FabSwingers.com forum: How Many Messages do you get

By *abswimmers OP Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Hi All,

I've been speaking with a lady recently and I had an apology about her not replying to a message I sent saying she had overlooked it due to having 574 messages in her inbox,

Now as a average guy I don't get that many, probably due to the shear volume of men on here, and couple's and lady's being overwhelmed by the shear volume of messages they receive.

A couple of years ago friends of mine who were a swingi_g couples said they got about 20-30 a day, I was wondering if this is still the case or has the volume gone up over the years?

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By *canthearyouCouple
over a year ago

Gunnerside

I get about 50 every day that I don't log on. If I log on I get 100+ in a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being a single guy loads (in my dreams..)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

659

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

Not enough

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Loads

On average every day for the last 4 years 200 a day

If I put pics up can be 1000

Currently have 1680 unreads since I cleared them a couple weeks back

That is the same for most females on here and yes I really do try to reply but not always possible but do appreciate people messaging

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands

I get between 10-30 on average a day I'd say

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By *XandMXCouple
over a year ago

South east

Not many at all, maybe 3 or 4 a week

well not even every week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One or two... if I'm lucky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As I bloke on here I get about 1 or 2 a week then there just abuse xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have 13 unread in my inbox at the no

Feeling speshul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads

On average every day for the last 4 years 200 a day

If I put pics up can be 1000

Currently have 1680 unreads since I cleared them a couple weeks back

That is the same for most females on here and yes I really do try to reply but not always possible but do appreciate people messaging

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jeeeez I wouldn't no what to do in my spare time if I only had that few to read

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

Often none unless a new photo goes up or they are really desperate.

I'm pretty invisible most of the time, guess I should be thankful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not many at all, maybe 3 or 4 a week

well not even every week

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Same here, i don't think we've ever been messaged by more 5 other other profiles in any one day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 13 unread in my inbox at the no

Feeling speshul

Actually 3 from same person

So make that 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not counting those I'm talking to at the moment, I think it averages probably 1 a month for women who have messaged me off their own back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 80 and 100 each day. Sometimes more, never less and sometimes I can't reply to all but I try!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Barely any.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

Loads and loads, if I'm honest sometimes I just cannot be bothered reading some of them as it's the same bogus chat in most of them.

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Zero (grabs violin) x

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

none ! (sorry one a month when i renew my site supporters thingy !)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero (grabs violin) x"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am pretty good at keeping on top of mine so I don't usually have lots in my inbox. I delete without replying any that say 'hi babe/sexy/hun' etc in the title, so that narrows it down a lot for me

I guess on an average day I get 20-30 if I don't log in but since I tend to be logged into Fab even when I am not actually lurking in the forum or whatever, it has been ten times that. New photos mean I get more messages too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 30 a day since i joined but probably be 3 a week soon. ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *XandMXCouple
over a year ago

South east

"Not many at all, maybe 3 or 4 a week

well not even every week

Same here, i don't think we've ever been messaged by more 5 other other profiles in any one day"

The only time we got more than 5 in a day was when we put up new photos of SX , mostly single males , which we aren't meeting & didn't filter . We did reply to them all , we don't want to be rude, but that's the only time. I don't know how all these ladies & couples manage to get through all those messages .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Currently 9 unread.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

1 or 2,literally 1 or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1 or 2,literally 1 or 2

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is mine the 1st or the 2nd in there??

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Loads

On average every day for the last 4 years 200 a day

If I put pics up can be 1000

Currently have 1680 unreads since I cleared them a couple weeks back

That is the same for most females on here and yes I really do try to reply but not always possible but do appreciate people messaging

jeeeez I wouldn't no what to do in my spare time if I only had that few to read

It is the same for most women and ok because I host events that increase them too but I'm not complaining I like to chat on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None dont get any devastated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads

On average every day for the last 4 years 200 a day

If I put pics up can be 1000

Currently have 1680 unreads since I cleared them a couple weeks back

That is the same for most females on here and yes I really do try to reply but not always possible but do appreciate people messaging

jeeeez I wouldn't no what to do in my spare time if I only had that few to read

It is the same for most women and ok because I host events that increase them too but I'm not complaining I like to chat on here

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all good then, I like talking but I'm not a great writer, well as in putting emotions and passion, sadness laughter in to a conversation, real life I can do all the above and talk the hind legs off a donkey

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads

On average every day for the last 4 years 200 a day

If I put pics up can be 1000

Currently have 1680 unreads since I cleared them a couple weeks back

That is the same for most females on here and yes I really do try to reply but not always possible but do appreciate people messaging

