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By *esicupids OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.

Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?

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By *ittletonCplCouple
over a year ago

cannock

Mine picked her own from the school gates...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd suggest sticking to letting her pick. What if she hated the guy you chose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let her pick but also have your input so that you are both happy and going to enjoy the experience

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By *outhend secretWoman
over a year ago

southend

He often picks men for me he knows what I like

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

I always do this.

My wife trusts me completely to make these arrangements as I know her tastes.

Also she/we find it especially kinky when she meets a complete stranger and within minutes sometimes will be naked and sucking his cock. lol

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By *altnpeppaCouple
over a year ago

London

We have a set of signals for clubs. When I see the guy (or a couple) that I think she would like, I send the signal. If she responds with the affirmative signal then I will make it happen. We haven't been turned down yet

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By *esicupids OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Seems like this can be amazing but can easily turn out bad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe for the first few you choose, double check with her until you're both confident you can do it on your own?

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By *taceylacyCouple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Seymour picks all mine But doesn't always get it right!!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.

Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?"

Yes, i know what she likes and she appreciates me vetting all the dregs and given her a choice of nicely vetted fresh meat. Never had a bad experience other than the two times when she picked the guy herself. Vetting is a skill i tell thee.

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By *obert RichardsMan
over a year ago

town

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=1129563533

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"Maybe for the first few you choose, double check with her until you're both confident you can do it on your own?"

That's what I'd suggest. Either that or having a frank chat as to what she likes in a man, leaving you to interpret that as you will.

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By *esicupids OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.

Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?

Yes, i know what she likes and she appreciates me vetting all the dregs and given her a choice of nicely vetted fresh meat. Never had a bad experience other than the two times when she picked the guy herself. Vetting is a skill i tell thee. "

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By *inkswithpanCouple
over a year ago

lough

This is how we arranged our last meet. J picked the guys as it turned out. I didn't see them until the blindfold was removed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd volunteer my services OP, but you're just a little too far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, my hubby has done it.

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I once had a meet arranged for me. It was a massive turn to go to a stranger's house and not know who to expect. I trusted my friend to pick well as he knows exactly who and what I like and he had discussed everything that would take place in detail with the man first. It took a while for him to arrange as lots of suitable candidates were sceptical of a man arranging a meet for a female .

Sally

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.

Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?

Yes, i know what she likes and she appreciates me vetting all the dregs and given her a choice of nicely vetted fresh meat. Never had a bad experience other than the two times when she picked the guy herself. Vetting is a skill i tell thee.

"

To be fair to my wife, her picks were people she knew rather than swingers and they couldn't perform well with a husband in the room. I understand that because it took me a long time before i could but it's still a disappointing night.

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"This is how we arranged our last meet. J picked the guys as it turned out. I didn't see them until the blindfold was removed xx"

We did something like this a while back at my wife's request.

She wanted to be laid out naked on the table with a blindfold on and her body covered with food. The guys I invited all stood around her chatting, drinking and selecting bits of food from her naked body.

She was so turned on she did anything they wanted. lol

She never took the blindfold off so she has no idea to this day who they were or what they looked like.

Its a trust thing where she was confident I would pick the right guys for her fantasy.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"This is how we arranged our last meet. J picked the guys as it turned out. I didn't see them until the blindfold was removed xx

We did something like this a while back at my wife's request.

She wanted to be laid out naked on the table with a blindfold on and her body covered with food. The guys I invited all stood around her chatting, drinking and selecting bits of food from her naked body.

She was so turned on she did anything they wanted. lol

She never took the blindfold off so she has no idea to this day who they were or what they looked like.

Its a trust thing where she was confident I would pick the right guys for her fantasy."

We've done that, when we go out in town i like to tease her and say stuff like "you know it was that waiter who fucked you"

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh


"This is how we arranged our last meet. J picked the guys as it turned out. I didn't see them until the blindfold was removed xx

We did something like this a while back at my wife's request.

She wanted to be laid out naked on the table with a blindfold on and her body covered with food. The guys I invited all stood around her chatting, drinking and selecting bits of food from her naked body.

