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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What a single men should do and don't while he meet a couple first time?

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Be polite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be polite, don't be pushy and respect boundaries and enjoy obviously

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond


"What a single men should do and don't while he meet a couple first time?"

Remember it's a couple you're meeting, not a single woman.

Impress the man. So many men spend all their time trying to impress the woman of the couple (who probably had to be at least somewhat impressed already in order to agree to meeting you in the first place) that the man of the couple is almost seen as in the way. Talk to him. Find common ground other than that you want to shag his partner.

It's not ALL about sex, most definitely at the beginning stages.

Show that you have a personality.

Offer to pay for drinks/coffee, at least the first round. Hopefully it won't be abused, most will refuse or buy the second round. But shows you're wiling to invest a bit into the couple.

Be friendly and flirtatious but more importantly, fun and interested in the couple as a couple.

DON'T go on and on about how great you are in bed. If that hasn't been hinted at or discussed indepth already, a first meet isn't the time to tell. Showing later on is better.

Note: yes I'm writing this as a single woman's profile; as stated there, I'm part of a couple and while I certainly don't speak for everyone, quite a few couples I know personally reiterate these points when talking about meeting singles.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you all for the pointer. Notes taken.

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By *iforfun999Man
over a year ago

Haverfordwest

Don't just talk, listen.

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Say "please" before, and "thank you" after... oh, and for the love of god don't wipe your cock in the curtains!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Engage conversation with the guy...if a chick feels comfortable you and her hubby are getting on...bobs yer auntie

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Say "please" before, and "thank you" after... oh, and for the love of god don't wipe your cock in the curtains! "

Thanks

Looks like u had heavy washing up after that incident

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Engage conversation with the guy...if a chick feels comfortable you and her hubby are getting on...bobs yer auntie "

Thank you.

I hope the wife doesn't think I am more keen on him rather than her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't just talk, listen. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Engage conversation with the guy...if a chick feels comfortable you and her hubby are getting on...bobs yer auntie

Thank you.

I hope the wife doesn't think I am more keen on him rather than her. "

lol I'd say you will be ok in that lol

Try meeting in a bar 1st...break the ice

Its all about everyone feeling comfortable in each others company

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Engage conversation with the guy...if a chick feels comfortable you and her hubby are getting on...bobs yer auntie

Thank you.

I hope the wife doesn't think I am more keen on him rather than her. lol I'd say you will be ok in that lol

Try meeting in a bar 1st...break the ice

Its all about everyone feeling comfortable in each others company "

That is good advise, i just had a invite from a cplz and they said it is a hotel meet which i thought better and then came a bomb, they asking £ 40 and they mentioned there will be few more guys... is this not called prostitution?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

bump

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