FabSwingers.com forum: To be bi or not, that is the question

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

On my profile I have my sexuality has bisexual.

I often get “invites” from men to meet up, when I check out their profile I find they have their sexuality as STRAIGHT?

I always message them backing thanking them for contacting me, but then ask them why have they got their sexuality on their profile as straight? I never receive a reply or answer, wonder why?

Couples and women who state on their profiles, “no bisexuals” are being hood winked.

That so called “straight man”, could have been having gay sex, hours before meeting you.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

off to grill my M&S crushed black pepper steak burger and ponder this .....

I love a good bi/str8/bi/str8/bi/curious/str8 thread.

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By *iercedTattooedBBWWoman
over a year ago

bangor

Makes me giggle the amount of male profile with *straight* on it, then scroll down to see a friend list full of males, and even a single verification from a guy from a meet!

But hey each to their own, does not bother me, just makes me giggle!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"off to grill my M&S crushed black pepper steak burger and ponder this .....

I love a good bi/str8/bi/str8/bi/curious/str8 thread.

You can fry your steak, being a honest bisexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know i've met men and there profiles have said straight. After meeting and chatting about how I like playing with bisexual men...It all changes....suddenly they don't mind sucking cock or even sex with men. Hmmm why lie as many women love bi men as don't. What no one likes is a liar

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

"I know i've met men and there profiles have said straight. After meeting and chatting about how I like playing with bisexual men...It all changes....suddenly they don't mind sucking cock or even sex with men. Hmmm why lie as many women love bi men as don't. What no one likes is a liar

i agree and even after pointing it out to some they still say they won't change it in case ay of their friends find out - yet have little or no info on profile , no pics so how will anyoe else find out???

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think its all down to them edgeing their bets.

Putting your sexuality down as straight for women and couples to see, covers most situations. If a couple contact them and mention bisexuality then they say thats ok. They can contact men by site messages without anybody knowing they are after gay sex.

I sometimes cam on this site, and get whispered messages from "straight" men and see them message women and couples for all to see, seconds later.

It is all a bit sad really what some men will do in their quest for sex. They really want sex with women and couples ,but if all else fails a man will do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if their spouses find out they'd be in even deeper shit for playing away with the same sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always check verifications.. as I certainly dont want to play with someone thats hiding their sexuality...

but people will always do it.. Its partly why we are not looking for any more single men at present.

it is dishonest... but people dont because there are still lots of people out their like myself that dont want bi men..

However, if they read these forums they would realise that on here I am perhaps iin the minority..

Katie.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Maybe if their spouses find out they'd be in even deeper shit for playing away with the same sex!

Most would be toast anyway, if mine found out I would be sucking cock, trouble is it would be my own.

Read your profile ,you don't meet bi's, so the men I and on about would slip under your radar.

What I am saying is the sexual preference on a profile counts for nothing. Most people are astute enough as I am sure you are to realise that.

Unless of course they land up with shoulder bag, high heels and wearing makeup and give themselves away.

You will never know, if that cock you are sucking was in a bum a few hours before.

( no jokes about washing it please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lot woman are put of by saying you are bi,and because you say you are bi they seam to think you prefer guys anyway, im bi because i enjoy sucking cock and other stuff etc,but i dont fancy guys in away i want a relationship with a guy, to me there no different for a woman to suck cock than a guy sucking cock, im in heaven when ive got a guy and a woman sucking my cock mmmmm oh yes lol

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

more than just a few women are very turned on by m2m oral etc in a 3some scenario.

women in general tend to be less 'hung up' about lable's, more open minded imho.

waits to be corrcted lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have bi-selective as not all women I meet I fancy in that way,.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I have bi-selective as not all women I meet I fancy in that way,."

...that is a nice way of putting it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have bi-selective as not all women I meet I fancy in that way,.

...that is a nice way of putting it

I think so too

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By *uppetsCouple
over a year ago

cheltenham

its all to with what gives them a better chance at finding meets. have heard that a lot of people turn there noses up at bi males so they say there straight.

desperation/embarrassment/dishonest

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

yep doesnt take much to suss out the people who arent being honest .obviously crafting their profile to try and avoid knock backs. definatly misleading and dishonest .but makes it very easy for me ...delete and block !! if they arent being honest about themselves what else are they fibbing about ?? i have had a guy actually admit he didnt state he was b as would cut down hs chances of meets .needlss to say we never met after that gem lol!

i also replied to a guy recently i wasnt what he was looking for as he wanted tvs or bi guys .he mailed back most indignent stating he was VERY straight . i pointed out that aside from all the guys on his friends list, the title on his profile heading stated he wanted tvs and bi guys in local area !! he said it was still a mistake .i pointed out that sexuality is just a tick the box on the set up and not rocket science ,and heading was ut in by himself (and both could be "corected" by profile edit)he was STILL adiment he was straight! he continued the outraged bluster ill i copy and pasted the heading from his profile and he left the site lol !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe if their spouses find out they'd be in even deeper shit for playing away with the same sex!

