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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm sure this has been brought up before but I just wanted to ask...

Do any women on here actually meet a guy without seeing a pic first?

My profile makes it clear I dont but I still get loads of guys asking to meet and saying they cant send a pic, so am just wondering do these blokes ever get anywhere with anyone?

If I was very horny and the guy was very local I might make an exception but it hasnt happened yet in years of hookup sites...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met guys without pics but it is a very rare exception and has usually had more to do with it being late at night, being very horny and being unable to find any decent porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would never meet a couple or single lady with out seeing what they look like ,, looks are very important to me, and i dont like nasty shocks ,,, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have on more than one occasion,and have never been disapointed,i also choose not to show pics,as discreation is a must for me,but i do reveal myself in general chat quite often ....i suppose its entirely each to their own on this one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i would never meet a couple or single lady with out seeing what they look like ,, looks are very important to me, and i dont like nasty shocks ,,, lol "

i've had more nice surprises than shocks

only once have i had the embarrasment of sending somebody away 'empty handed'

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have on more than one occasion,and have never been disapointed,i also choose not to show pics,as discreation is a must for me,but i do reveal myself in general chat quite often ....i suppose its entirely each to their own on this one."

do u require other forms of verification tho? do u speak on the phone b4 agreeing to meet someone?

I suppose if you dont show pics yourself it is a bit rich to demand pics of someone else.

am all for discretion but i am after sex and need to know what the guy looks like :P but i'm not picky lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i would never meet a couple or single lady with out seeing what they look like ,, looks are very important to me, and i dont like nasty shocks ,,, lol

i've had more nice surprises than shocks

only once have i had the embarrasment of sending somebody away 'empty handed'"

Hmm this reminds me, I met a guy once, it wasnt very good, a few years later a guy messaged me and sent me a pic, I agreed to meet him only to realize it was the same dodgy bloke, had to turn him away, only time i have done it and yes it is embarrassing :p

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes i always chat on the phone first,although occationally have had spontaneous meets,and they were some of the best,i am also very picky and would never be intimate with anyone that i didnt feel attracted to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't. I understand everyones right to discretion and their profile is their own business, but I'd want to see a pic via this site, you can keep pics private and send on request. I don't want to have to make any further effort, why should I have to go onto MSN or give my email address, if you're making it difficult for me to see you then in my eyes its not worth the effort - too many gorgeous guys who do have a decent profile to choose from.

Its like me wanting a dress from Monsoon for a night out and the company emailing me saying 'have a lovely black satin dress here for you, seems to be what you require, don't bother asking to see exactly what it looks like, just turn up on the night and hopefully it will all be fine'.

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By *ittlemorespiceCouple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

No, have never met without exchanging pics, chatting on phone and sometimes seeing on cam. Its not foolproof but cuts down on disappointment. If guys mail without attaching a face pic we are polite and give them the change to send one. If they ask to meet we simply tell them we have no idea until we see them.

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will not meet with out seeing a pic after a very bad meet i had .... when we first started swinging . Its nice to see the person on web cam too x

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By *azmissy67Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

i always ask to see a face pic on here and if thats not possible it doesnt go any further - when i first started on here quite happily gave out my email addy or mobile number but experience has taught me so dont do that any more. As said before is easy to keep a face pic on here private so u can send to whom u want without all seeing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope. Never will.

At one point or another, you're gonna need to see a photo as it's equally important as their personlity. My pet hate is a profile demanding pics with no pics of their own.

But if you feel like having a blind date, good luck...

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I have on more than one occasion,and have never been disapointed,i also choose not to show pics,as discreation is a must for me,but i do reveal myself in general chat quite often ....i suppose its entirely each to their own on this one."

Yup, same here,except for the no pics of me, i love being on display.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

trouble is the foto could be anyone after all these days you can pinch pics from anywhere and if I were to meet it would only be after seeing someones face on cam and chatting for somewhile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sorry love but i cant just jump into bed with just anybody.i like to meet and get to know somebody first.likes dislikes if people dont like it they dont have to meet.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"trouble is the foto could be anyone after all these days you can pinch pics from anywhere and if I were to meet it would only be after seeing someones face on cam and chatting for somewhile."

lol yes thats true, never happened to me thankfully, although i did meet a guy who looked nothing like his pic...coz it was about 10 years old

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure this has been brought up before but I just wanted to ask...

Do any women on here actually meet a guy without seeing a pic first?

My profile makes it clear I dont but I still get loads of guys asking to meet and saying they cant send a pic, so am just wondering do these blokes ever get anywhere with anyone?

If I was very horny and the guy was very local I might make an exception but it hasnt happened yet in years of hookup sites..."

I wouldn't but i am unlikely to chat to anyone who is that shy because i like my guys with some bravado

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Ive removed an unacceptable post fron this thread so if you had quoted that post then that will have been removed too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"No I don't. I understand everyones right to discretion and their profile is their own business, but I'd want to see a pic via this site, you can keep pics private and send on request. I don't want to have to make any further effort, why should I have to go onto MSN or give my email address, if you're making it difficult for me to see you then in my eyes its not worth the effort - too many gorgeous guys who do have a decent profile to choose from.

Its like me wanting a dress from Monsoon for a night out and the company emailing me saying 'have a lovely black satin dress here for you, seems to be what you require, don't bother asking to see exactly what it looks like, just turn up on the night and hopefully it will all be fine'."

very well put and I agree. Ms

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By *mumaWoman
over a year ago

Livingston

nope, never have and never will. No matter how horny I am, there's got to be an initial physical attraction. Don't want to risk John McCrirrick turning up. ewwww!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may have a specific fantasy one night and want to be taken hard by a 6ft, long haired, body building Adonis, get talking to someone who assures you he fits your criteria and on the night a short tubby. bald bloke turns up, hoping you won't notice.

If people click that much via messages and phone, then respect them by sending an up to date pic.

Disclaimer: I have no issue with short, tubby, bald guys

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