The only filter I have on my profile is age and women and I got 11 messages today. I get more if I put pics up but never hundreds. I think it goes to show that despite the thought that older women and bigger women are popular on here, the reality is pretty much like 'real life'. Or it could just be me not attracting anyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple a day as brief chat exchanges

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not enough!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, a new photo might prompt a couple of profile views. Never any messages though and very rarely any fabs for the uploaded pic. (Usually only friends, who fab).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Way too many

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Woo hoo I just got one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Occasional one if someone's obviously feeling bored.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Zero (grabs violin) x

Mmm I wanted to message you but being 51 is outside your age...you could've had a message ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We probably get about half a dozen a week. We put heavy filters in place to reduce the messages to a manageable number.

Mrs

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By *rankOfileMan
over a year ago

France

i have had just one message in the last 11 weeks and that was from someone on my friends list.

So i think from that kind of response I'm not going to get any fun from here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Deps on what we post n meets n pics so on but a fare few even when not on line but profile was a tad harsh so cut a lot a dreamers n wanna be types out from start that just saves the delete n block button so much work n we are very up from about in shape n WE n decent looking so any that dont measure up get instantly deleted for not reading n respecting wishes n wants

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By *aeBabeWoman
over a year ago

London

Heavy filters in place and have now blocked everyone from messaging me, inbox currently at 102 unread.

I'm too scared to think what it would be like without any filters on

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I'll be honest and say if anyone in my neck of the woods say they get 100 a day is a sheer bloody liar lol

Either that or I am so unattractive that I get a meagre dozen at the most and with that I am being generous

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By *evonshireboyMan
over a year ago

North Devon

In all the time I've been on here I have had two replies to my messages.

That's two in total, not two a day/week/month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I get between 10-30 on average a day I'd say"

I'm get about the same, but I'm the first to admit that I am picky and my profile makes that clear. Also I've been doing this long enough to know that most guys have at least more than one profile and couples have a joint plus one each. So the number of messages that are genuine are lessened. I don't meet smokers or married guys, and I don't want to shag my way through Fab! So if I get 10 messages a day I might find one guy a week I would be interested in meeting. And that might not result in anything. Depends what you're after I guess. There's no right or wrong. Just what you decide is right for you. 500 messages a day? Nah!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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about 100 a day, but i've got not looking for single men on my profile so people can't search for me. no idea how they're finding me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

200 on average a day, I bulk deleted most days to tidy my inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

33 now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 a week lol

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Some days none ...average 4 or 5 a week

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Not many at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads

On average every day for the last 4 years 200 a day

If I put pics up can be 1000

Currently have 1680 unreads since I cleared them a couple weeks back

That is the same for most females on here and yes I really do try to reply but not always possible but do appreciate people messaging

I now appreciate even more the fact that you messaged me, Scarlettx!

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Depends on the day mid week I get about 20-40 with my filters set the way they are on the weekends it's 50-100.

On the days where I advertise a meet or upload new pics average about 200+ Ish

My best for one day was 632 messages on a Saturday where I combined adding new pics and a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Often none unless a new photo goes up or they are really desperate.

I'm pretty invisible most of the time, guess I should be thankful."

Well, age isn't just a number....

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

A few a day depending upon who's speaking to me and how busy they are.

Mostly keeping in touch with folk.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Non unless we are friends

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

50+ a day with tight filters!! I pity the women who get hundreds

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

472 but only 23 on a Tuesday

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"Not many at all

Wow...sexy pics you should have some xx

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

About one a month if we are lucky

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0. None zilch zero nowt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can we include messages from ourselves in the overall count?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"200 on average a day, I bulk deleted most days to tidy my inbox"

No surprise, you have e such a starking photo as an avatar.

Is it crawling worms?

Oh, wait! Pubic hair...

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By *olden RatioWoman
over a year ago

Buckinghamshire

Hmm anywhere between 10 - 30... the majority of which are from people who've not read my profile, so they get deleted.

Then all the others along the lines of "hi Hun, how's you?", which also get deleted.

This leaves an average of less than one attention grabbing message per day, and an inbox strewn with tumble...

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

not that many really

I honestly think that women who get that many

a--don't have any filters applied

b--have a profile begging for attention

c--are lying

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Can be anything from 25 if I'm not online to 200 if I upload a new pic.....

