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Does work mess up meets?

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By *ancscleanguy OP   Man
over a year ago

Preston

Do a lot of emergency call outs and only ever get Monday daytimes free. Makes meetings and plans very difficult. Don't get me wrong, I don't work everyday it's just I never know when I'm going to be called out. Anyone else in the same boat?

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Sometimes. As a lot of people meet when the kids are at school. Unfortunately I'm at school with them.

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By *utie91Woman
over a year ago

Hitchin

I work different days every week and do quite a few overtime shifts... sometimes I can go 2 weeks without having a suitable meeting time. Because my shifts change from days to nights I find a lot of people just don't understand that I can't meet at a moments notice. Everything needs to be planned around my working time and sleeping time. As much as I love meets, I still need to sleep sometimes haha

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By *ike4362ukMan
over a year ago

Cheshunt

Definitely. I often work abroad for three to five weeks at a time. Usually preplanned, but sometimes arrangements change at short notice (usually projects getting delayed by a week or two). I've had to cry off some meets because of this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work has killed my fun on here, very difficult to arrange meeting and I can seem unreliable/disinterested. But, unfortunately, it pays the bills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My shifts are 14 hour days or Nights and have to do overtime on top. Anything social has to be planned weeks in advance x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work away a lot. Usually in Yeovil, Portsmouth, Hull etc. Often staying in Hotels. I meet people in the areas I work in. I call them curry buddies, as we enjoy meals out. Not always ending in sex, but again I enjoy the company.

So for me, work improve s my chances. Saying that I get very little success on fab. Mostly face to face meets.

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Have to say work rarely gets in the way but that's the upside of working for oneself...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hubby and I work different shifts, he works weekends too so our opportunities to go swinging as a couple are limited.....and then he has his very important hobbies too to fit in (music related)......lucky for me he is happy for me to swing without him sometimes!

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We struggle too. I often start work at 4am and work most weekends. N works in the day too. Couple that with having a son and opportunities are extremely limited

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By *ornLordMan
over a year ago

Wiltshire and London

Having to travel with work doesn't hurt, and it now looks as though I will have to travel more, to parts of the country where folk are more up for meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do a lot of emergency call outs and only ever get Monday daytimes free. Makes meetings and plans very difficult. Don't get me wrong, I don't work everyday it's just I never know when I'm going to be called out. Anyone else in the same boat?"

Yep I work shifts and often have to do cover shifts as well, I seem to have had a run of getting offered meets when I'm working and can't get one when I'm off? Frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I work for myself but if I a rrange a daytime play date and a client (hairdresser btw) calls, I can't turn away money.. So have to cancel. Sometimes at short notice.. really peeves me if I was looking forward to the meet as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sadly, yes. ;-(

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

Yes fully understand. Work shifts at the hospital and pull in a lot of overtime work to pay for education expenses (mine). When I'm not at work am often very tired. Lots of people don't understand that and think I'm a time waster. Oh well, so be it - I have to pay bills not them.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

Years ago I used to do on call for work Always got called at most inconvenient times Now refuse contracts that expect anything more than Mon-Fri office hours Value my work/life balance way too much

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By *annooWoman
over a year ago

Hastings

i work shift work but i do 24hr shifts so the last thing i wanna do before or after one of them is a meet, i also have family commitments so by the time ive done work and carer, meets are bloody hard to fitt in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes use work as a way to have meets

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By *eybert77Man
over a year ago

Ramsey

Yes in the same boat to speak, can get a little fustrating being on call all the time!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes work messes up meets

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