokes:

1. Don't be easily offended

2. Be willing to be messed about

3. Go to a social/club at least once

4. Don't be desperate

5. Have kik, whatsapp, FaceTime, Skype and any other conceivable messaging service as its guaranteed that the potential meet may want to chat on what you don't have.

6. Expect about a 1 in 50 reply to emails.

Good luck my friend!! And remember you only fail when you stop trying!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You'll do ok if you follow the fab rules for blokes:

1. Don't be easily offended

2. Be willing to be messed about

3. Go to a social/club at least once

4. Don't be desperate

5. Have kik, whatsapp, FaceTime, Skype and any other conceivable messaging service as its guaranteed that the potential meet may want to chat on what you don't have.

6. Expect about a 1 in 50 reply to emails.

Good luck my friend!! And remember you only fail when you stop trying!"

thank you for the reply

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By *a KatWoman
over a year ago

Northwest

I think you need to visit clubs, chat and get to know others. If you are just looking for sex, then maybe, Milf and Greedy girls events would be satisfying, You would most probably make new friends.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think you need to visit clubs, chat and get to know others. If you are just looking for sex, then maybe, Milf and Greedy girls events would be satisfying, You would most probably make new friends."

thanks for the advice x

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...


"1 meet from a guy already, in 2 weeks, surely you would be happy with that?

it was a cam meet and its not completely needed that we meet just genuine conversation is quite appealing

I don't understand. You have 1 cam veri and 1 met in person veri."

He's either Fab 'straight', met for a pint or it's fake. Not worth worrying over to be honest. At 19 I was knee deep in mates, gigs and casual encounters. What's changed? Good luck OP. Not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looking back if i was 19 and on here not out with my mates enjoying being young free and single i'd be depressed by it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well you're too young for me even though I come within your age preference "
am I too young?

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Well your profile shows a really good positive respectful attitude IMO. Your age makes you a bit niche but with a good profile you'll be a very good option for those looking for someone of your age. And maybe you'll even temp someone to go outside their norms.

So good luck to you and hang in there. Also are you open to moving deeper into the social side of the scene? Maybe attend a group social or club? Get your face know and maybe make some friends. After all if people get to know you and like you then your age will be become just a number not a barrier.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well your profile shows a really good positive respectful attitude IMO. Your age makes you a bit niche but with a good profile you'll be a very good option for those looking for someone of your age. And maybe you'll even temp someone to go outside their norms.

So good luck to you and hang in there. Also are you open to moving deeper into the social side of the scene? Maybe attend a group social or club? Get your face know and maybe make some friends. After all if people get to know you and like you then your age will be become just a number not a barrier."

well thank you very much! and i will give that a go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if you have a baby face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you actually interested in swinging or just shagging? Do you want to meet couples? If you just want conversation or singles- then at 19 do what all other teenagers are doing and get down the pub or nightclub, get hammered and pull!

Not being disrespectful- but you are so young, and there are loads of other young people like you looking for the same thing you should have no trouble- unless you are really only interested in being with an older women/man

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

I don't think you will have much success here, but if you want to swing go to a club, meet and talk to people in the flesh. I have played with a few young guys in clubs, some have been OK and some have been very disappointing- but I for one am willing to give them a chance.

Think about what you are expecting from Fab: a free nsa fuck for a few lines in a message, or a queue of women desperate to get in touch with you? Neither is going to happen unless you strike it really really lucky. Meet people in the flesh, build a circle of players and use Fab to stay in touch.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield


"1 meet from a guy already, in 2 weeks, surely you would be happy with that?

it was a cam meet and its not completely needed that we meet just genuine conversation is quite appealing

I don't understand. You have 1 cam veri and 1 met in person veri.

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OP did you have a meet in person then?

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"The only people who waste their time in here are those with a sense of entitlement, have high expectations, don't know how to decently talk to people decently, and those with no patience.

Otherwise stick around.

"

Well said that couple

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By *earded youngerMan
over a year ago

Reading

Just keep searching it's hard but you'll find people, even though 70% will just waste your time

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Only contact those that have stipulated that they are interested in your age group, otherwise you are wasting your time and possibly pissing them off

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