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

20-30 a day. Less since I turned 40, which is a good thing

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"not that many really

I honestly think that women who get that many

a--don't have any filters applied

b--have a profile begging for attention

c--are lying"

you don't have any pics, that won't help.

depends on your area as well, some areas are really busy, especially with people passing through with work. where i am is central to the south of lancashire.

i got 100-200 views every 30 mins if i'm online (i don't constantly check looked at me but do look from time to time), most guys don't message me but look, this means i'm not that popular as i could be but still with 100 guys looking in 30 mins i am gonna get a fairly busy inbox.

my inbox used to be a lot busier when i was meeting and showing my veris highlighted my profile to other users as well.

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By *ornyfun121Man
over a year ago

all over

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"1 or 2,literally 1 or 2

is mine the 1st or the 2nd in there??

Erm,not sure...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At most from strangers 1 or 2. Hardly surprising and of no consequence in the scheme of things.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"200 on average a day, I bulk deleted most days to tidy my inbox"

Impressive profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 50 - 70 a day. If I post a pic, literally over a thousand last time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"200 on average a day, I bulk deleted most days to tidy my inbox

No surprise, you have e such a starking photo as an avatar.

Is it crawling worms?

Oh, wait! Pubic hair... "

Uuuugh - that's not public hair - how vulgar

That's my man boobs

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

None

Although I can understand why :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 10-35 per week. I don't even count the messages from TV/TS as I have 0 interest in them, despite that I haven't blocked them.

Not too bad considering the experience of other single men, but I can handle more for sure.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as many as I would like

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

"Loads

On average every day for the last 4 years 200 a day

If I put pics up can be 1000

Currently have 1680 unreads since I cleared them a couple weeks back

That is the same for most females on here and yes I really do try to reply but not always possible but do appreciate people messaging

I now appreciate even more the fact that you messaged me, Scarlettx!

Aaaww shucks haha .m

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Between 50 - 70 a day. If I post a pic, literally over a thousand last time. "

Getting old but still look like a Playboy star.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Loads

On average every day for the last 4 years 200 a day

If I put pics up can be 1000

Currently have 1680 unreads since I cleared them a couple weeks back

That is the same for most females on here and yes I really do try to reply but not always possible but do appreciate people messaging

I now appreciate even more the fact that you messaged me, Scarlettx!

Aaaww shucks haha .m

But there are still 2 messages that you haven't read. Probably covered by a heap of others from your admirers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"200 on average a day, I bulk deleted most days to tidy my inbox

No surprise, you have e such a starking photo as an avatar.

Is it crawling worms?

Oh, wait! Pubic hair...

Uuuugh - that's not public hair - how vulgar

That's my man boobs

Whatever it may be, it's a well positioned shot and speaks volumes about you. Very impressive!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait, you can receive messages?

Well that's just changed my whole view idea of this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So far women have the most lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1 or 2

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 13 unread in my inbox at the no

Feeling speshul

Actually 3 from same person

So make that 10 "

OMG forum ban for disclosing that about me surely?

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By *andP123Couple
over a year ago

London

We get about 10 a day, most of them are time wasters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have 13 unread in my inbox at the no

Feeling speshul

Actually 3 from same person

So make that 10 "

and only the first 2 said 'fancy a fuck' before you claim anything else

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels

3 on a good day..... 0 on others. Maybe I'm ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never actually counted, maybe because I delete them too quick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get about 20 a week!

I'm glad I don't get loads though, wouldn't have the time to sort through them.

My filters are set well & I'm often the one doing the search.

Works well for me anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In seven months, maybe a dozen, but all were replies, none unsolicited...

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

depends on my profile pic and how much I am online.

some days none, most days say about 20, some days when active 50, if uploading new pics 100.

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By *abswimmers OP Man
over a year ago

Lancashire

Thank you all for taking the time to reply, I can now understand why it's extremely hard for most single guys on here. It sounds like it can be a full-time job just managing your inbox, and the lady I was talking about sent me a picture of her inbox with 472 unread messages after a day and a half of not being on line and she has no profile pictures or private gallery pics, so it go's to show it must just be down to location and lack of message filters

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By *inkerbell67Woman
over a year ago

Clacton on sea essex

I dont read most of them and then I get snotty ones back lol so I block them

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"About 30 a day since i joined but probably be 3 a week soon. ha"

I can see why you get 30 a day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a profile is advertising a meet they would get loads no doubt. If.you are on here 24 7 your also get loads. We normally get 20 30 a day but really depends. Sometimes only a few a day just all depends

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

On a good day, 5 to 10 a day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10 if i dont have a picture maybe 30 if i do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got 2 today, one was about my membership running out though, so I guess one

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By *workoutMan
over a year ago

Cradley Heath

Actually I've just counted 23 in the last 24 hours, albeit those are back and forth chats with about 4 people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got 2 today, one was about my membership running out though, so I guess one

aww no was the other one from me saying you're welcome!

