FabSwingers.com forum: time waster

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

weve found a few time wasters on here. how do you tell the difference between a genuine person or couple to a time waster of fake

any hints or tips more than welcome

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

When they ask for your address and telephone number then go offsite!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they ask for pics of you touching your nose

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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if they want a description about what you want on the meet, usually they're wanking.

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By *wo4FemCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Genuine people will turn up for the meet.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

I would class a time waster as someone who lets you down last min or just doesnt show up to a meet and doesn't let you know.

There are people on here are pretending to be other things ie men saying they are a couple or picture hunters who have no intention of meeting.

Veries can help show they meet ,but i think its a case of using common sense.If they just want to chat dirty or swap pics,they probably aren't going to meet you.

Miss

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

There's not just a few there are loads.

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By *wo-GoodCouple
over a year ago

South London

We haven't been able to tell the difference yet as we've had 3 failed socials so far

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"weve found a few time wasters on here. how do you tell the difference between a genuine person or couple to a time waster of fake

any hints or tips more than welcome "

Timewasters and fakes are different beasts.

Timewasters have no intention of meeting, but like to talk the talk, and will string you along for ages, before either fading away, or even getting as far as arranging a meet before blowing you out.

A fake is usually some sad sack guy pretending to be a lady or couple, usually to get access to your pics, and swaps heavily sexualised messages so you will respond in kind and he can wank himself into a stupor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They don't have a face pic...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who seem too good to be true, just joined and un photo verified, no veris from meets or just ones from webcams, anyone who wont give off site contact details (except in certain conditions), people who don't give face pics etc..

You will learn to spot them

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

We were accused of being time wasters and fake because we didn't want to meet a non verified, empty profiled, silhouette.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wade through the time wasters and fakes and you will find the genuine people who can give you a rewarding experience, be it a social or something more intimate but please don't give up, I speak for all the genuine ones on here who are tainted by the minority of git's intent on spoiling this site.

And relax

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By *ade_of_StarsCouple
over a year ago

Whitburn

"We haven't been able to tell the difference yet as we've had 3 failed socials so far

our last 3 socials have been no shows / last minute cancellations too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were accused of being time wasters and fake because we didn't want to meet a non verified, empty profiled, silhouette.

From your pictures and veri's, it is clear that you are far from being time wasters, awesome profile!

A reasonably detailed profile, photo verified with face pictures to send is a bare minimum, new members may not be verified by meets as everyone started here with none, but genuine people can do the above to help themselves out.

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By *ustyBBW42Couple
over a year ago

bromsgrove

We had time wasters that had been verified that have not showed up and the worst is that the message until an hour or so before then nout not even a can't make not sure what they get out of it and we on about single guys mostly

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"weve found a few time wasters on here. how do you tell the difference between a genuine person or couple to a time waster of fake

any hints or tips more than welcome

Timewasters and fakes are different beasts.

Timewasters have no intention of meeting, but like to talk the talk, and will string you along for ages, before either fading away, or even getting as far as arranging a meet before blowing you out.

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absolutely spot on here!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask for a mobile number, even if married they would have a second mobile if serious. If they say they do not have a mobile or do not want to give just yet, ask for a face pic, your going to see their face anyway at the meet. If they do not want to send face pic, ask to see their cam. If their cam is 'broken' say "you wont give a mobile, send a pic, go on cam, therefore you are an incredibly sad wanker, do not message me again, pencil dick!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if they want a description about what you want on the meet, usually they're wanking."

Not always i like to get an idea about what they like or don't lkke to make the meet better for them

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"if they want a description about what you want on the meet, usually they're wanking.

Not always i like to get an idea about what they like or don't lkke to make the meet better for them"

Surely most of that would be on their profile ie text and interests sections?

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By *urveAddictionMan
over a year ago

Guisborough

Timewasters have no intention of meeting, but like to talk the talk, and will string you along for ages, before either fading away, or even getting as far as arranging a meet before blowing you out.

It's just natural that people can show initial interest which can fade out as time goes on or get cold feet and of course this doesn't necessarily make them timewasters, though it can feel that way.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I always meet people in a cafe so if they don't turn up I've lost nothing as I would have gone there anyway.

Only ever had one couple timewaste me so if you live in Daventry - fuck off!

I was passing through there so when they went quiet on me I just kept going. Actually, judging by what I saw, that was a wise move.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been stung thrice in the past week. Organised meets with women and then never hear from them again. We presumed they were just men trying to see 'friend only' pics. Is nothing sacred?

We've actually had more luck from Craigslist than from here

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"We've been stung thrice in the past week. Organised meets with women and then never hear from them again. We presumed they were just men trying to see 'friend only' pics. Is nothing sacred?

We've actually had more luck from Craigslist than from here"
I don't invite as friends untill after meeting, then if I don't meet them again after about a month or so I delete

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Bottom line is... Treat every profile as potentially fake until they prove otherwise.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

"We've been stung thrice in the past week. Organised meets with women and then never hear from them again. We presumed they were just men trying to see 'friend only' pics. Is nothing sacred?

We've actually had more luck from Craigslist than from here"

Well, with that failure rate I'd say the only people at fault are you!

Stop being in such a rush to meet, and tighten up your selection process.

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