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"Couples profiles with no pics of man ,yet looking for couples Miss" With you on all of the above x | |||
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"The lists of criteria from couples that somehow think they have the upper hand. Guess what? We singles are getting more than you know! Pictures of a tiny mouse in a nest of unkempt hair. At least I think it's a mouse.... A fanny like a hippos yawn. Pics of untidy rooms. I find it distracting and wonder how clean their personal hygiene is! " mouse in a nest! | |||
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"The lists of criteria from couples that somehow think they have the upper hand. Guess what? We singles are getting more than you know! Pictures of a tiny mouse in a nest of unkempt hair. At least I think it's a mouse.... A fanny like a hippos yawn. Bravo! Pics of untidy rooms. I find it distracting and wonder how clean their personal hygiene is! " | |||
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"1) Fantasies and a 'perfect' meet partner outlined that don't match me or what I might be looking for at that particular time. 2) Ones that express a preference by being negative about those who don't fit it. Even if I fit that preference the negativity puts me off. 3) Ones where the profile holder is at pains to point out how popular they are on fab and how many messages they get. They may be lovely people, hence why they're so in demand but if that's the case then me contacting them would be like pissing in the wind. 4) Oh, and a ranty status. It's the first thing you see to read when you're scrolling through profiles. Even when it's warranted it seems like there might be grumpiness or drama there and I can't be doing with it." | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us?" Endless cock pics | |||
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"1) Fantasies and a 'perfect' meet partner outlined that don't match me or what I might be looking for at that particular time. 2) Ones that express a preference by being negative about those who don't fit it. Even if I fit that preference the negativity puts me off. 3) Ones where the profile holder is at pains to point out how popular they are on fab and how many messages they get. They may be lovely people, hence why they're so in demand but if that's the case then me contacting them would be like pissing in the wind. 4) Oh, and a ranty status. It's the first thing you see to read when you're scrolling through profiles. Even when it's warranted it seems like there might be grumpiness or drama there and I can't be doing with it. " In regards to your point 3 do you really believe that they do?? If they have to blow smoke up their own then we wouldn't want to meet them anyway. The other for us is when they have endless verifications. Yak, yak, yak | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us? Endless cock pics" You will never see one on our profile Mx | |||
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"Couples profiles with no pics of man ,yet looking for couples Miss" This! It's always the women.. That Sydney University shit Overly agressive profiles like yeah christ calm it a bit | |||
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"A large variety of cock pics (highest count so far has been 27 out of 28 pics!) " Maybe you should ask them to take a couple of cock pics with a (male) friend just to see if they can get the cock to pic ratio higher than one. Then it would be an achievement (of a sort) . | |||
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"Christ ! Lack of grammar ... Really? Didn't know this site was a GCSE exam. Some folk have trouble with spelling and punctuation. If you can't get over that then shame on you. " You wrote that really well. | |||
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"If I ever use "your" instead of "you're" and "there" instead of "their" in the same post, then it means that my meet has gone wrong and I'm signalling for help. J x" How about to, two and too | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us?" too many to list | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us?" Message me I don't bite only if you ask Be original lol | |||
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"Pictures of high heels stuck in knickers! I mean, just how does this happen - you should never do yoga in high heels. Plus, why, having caught your heel in your knickers and fallen over onto the bed, does your partner have the camera out ready! I reckon the bugger set it up deliberately. " Ha ha ha ha | |||
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"Oh and pictures of penis over a toilet " oh god and if it wasn't flushed that would be shocking seeing a log too!! Double dirty *gags! haha! | |||
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" Is that enough? " Nope. Don't you have just a couple more? | |||
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"Couples profiles with no pics of man ,yet looking for couples Miss With you on all of the above x" I'm thinking of an Alanis Morisette song.... | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us?" Lots of pictures of disembodied cocks, any pictures involving cum, pictures involving toilets or untidy rooms, text speak/no punctuation/lots of typos, minimalist/uninformative profiles, men who are predominantly looking for a single ladies or who are only verified by single ladies, all verifications hidden, no verifications, the expression 'face pic available on request', the expression 'we don't accept friend requests until we've met', newbies, negative comments, mobile numbers on profile, implications that they are looking for an instant guaranteed shag. Mrs | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us? Lots of pictures of disembodied cocks, any pictures involving cum, pictures involving toilets or untidy rooms, text speak/no punctuation/lots of typos, minimalist/uninformative profiles, men who are predominantly looking for a single ladies or who are only verified by single ladies, all verifications hidden, no verifications, the expression 'face pic available on request', the expression 'we don't accept friend requests until we've met', newbies, negative comments, mobile numbers on profile, implications that they are looking for an instant guaranteed shag. Mrs " Everyone starts as a newbie... | |||
