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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

It's Thursday Rant Day

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That post is more than 3 words , we can concentrate beyond that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, lots of them only look at the pictures and base their opinion on that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree, lots of them only look at the pictures and base their opinion on that."

This annoys the living shit out of me.

Typical shallow message reads...."hi your hot"

"Wow best arse on here"

" oh the things I could do to you"

" give me a chance please"

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter "

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

It's too early to be so angry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Calm down love

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By *eal Deal PartiesWoman
over a year ago

x

Join the club xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life."

Socially awkward and terminally shy, that's why they have no clue how to behave.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Skim your profile down, I dropped off halfway through reading it.

I'm not saying there'll read it anymore but you won't feel half as pissed off that people don't.

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

LOL. We still get messages almost every day from dickheads who want to meet us in Blackpool.

Take a quick look at ours and you will see what we mean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Socially awkward and terminally shy, that's why they have no clue how to behave."

There's a lack of social skills in society in general these days. Fuck I sound old.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks

LOL. We still get messages almost every day from dickheads who want to meet us in Blackpool.

Take a quick look at ours and you will see what we mean. "

It's a bit ambiguous

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Join the club xx "

Real deal parties sounds like a plan

I do love a party

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Socially awkward and terminally shy, that's why they have no clue how to behave.

There's a lack of social skills in society in general these days. Fuck I sound old. "

There really is, I walk around uni surrounded by smartphone zombies.. if I was a meaner person, I'd knock them over as they blindly walk towards me without any clue where they're going

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Skim your profile down, I dropped off halfway through reading it.

I'm not saying there'll read it anymore but you won't feel half as pissed off that people don't.

"

Fair comment!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"
i was given grief by a bell end with no pics on his profile because I had none of my face showing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Socially awkward and terminally shy, that's why they have no clue how to behave."

And being a swinger is for shy awkward people right?

Think I might shorten my profile as it's too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey! I don't have verifications but I still have feelings!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you refuse to use the filters then you'll have to put up with it. You won't change the behaviour of anyone by ranting. They won't be bothered to read that anymore than they will be bothered to read your profile.

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

Nice arse OP!

Did you say something about a profile???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of a pointless rant really when you think about it.

If they can't be arsed to 'read the fucking profile', what makes you think they'll be arsed to read a forum rant telling them to 'read the fucking profile'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Socially awkward and terminally shy, that's why they have no clue how to behave.

And being a swinger is for shy awkward people right?

Think I might shorten my profile as it's too long "

What people think this all about and what it actually is are so far apart, they have different postcodes sadly.

Not all people obviously, but it's easy to see the ones who don't quite get it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Socially awkward and terminally shy, that's why they have no clue how to behave.

True!

There's a lack of social skills in society in general these days. Fuck I sound old. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you refuse to use the filters then you'll have to put up with it. You won't change the behaviour of anyone by ranting. They won't be bothered to read that anymore than they will be bothered to read your profile. "

Fair comment lovely, thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I send few messages and always with some content relating to the person/profile to which I am attracted. Doesnt work for me.

But I'm happy with who I am and where I am in my life. If it happens on here it will happen. Frankly I've got other things far more important to worry about if I feel the need to worry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Nice arse OP!

Did you say something about a profile??? "

Read the profile, and yeah I squat lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Socially awkward and terminally shy, that's why they have no clue how to behave.

Agreed, the Welsh are mainly sheep shaggers anyway lol

I love the midlands the club scene is great to meet real Swingers

And being a swinger is for shy awkward people right?

Think I might shorten my profile as it's too long

What people think this all about and what it actually is are so far apart, they have different postcodes sadly.

Not all people obviously, but it's easy to see the ones who don't quite get it. "

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"Nice arse OP!

Did you say something about a profile???

Read the profile, and yeah I squat lol "

I get it all the time - people (not just guys) look at all the pretty pictures and don't read a single word written.