She was so turned on she did anything they wanted. lol

She never took the blindfold off so she has no idea to this day who they were or what they looked like.

Its a trust thing where she was confident I would pick the right guys for her fantasy.

We've done that, when we go out in town i like to tease her and say stuff like "you know it was that waiter who fucked you""

Funny. I do the same.

At the time I actually teased her about the numbers of guys around the table.

With the blindfold on and strangers in the room she couldn't tell. When I told her there were 6 guys going to fuck her she was astonished.

She didn't refuse though

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

In a club Lee once blindfolded me and arrangered a queue of men for me to give blow jobs to. I lost count of how many it was but afterwards Lee told me there were actually only three different men but they kept queueing up again !

Sally

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"This is how we arranged our last meet. J picked the guys as it turned out. I didn't see them until the blindfold was removed xx

We did something like this a while back at my wife's request.

She wanted to be laid out naked on the table with a blindfold on and her body covered with food. The guys I invited all stood around her chatting, drinking and selecting bits of food from her naked body.

She was so turned on she did anything they wanted. lol

She never took the blindfold off so she has no idea to this day who they were or what they looked like.

Its a trust thing where she was confident I would pick the right guys for her fantasy.

We've done that, when we go out in town i like to tease her and say stuff like "you know it was that waiter who fucked you"

Funny. I do the same.

At the time I actually teased her about the numbers of guys around the table.

With the blindfold on and strangers in the room she couldn't tell. When I told her there were 6 guys going to fuck her she was astonished.

She didn't refuse though "

Good girl!

Mine is annoying cool about it, she'll just say "yeah he would be nice". If it were me then i'd have to know who it was and it would annoy the crap out me until i knew.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"In a club Lee once blindfolded me and arrangered a queue of men for me to give blow jobs to. I lost count of how many it was but afterwards Lee told me there were actually only three different men but they kept queueing up again !

Sally"

Smart move. Actually our mystery man wasn't a stranger at all, i needed someone i could trust to perform so i wouldn't trust a stranger for the job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a scenario I've ever thought of, but some interesting posts here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always do this.

My wife trusts me completely to make these arrangements as I know her tastes.

Also she/we find it especially kinky when she meets a complete stranger and within minutes sometimes will be naked and sucking his cock. lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"In a club Lee once blindfolded me and arrangered a queue of men for me to give blow jobs to. I lost count of how many it was but afterwards Lee told me there were actually only three different men but they kept queueing up again !

Sally"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pick 10 for the next meet. She is bound to like at least one.

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By *esicupids OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her.

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By *ancscleanguyMan
over a year ago

Preston

Good luck. Keep it on you and your partners terms.

Enjoy

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"Pick 10 for the next meet. She is bound to like at least one.

"

Even doing that probably wouldn't solve it , as id expect 8 to pull out .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have discussed this and now hubby does the vetting saves all the hard work

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her. "

Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.

Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her.

Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.

Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife. "

I'm planning to meet a guy on my own for the first time. We'll be filming it for Marc to watch later. I asked the guy what he's into and he responded by saying it depends on what Marc wants to see. I creamed my panties

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By *c69funCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield


"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her.

Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.

Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife. "

very true

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her.

Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.

Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife.

I'm planning to meet a guy on my own for the first time. We'll be filming it for Marc to watch later. I asked the guy what he's into and he responded by saying it depends on what Marc wants to see. I creamed my panties "

Good boy!

We have a couple where we've both met the respective wives alone and both filmed it for the other husband. He also likes to phone her whilst we're on the job. It's awesome.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when jane had her gbang she picked guys on here that surprised me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Save your time and just pick me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her.

Well said, but what really seperates the men from the boys in a hotwife / cuckold scenario are those who know how to incorporate the husband into the dynamic.

Every second idiot on this site thinks he could come and fuck another mans wife and about a third of those probably could. But the rare breed is the one that does it in a way that benefits both the husband and wife.

I'm planning to meet a guy on my own for the first time. We'll be filming it for Marc to watch later. I asked the guy what he's into and he responded by saying it depends on what Marc wants to see. I creamed my panties

Good boy!