Most would be toast anyway, if mine found out I would be sucking cock, trouble is it would be my own.

Read your profile ,you don't meet bi's, so the men I and on about would slip under your radar.

What I am saying is the sexual preference on a profile counts for nothing. Most people are astute enough as I am sure you are to realise that.

Unless of course they land up with shoulder bag, high heels and wearing makeup and give themselves away.

You will never know, if that cock you are sucking was in a bum a few hours before.

( no jokes about washing it please

Read again, my profile says I DO play with bi's males and females.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Makes me giggle the amount of male profile with *straight* on it, then scroll down to see a friend list full of males, and even a single verification from a guy from a meet!

But hey each to their own, does not bother me, just makes me giggle!"

I have seen that too! Only it was just one friend a TV/TS and the same person had verified him.

Guys be honest... and ladies too come to that!

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

What is being honest? Who are we to demand that someone put whether they are bi or not on their profile? Their sexuality is their business, if you feel they are being "dishonest" then block them. Just because someone doesn't tell you about there sexual preferences doesn't make them a "liar". We are all liars in one form or another lying whether its a little white lie or a big lie is still lying therefore we are all liars...but I digress; To each their own whom am I to judge that.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

errmm am i missing something ??? what has a persons sexuality got to do with anyone on a swinging site..... well alot lol !!!

as for your excuse people fib all the time ...well some may do but why lie about your sexuality on a swing site ?? only reason is for the one and only purpose to mislead people and being blantent dishonest . yes up to a person if they lie or not as only themselves who lookidiots when they are found out ,but dont try and pretty it up or justify it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There stands a good reason for a name and shame board and for people to report profiles if they turn out to be wrong. And to all ladies theres a guy whos profile may full of lies. Guess you going to get hundreds of meets now, erm not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh erm, he's hidden his profile. Wonder why?

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

LMAO right now my profile is hidden because my daughter is visiting from the States, you can rest assured that on the 20 my profile will be available again. As for prettying it up...as I stated before a white lie or big lie is still a lie. So before we all start calling people liars ask yourself what little white lie have I told today. i.e. your (spouse,gf,bf whatever) ask you what's wrong and you say nothing (even though something is wrong) is a lie. But I digress what ever the preference is for sex is their business, and on second thought I'll open up my profile right now.

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Wow so I'm blocked from you, but you want to see my profile that's genius!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i blocked it anyway. I have no wish to see your profile.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"LMAO right now my profile is hidden because my daughter is visiting from the States, you can rest assured that on the 20 my profile will be available again. As for prettying it up...as I stated before a white lie or big lie is still a lie. So before we all start calling people liars ask yourself what little white lie have I told today. i.e. your (spouse,gf,bf whatever) ask you what's wrong and you say nothing (even though something is wrong) is a lie. But I digress what ever the preference is for sex is their business, and on second thought I'll open up my profile right now."

a hamless little white lie " no dear you bum looks same as it did when you were 20 " ..to be tactfull is COMPLETLY different to a blatent lie about your sexuality ! the people deliebratly mislading and lying to people over their sexuality is as i pointed out purely for their own gains ! now try and justify that as you will but thats wrong ! if you found out a woman you were talking to was actually a guy im sure youd be up in arms at being lied to and misled ...well no difference

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think your sexual orientation has a big part to play on a swing site

Sorry but that's my opinion...It is lying to say your straight when you are infact bi....It is misleading and I would not play with someone who was a blatant liar. I would rather play with someone who is comfortable with his sexuality and not hiding it away.

Ps just my thoughts.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

At the end of the day, from years on these sites and general internet, people pretend as if not dealing with real people, and say what they think people want to here, so that they can get their 'wicked' way

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

if in fact would I be up in arms and ready to fight ummm no Sorry I'm way to old to be getting that pissed off about anything. I'd say wow thanks for wasting both of our times...and move on. Like I said before a lie is still a lie no matter how small or how big it is and forever will be a lie.

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I agree

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By *ilmiss75Woman
over a year ago

Thornton

"Makes me giggle the amount of male profile with *straight* on it, then scroll down to see a friend list full of males, and even a single verification from a guy from a meet!