It's just fab life and you'll never change it sadly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

try a different filter...newbies, non verified or site supporters...it won't cut them all out but it will cut out those who can't be arsed going to a tiny bit of extra effort and it definitely cuts out the Friday night in from the pub horn looking for wank material then gone when sober brigade. It makes life far easier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"
some people will NEVER read a profile. No point in even writing them really

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks some people will NEVER read a profile. No point in even writing them really "

I guess the £5 subscribers don't read!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wish they (admins) built a filter on the message area that allows you to search for a specific word and only show messages from those people.

So what I am thinking is if like some profiles you have a word or a phrase for the title in your description that would mean people have read it and the filter can easily pick it up.

Its not perfect but it may mean it is less annoying to have to mass delete all messages or deal with them individually.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks

LOL. We still get messages almost every day from dickheads who want to meet us in Blackpool.

Take a quick look at ours and you will see what we mean. "

That's because you selected North West as your profile location - and Blackpool is in the NW so you appear on local searches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What I love even more is when you ask them to read your profile as then they'll know the answer to their question and they proceed to hotly protest they did, several times, and im an ignorant cow for not replying exactly as they want. ie With my tits out and ready to fuck in five minutes.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

We could quip the message above your profile pic on you profile is as much as most men can absorb, but that would be a cheap shot.

Seriously there could be a few reasons which are in fact down to your profile.

Have a read of it you contradict yourself a number of times.

For instance “...I only meet at Xtasia...” then a little later “...I would meet a one on one is if you live quite close to me...”

Then later the suggestion you only meet younger but have a crush on older people, men think perhaps there is a chance then.

There is also the distance issue, if you are meeting at the club mentioned then why is distance a problem, unless you mean you could meet at his house, very confusing.

Apart from the above men will read the top couples of lines and scan down to the pics claiming they have read your profile.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write. s

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks

I've selected a Newport postcode, it's in Wales

LOL. We still get messages almost every day from dickheads who want to meet us in Blackpool.

Take a quick look at ours and you will see what we mean.

That's because you selected North West as your profile location - and Blackpool is in the NW so you appear on local searches. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life."

Single and sex starved is what there like? Or married and unable to maintain a healthy sex life with there wife? That's why there here ruining fab for all the genuine men.

Personally I don't go to the club you mention so won't be messaging you, but my compliments on your very impressive profile x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks some people will NEVER read a profile. No point in even writing them really "

Some of us do? We're the ones your writing it for? I appreciate all the fab ladies and couples and I will read your profile. Probably why I get meets x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

I'm pretty laid back about it all tbh! If I've agreed to meet someone then I expect them to read my profile (so they don't recoil in horror when I get naked!) - other than that I'm cool with them just looking at the pretty pictures.

And let's be honest op - a guy could read your/my profile a dozen times and write an amazing message - but if the face and body don't appeal then he's just wasted his time - and I meet less than 1% of the people who message me. If someone I don't find attractive has clearly made a lot of effort then I feel guilty tbh! Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks some people will NEVER read a profile. No point in even writing them really

Some of us do? We're the ones your writing it for? I appreciate all the fab ladies and couples and I will read your profile. Probably why I get meets x"
..that's good and I did say some people. Not all

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks

LOL. We still get messages almost every day from dickheads who want to meet us in Blackpool.

Take a quick look at ours and you will see what we mean.

That's because you selected North West as your profile location - and Blackpool is in the NW so you appear on local searches. "

That is true but you have to use a UK postcode for a profile on here so whichever code we use would put us in searches somewhere.

However it is still no excuse for contacting without reading.

Maybe I will change it to read something like: "Our favourite pastime is hammering metal stakes up the arse of single guys while plugging his cock into the mains"

I bet we'd still get "I'm in Blackpool, fancy a meet?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens all the time. I just ignore all those that don't read my profile.

The majority don't read. The majority get deleted.

IMO the issue is partly caused by the page format for mobile devices. This places the picture button before the profile. As a result people look at these first. Some go on to read the profile, whereas the majority have already decided to send a message and don't read the profile.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I used it as a handy filter: if you don't read my profile (it was obvious when they hadn't) then I don't read your message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have a lot of bait, you will catch a lot of fish. You have to throw back the tiddlers and keep the rest.