We have a couple where we've both met the respective wives alone and both filmed it for the other husband. He also likes to phone her whilst we're on the job. It's awesome."

My wife has met couples on her own. Recently she's met a couple who were very understanding of the fact that even though I wouldn't be there, I'm still involved.

They almost seemed too good to be true, but fortunately they were perfect. But we doubt there's many other couples like them out there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great advice from above but I think it might be a trial and error on this one until you both know and found out what your both exactly looking for.

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

I arranged a meet up one time where Marion reviewed a selection of profiles on fab (she ruled out a couple)... then I picked one of them and made the arrangements for the meet. She didn't know which of the guys was going to turn up. We met in the bar and chatted up - obviously she had the option to say no but she was very satisfied with my pick

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By *en.....emMan
over a year ago

West mids

Looking to arrange a small gang bang for my wife...she will let me pick guys within reason too

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By *un2behereCouple
over a year ago

Chesterfield

It was mrs first fantasy, she wanted to be blindfolded on the bed, a guy who i had chosen

Who she didnt know come and have fun with her . Had loads of guys interested the one i chose left her very satisfied . Second fantasy is proving more difficult.

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By *esicupids OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester

Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

Oh I suspect it is. But hopefully you do pick a guy and it works out how you both want it to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought. "

Any particular reason?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason? "

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One day we will arrange a 'blind' date. Tied up and blindfolded in a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One day we will arrange a 'blind' date. Tied up and blindfolded in a club. "

One day I hope I'm lucky enough to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mine picked her own from the school gates..."

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think I'm more picky than she is as I expect the best for her. "

Don't blame you I would be just the same it would be all about her .

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By *esicupids OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason?

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?"

The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason?

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?

The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no. "

Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.

Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?"

It's a joint venture, she chats with them on her profile, I read the messages.

I have built in "knobhead" radar and am pretty good at spotting them.

We then arrange a social all three of us in attendance.

Then if I am happy with the guy and she is also, let's not forget it's not just about us he has to be happy as well.

Then we arrange a play date.

But I do have a pretty good idea of the guy's she likes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pick 10 for the next meet. She is bound to like at least one.

Even doing that probably wouldn't solve it , as id expect 8 to pull out ."

Sad but true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do I sound like for your pick for her?

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

Garry often picks men for me either for private meets or at clubs.

Its such a turn on to be fucked by someone who knows all sorts about me and what I like but I no nothing about them not even their name.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Garry often picks men for me either for private meets or at clubs.

Its such a turn on to be fucked by someone who knows all sorts about me and what I like but I no nothing about them not even their name."

Interesting slant on it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mrs Desi has asked me to pick her next guy for her.

Has anyone else in a hotwife type relationship done this?"
oh pick me please

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By *esicupids OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason?

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?

The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.

Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there "

Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason?

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?

The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.

Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there

Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked "

So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?

-Mr

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By *esicupids OP   Couple
over a year ago

Manchester


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason?

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?

The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.

Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there

Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked

So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?

-Mr "

With such a tight selection criteria that would strike you out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason?

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?

The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.

Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there

Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked

So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?

-Mr

With such a tight selection criteria that would strike you out "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason?

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?

The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.

Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there

Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked

So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?

-Mr

With such a tight selection criteria that would strike you out "
ha

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason?

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?

The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.

Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there

Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked

So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?

-Mr "

Open university

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great advise but this is proving harder than I thought.

Any particular reason?

Yeah what are your vetting criteria?

The usual things like looks etc but also simple things like a profile and messages in English without sloppy grammar; that's enough to say no.

Ah, my grammar is acceptable but being fuck ugly i can't help you there

Grammar is more important; ugliness and punctuation can be overlooked

So if like me, they're gorgeous but poor grammar?

-Mr

Open university "

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah but they don't pull out, she could get pregnant!

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By *ouple36DDCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

I normally pick for Sara according to her taste but make sure she is happy with the pics and profile.

My advice is make sure the guy has good verifications. Otherwise you might get let down like we did today

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got good hero's and I love meeting a hot wife

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