But hey each to their own, does not bother me, just makes me giggle!"

Yeh... what I don't understand is guys who have 'straight' on profiles but have a list of verifications from TV's saying they had a great time!!!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"if in fact would I be up in arms and ready to fight ummm no Sorry I'm way to old to be getting that pissed off about anything. I'd say wow thanks for wasting both of our times...and move on. Like I said before a lie is still a lie no matter how small or how big it is and forever will be a lie."

so every lie is wrong in your book no matter what .so with your thinking if i was cheat on my husband and lie to him about where i was going that is just as bad as me telling my daughter theres a father christmas !!! please !! the lil white lies people tell are harless and for no personal gain . the others are purely done with intention of misleading an other for your own personal gains and selfishness ! complety different things !

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

That depends on who is being lie to and how that person takes it. I can see if you can easily tell a little white lie like that what's stopping you from telling a big lie!

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Are you saying its okay to lie or its only okay to lie depending on the circumstances and situation?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Labels makes me laugh

If i meets someone and they tick me boxes and i ticks theirs i couldn't care less if they are straight or not lol xx

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

errmm my morals and sense of right and wrong like most folks have lol !!

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Are you saying its okay to lie or its only okay to lie depending on the circumstances and situation?"

think ive made my _iew very clear through out my posts lol

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By *azmissy67Woman
over a year ago

welshpool area

bi, straight or Australian i dont mind as long as they tick my boxes and have a cock lol x

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By *hristopher WalksMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Yes you have, you think lying is okay...to each their own.

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

"Yes you have, you think lying is okay...to each their own."

yes ive told white lies and as you pointed out EVERYONE has ,that will include yourself too . do i apologise for that ..hell nope . do i lie about being straight when im bi in order to get meets i otherwise wouldnt ...of course not ! most adults will know the line between a harmless white lie to save persons feelings and being tactfull to the blatent lies designed to mislead lead someone for your own gain ,as ive pointe out before vastly different !

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By *ensual temptressWoman
over a year ago

Southampton

form dictonary

white lie

n : an unimportant lie (especially one told to be tactful or

polite)

A lie (also called prevarication, falsehood) is a type of deception in the form of an untruthful statement, especially with the intention to deceive others.

hope that clears any confusion for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"form dictonary

white lie

n : an unimportant lie (especially one told to be tactful or

polite)

A lie (also called prevarication, falsehood) is a type of deception in the form of an untruthful statement, especially with the intention to deceive others.

hope that clears any confusion for you "

So they are liars then yes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is being honest? Who are we to demand that someone put whether they are bi or not on their profile? Their sexuality is their business, if you feel they are being "dishonest" then block them. Just because someone doesn't tell you about there sexual preferences doesn't make them a "liar". We are all liars in one form or another lying whether its a little white lie or a big lie is still lying therefore we are all liars...but I digress; To each their own whom am I to judge that.

I have met dozens of people from FAB, and doubt that any have been 100% honest (myself included). The number of couples who slip up & call each other different names from their profile, definite age/body discrepancies, names on key-rings that don't match profiles, They are not really lies, but attempts at discretion. The less people know, the less likely that 's@@t' hits the fan. If you believe what people are saying/writing, and believe your own 'filters' are 100% reliable, you are kidding yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't hold what people choose on a drop down list as a definitive list to be adhered to at all times.

I would imagine that a guy putting straight on a profile means that he is generally looking for a female to play with. That doesn't mean that if a scenario arose he is never allowed to ever suck cock.

Sexuality is not defined by what happens in a half hour orgy at a club or a couple of hours on a one to one meet.

People are not obliged to tell you ab out ev ery single meet or sexual practice they have partaken in.

The profile is a guideline only not a contract set in stone. Talk to the person and be happy about what could be potentially taking place and on offer for your own personal meet - don't worry about what's happened with others - agree your own rules.

People are not lying or ashamed, they have absolutely no obligation to you. As long as they don't mislead in relation to what you've agreed on etc, then why worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are not lying or ashamed, they have absolutely no obligation to you. As long as they don't mislead in relation to what you've agreed on etc, then why worry

Succinct and excellent. I wish this could become the mantra of everyone using this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my profile I have my sexuality has bisexual.

I often get “invites” from men to meet up, when I check out their profile I find they have their sexuality as STRAIGHT?

I always message them backing thanking them for contacting me, but then ask them why have they got their sexuality on their profile as straight? I never receive a reply or answer, wonder why?

Couples and women who state on their profiles, “no bisexuals” are being hood winked.

That so called “straight man”, could have been having gay sex, hours before meeting you.