If you're only meeting at a club you don't need much on your profile.

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield


"

Maybe I will change it to read something like: "Our favourite pastime is hammering metal stakes up the arse of single guys while plugging his cock into the mains"

I bet we'd still get "I'm in Blackpool, fancy a meet?"

"

We will be in Blackpool soon, near the tram depot, could you plug into the tram wires instead of the mains please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What if the guy is new? Got to start somewhere

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...


"

Maybe I will change it to read something like: "Our favourite pastime is hammering metal stakes up the arse of single guys while plugging his cock into the mains"

I bet we'd still get "I'm in Blackpool, fancy a meet?"

We will be in Blackpool soon, near the tram depot, could you plug into the tram wires instead of the mains please"

It would certainly add a bit of extra spice to the illuminations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happens to us (and probably every other couple and single lady) on a daily basis, even more so when we have a meet advertised. We do reply to them on occasion if the message is polite and well written, normally along the lines of 'you might want to re-read our profile' but it makes little difference.

Block/ignore, move on.

Now, I'm going to hand out this swear box

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks

We could quip the message above your profile pic on you profile is as much as most men can absorb, but that would be a cheap shot.

Seriously there could be a few reasons which are in fact down to your profile.

Have a read of it you contradict yourself a number of times.

For instance “...I only meet at Xtasia...” then a little later “...I would meet a one on one is if you live quite close to me...”

Then later the suggestion you only meet younger but have a crush on older people, men think perhaps there is a chance then.

There is also the distance issue, if you are meeting at the club mentioned then why is distance a problem, unless you mean you could meet at his house, very confusing.

Apart from the above men will read the top couples of lines and scan down to the pics claiming they have read your profile.

"

All fair comments, I will adjust my profile, thanks for your input

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Single and sex starved is what there like? Or married and unable to maintain a healthy sex life with there wife? That's why there here ruining fab for all the genuine men.

Personally I don't go to the club you mention so won't be messaging you, but my compliments on your very impressive profile x"

Oh thanks v much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Single and sex starved is what there like? Or married and unable to maintain a healthy sex life with there wife? That's why there here ruining fab for all the genuine men.

Personally I don't go to the club you mention so won't be messaging you, but my compliments on your very impressive profile x"

Oh thanks v much

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You have a lot of bait, you will catch a lot of fish. You have to throw back the tiddlers and keep the rest.

If you're only meeting at a club you don't need much on your profile. "

Fair point, thanks I will re-write my profile I value your opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm pretty laid back about it all tbh! If I've agreed to meet someone then I expect them to read my profile (so they don't recoil in horror when I get naked!) - other than that I'm cool with them just looking at the pretty pictures.

And let's be honest op - a guy could read your/my profile a dozen times and write an amazing message - but if the face and body don't appeal then he's just wasted his time - and I meet less than 1% of the people who message me. If someone I don't find attractive has clearly made a lot of effort then I feel guilty tbh! Xx"

I get guilty too lol, but I'm always polite and say happy to be friends

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All the time I get "Can you be discreet in meeting a married man?" or the worst I had was a guy I was chatting to who saw my body pic after a few messages "Oh. Youre fatter than I thought" I've put on my profile I'm 5ft 3, size 12. How's that fat, readddd the profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

This is unfortunately fab life we can't all have are cake and eat it now can we

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They get over excited looking at your pics n can't help themselves.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I made the pic public so you can see what I mean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They get over excited looking at your pics n can't help themselves.

PTU xxx"

I'm like that with yours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.you will get bell ends in all walks of life but saying no meets is our fault as we have no verris is a little harsh.

I don't ask women to verify me as the more of thoseyou have the more you look like a slag/player.

That's what the block button is for loce.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree, lots of them only look at the pictures and base their opinion on that.

This annoys the living shit out of me.