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"Couples profiles with no pics of man ,yet looking for couples Miss With you on all of the above x" Yep me too! A couples profile devoid of pics of the male just makes me think he must look awful If you want a couples swap show pics of both people surely? | |||
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"Couples profiles with no pics of man ,yet looking for couples Miss With you on all of the above x Yep me too! A couples profile devoid of pics of the male just makes me think he must look awful If you want a couples swap show pics of both people surely?" We hold Private pics of us as a couple and happily send them to couples once we are convinced that they are genuine. Mxx | |||
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"Couples profiles with no pics of man ,yet looking for couples Miss With you on all of the above x Yep me too! A couples profile devoid of pics of the male just makes me think he must look awful If you want a couples swap show pics of both people surely? We hold Private pics of us as a couple and happily send them to couples once we are convinced that they are genuine. Mxx" I don't see the logic.. it's ok for them to see lots of public pics of the female whether they're genuine or not but the male's pics must remain friends only or private? | |||
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"People who put about people with heads up their arse on profiles" Are you on my wavelength dear? | |||
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"Graphic close of your private parts - im not a gyno ffs Rants on statuses about fab being shit or women being up their backsides (hate this as site ain't pussy on a plate) Any mention of illegal substance (detest drugs) King" All of the above | |||
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"Avatar cock pics Cock pics 6 page essays for profiles Sydney university Face scribbled /blocked out in photos. Probably a few more which i can't think of at the moment. Mr2" All of the above | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us? Lots of pictures of disembodied cocks, any pictures involving cum, pictures involving toilets or untidy rooms, text speak/no punctuation/lots of typos, minimalist/uninformative profiles, men who are predominantly looking for a single ladies or who are only verified by single ladies, all verifications hidden, no verifications, the expression 'face pic available on request', the expression 'we don't accept friend requests until we've met', newbies, negative comments, mobile numbers on profile, implications that they are looking for an instant guaranteed shag. Mrs Everyone starts as a newbie... " That's true. I didn't say there was anything wring with being a newbie. It's just that if we see it on the profile that they are new we know it's not for us. Mrs | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us? Lots of pictures of disembodied cocks, any pictures involving cum, pictures involving toilets or untidy rooms, text speak/no punctuation/lots of typos, minimalist/uninformative profiles, men who are predominantly looking for a single ladies or who are only verified by single ladies, all verifications hidden, no verifications, the expression 'face pic available on request', the expression 'we don't accept friend requests until we've met', newbies, negative comments, mobile numbers on profile, implications that they are looking for an instant guaranteed shag. Mrs " Lol your first pic is of a messy room!! Very sexy pic but you say you hate pics with messy rooms. | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us?" Couples profiles with no guy!! What's there to hide?? | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us? Lots of pictures of disembodied cocks, any pictures involving cum, pictures involving toilets or untidy rooms, text speak/no punctuation/lots of typos, minimalist/uninformative profiles, men who are predominantly looking for a single ladies or who are only verified by single ladies, all verifications hidden, no verifications, the expression 'face pic available on request', the expression 'we don't accept friend requests until we've met', newbies, negative comments, mobile numbers on profile, implications that they are looking for an instant guaranteed shag. Mrs Lol your first pic is of a messy room!! Very sexy pic but you say you hate pics with messy rooms. " I guess you mean the bottles on my dressing table? I meant things like pants and socks on the floor being a turn-off fur me. | |||
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"The ops profile........" Enlighten me then?? | |||
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"Avatar cock pics Cock pics 6 page essays for profiles Sydney university Face scribbled /blocked out in photos. Probably a few more which i can't think of at the moment. Mr2 All of the above " You don't have any facial photographs on display at all. - Mrs. J - | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us?" Bareback | |||
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"The ops profile........ Enlighten me then??" Oh the ironing.... | |||
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""looking at me = blocked" "Male = blocked" "Female = blocked" "Couples = blocked" "Cock or fanny pics = blocked" "Send a message = blocked" "Not smiling in pics = blocked" "More than 2 miles away = blocked" "Within 2 miles = blocked" "Kissing = blocked" "No kissing = blocked" "Pics showing this, that or the other = blocked"" | |||
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""looking at me = blocked" "Male = blocked" "Female = blocked" "Couples = blocked" "Cock or fanny pics = blocked" "Send a message = blocked" "Not smiling in pics = blocked" "More than 2 miles away = blocked" "Within 2 miles = blocked" "Kissing = blocked" "No kissing = blocked" "Pics showing this, that or the other = blocked"" Lol! | |||
