FabSwingers.com forum: Confused by mixed emotions after swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How did your first encounter make you feel?

To him "Did it make you feel annoyed she had gone through with it?"

To her "did it make you feel disappointed in him that he let you go to another man and go through with it?"

To her "If he had stopped it, would you go do it alone in the future without him?"

I hope you can be honnest!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think perhaps you need to have a chat with your partner. It reads as if you may be seeking answers for questions?

Although I warrant I may have totally misread this post. It is 3.50am after all.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

Our 1st time brought us even closer together, the other guy had Janine ride him then he took her from behind and have her a great anal fucking till he filled her up . No regrets from either of us we love 3sums and full swap 4sums

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"How did your first encounter make you feel?

To him "Did it make you feel annoyed she had gone through with it?"

To her "did it make you feel disappointed in him that he let you go to another man and go through with it?"

To her "If he had stopped it, would you go do it alone in the future without him?"

I hope you can be honnest!

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did she enjoy it a bit too much?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"How did your first encounter make you feel?

To him "Did it make you feel annoyed she had gone through with it?"

No, loved watching it, hottest thing I've ever seen

To her "did it make you feel disappointed in him that he let you go to another man and go through with it?"

Nope she wanted more

To her "If he had stopped it, would you go do it alone in the future without him?"

No, this sounds like what you need to do

I hope you can be honnest!

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We agreed before we started that as it was a joint decision neither of us would blame or accuse the other of anything. If one of is crossed boundaries the other would say but not in a negative way.

We also agreed that if one stops so does the other.

What individuals agree between themselves might be different. If difficulties arise I would say they need to stop and talk things over until both feel ready to continue.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

No regrets at all. I had about half a second where it set in "this guy is about to fuck my mrs" and immediately I realised how much I liked seeing it. Wasn't even a jealousy thing. Just taking in the situation.

Definitely brought us together in a way we may not have before it. Now we both enjoy seeing each other play.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Sometimes other peoples experiences help. In this instance, I'd say it's not necessarily useful.

It's how you both feel that matters. Insecurity and 'jealousy' (too strong) are the hardest things people cope with in swinging.

For some people they love seeing their partner play, others feel awkward about certain acts, even subtle things. Others freak out about it.

You can be anywhere on that spectrum, and even move on it as time goes by, in either direction.

Talk to each other and do what's right for you as a couple. I'd say your questions would imply you need to pause and consider stopping or change how and what you do.

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By *ethnmelvCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

We had similar thoughts before anything happenned with others. We find that going to clubs and enjoying the company of a guy, a girl or a couple is great fun. It changes the dynamic of what we do together, it excites us and we enjoy watching and listening to each other.

Getting to dress up and be around other people who look and feel like they want to be carnal is a turn on for us.

We don't just play with anyone, there has to be a connection, but when we find that connection we have a great time - or we just fool around on our own having a great time

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