Typical shallow message reads...."hi your hot"

"Wow best arse on here"

" oh the things I could do to you"

" give me a chance please"

"

Here is my advice, stop moaning, block single guys, send messages yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree, lots of them only look at the pictures and base their opinion on that.

This annoys the living shit out of me.

Typical shallow message reads...."hi your hot"

"Wow best arse on here"

" oh the things I could do to you"

" give me a chance please"

Here is my advice, stop moaning, block single guys, send messages yourself. "
couldn't have put it better myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"
well its pretty obvious you want me to "read the fucking profile" so I did but dont meet in clubs but good luck with the read the fucking profile thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

get james bond to deal with the messages

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folkswell its pretty obvious you want me to "read the fucking profile" so I did but dont meet in clubs but good luck with the read the fucking profile thing "

lol thanks, I've now altered my profile massively, let's see if they understand now

Thanks for the input

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folkswell its pretty obvious you want me to "read the fucking profile" so I did but dont meet in clubs but good luck with the read the fucking profile thing

lol thanks, I've now altered my profile massively, let's see if they understand now

Thanks for the input "

Out of curiosity, why should we read all your profile ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folkswell its pretty obvious you want me to "read the fucking profile" so I did but dont meet in clubs but good luck with the read the fucking profile thing

lol thanks, I've now altered my profile massively, let's see if they understand now

Thanks for the input "
youre welcome and thanks for making me read the fucking profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages. "

I have cut my profile now, so let's see if it works, thanks for your input and time to messsge, I appreciate it. X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folkswell its pretty obvious you want me to "read the fucking profile" so I did but dont meet in clubs but good luck with the read the fucking profile thing

lol thanks, I've now altered my profile massively, let's see if they understand now

Thanks for the input

Out of curiosity, why should we read all your profile ? "

You don't have to!

But I probably won't reply!

Just tired of men mosning they don't get lucky, however if they read the profile it could save them wasting there and my time, thanks for your continued input.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages. "

I use ' cut and paste ' messages and it works for me. Why should someone read through lines and lines of pointless information,write a bespoke message when it is unlikely to be read or replied to?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folkswell its pretty obvious you want me to "read the fucking profile" so I did but dont meet in clubs but good luck with the read the fucking profile thing "

All altered now, thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Agree, lots of them only look at the pictures and base their opinion on that.

This annoys the living shit out of me.

Typical shallow message reads...."hi your hot"

"Wow best arse on here"

" oh the things I could do to you"

" give me a chance please"

Here is my advice, stop moaning, block single guys, send messages yourself. couldn't have put it better myself lol"

Fair enough

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Couples are guilty of this too from our experience and I'm sure some women too...

Miss

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks

This is unfortunately fab life we can't all have are cake and eat it now can we "

I like cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile isn't even long as well ahha! That's the strange thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages.

I use ' cut and paste ' messages and it works for me. Why should someone read through lines and lines of pointless information,write a bespoke message when it is unlikely to be read or replied to?"

Whatever works for you. That's the beauty of both choice and freedom of expression.

You don't want read a lengthy profile, someone wants a lengthy profile. So your expectations dont match, move on.Ultimately its the meting of minds.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages.

I use ' cut and paste ' messages and it works for me. Why should someone read through lines and lines of pointless information,write a bespoke message when it is unlikely to be read or replied to?

Whatever works for you. That's the beauty of both choice and freedom of expression.

You don't want read a lengthy profile, someone wants a lengthy profile. So your expectations dont match, move on.Ultimately its the meting of minds."

Fair enough, your approach doesn't seem to be working though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree, lots of them only look at the pictures and base their opinion on that.

This annoys the living shit out of me.

Typical shallow message reads...."hi your hot"

"Wow best arse on here"

" oh the things I could do to you"

" give me a chance please"

Here is my advice, stop moaning, block single guys, send messages yourself. couldn't have put it better myself lol"

Talk about victim blaming!

How about those type of ignorant and rude guys assert some self respect and manners before time wasting! Considering what they're after, that's the least they can do. Reading profiles and respecting a woman's profile wishes for her body, isn't difficult but it does show a lot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Website full of naked/ explicit pics/ profiles full of descriptions of sex acts/ pics of people having sex/ lists of sex acts that people want.

