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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.

Is this absolutely correct all of the time?

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon


"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.

Is this absolutely correct all of the time?"

Yup.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it works for you yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 26/05/17 19:05:32]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.

Is this absolutely correct all of the time?

not exactly b3cause it would be the polite thing to do is to say your not interested rather than blank them

"

Don't even go there...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do it. If im not interested I delete because of the abuse if I say sorry im not interested is unbelievable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.

Is this absolutely correct all of the time?"

If that's how they choose to act then you'll just have to get used to it.

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.

Is this absolutely correct all of the time?"

Why wouldn't it be?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[message Removed by poster no questions asked at 26/05/17 19:05:32]"

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"[message Removed by poster no questions asked at 26/05/17 19:05:32]

PTU xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yup I do it fairly regularly. Just have done from a bloke whose sum total of conversation starter was "hi" and his username was not appealing.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

nope not correct.

sometimes you will get questioned for deleting a message. the sender will ask if that means i'm not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its often soooo obvious they haven't bothered to even glance at the profile so its perfectly fine to not even glance at the message. Next!....

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading


"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.

Is this absolutely correct all of the time?"

Easier as then they can't bypass filters you may apply later

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"I do it. If im not interested I delete because of the abuse if I say sorry im not interested is unbelievable"

Yep I agree. When i joined I'd always try to answer just to b polite but the abuse I got for saying no to a meet was incredible. Still get the abuse if I don't answer but that says more about them than me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can reply to who you want to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the few messages I receive I do reply.

I can understand the ladies and couples deleting without reply due to the sheer volume of mail they get.... if they took time to reply to them all I would imagine the rates of RSI would soar!!

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I often delete messages

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

If it is clear the sender has not bothered showing us the courtesy of actually reading our profile then we don't feel any obligation to show them the courtesy of a reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be nice to have some messages to delete

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?"

Handle your mail in whatever way you wish.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.

Is this absolutely correct all of the time?"

Yes but you might choose to reply to some, its just not mandatory.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?

Handle your mail in whatever way you wish. "

Agreed, it's you inbox. Reply or don't as you see fit. Don't worry about other's. They won't be worrying about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I do it. If im not interested I delete because of the abuse if I say sorry im not interested is unbelievable

Yep I agree. When i joined I'd always try to answer just to b polite but the abuse I got for saying no to a meet was incredible. Still get the abuse if I don't answer but that says more about them than me x"

Yep. Same here. I used to be polite and reply, but I would then get a tirade of abuse, so I don't bother now. Delete message then block sender.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once had not meeting men on mine. Nobody read the profile from the messages I got.

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By *unforus1965Couple
over a year ago

MIDLANDS


"You don't have to reply to any messages and you can delete without replying: no questions asked.

Is this absolutely correct all of the time?"

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use me as your sissy fuck toy mistress. That was the last message I got.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Use me as your sissy fuck toy mistress. That was the last message I got.

"

Sorry my bad

Seriously though, many ask for a comprehensive initial message instead of the 'how's you' so genuine people take time to try and uniquely get attention....to then see "message deleted" nice!.... I wonder why people use one-liners !!!

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"Use me as your sissy fuck toy mistress. That was the last message I got.

"

Lol I had that one too

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

We do try to reply to all messages, unless we get cock pics sent to us. To be fair we've only had a few idiots reply back once we've said no. Considering how many messages we've been sent since joining a few weeks ago we were surprised we haven't had more. Tom.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yup I do it fairly regularly. Just have done from a bloke whose sum total of conversation starter was "hi" and his username was not appealing. "

As in Not_Appealing?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?"

Depends how you handle your friend list. Mine is made up of a few I've met and one or 2 I'd like to so they're people I like chatting to. I'd have no reason to ignore and delete messages from them. A lot of people add all sorts to their friend list for whatever reason. If someone on my friend list was ignoring me I'd remove them and possibly block them so I didn't waste my time in future.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL


"But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?

Depends how you handle your friend list. Mine is made up of a few I've met and one or 2 I'd like to so they're people I like chatting to. I'd have no reason to ignore and delete messages from them. A lot of people add all sorts to their friend list for whatever reason. If someone on my friend list was ignoring me I'd remove them and possibly block them so I didn't waste my time in future. "

Good advice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"But surely I have to make exceptions for those on my friends list, don't I?

Depends how you handle your friend list. Mine is made up of a few I've met and one or 2 I'd like to so they're people I like chatting to. I'd have no reason to ignore and delete messages from them. A lot of people add all sorts to their friend list for whatever reason. If someone on my friend list was ignoring me I'd remove them and possibly block them so I didn't waste my time in future. "

I've now adopted this attitude, I used to add people I was talking to with a view to play in future, but after a spate of not meeting people I added for one reason or another, I now will only add people AFTER meeting them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Look at it this way: theres hell of a lot more men than women on here. Most women get bombarded with loads of messages from loads of different people. Sometimes they just haven't got time or patience to go through each individual message and reply back. The trick is to actually make your message stand out and catch their eye instead of just "hi how are you"

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