We always say thanks but no thanks to bi ppl who state straight on their profiles, some then change their status and say ' there you, see I am bi' ... Ooops I hit the delete/block button ... lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never labelled myself in any way, one size fits all for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people change their sexual status cos they are greedy and want to be open to all options. they're scared of missing an opportunity and model their profiles / updates to provide what they believe will give them the best results in terms of interest and response.

alas, whatever you put it will disillusion some people so you're never gonna be attractive to everyone irregardless of your status.

therefore, best being honest and upront.

those that are interested will come forward. them that aren't won't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At last....someone talking some sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have no problem with anyone's sexuality, but believe honesty to be the best policy *shudders at cliche*

Our profile states we are looking for orally bi guys only, not because he is bi or gay, but because we both love sucking cock, and sharing together.

It does limit the number of guys who contact us - having initially been on here as straight when first started swinging, but our preferences changed. It still amazes us how many 'straight' guys contact us, who must be afraid or worried about showing their bi side. Guess it's each to his own *shudders at another cliche*!

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I notice that one poster stated they had morals. Well regardless of morals if they met a person with selective bi-ness, straight, or what and had sex with them would it matter to the receiving woman at all?

It seems to us that the only person such a thing should impact on is the man of the couple. You still have a choice yes or no, but sitting in judgement of others is best forgotten and left aside as we are all alleged equals on this site .

I am sure the reason this situation prevails is purely this judicial trait people use as yet another excuse to debase and repel single males.

One very commendable trait of MSM and LGBT community members is their passiveness and non-agression tendencies when compared to mainstream heterosexuals.. this I consider a positive aspect in suitability.

Additionally, for every male trying to get his own wicked way, there is a predory female on this site engaged in the same wicked enterprise.

The OP mentioned hood winking ... is this a new female technique I've been unaware of all these years.. Do girls make passes at men with long lashes? lol

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"alas, whatever you put it will disillusion some people so you're never gonna be attractive to everyone irregardless of your status.

therefore, best being honest and upront.

those that are interested will come forward. them that aren't won't !"

...and there you have it!

You really can't have it all ways. EVERY day there are threads about people not reading profiles etc.

Reading some of the comments here why should they if it's all make believe? How are people to know that "straight" to some means not wanting a same sex relationship but in a group setting they'll suck and fuck everyone in the vicinity as opposed to those of us that do not want a same sex relationship OR be touched in any sexual way by someone of the same sex?

We will not appeal to everyone and all tastes are catered for. I don't understand why people confuse things and make it difficult!

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By *essiCouple
over a year ago

suffolk

the key is honesty...to urself and whoever u meet, this is afterall meant to be fun....we have bi friends and bi friendly is such fun..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok a scenario - I'm a straight woman and I love men but one day I wake up and think I want a one on one session with a lesbian. Don't want a bi female in a couple who is doing this for a show for the guys but a fully fledged lesbian.

I message a woman, she sees my straight status, I explain I want to have an experience with a lesbian, just the once for experimental purposes. She agrees to participate.

I meet the woman, we play, thank you very much, not gonna see her again. Do I change my straight status to gay because of the couple of hours I spent with her, to satisfy you lot who judge me and tell me I'm ashamed or misleading you all and I'm in denial. If I change it no sexy guys will message me again and I will receive messages forever from gay women whom I don't wish to further interact with.

My obligation to Fab users is this:

I'm a woman

I look like my pictures and they are recent pics

My body shape is as described

If agreed I will turn up for a meet

I will provide a contact no for emergencies

I will play by the rules we have agreed

I will not attempt to try a sexual practice we have not agreed upon

I will play safe with you

I will be discreet and not divulge personal details or information of the meet

That the terms I play by, what I've done previously or what you've done is of no concern to me

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

Sexuality isn't a clear cut 3 box label for life.... yet it is amazing just how many seem to think it is.

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By *urreyfun2008Man
over a year ago

East Grinstead

"I will play by the rules we have agreed

I will not attempt to try a sexual practice we have not agreed upon

I will play safe with you

Which is something some of us do adhere to, it can seem a bit business like setting out ground rules, but believe it does avoid problems later.

Alas some are good at lying, and thus people assume bi or bi-curious cannot play it straight sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And of course some small minded male half of couples will believe that a bi guy will automatically try and have sex with them, regardless of the fact that he has a big belly, hairy arse and a small cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And of course some small minded male half of couples will believe that a bi guy will automatically try and have sex with them, regardless of the fact that he has a big belly, hairy arse and a small cock

Couldn't bare to get rejected by blokes as well as by women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

lmao, exactly and well put, just because im greedy doesnt mean i want a small one etc, i just go with the flow as do other bi guys and bi women, there has to be a spark there, not just its a cock ill suck it and vica versa.