Of course people should be respectful but after they've waded through that lot ^^ it's hardly surprising if they mail about sex.

Is it...?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree, lots of them only look at the pictures and base their opinion on that.

This annoys the living shit out of me.

Typical shallow message reads...."hi your hot"

"Wow best arse on here"

" oh the things I could do to you"

" give me a chance please"

Here is my advice, stop moaning, block single guys, send messages yourself. couldn't have put it better myself lol

Talk about victim blaming!

How about those type of ignorant and rude guys assert some self respect and manners before time wasting! Considering what they're after, that's the least they can do. Reading profiles and respecting a woman's profile wishes for her body, isn't difficult but it does show a lot!"

Victim blaming, there are no 'victims' here . If you are getting unwanted messages that are disrespectful and rude, do something about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Website full of naked/ explicit pics/ profiles full of descriptions of sex acts/ pics of people having sex/ lists of sex acts that people want.

Of course people should be respectful but after they've waded through that lot ^^ it's hardly surprising if they mail about sex.

Is it...?! "

Agreed, if someone messages you asking 'for a fuck' take it as a compliment not an insult

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By *layful rascalsCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

Told a guy we meet together while messaging. He asks were hubby is. I tell him work & next hes asking me to his. Some fucking dicks on here. Hes probably a fucking stinker smelling of piss & seriously bad BO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Told a guy we meet together while messaging. He asks were hubby is. I tell him work & next hes asking me to his. Some fucking dicks on here. Hes probably a fucking stinker smelling of piss & seriously bad BO."

He probably did it to wind you up, I haven't read your profile, does that make me a stinker as well??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Socially awkward and terminally shy, that's why they have no clue how to behave.

And being a swinger is for shy awkward people right?

Think I might shorten my profile as it's too long "

Although I sympathise with your points in this thread, you seem to be suggesting that only extrovert party animals should be swingers.

If that's the case I take issue with that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life.

Socially awkward and terminally shy, that's why they have no clue how to behave.

And being a swinger is for shy awkward people right?

Think I might shorten my profile as it's too long

Although I sympathise with your points in this thread, you seem to be suggesting that only extrovert party animals should be swingers.

If that's the case I take issue with that. "

Not at all, I just feel that swinging is very liberating and if your going to bare all for meets/strangers be it at someone's home, outdoors or party your hardly the shy type

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Your profile isn't even long as well ahha! That's the strange thing"

I've just shortened it now to help the disadvantaged

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages.

I use ' cut and paste ' messages and it works for me. Why should someone read through lines and lines of pointless information,write a bespoke message when it is unlikely to be read or replied to?

Whatever works for you. That's the beauty of both choice and freedom of expression.

You don't want read a lengthy profile, someone wants a lengthy profile. So your expectations dont match, move on.Ultimately its the meting of minds.

Fair enough, your approach doesn't seem to be working though "

Haha. Funny little man.

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By *eady and Willing 9Man
over a year ago

Wherever the party is @


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

Well from my experience it's couples who do that to me the most. Men get a bad rep because there are more of them but it's not exclusive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages.

I use ' cut and paste ' messages and it works for me. Why should someone read through lines and lines of pointless information,write a bespoke message when it is unlikely to be read or replied to?

Whatever works for you. That's the beauty of both choice and freedom of expression.

You don't want read a lengthy profile, someone wants a lengthy profile. So your expectations dont match, move on.Ultimately its the meting of minds.

Fair enough, your approach doesn't seem to be working though

Haha. Funny little man."

Only an observation, old man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Website full of naked/ explicit pics/ profiles full of descriptions of sex acts/ pics of people having sex/ lists of sex acts that people want.

Of course people should be respectful but after they've waded through that lot ^^ it's hardly surprising if they mail about sex.

Is it...?!

Agreed, if someone messages you asking 'for a fuck' take it as a compliment not an insult "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages.