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By *cjacoupleCouple
over a year ago

wakefield

If we don't log on probably get 3 a day if we log In for abit we get anywhere between 5 n 10 feel like it's getting hard for couples too X x x

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By *x3anteexxCouple
over a year ago

NW Cheshire

Bloody loads of shite messages, we delete 90%. It's a swinger's site not tinder but every now and then you find a gem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I got 2 today, one was about my membership running out though, so I guess one

aww no was the other one from me saying you're welcome! "

I was wondering if you'll notice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only really get messages from friends since I'm not looking.

I do use all my filters also.

Though get ocassional messages where people obviously have not read profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been logged in an hour, had about 5 waiting and have had 30+ so far.

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

Still none, think our letter box is glued shut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few

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By *andP123Couple
over a year ago

London

"Loads

On average every day for the last 4 years 200 a day

If I put pics up can be 1000

Currently have 1680 unreads since I cleared them a couple weeks back

That is the same for most females on here and yes I really do try to reply but not always possible but do appreciate people messaging

Bloody hell! You girls really do get a lot of messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe one or two a month

we must be doing something wrong.

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

"Hi All,

I've been speaking with a lady recently and I had an apology about her not replying to a message I sent saying she had overlooked it due to having 574 messages in her inbox,

Now as a average guy I don't get that many, probably due to the shear volume of men on here, and couple's and lady's being overwhelmed by the shear volume of messages they receive.

A couple of years ago friends of mine who were a swingi_g couples said they got about 20-30 a day, I was wondering if this is still the case or has the volume gone up over the years?"

Not that many to be honest some days 5-6, more if we add a few pictures that day, some days a big fat 0

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly any at all thank you very much. That's the way I like it.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

About 80 today no joke!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm lucky if I get a message from a new person once a week lol but I usually need to send the first one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21 but I think that's because they've moved off the first page and I need to delete my replied messages to find them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"21 but I think that's because they've moved off the first page and I need to delete my replied messages to find them

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22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"21 but I think that's because they've moved off the first page and I need to delete my replied messages to find them

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Used to get a lot of mail on here but since making photos private it's hardly any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When we had a couples profile we used to get messages every day even when we was logged out.

But as a single guy I get at least one each time I log on and these normally come from guys who have "straight" on their profile.

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Not that many . NI is a pretty small gene pool get more from across the water or the Republic if I'm honest ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All mine are from men looking for discreet blowjobs even though it says straight on my profile. None of women though

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By *oss25Man
over a year ago

Flitwick and Fakenham

I get 1 or 2 most days, often story requests or related to a story post I put up, some go on from there to friends and a few to meets too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very few. Even fewer interesting ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"None today"

Because you already said "no". Men must be able to read.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 2 or 3 a day if I don't log on, but sometimes 30 or 40 if I am logged in.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

We think exageration on most parts.

Okay our profile clearly states no single guys but the ones that message usually are decent and we enjoy chatting to them on a lot of occasions.

On average we get 2 or 3 messages a day from new people but most are from people who we chat with most days.

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

None

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By *dsindyTV/TS
over a year ago

East Lancashire

Usually it's 2 or 3 a day.....and usually from straight guys. I don't mind though, am always up for a chat.

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By *oul BrothaMan
over a year ago

A Galaxy far far away

14 views today.

2 messages

2 winks

from guys

I usually get a few views and rarely any messages. Need to forum less and start messaging more perhaps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

loads,,and it gets silly if I post a new pic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"loads,,and it gets silly if I post a new pic"

oh n most are from "straight" guys

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Yeah I get millions cos I'm so popular

. I don't get any really...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I lucky maybe 1 every 3 months

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By *earandmonkeyCouple
over a year ago

uxbridge

Thats so wierd as a couple we get none zero zilch a week and about three a month we do try to syart chat with couples but it always peters out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get 1 a year if we are lucky.. the odd view and a rare wink

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We get 1 a year if we are lucky.. the odd view and a rare wink

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hmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We none zilch nowt

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By *arge Hardon ColliderMan
over a year ago

Not far away

Shed loads, had to move my face pic to friends only, to ease the strain on my inbox.

Done the trick

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By *osweet69Couple
over a year ago

portsmouth

"We get 1 a year if we are lucky.. the odd view and a rare wink

and we can walk on water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest i get no new ones since joining

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By *horltzMan
over a year ago

heysham

What is this phenomenon known as 'messages' ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use filters and profile to let ppl know what I'm looking for so don't get that many messages maybe 6-7 a day so it's manageable

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