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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Was rhinking about it today. If you reconuse some one from fab in the street or a pub ect should we not have a code word so we can let other fab users know we like to swing and we recognise them as a swinger from fab. Would need a code word we would all know but not bri g to much attention in public.. what do you guys thinkx x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

why not just message them on fab later? when they're not out and about?

i don't mind shenanigans like that but i can see why some folk keep there fab and personal lives separate and could do without strangers coming up to them going "fab day for it! "

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Maybe we could just say 'have a fab day'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's fab...not the freemasons

Tell them it's a fab day...and see where it leads

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By *Ollyinone.Man
over a year ago

Warks.

Id prefer a message in my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A discrete way of saying something would be good as I saw someone who I wished was on fab but it is a fine line as I have been recognised whilst out with my children.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Was rhinking about it today. If you reconuse some one from fab in the street or a pub ect should we not have a code word so we can let other fab users know we like to swing and we recognise them as a swinger from fab. Would need a code word we would all know but not bri g to much attention in public.. what do you guys thinkx x"

Why not just do what people do up and down the country, smile and say hello.

If they want to take it further and engage in conservation with you they will.

If they are polite but cannot talk for any reason they will say hello and carry on walking.

It is far more important that swingers are aware that many keep their swinging side private and learn how to be discrete.

That includes not engaging former meets in conservation if they are in a crowded place or with other people.

There is nothing wrong with smiling and saying hello to anyone but leave it up to them to take things further, their friends, parents or children may have just left them for a few moments and they may not be able, or want to talk at that time.

We think code words are infantile and to take this further when we see a profile that demands certain words or phrases to be used in any message either avoid those people or refuse to use their code.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Our circle of friends says 'fab' a lot and have done so for years.

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By *eepndarkMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

[Removed by poster at 24/05/17 08:41:14]

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

We need a secret handshake or a discrete jacket pin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Was rhinking about it today. If you reconuse some one from fab in the street or a pub ect should we not have a code word so we can let other fab users know we like to swing and we recognise them as a swinger from fab. Would need a code word we would all know but not bri g to much attention in public.. what do you guys thinkx x"
I think we should use Katy perry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How long before a code word got to one of the "journalists" who use the forum for non stories and someone outs themself to one of the red tops? A bad idea for the same reason as badges or any other symbol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would much rather someone did not approach me thinking they recognised me from here, using a code word or not.

A message afterwards perhaps but not to be approached.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Noooooooooooo

What is it with people !

Why would any one want a sly wink ..nod ..or anything when they are out in public, possibly with family and friends

I would be mortified . Please do not do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAB thunderbirds are a go ...now lady Penelope where shall I put it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe we could just say 'have a fab day' "

I already do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys should just flop their cocks out and the girls reveal their breasts and say a loud, do you recognise this.

Lets see how we get on.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

I saw a guy in a local shop ....we both just said ... hello ....

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I think the current one works quite well.

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By *eistreMan
over a year ago

London/Norfolk

Um. ....wasnt FAB used as an acknowledgement by members of International Rescue in Thunderbirds?

I'd be wary of using the term of the person looks like a fan. ....they'd probably be very shocked with the subsequent conversation when those wires get crossed.

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By *exeterMan
over a year ago

m5 Devon-Somerset border area

I simply said hi to a lady I know in a bar and she replied. Oh I didn't recognise you with your clothes on

I drop have a fab night,weekend all the time with hotties who I hope are on here but I would never approach someone I have met here out with friends and family.

I do give "single guy's" a good stare I bump into when they are out with the gf or wife, cheating bastards!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noooooooooooo

What is it with people !

Why would any one want a sly wink ..nod ..or anything when they are out in public, possibly with family and friends

I would be mortified . Please do not do this "

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By *unguya2zMan
over a year ago

coventry..ish

Well when I was on another site,I messaged someone and it turned out she knew me and we shared a lot of friends.

I didn't know who she was and we left it at that,then out the blue I was in Home base bumped into a lady who I had done some work for(decorator) and she said it was her.

We chatted for a bit but never took it any further.

But we still occasionally meet for a coffee.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noooooooooooo

What is it with people !

Why would any one want a sly wink ..nod ..or anything when they are out in public, possibly with family and friends

I would be mortified . Please do not do this "

Totally this! If anyone from Fab approached me in public, the only codeword I'd be using is a hissed 'fuck off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noooooooooooo

What is it with people !

Why would any one want a sly wink ..nod ..or anything when they are out in public, possibly with family and friends

I would be mortified . Please do not do this

Totally this! If anyone from Fab approached me in public, the only codeword I'd be using is a hissed 'fuck off! "

Same

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Noooooooooooo

What is it with people !

Why would any one want a sly wink ..nod ..or anything when they are out in public, possibly with family and friends

I would be mortified . Please do not do this

Totally this! If anyone from Fab approached me in public, the only codeword I'd be using is a hissed 'fuck off!

Same

"

Why do you never say hello to stangers in the street, we know many city dwellers don't speak to others in the street. Or are you ashamed of what you may have done with them?