I use ' cut and paste ' messages and it works for me. Why should someone read through lines and lines of pointless information,write a bespoke message when it is unlikely to be read or replied to?

Whatever works for you. That's the beauty of both choice and freedom of expression.

You don't want read a lengthy profile, someone wants a lengthy profile. So your expectations dont match, move on.Ultimately its the meting of minds.

Fair enough, your approach doesn't seem to be working though

Haha. Funny little man.

Only an observation, old man "

Really, based on what observations?

The verifications I haven't published?

The summary meet numbers I dont show on my profile?

The fact that you have an in-depth knowledge of who I meet and when?

So what IS your observation actually based on? Because from where I'm standing it seems to be based on the sum total of fuck all.

Happy Thursday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even though you have changed your profile you unfortunately will have the same problem. Some peeps just don't bother to read it...we only have it so peeps can get an insight into wot we're after. Anyways have fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages.

I use ' cut and paste ' messages and it works for me. Why should someone read through lines and lines of pointless information,write a bespoke message when it is unlikely to be read or replied to?

Whatever works for you. That's the beauty of both choice and freedom of expression.

You don't want read a lengthy profile, someone wants a lengthy profile. So your expectations dont match, move on.Ultimately its the meting of minds.

Fair enough, your approach doesn't seem to be working though

Haha. Funny little man.

Only an observation, old man

Really, based on what observations?

The verifications I haven't published?

The summary meet numbers I dont show on my profile?

The fact that you have an in-depth knowledge of who I meet and when?

So what IS your observation actually based on? Because from where I'm standing it seems to be based on the sum total of fuck all.

Happy Thursday.

"

Meow, I have hit a raw nerve . You have one verification that is 4 years old , I rest my case

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By *hloe sussexTV/TS
over a year ago

Larne


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

Here ,here

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By *ob McFlirtyMan
over a year ago

Islington

It's always lovely to read such positive comments in forums. It always brings one to a state of zen .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My God, these forums are a fine way of identifying misandrists to avoid. What brats.

Keep it up girls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages.

I use ' cut and paste ' messages and it works for me. Why should someone read through lines and lines of pointless information,write a bespoke message when it is unlikely to be read or replied to?

Whatever works for you. That's the beauty of both choice and freedom of expression.

You don't want read a lengthy profile, someone wants a lengthy profile. So your expectations dont match, move on.Ultimately its the meting of minds.

Fair enough, your approach doesn't seem to be working though

Haha. Funny little man.

Only an observation, old man

Really, based on what observations?

The verifications I haven't published?

The summary meet numbers I dont show on my profile?

The fact that you have an in-depth knowledge of who I meet and when?

So what IS your observation actually based on? Because from where I'm standing it seems to be based on the sum total of fuck all.

Happy Thursday.

Meow, I have hit a raw nerve . You have one verification that is 4 years old , I rest my case "

So what? THIS is the Misandry I'm talking about. Can you IMAGINE the furor if someone slagged off a women for having too many veris and calling her a slut? How is this any better? It's the same coin.

Our worth isn't defined by how many women want to fuck us....sorry girls, you just do the have that power. Get over yourselves

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone with a vagina gets bombarded with messages.

Thats just how it is.

It really isnt much effort to delete or block.

You can get the gist of what the message says without even opening it.

Delete and don't sweat it - or have a break from Fab if it's annoying you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It isn't just single men who fail to read profiles OP.

I've had messages from single ladies and couples who have quite clearly not bothered to read my profile.

I agree, it can be annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Don't understand the need for the OP to trim down her profile. Its not exactly long or overly complex to read!

OP, use it as filter - effort and reward.

Seriously, the OP could reduce her profile text to 'Fill in Later' and have a single blurry pic of what might be a left buttock - she would still get 150 messages a day from the bottom feeding masses with no self respect and a penchant for minimalist 'cut and paste' messages.

I use ' cut and paste ' messages and it works for me. Why should someone read through lines and lines of pointless information,write a bespoke message when it is unlikely to be read or replied to?

