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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury

Ruined all of swinging for you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no, but it did change our opinions of others and stop us being so naïve and trusting.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certain planned meets havnt turned out the way I expected, but those experiences have never made wiser to fab and the whole swinging world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


" Ruined all of swinging for you? "

We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !

We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .

Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Ruined all of swinging for you?

We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !

We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .

Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .

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that's a bit much! owwww

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


" Ruined all of swinging for you?

We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !

We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .

Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .

that's a bit much! owwww "

He didn't mean it , but it made us very aware of the possible pitfalls of having sex with complete strangers . Ever since we haven't sought the company of dominant men .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no but recently some people have made me think is it worth while sometimes

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


" Ruined all of swinging for you?

We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !

We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .

Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .

"

Bloody hell!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" Ruined all of swinging for you?

We had a meet at Chams about five years ago which damn near did !

We had not long arrived and there was a very nice black couple wandering around . She was quite petite , he was six foot four and built like a Greek god .

Well needless to say we got chatting , she liked seeing her man have fun and I love seeing my wife do the same , so we got a room and that's when it all went wrong . He was very dominant which was ok to start with , but when he overpowered my wife and put his full weight on top of her , there was a crack sound and a scream from her . He stopped , and she was holding her ribs . Yes , she had two fractured ribs which certainly stopped our fun for a while .

that's a bit much! owwww

He didn't mean it , but it made us very aware of the possible pitfalls of having sex with complete strangers . Ever since we haven't sought the company of dominant men ."

it's a bit of a lack of awareness though, or at least pretty clumsy it seems chances it'd happen again i'd think would be pretty slim but i can see why you'd err on the side of caution with the folks you meet now. selfishly, i'm glad it didn't put you off for good!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"no but recently some people have made me think is it worth while sometimes "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had some bloody awful meets a few years ago when I was on a couple profile. It's a different dynamic meeting as a single with no back up.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

No but early on a guy I'd met once got fixated and turned into a creepy stalker for a few months

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

Yes I've had 2 bad meets recently, and tbh it has put me off my stride

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes a social meet recently made us want to delete our profile, we very nearly fell out over it.

But it made us think about a few things and realise we need to change how we do things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not ruined it but put me off for a while. While ago meet this couple got chatting & all was good. Organised meet at theirs, got there placed looked like walking into a bomb shelter all I got was a 'hie' she spent next 30mins playing Bingo on her phone whilst he browsed POF on laptop. All I had for company was their cat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first ever meet very nearly put me off returning to the site.

He was so pushy to meet again afterwards, I would've met him again if he wasnt one of those who would ask to meet and not accept "Let me see when I'm free, I'll message you in an hour" and keep messaging me.

He was calling me a bitch and saying he regretted meeting me, nobody would want me again, why don't I go and have another kid with another fucking idiot.. just wow. Reallyyyy gonna make me want to meet again

He deleted his account after blocking me on whatsapp, recently made a new one and had the cheek to message me "We meeting again or what?" I stuck it out and have met a few lovely people, I didnt meet for weeks after him. He seemed so lovely, bad judgement I think on my part!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had one such. We arranged to meet this couple in a local bar. Well, they came by large SUV with a trailer and tractor on it. This guy....all he could talk about was the tractor he just bought, specifications, plow depth and all this kind of stuff. His wife was exited as well. About the tractor.Since then we prefer to meet people in clubs

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Yes a social meet recently made us want to delete our profile, we very nearly fell out over it.

But it made us think about a few things and realise we need to change how we do things. "

This is exactly why we won't do social meets if there's no opportunity for them to turn into play if all parties click .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes a social meet recently made us want to delete our profile, we very nearly fell out over it.

But it made us think about a few things and realise we need to change how we do things.

This is exactly why we won't do social meets if there's no opportunity for them to turn into play if all parties click . "

Well it wasn't quite that sort of situation, but I do understand what you mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I *am* that meet ..

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"No but early on a guy I'd met once got fixated and turned into a creepy stalker for a few months "

That's the worst kind.

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By *olliPineCouple
over a year ago

swingers clubs

Never ruined swinging for us - but certainly changed how we go about it.

We had a couple of issues in the beginning with our first couple of meets.

Or first mfm was a long time mate of XY and worked really well for us. So when he coupled up decided to look elsewhere (clubs and fab). We fell into the trap that maybe a lot of newbies do, and didn't really know how to shake people off.

Anyway this guy we met in a club became semi regular but then became exceptionally possessive demanding to know where XX was at nearly all times (messaging at all times - messages /Facebook /can etc and phoning when she didn't reply), trying to chaperone her on nights out with her girlfriends etc. Anyway when XX was home alone as XY was working away - he sent pics of a gun and knife and said he passed out house, thought about popping round uninvited.

We also had another guy who used to get insanely jealous when XX was meeting other people - ffs, she's not exclusive to XY, she's won't be exclusive to another bloke.

Basically - this led to us now meeting at clubs almost exclusively. We only communicate on fab now and never of site, and absolutely no one gets numbers, or Facebook etc. Also we will never have anybody round our house as we have kids. Although we never had anyone round when the kids were there - you realise they can get obsessive and when they know she you live, they know where you live.

We've since got much better at shaking people off. It's not ruined swinging for us, but it has certainly changed how we do it. So defo no more guys thinking they can have a regular thing with us.

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry


"no, but it did change our opinions of others and stop us being so naïve and trusting."

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By *lem-H-Fandango OP   Man
over a year ago

salisbury


"Never ruined swinging for us - but certainly changed how we go about it.

We had a couple of issues in the beginning with our first couple of meets.

Or first mfm was a long time mate of XY and worked really well for us. So when he coupled up decided to look elsewhere (clubs and fab). We fell into the trap that maybe a lot of newbies do, and didn't really know how to shake people off.

Anyway this guy we met in a club became semi regular but then became exceptionally possessive demanding to know where XX was at nearly all times (messaging at all times - messages /Facebook /can etc and phoning when she didn't reply), trying to chaperone her on nights out with her girlfriends etc. Anyway when XX was home alone as XY was working away - he sent pics of a gun and knife and said he passed out house, thought about popping round uninvited.

We also had another guy who used to get insanely jealous when XX was meeting other people - ffs, she's not exclusive to XY, she's won't be exclusive to another bloke.

Basically - this led to us now meeting at clubs almost exclusively. We only communicate on fab now and never of site, and absolutely no one gets numbers, or Facebook etc. Also we will never have anybody round our house as we have kids. Although we never had anyone round when the kids were there - you realise they can get obsessive and when they know she you live, they know where you live.

We've since got much better at shaking people off. It's not ruined swinging for us, but it has certainly changed how we do it. So defo no more guys thinking they can have a regular thing with us. "

terrible. Thanks for sharing.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I've had a few moments that put me off meeting for a few months, I think that is what makes me overly cautious now and I find it hard to meet people so go months without anything

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