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"Huge list of do's - don'ts Graphic pics .. CAPITAL letters through out The silly disclaimers at the bottom !!" I couldn't agree more. it's like getting told off and you haven't done anything | |||
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"- Silhouette avatar - All cock pics - "Fill in later" - "Want to know anything ask me" - Text speak - Any kind of sense of entitlement or negativity -e.g. "I know I'm no Brad Pitt but you HAVE to give me a chance." - Naked pics with socks - Pics with messy rooms behind - "I like to take charge in the bedroom" and take advantage of you with my strength, whether you like it or not. - Profiles with more pics of random women than the actual guy Is that enough? " All of these | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us?" Been on 6 months or more and no verifications "Him or Her" and "Her on Him" | |||
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"Poor grammar and text speak. No profile photo. Use of the word cu*t. No description of themselves. Cheesey usernames, eg. Cumlicker4u." I agree with the last point... Shurrupanbendova was one I found off-putting, and miss Clitty! | |||
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"- Silhouette avatar - All cock pics - "Fill in later" - "Want to know anything ask me" - Text speak - Any kind of sense of entitlement or negativity -e.g. "I know I'm no Brad Pitt but you HAVE to give me a chance." - Naked pics with socks - Pics with messy rooms behind - "I like to take charge in the bedroom" and take advantage of you with my strength, whether you like it or not. - Profiles with more pics of random women than the actual guy Is that enough? All of these" Yep what they said | |||
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"Huge list of do's - don'ts Graphic pics .. CAPITAL letters through out The silly disclaimers at the bottom !!" Couldn't agree any more on that. In addition lack of info and lack of veries/pics - it makes me not trust them. | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us?" 1) nearly all pics being willy/fanny pics or them shagging someone different every time (seems like they're saying 'oh - look at all the birds/blokes I've pulled!) This applies to both singles and couples! 2) couples profiles who claim to want to meet females and/or other couples but who only have pics of the woman - or if she's pictured playing with so many different guys that you're wondering who the hell her husband/partner is! 3) Narcicism. Usually prevalent in female profiles but I've witnessed it in couple and single male profiles too! A massive turn-off! 4) shouty, demanding profiles that clearly expect the 'lucky' potential meet to look like an Adonis/supermodel and jump through hoops to get to them - even though the profile holder themselves/himself/herself has 3 (bad) teeth, acne, BO, either carries 15 stone of extra weight (usually around their mouth) or is so thin they make 'Mr Muscle' look grossly overweight - and is often seen around their local Lidl in a onesie and slippers! I think that about covers it! | |||
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"Messy rooms Drippy cocks Close up bum holes Statuses that say "need my balls draining" Pubic hair like Chewbacca's armpit " all of this. Photos taken in dirty environments, and guys holding their cocks with long dirty fingernails. Women with about 40 different guys cum squirted over their faces | |||
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"Cock picture as profile picture gets instantly delete no reply, as does no picture at all. A picture of a gapping vagina with cum dripping out again a big turn off. Men in ladies underwear, no thanks. Too little in the profile , " looking for a couple to fuck" , again nope." Cock picture I can slightly understand as a profile picture but not as an instant delete as this is a sex site and that is the "goods" haha. I know everyone is entitled to their opinions etc... But I could say the same about your pic with tits. What would you recommend? | |||
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"Cock picture as profile picture gets instantly delete no reply, as does no picture at all. A picture of a gapping vagina with cum dripping out again a big turn off. Men in ladies underwear, no thanks. Too little in the profile , " looking for a couple to fuck" , again nope. Cock picture I can slightly understand as a profile picture but not as an instant delete as this is a sex site and that is the "goods" haha. I know everyone is entitled to their opinions etc... But I could say the same about your pic with tits. What would you recommend? " A nice bum pic or a full body pic in underwear. Boobs pics are a bit different than a cock pic. I have more personal ones in friends only but not one of my vagina spread. I agree it is a sex site but it says in our profile cock pics will be deleted so I'm not hiding my feelings about them. | |||
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" Ha ha tough crowd " It's amazing anyone has any fun. | |||
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"two many veris ...any over ten .. " We are with you on that one. Aren't one or two verifications enough to prove that you are real?? | |||
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"two many veris ...any over ten .. We are with you on that one. Aren't one or two verifications enough to prove that you are real??" What if you went to a social and met 6 people? Would you tell the latter 4 not to bother with a veri? | |||
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"two many veris ...any over ten .. We are with you on that one. Aren't one or two verifications enough to prove that you are real??" Whoosh!!! | |||