Whatever works for you. That's the beauty of both choice and freedom of expression.

You don't want read a lengthy profile, someone wants a lengthy profile. So your expectations dont match, move on.Ultimately its the meting of minds.

Fair enough, your approach doesn't seem to be working though

Haha. Funny little man.

Only an observation, old man

Really, based on what observations?

The verifications I haven't published?

The summary meet numbers I dont show on my profile?

The fact that you have an in-depth knowledge of who I meet and when?

So what IS your observation actually based on? Because from where I'm standing it seems to be based on the sum total of fuck all.

Happy Thursday.

Meow, I have hit a raw nerve . You have one verification that is 4 years old , I rest my case

So what? THIS is the Misandry I'm talking about. Can you IMAGINE the furor if someone slagged off a women for having too many veris and calling her a slut? How is this any better? It's the same coin.

Our worth isn't defined by how many women want to fuck us....sorry girls, you just do the have that power. Get over yourselves "

Wtf are you talking about

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"My God, these forums are a fine way of identifying misandrists to avoid. What brats.

Keep it up girls "

We're not girls.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My God, these forums are a fine way of identifying misandrists to avoid. What brats.

Keep it up girls

We're not girls. "

Correct. We're women n strong ones at that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv had the same problem x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

Blocked lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks

LOL. We still get messages almost every day from dickheads who want to meet us in Blackpool.

Take a quick look at ours and you will see what we mean.

That's because you selected North West as your profile location - and Blackpool is in the NW so you appear on local searches.

That is true but you have to use a UK postcode for a profile on here so whichever code we use would put us in searches somewhere.

However it is still no excuse for contacting without reading.

Maybe I will change it to read something like: "Our favourite pastime is hammering metal stakes up the arse of single guys while plugging his cock into the mains"

I bet we'd still get "I'm in Blackpool, fancy a meet?"

"

No doubts you would. Reading skills are at level with spelling skills on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Agree, lots of them only look at the pictures and base their opinion on that.

This annoys the living shit out of me.

Typical shallow message reads...."hi your hot"

"Wow best arse on here"

" oh the things I could do to you"

" give me a chance please"

Here is my advice, stop moaning, block single guys, send messages yourself. couldn't have put it better myself lol

Talk about victim blaming!

How about those type of ignorant and rude guys assert some self respect and manners before time wasting! Considering what they're after, that's the least they can do. Reading profiles and respecting a woman's profile wishes for her body, isn't difficult but it does show a lot!

Victim blaming, there are no 'victims' here . If you are getting unwanted messages that are disrespectful and rude, do something about it. "

I read that and thought the same, victims, really?!

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By *reokinkMan
over a year ago

London


"Skim your profile down, I dropped off halfway through reading it.

I'm not saying there'll read it anymore but you won't feel half as pissed off that people don't.

"

Yeah we've tried before and tweaked the profile several times. We now even address single males at the beginning of the profile and most still don't bother reading it lol

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By *awty40_xxWoman
over a year ago

north lanarkshire


"Hey guys I'm sure this post has been already done but it's my turn to have a moan.

I'm sick & tired of complete bellends messaging me when clearly they haven't read my profile.

I appreciate I can use filters to calm the traffic but I don't want to as I like to read messages from genuine people who have taken the time to get to know me a teeny tiny bit from what I write.

Men are always moaning they don't get replies or meets well it's your own fucking fault for being ignorant.

It's usually the guys with no verifications and haven't got a clue about how fab works.

Thoughts please folks"

I hate getting messages saying hey i love your profile your just what im looking for... when clearly they havent even read it as it states im not meeting on my profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone with a vagina gets bombarded with messages.

Thats just how it is.

It really isnt much effort to delete or block.

You can get the gist of what the message says without even opening it.

Delete and don't sweat it - or have a break from Fab if it's annoying you."
here here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know how you feel OP... not many read profiles ... ugh very annoying....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How do you know not many read profiles? If you can't see who has visited your profile, (never understood that function actually), and they didn't then message you because they thought you weren't a match you wouldn't know. For every message received that you think hasn't read your profile you may have had a thousand who visited your profile and didn't message. That wouldn't be "not many read profiles" in my mind.