Being a bi guy in a swinging scenario doesnt mean you jump on every guy or that i would date someone, have to say the ammount of so called "straight" guys in couples that love cock is astounding!! the amount of couples contacting me for me to let them suck me is more than you would think!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being bi must be like being a chocolate addict

I love Galaxy and would kill for a Walnut Whip, but I wouldn't thank you for a Caramac

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By *ulesw1lkoMan
over a year ago

Stockport

Bisexual and proud.

Ginger and proud too...

And there is alot of guys who are straight asking for fun... I always make a point of asking why if they are straight, and perhaps oddly, they blame "unconvincing trannies" (their words) chasing them...

Hey ho

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexual and proud.

Ginger and proud too...

Hey ho"

lol ive had that excuse and others

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Straight as a dyke me.

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By *uckylickyCouple
over a year ago

stoke on trent

wow what a read that all was lol i think you should just worry about what you have agreed to do when you meet and not worry about sexual orientation it dosnt matter all these labels are a nightmare tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexual and proud.

Ginger and proud too...

Hey ho

lol ive had that excuse and others

i don't buy that one

a simple line along the line of no TV/TS usually suffices.

if that doesn't work then block TV/TS from sending you messages.

why not just say 'cos i quite like cock but i don't want people to know' ?

dunno bout u boys but i'd respect that approach more than a BS answer ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, people should say who and what they are. After all, this site is about fulfilling fantasties, and experiencing sexual freedom.

If you can't be yourself on your profile, then where can you be yourself. If a couple won't play with you because your bi, then move on!!

And I say this as someone who has not played with anyone since coming back on here a few months ago and has suffered the 'we don't play with bi guys'.

Don't fret about it!

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

if your bi then embrace it, there are enough people on here who accept it and love it (me being one of them). i love to see two guys together and, altho ive only had 2 pussies myself, love the feeling of a warm moist pussy to lick and slide my fingers into.

people like honesty and if you cant give that then dont expect to have many meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bisexual and proud.

Ginger and proud too...

Hey ho"

Hmmmm....The truth will out

Guys mostly put straight on here purely because a lot of women do not like meeting bi guys..Simples

I am a bi or more gay Tv, I love sex with men or women but most of the guys I have met on here are married or say they are straight..

One thing they are most certainly not when I am getting a good filling from them..lol x

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

good topic even though it has been 'done' before and will do again.

we had a 3some with one particular orally bi guy from here and it was great fun, thought he may be married etc but try not to judge.

then we contacted a str8 M and bi curious Fem cpl as we liked the look of their profile, all ticking along nicely and they were interested also.

We let them know that we respect cpl's with str8 guys and adhere to that if we get to the point where we do play. They were quite insistant on that which is fine with us.

Swapped pics off site etc and lo and behold its matey the very orally single guy we recently played with!

Then we get blocked and deleted, had to assume it was the Fem doing the organising who then showed him the pics.

He certainly did'nt have his str8 head on when with us lol, can only assume one day things may come out and it will go pear shaped.

If you cant be honest with the one you love etc....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On my profile I have my sexuality has bisexual.

I often get “invites” from men to meet up, when I check out their profile I find they have their sexuality as STRAIGHT?

I always message them backing thanking them for contacting me, but then ask them why have they got their sexuality on their profile as straight? I never receive a reply or answer, wonder why?

Couples and women who state on their profiles, “no bisexuals” are being hood winked.

That so called “straight man”, could have been having gay sex, hours before meeting you.

even worse they could be having gay sex with you and you dont even know it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you fuck somebody up the arse are you bi?

If they give you a BJ are you bi?

What if they're women? It's still just anal and a BJ so it could be a bloke. Which makes you GAY GAY GAY Hahahahahahaha, run away ands label yourself quickly.

If you tie your wife up with a scarf one night are you into BDSM?

Give me your straighties, your curious-about-anals, your lovers of the female form, for I am their gurl.

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Be yourself and stop worrying about what others might think. the ones that meet you are the important ones, not those that don't or won't because of some label or preference on their part.

I (*him*) know I'm no threat to a straight guy in a 3-4some situation, as I am 100% respectful of boundaries, but if he is uncomfortable with it, it'll probably cast a mood over proceedings and cause issues for all.

Re: the honesty issues - never really bothered. The most genuine people could carry STIs after all, so it really is a case of looking out for yourself. If someone's married or bi and pretends they're single or straight, it won't matter to us as long as the sex is good...

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