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"two many veris ...any over ten .. We are with you on that one. Aren't one or two verifications enough to prove that you are real?? What if you went to a social and met 6 people? Would you tell the latter 4 not to bother with a veri? " We don't see it as endearing, that's all, maybe we set the bar too high, who knows?? | |||
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"Cock picture as profile picture gets instantly delete no reply, as does no picture at all. A picture of a gapping vagina with cum dripping out again a big turn off. Men in ladies underwear, no thanks. Too little in the profile , " looking for a couple to fuck" , again nope. Cock picture I can slightly understand as a profile picture but not as an instant delete as this is a sex site and that is the "goods" haha. I know everyone is entitled to their opinions etc... But I could say the same about your pic with tits. What would you recommend? A nice bum pic or a full body pic in underwear. Boobs pics are a bit different than a cock pic. I have more personal ones in friends only but not one of my vagina spread. I agree it is a sex site but it says in our profile cock pics will be deleted so I'm not hiding my feelings about them." Fair enough. I'll take this on board. | |||
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"its not rocket science, or it is lol it amazes me the spiel some of you beings come out with is intellenge the thing of the 2000s " Please see above for one of our major turn offs | |||
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"Cock picture as profile picture gets instantly delete no reply, as does no picture at all. A picture of a gapping vagina with cum dripping out again a big turn off. Men in ladies underwear, no thanks. Too little in the profile , " looking for a couple to fuck" , again nope. Cock picture I can slightly understand as a profile picture but not as an instant delete as this is a sex site and that is the "goods" haha. I know everyone is entitled to their opinions etc... But I could say the same about your pic with tits. What would you recommend? " Instant delete for us too. Could be wrong, but if the starting point is a cock with no person on view, then that tells me that the man will have a very different approach to sex than myself, and is probably not going to understand what makes me tick sexually. Mrs | |||
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"its not rocket science, or it is lol it amazes me the spiel some of you beings come out with is intellenge the thing of the 2000s " Y'what ?!? | |||
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"Cock picture as profile picture gets instantly delete no reply, as does no picture at all. A picture of a gapping vagina with cum dripping out again a big turn off. Men in ladies underwear, no thanks. Too little in the profile , " looking for a couple to fuck" , again nope. Cock picture I can slightly understand as a profile picture but not as an instant delete as this is a sex site and that is the "goods" haha. I know everyone is entitled to their opinions etc... But I could say the same about your pic with tits. What would you recommend? A nice bum pic or a full body pic in underwear. Boobs pics are a bit different than a cock pic. I have more personal ones in friends only but not one of my vagina spread. I agree it is a sex site but it says in our profile cock pics will be deleted so I'm not hiding my feelings about them." Boobs are very different from erect penises. You get boobs on a regular beach. | |||
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"Profile turn offs for me and massive walls of text or a "don't contact me if..." list " Yeah but the alternative is being obliged to answer messages we never wanted. Cos everybody knows that a lot of men consider it rude to not receive a polite rejection message. But if we tell people 'not to message if....' then hopefully they won't message. And if they ignore that we cannot be accused of being rude for not replying. Mrs | |||
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"Profile turn offs for me and massive walls of text or a "don't contact me if..." list Yeah but the alternative is being obliged to answer messages we never wanted. Cos everybody knows that a lot of men consider it rude to not receive a polite rejection message. But if we tell people 'not to message if....' then hopefully they won't message. And if they ignore that we cannot be accused of being rude for not replying. Mrs" Oh yeah I understand that and of course it's a way to hopefully limit the amount of messages. But when I see these huge lists it just makes the person seem too picky for me | |||
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"two many veris ...any over ten .. We are with you on that one. Aren't one or two verifications enough to prove that you are real?? What if you went to a social and met 6 people? Would you tell the latter 4 not to bother with a veri? We don't see it as endearing, that's all, maybe we set the bar too high, who knows??" Perhaps apply a lot of what you're agreeing with to your own profile? | |||
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"How do I end this thread??" Why do you want to do that? | |||
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"How do I end this thread?? Why do you want to do that? " We thought it would be good if people struggling with their profile might get some ideas from us all but don't want to upset anybody Cringe x | |||
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" Is that enough? Nope. Don't you have just a couple more? " | |||
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"I thought of two more Meli Pics of cum in a cup and locations where you have to click on the profile to see where they are " Are you certain it is not Baileys? - Mrs. J - | |||
