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bit random quiestion - asking a girl out

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

differnent to swinging.... i have had my eye on this girl for 4 months... i asked her out once... i sent her a card as it is kinda akward talking to her as i only see her once a week for 1half hours. thinking of asking out a second time... we are on good terms? im not sure what she made of the fisrt one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You won't know until you have asked her

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

personally if a guy couldnt ask me out face to face then id not be interested . whats worst thing she can say ..... no ...hardly the end of the world lol !plus how would you feel if while youve been conemplating asking her out another guy actually does it ! so dig deep just ask her out for a drink ! faint heart never won lady !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the thing is ... i dont see her now for sex weeks ... i could phone her work place... that takes some balls

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

not at all been there done that and have no balls last time i checked ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"differnent to swinging.... i have had my eye on this girl for 4 months... i asked her out once... i sent her a card as it is kinda akward talking to her as i only see her once a week for 1half hours. thinking of asking out a second time... we are on good terms? im not sure what she made of the fisrt one."

Looks like she might be like many a female member on here and just deleted your card my friend... lol... see many previous threads...

but seriously, have a word with her.. and good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

the best i can do is phone up the work place and ask her to call back?

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By (user no longer on site)
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over a year ago

Go for it! you're on good terms anyway and if shes as nice as you say she is you'll still be on good terms if she says no

And if she says yes? well its all good

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

im going to add to this... i asked a girl out over e-mails before.... 5 mouths later i phoned and asked her and it had the biggest effect ever she said no but couldn't kept staring at me next time i saw her... and we were ok again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

basically i only know where she works... going to her workplace is storky i feel.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

coooeee

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

so phone or to to her work place? phone i feel

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

O o O oo

phone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank God! Close it quick!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"differnent to swinging.... i have had my eye on this girl for 4 months... i asked her out once... i sent her a card as it is kinda akward talking to her as i only see her once a week for 1half hours. thinking of asking out a second time... we are on good terms? im not sure what she made of the fisrt one."

if you have already asked her once, via a card, and you still havnt been out id say shes not interested, surely she'd have responded if she was?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phone her up, say "I think you're really attractive, would you like to meet me for a drink" If she says yes, job done! If she says no, at least you know

Good luck!

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

aye good luck, hope it all works out for you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i have to leave a message and ask her to call back...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Phone her up, say "I think you're really attractive, would you like to meet me for a drink" If she says yes, job done! If she says no, at least you know

Good luck!"

What?

You'd be better off saying "You seem like a really interesting girl" than "I find you attractive"...!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Apologies in advance if this sounds harsh but why is a 29 year old 'MAN' asking for advice on whether to or how to ask a girl out ?

As Mr T would say 'Get some nuts'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally, I wouldn't be interested in someone who asked me out via a card/e-mail. How inpersonal is that.

Faint heart and all that!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

that was that.... she phoned back... told me she is getting married in two weeks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lol if only u talked to her then you would of probally knew this all along.

next time even if you are shy talk to them,

lets face it if u cant bring yourself to ask them out for a drink or something then how are you going to manage the date?

just chat to someone get to know them, and ask if they fancy going for something to eat or drink sometime or ask to swap numbers, if they say no then they not interested, if they do then you can take it from there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that was that.... she phoned back... told me she is getting married in two weeks."

oh dear - sorry to hear she pissed on your chips

straighten your back, take some deep breaths and hold your head up high

you did the right thing for you, which was ask !

i'm sure someone else will be along to take your fancy before too long x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

at least she called you back x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least you now know!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"that was that.... she phoned back... told me she is getting married in two weeks."

are you invited ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

trip trap

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