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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do some women insist on war and peace in messages but can only put 3 words(if your lucky) in there reply?

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Because they're not interested in your message and are only replying to be nice and to help stop the 'why don't women ever reply?!' threads?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because they're not interested in your message and are only replying to be nice and to help stop the 'why don't women ever reply?!' threads? "

Thats fair enough but why insist on war and peace

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Because they're not interested in your message and are only replying to be nice and to help stop the 'why don't women ever reply?!' threads?

Thats fair enough but why insist on war and peace "

Ask them. How would we know why they do?

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Because they're not interested in your message and are only replying to be nice and to help stop the 'why don't women ever reply?!' threads?

Thats fair enough but why insist on war and peace "

By "insist on War and Peace" do you mean ask for interesting messages more than just "Hi"?

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry


"By "insist on War and Peace" do you mean ask for interesting messages more than just "Hi"?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do some women insist on war and peace in messages but can only put 3 words(if your lucky) in there reply?"

Don't know why some do but if it bothers you that much then don't write to them

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Funnily enough I like more than "Alright love, fancy a fuck, I'm free tonight if you do"

That really gets me so horny I almost cum from reading it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because that's all "I'm not interested" requires

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because that's all "I'm not interested" requires "

I just get deleted

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Funnily enough I like more than "Alright love, fancy a fuck, I'm free tonight if you do"

That really gets me so horny I almost cum from reading it!"

lol.

you know, all of us that are sick of these shit messages like fancy a fuck, wanna suck my cock, or meet now, should message them back saying we already cum off reading that message and don't need to meet now.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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added to my profile. ah, i'm a genius.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They're possibly trying to sort out who's prepared to write a decent message, (not a Tolstoy novel!), for a chance of meeting, and who can't be arsed to write a paragraph.

It's a good indication of many things!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because that's all "I'm not interested" requires "

So presumably "I am interested" would suffice as an introduction lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're possibly trying to sort out who's prepared to write a decent message, (not a Tolstoy novel!), for a chance of meeting, and who can't be arsed to write a paragraph.

It's a good indication of many things!

"

Thanks Cleo for an honest response. That is exactly what I thought. So having taken the effort to right more than "Want a shag" does it not say something about the woman when they can be bothered to send a well thought out polite rejection?

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry


"Funnily enough I like more than "Alright love, fancy a fuck, I'm free tonight if you do"

That really gets me so horny I almost cum from reading it!"

Gets me so horny I'm now scared to unblock all single men PMSL

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I meant can not! Perhaps its my shit grammer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant can not! Perhaps its my shit grammer "

Cannot. GrammAr.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I meant can not! Perhaps its my shit grammer

Cannot. GrammAr. "

Smart arse or is it Smartarse lol

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"They're possibly trying to sort out who's prepared to write a decent message, (not a Tolstoy novel!), for a chance of meeting, and who can't be arsed to write a paragraph.

It's a good indication of many things!

Thanks Cleo for an honest response. That is exactly what I thought. So having taken the effort to right more than "Want a shag" does it not say something about the woman when they can be bothered to send a well thought out polite rejection?"

it says they don't feel obliged to respond to any man who is introducing themselves in the hope of getting sex.

nothing actually wrong with that really.

yes you might well have taken the time to write a decent message, and it's probably appreciated a lot more than you think. it still doesn't mean we have to interact with you and we can have our reasons for not doing so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're possibly trying to sort out who's prepared to write a decent message, (not a Tolstoy novel!), for a chance of meeting, and who can't be arsed to write a paragraph.

It's a good indication of many things!

Thanks Cleo for an honest response. That is exactly what I thought. So having taken the effort to right more than "Want a shag" does it not say something about the woman when they can be bothered to send a well thought out polite rejection?"

Why? If you're rejecting someone why do you need to say more than "no thanks" or "not interested". You're not actually entitled to any response at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I meant can not! Perhaps its my shit grammer

Cannot. GrammAr.