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"Don't think it's been mentioned already but along with some of the things already mentioned I find explicit veris that provide blow by blow accounts of the meet, or phrases like "he can lick pussy for England" or "I filled all her holes till she could take no more" a little off putting. Likewise with ones that show an element of lamp post pissing. Would much rather see ones that subtly hint at what may have happened, or have some humour to them." Although we live and let live with profiles, and we don't quite get all the tension in this thread, over the top verifications are really off putting. The explicit detail is hard to get our heads round. | |||
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"two many veris ...any over ten .. We are with you on that one. Aren't one or two verifications enough to prove that you are real?? Whoosh!!! " Bugger!! We will have to delete all of ours now, that have built up over all those years or delete our account and start again | |||
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"two many veris ...any over ten .. We are with you on that one. Aren't one or two verifications enough to prove that you are real?? Whoosh!!! Bugger!! We will have to delete all of ours now, that have built up over all those years or delete our account and start again " Yep. And get rid of it all those 'graphic' pics too. No one wants to see that on a swingers site. | |||
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"What do you find in profiles that instantly makes you say" no way" not for me / us?" Anyone who says that "have banter" | |||
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"Lack of profile. 'Fun guy looking for fun' No photo. No point " Fun guy looking for fun | |||
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"Social only veris put us off, otherwise we don't care how many or how little people have, why would we? It's a swinging site to swing we love quality & quantity with lovely people....." We choose quality every time, quantity is not for us | |||
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"I thought of two more Meli Pics of cum in a cup and locations where you have to click on the profile to see where they are Are you certain it is not Baileys? - Mrs. J -" Oh god no | |||
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"Social only veris put us off, otherwise we don't care how many or how little people have, why would we? It's a swinging site to swing we love quality & quantity with lovely people..... We choose quality every time, quantity is not for us" Quantity has a quality all its own | |||
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"Social only veris put us off, otherwise we don't care how many or how little people have, why would we? It's a swinging site to swing we love quality & quantity with lovely people..... We choose quality every time, quantity is not for us Quantity has a quality all its own " For us it doesn't, sorry | |||
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"Social only veris put us off, otherwise we don't care how many or how little people have, why would we? It's a swinging site to swing we love quality & quantity with lovely people..... We choose quality every time, quantity is not for us Quantity has a quality all its own For us it doesn't, sorry" Think we get the message that your fussy and look for quality meets, your choice entirely, we enjoy quality meets with regulars and new people, of course if you feel that us having a large quantity of meets, makes us less fussy I'm sure all our fab friends would be interested to here that! "Quality over quantity" on a profile is an absolute avoid for us, smacks of snobbery and a lack of understanding about swinging Our other avoid, is a couple with no pictures of the guy, unless he is not getting involved then why no pics? X | |||
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"Social only veris put us off, otherwise we don't care how many or how little people have, why would we? It's a swinging site to swing we love quality & quantity with lovely people..... We choose quality every time, quantity is not for us Quantity has a quality all its own For us it doesn't, sorry" How about a high quantity of high quality people. Why does it have to be one or the other? Mrs | |||
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"How do I end this thread?? Why do you want to do that? We thought it would be good if people struggling with their profile might get some ideas from us all but don't want to upset anybody Cringe x" Perhaps you should be getting ideas from those who've posted on here instead of thinking others are taking them from you. Your own profile is full of contradictions of what you don't like on others and have agreed with posters here to not liking. First glaringly obvious one. No pics of male half on profile despite stating more than once you agree that's not acceptable | |||
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"How do I end this thread?? Why do you want to do that? We thought it would be good if people struggling with their profile might get some ideas from us all but don't want to upset anybody Cringe x" You're not upsetting anyone and it's a good thread. | |||
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"How do I end this thread?? Why do you want to do that? We thought it would be good if people struggling with their profile might get some ideas from us all but don't want to upset anybody Cringe x You're not upsetting anyone and it's a good thread. " Well, you know...... | |||
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"Do I have that sydney university disclaimer in my profile?" The ones that can't spell it properly make me laugh as if that would be accepted in court! | |||
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"Do I have that sydney university disclaimer in my profile?" You've never looked at your own profile? | |||
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"Photos of kids and family in the background is a huge turnoff and inappropriate in my book." They should be reported | |||
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"How do I end this thread??" With panache and elegance, like entering a social event. Not so bad, was it? Do another one..... | |||
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