Redunicorn - you look great in the yellow dress in your third picture by the way -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We get it all the time. Soft swap or straight couples winking and messaging us. They CLEARLY haven't read our profile. We spend 90%+ of our time with timewasters and it gets too much sometimes.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

We get the same often. Lately it seems to be a lot of couples asking for cuck meets or to meet N alone. Though I don't mind taking a break to watch and take it all in, we say pretty hard that we both have to play or no one plays.

It's an easy filter though. If its evident people didn't read our profile, we don't take the time to reply either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end.

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By *rimo4uMan
over a year ago

north kensington w10


"I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end."

Yep, profiles are so over rated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end.

Yep, profiles are so over rated! "

Lol they shouldn't be, but one of the unfortunate realities of fab. The majority just can't be arsed to read it seems

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end.

Yep, profiles are so over rated!

Lol they shouldn't be, but one of the unfortunate realities of fab. The majority just can't be arsed to read it seems "

But if you're aiming your profile at those you'd like to meet and they do take the time to read it,......

...Then it works,

It needn't work often, just enough.

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By *atindollTV/TS
over a year ago

edinburgh

I just blocked someone this very minute for that same thing...no pics on his profile...asks to meet even though it's in the first paragraph that I work all week and not available for meets...ask him if he's read my profile and he says yes-you don't like to meet straight guys...then that I like caravans...like he's reading my bio a word at a time-blocked!.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They get over excited looking at your pics n can't help themselves.

PTU xxx

I'm like that with yours "

it's a bit nippy today. xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Skim your profile down, I dropped off halfway through reading it.

I'm not saying there'll read it anymore but you won't feel half as pissed off that people don't.

Fair comment!

Nah, don't bother. Just block anyone who doesn't read it, eases the pain greatly I find!

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end."

If they genuinely want to meet you they will, I find.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall


"I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end.

If they genuinely want to meet you they will, I find."

This. If they don't bother reading it, they're often just filtering themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end.

Yep, profiles are so over rated!

Lol they shouldn't be, but one of the unfortunate realities of fab. The majority just can't be arsed to read it seems

But if you're aiming your profile at those you'd like to meet and they do take the time to read it,......

...Then it works,

It needn't work often, just enough."

Hence me having such a long winded boring profile, attracts just the type I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end.

If they genuinely want to meet you they will, I find."

Well said

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end.

Yep, profiles are so over rated!

Lol they shouldn't be, but one of the unfortunate realities of fab. The majority just can't be arsed to read it seems

But if you're aiming your profile at those you'd like to meet and they do take the time to read it,......

...Then it works,

It needn't work often, just enough.

Hence me having such a long winded boring profile, attracts just the type I like "

Long winded and boring people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't think anyone reads my profile either but that's standard, just how fab is.

Plus mine is far too long and boring I wouldn't expect anyone to actually make it to the end.

Yep, profiles are so over rated!

Lol they shouldn't be, but one of the unfortunate realities of fab. The majority just can't be arsed to read it seems

But if you're aiming your profile at those you'd like to meet and they do take the time to read it,......

...Then it works,

It needn't work often, just enough.

Hence me having such a long winded boring profile, attracts just the type I like

Long winded and boring people? "

Have you read it?

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By *iolet2000Woman
over a year ago

Ormskirk

A while back some guy didnt read my profile, or chose to ignore it.

Anyway he asked me the usual stuff. How am I finding it on FAB etc.

I said well I get a lot of guys who cant/dont read.and maybe they are just thick or ignorant.

Response was full on rant about being dyslexic blah blah blah.

He BLOCKED me. Haha

Talk about taking it personally.

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"We've just had a "why don't you leave him at home and come to a club with me?!" message, absolute belter

You couldn't write this shit honestly, god only knows what they are like in real life."

Probably very different, 'shorter, older, not as athletic, hairy'

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