Smart arse or is it Smartarse lol"

Hehe....sorry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Funnily enough I like more than "Alright love, fancy a fuck, I'm free tonight if you do"

That really gets me so horny I almost cum from reading it!

lol.

you know, all of us that are sick of these shit messages like fancy a fuck, wanna suck my cock, or meet now, should message them back saying we already cum off reading that message and don't need to meet now. "

I am so gonna use that line now!!

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Funnily enough I like more than "Alright love, fancy a fuck, I'm free tonight if you do"

That really gets me so horny I almost cum from reading it!

lol.

you know, all of us that are sick of these shit messages like fancy a fuck, wanna suck my cock, or meet now, should message them back saying we already cum off reading that message and don't need to meet now.

I am so gonna use that line now!! "

i put it on my profile that i won't meet guys who send this stuff coz it made me cum my pants already.

thanks for the idea Lady-M.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for all the replies guys its been a giggle reading them. I will continue to write as imaginatively and courtesly as my one track male mind will allow. Sorry if this does not make you gush girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They're possibly trying to sort out who's prepared to write a decent message, (not a Tolstoy novel!), for a chance of meeting, and who can't be arsed to write a paragraph.

It's a good indication of many things!

Thanks Cleo for an honest response. That is exactly what I thought. So having taken the effort to right more than "Want a shag" does it not say something about the woman when they can be bothered to send a well thought out polite rejection?"

I try to be as polite and gracious as possible. But I can't speak for everyone. Some women get far more messages than me, so don't have time. Some might be having a bad day. Some might not like the fact that men argue with their decision. Some might just be totally rude!

I think the mistake here is to assume that women all have a hive mind, so if you understand the actions and motivations of one, you understand them all.

It's not the case.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol


"They're possibly trying to sort out who's prepared to write a decent message, (not a Tolstoy novel!), for a chance of meeting, and who can't be arsed to write a paragraph.

It's a good indication of many things!

Thanks Cleo for an honest response. That is exactly what I thought. So having taken the effort to right more than "Want a shag" does it not say something about the woman when they can be bothered to send a well thought out polite rejection?"

It's worth remembering that a woman (or man, or couple) are free to stipulate exactly the sort of messages they wish to receive, and if you've chosen to message them, no matter how exactly you follow their requirements they are not even obligated to read it before deleting, let alone compose a similarly crafted reply.

If you can understand that, you'll find Fab a much more congenial place.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're possibly trying to sort out who's prepared to write a decent message, (not a Tolstoy novel!), for a chance of meeting, and who can't be arsed to write a paragraph.

It's a good indication of many things!

Thanks Cleo for an honest response. That is exactly what I thought. So having taken the effort to right more than "Want a shag" does it not say something about the woman when they can be bothered to send a well thought out polite rejection?

I try to be as polite and gracious as possible. But I can't speak for everyone. Some women get far more messages than me, so don't have time. Some might be having a bad day. Some might not like the fact that men argue with their decision. Some might just be totally rude!

I think the mistake here is to assume that women all have a hive mind, so if you understand the actions and motivations of one, you understand them all.

It's not the case."

You are so right Cleo we are all individuals. I am sure you get loads of mail from admirers

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They're possibly trying to sort out who's prepared to write a decent message, (not a Tolstoy novel!), for a chance of meeting, and who can't be arsed to write a paragraph.

It's a good indication of many things!

Thanks Cleo for an honest response. That is exactly what I thought. So having taken the effort to right more than "Want a shag" does it not say something about the woman when they can be bothered to send a well thought out polite rejection?

It's worth remembering that a woman (or man, or couple) are free to stipulate exactly the sort of messages they wish to receive, and if you've chosen to message them, no matter how exactly you follow their requirements they are not even obligated to read it before deleting, let alone compose a similarly crafted reply.

If you can understand that, you'll find Fab a much more congenial place. "

Understood

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