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Noooooooooooo

What is it with people !

Why would any one want a sly wink ..nod ..or anything when they are out in public, possibly with family and friends

I would be mortified . Please do not do this "

Not sure I woild recognise you in a local shop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noooooooooooo

What is it with people !

Why would any one want a sly wink ..nod ..or anything when they are out in public, possibly with family and friends

I would be mortified . Please do not do this

Not sure I woild recognise you in a local shop "

Hard to miss me tbh.. not exactly inconspicuous am I

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Noooooooooooo

What is it with people !

Why would any one want a sly wink ..nod ..or anything when they are out in public, possibly with family and friends

I would be mortified . Please do not do this

Totally this! If anyone from Fab approached me in public, the only codeword I'd be using is a hissed 'fuck off!

Same

Why do you never say hello to stangers in the street, we know many city dwellers don't speak to others in the street. Or are you ashamed of what you may have done with them? "

I'm lost sorry. .what ?

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By *r_BBW_LoverMan
over a year ago

Swindon

No, thanks!!! I'd prefer it, if someone did recognise me in real life, that they just sent me a message on here saying they saw me at somewhere-or-other on such a day... I'm not sure I'd be very polite if they brought up seeing me on this site whilst I'm stood in the queue at Asda!

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

If anyone ever sees me out please don't make any form of contact

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

We should try the old "shopping bag tied round the front of the shopping trolley" code again.

It was a big topic of discussion in the Wales forum some years back.

It was entertaining.

I don't think anyone actually connected though - the forum was full of blokes moaning they'd been fruitlessly been pushing a trolley round Morrison's in Pontypandy fortune last five hours.

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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago

West Wales and Cardiff

*for the last five hours*

Sorry!

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By *exeterMan
over a year ago

m5 Devon-Somerset border area


"We should try the old "shopping bag tied round the front of the shopping trolley" code again.

It was a big topic of discussion in the Wales forum some years back.

It was entertaining.

I don't think anyone actually connected though - the forum was full of blokes moaning they'd been fruitlessly been pushing a trolley round Morrison's in Pontypandy fortune last five hours.

"

How about growing pampas grass in the front garden or putting a pineapple in the window

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By *adyinred696969Couple
over a year ago

Brecon

There was a "thing" in this area about tying a carrier bag to the front of your trolley when in the supermarket, as a "sign", have to say the thought of having hordes of single males following me down the aisles as I pick up a few groceries doesn't really float my boat lol!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be a huge turn on Sarah. If I said that and slyly winked, would you wink back?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Historically the gay community used the question 'are you a friend of Dorothy?' However, society has moved on and few people care these days.

If I see someone I fancy I'd say hello, even if they weren't a fabber. I'm a northerner and as a rule of thumb we indulge stranger's in conversation a little more.

Each to their own but if someone wants to say hello I wouldn't be offended. I've nothing to hide.

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By *uckandbunnyCouple
over a year ago

In your bed

Surely any reciprocal flirting would be code enough.

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By *exeterMan
over a year ago

m5 Devon-Somerset border area


"Historically the gay community used the question 'are you a friend of Dorothy?' However, society has moved on and few people care these days.

If I see someone I fancy I'd say hello, even if they weren't a fabber. I'm a northerner and as a rule of thumb we indulge stranger's in conversation a little more.

Each to their own but if someone wants to say hello I wouldn't be offended. I've nothing to hide. "

Ah yes but the modern rule of thumb down south is what we call "urban solidarity" holding even eye contact for over 2 seconds is strange and earphones and looking at your phone make good reason not to acknowledge everyone around you

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By *ugitMan
over a year ago

London/Essex

I've had two experiences with this, one was a couple on a beach with there family and I messaged them later to say I had seen them, the reply back was I should have come over and said hello because there family knew that they were swingers and the other was a couple out shopping and I messaged them later to say I had seen them and thought about saying hello but the reply was don't come anywhere near us, so it's probably best just to leave things at a message later and if they want to get in touch for a meet later the option is theres

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You could ask if they've ever seen the film - Swingers, starring Vince Vaughn and John Favreu. Maybe give a wink too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had experience with this too. I was in a canteen in the middle on my nightshift and replying on my messages on fab one man maybe 45 years old was walking behind me, but I didn't give him attention, because it was first(and fortunately last) time I saw him. So he walked behind be and maybe 2 minutes later he came back to canteen and said that he's seen I'm on fab, he's too and he will look for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If anyone ever sees me out please don't make any form of contact "

I agree with this. Had some guy who said he saw me at work. Safe to say I was freaked out and I blocked him. Don't see the need to tell me you saw me outside of my home I do have a life and would rather not have my normal life associated with fab.

~Mia

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

Erm, no. I keep my 'ordinary' life and my Fab life as separate as possible. This is as much about discretion, as it is about shared fun for me

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

It will not work the way you expect it too because let's imagine I told a friend who is not on fab and he tells a few of his mates you can see the problem.

One way to increase the site popularity but at cost of genius people leaving

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