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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So you've chatted for a while through message, you've met and had a drink and a chat and everyone's getting along, how do you start the action? I find this part so bloody awkward

Love to hear others opinions

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Reach over for a kiss

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Reach over for a kiss "

Don't know about couple's by the way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just the British culture to be awkward you need that one person to adopt the international action of diving in head first openly

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By *ulfilthmentMan
over a year ago

Peterborough


"...adopt the international action of diving in head first openly "

Don't forget to shout "Geronimo!" as you do it.

But seriously, as suggested above try a kiss and take it form there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Touching is a good start lol. Quickly leads to a kiss.

I love that build up to a first kiss too!

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"Reach over for a kiss "

You can't beat the classics!

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By *ive it to usCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We just strip off to our underwear, never fails.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Tell them to assume the position

Lean in for a kiss brushing your hand against them pulling them closer.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am shit at this ..

I would chat his head off nervously. .make three thousand drinks .. edge 1mm closer every few seconds then start another conversation haha .. all the time thinking ffs fuck me :')

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

I mr. Love that bit. When my wife is chatting to the other guy and having a drink. Knowing whats going to happen. Ile know before hand if wife is happy with the guy. I will ask him to sit next to her And it realy goes from there. Putting hand on each others knee. N compiments to. That soon leads to a kiss. N then you know when your out of the publics eye. You know whats goin to happen. I as the mr. Love that part to. The build up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So you've chatted for a while through message, you've met and had a drink and a chat and everyone's getting along, how do you start the action? I find this part so bloody awkward

Love to hear others opinions "
just let your trousers fall to the floor if she doesn't notice ...........bad luck !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I ask if we're going upstairs or to the bedroom.

Sometimes I move closer and kiss them, if I get the vibe from them.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I always find when your sitting close looking directly into her eyes and holding it for a few seconds usually works for me, Its a natural instinct, I have never leaned in for a kiss and had her pull away,

Yet!

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"So you've chatted for a while through message, you've met and had a drink and a chat and everyone's getting along, how do you start the action? I find this part so bloody awkward

Love to hear others opinions "

Which is the very reason that you don't sit around drinking and chatting at the start of the meet.

The correct order of procedure for a meet is walk through the door, stripp get down to action then and only then consider a drink and/or a chat

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"Reach over for a kiss

You can't beat the classics! "

Exactly,why fix something when it's not broke

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry


"So you've chatted for a while through message, you've met and had a drink and a chat and everyone's getting along, how do you start the action? I find this part so bloody awkward

Love to hear others opinions "

I find I know if I fancy someone within seconds of meeting them so a kiss on the cheek/hug in greeting takes the awkwardness away later after you've got to know each other over drinks

I'm a cheeky minx though If I like someone they know fairly quickly from the eyes and flirting

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Reach over for a kiss

Don't know about couple's by the way."

A couple I arranged to meet socially in a club had a great way He just said they were going off to a play room and I'm welcome to join them if I wished

Liked this approach as it didn't put either of us on the spot for a yes or no as they started to slowly walk towards the playrooms

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