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By *roticGoddessXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

Richmond

Pardon the language please....

Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).

This was a social, get to know you thing.

I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!

All I can say is....MEN.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think us women will ever fully understand men lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

SOME men......

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

It's happened to me before. It makes me think these guys like the thrill of the chase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes wish I wasn't represented by men!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're not all like that lol.

It may be genuine but probably just a time waster.

Give him the benefit of the doubt but I think you'll have to move on xxx

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

It happens. It could be a family emergency, or he may have cold feet. I would just leave it and if and when he wants to get in touch with you he will.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only some though! X

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

We have had this two times...I got dressed up and waited ! His loss...keyboard wankers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pardon the language please....

Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).

This was a social, get to know you thing.

I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!

All I can say is....MEN.

"

it sucks being let down, but bit unfair to generalise all 'men' under same leaf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am never suprised how people are on here at times, I used to get irritated, but after I had 2 no shows from woman, I just expect the worst from the off

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth

Seven hells.

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

The true question is how to separate the idiot's from the genuine people (male AND female)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always wonder why this happens, I'll message after that maybe once and then leave it

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By *roticGoddessXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

Richmond

He seemed like a nice, friendly type, not pushy, et al.

His idea to meet! It was just social, so why the cold feet????? ah well....

people are who they are.

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By *haliaValuptusCouple
over a year ago

preston

We've had it a few times too hot all dressed up waiting like an idiot! It can be quite disheartening xx

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By *corpio67Man
over a year ago

hillingdon

Maybe they are just afraid of rejection when you tell them your not compatible?

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By *eonlylive1seCouple
over a year ago

Atherstone

It's really annoying, we had been chatting to a guy for a few weeks, he invited us to his house the following week, Mrs spent hours getting ready and I was messaging with him up to about two hours before we were leaving

With the last one saying we would be there about 8 ish just need your address. Still waiting for a reply (blocked named and shamed) so that won't be happening

put us off meeting single guys for ages, getting back into it now tho'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pardon the language please....

Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).

This was a social, get to know you thing.

I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!

All I can say is....MEN.

"

We get bored easily, may I suggest you put a little extra legwork into keeping us ''men' interested.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Some men loose interest at the suggestion of a social first, I'd say they're the ones just here for sex not swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some men loose interest at the suggestion of a social first, I'd say they're the ones just here for sex not swinging "

Men, looking for sex! on this site!!!!!!

Outrageous!!!!!!!!!

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

the problem is these 'men' giving a bad reputation makes it even harder for us nice guys to meet up with people without their defences being sky high

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By *ighland gentlemanMan
over a year ago

Ardgay

Can't understand it myself, seems to be a lot of folk complaining about they can't get a meet in the first place and then you get the threads about folk not showing or chickening out.

Guess have been lucky in a 100% shows for meets arranged.

Well 2 out of 2 anyway

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By *altnpeppaCouple
over a year ago

London

I think there are too many on here who get off on chatting, talking dirty and making plans but can never follow through.

Had a great chat a couple of days ago with a single guy who wanted to fuck my wife (who wouldn't?). Left it at let's make a plan in the coming days. Went to write to him yesterday to firm up and he is "user no longer on site".

Not as bad as a no show I suppose...

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

No doubt he will be here next week complaining he can't get a meet

Sorry to hear it OP, timewasters are the worst

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Pardon the language please....

Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).

This was a social, get to know you thing.

I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!

All I can say is....MEN.

"
does he know what you look like or you him?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves"

I do like your profile pic....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves

I do like your profile pic.... "
thanks

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

It's happened to me too OP. Except mine arranged the social then didn't turn up!

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville


"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves

I do like your profile pic.... thanks "

I didn't mean you Trademark!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves

I do like your profile pic.... thanks

I didn't mean you Trademark!? "
trade what ? Bodies maybe ......ok

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

Happens with couples too ..chat yes let's arrange something they go quiet and ignore messages ..

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh


"There are plenty who just want the chat and the chase and I get that, but if they were honest about it in sure there are plenty of people who would gladly take that. Still makes it harder for everyone else having to prove themselves

I do like your profile pic.... "

I desperately need some new better pics but im a mechanic and the fine art of photography is lost on me lol

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

All this carnage going on, meanwhile normal nice guys can't even meet for socials due to mistrust and bad reputation. I do hate some of the guys on this site!

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover


"All this carnage going on, meanwhile normal nice guys can't even meet for socials due to mistrust and bad reputation. I do hate some of the guys on this site!"

I reckon it's entirely my responsibility as to how I get on here...nothing to do with anyone else

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By *retend_Shy_GuyMan
over a year ago

Edinburgh

It's a good attitude to have. Im still fairly new to the meeting side of fab so I try not to expect too much anyway,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it a man thing? Couples and single women behave in this way. Most single men I know suck it up, block and move on. It is one of the many fab facts of life which is standard for single men and this fab fact states "expect nothing and you will not be disappointed".

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By *roticGoddessXX OP   Woman
over a year ago

Richmond


"Pardon the language please....

Chatted all early afternoon (and have for a few weeks) with someone, hoped and planned to meet up for a social this evening, then he goes quiet after we agree to meet up, hasn't blocked me, just not reading/answering messages (which haven't been extensive, just one "where have you gone" sort of thing).

This was a social, get to know you thing.

I thought only men pretending to be women did this sort of thing, this is a first for me!

All I can say is....MEN.

We get bored easily, may I suggest you put a little extra legwork into keeping us ''men' interested."

Contrary to the belief of some, I am NOT here to be anyone's boredom relief.

I am here for my own entertainment, no one else's, and I, for one, have never ever stood anyone up or agreed to a meet and then ignored the person.

I DO like a man with enough brains that he is capable of using it. Any man relying on me to overcome his own lack of a life can move right along. He probably doesn't even know what he's missing.

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

Don't think it's a man thing per say , think it's a certain type of person on fab thing.

Thrill of the chase , not 100% committed to the idea, waiting on a better option , fantasists ...

Any and more

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)


"Only some though! X"

That's true but 'some' is still too many.

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