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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.

Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Patience and time....

Or do a search for people within your age range.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I moved mine to 25 when I turned 40 as men younger then 25 often are immature emotionally.

PTU xxx

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

Plenty of hot women looking for younger guys to abuse... look around young padwan

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"I moved mine to 25 when I turned 40 as men younger then 25 often are immature emotionally.

PTU xxx "

Which is why I'm not complaining as such because I understand, just not all of us

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"

Plenty of hot women looking for younger guys to abuse... look around young padwan "

double my efforts to search I must!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried any clubs? Xtasia and the Attic both not too far from you

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

Not yet, will be definitely looking to go when I build up the brass to turn up on my own.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Patience and time....

Or do a search for people within your age range. "

Cheers, mate!

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By *hortieWoman
over a year ago

Northampton

keep an eye out in the 'meet and party requests' forum for local Fab socials. Put your name down. Go along. Wow people face to face. Job done.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Not yet, will be definitely looking to go when I build up the brass to turn up on my own."

Set your expectations accordingly or grow a pair

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

The only age group I rarely see complain about being excluded are the 35 to 45 year old guys. Clubs, socials and tailored searches are the way forward probably.

Good luck.

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Patience and time....

Or do a search for people within your age range.

Cheers, mate! "

Sorry bud! My simple search made me arrive at this conclusion as numbers of results fall pretty dramatically

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.

Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph."

Without sounding facetious, get a partner...

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"The only age group I rarely see complain about being excluded are the 35 to 45 year old guys. Clubs, socials and tailored searches are the way forward probably.

Good luck."

I better get my ass out to meet some real people then, thanks for the advice!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a hard life being so young.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex


"The only age group I rarely see complain about being excluded are the 35 to 45 year old guys. Clubs, socials and tailored searches are the way forward probably.

Good luck.

I better get my ass out to meet some real people then, thanks for the advice!"

Truth is its down to getting your personality across in many cases. I think you'll do well, you're responding with humour and none of the aggression that can sometimes creep in.

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"The only age group I rarely see complain about being excluded are the 35 to 45 year old guys. Clubs, socials and tailored searches are the way forward probably.

Good luck.

I better get my ass out to meet some real people then, thanks for the advice!

Truth is its down to getting your personality across in many cases. I think you'll do well, you're responding with humour and none of the aggression that can sometimes creep in."

Appreciated

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although I don't face the under-25 issue, age restrictions do hinder me with some women that grab my attention.

I'll just reiterate what everyone else has said and emphasise that patience is key. You seem like a nice guy, which puts you ahead of the ranters and abusive d bags IMO.

Good luck, mon.

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Although I don't face the under-25 issue, age restrictions do hinder me with some women that grab my attention.

I'll just reiterate what everyone else has said and emphasise that patience is key. You seem like a nice guy, which puts you ahead of the ranters and abusive d bags IMO.

Good luck, mon."

Thanks mate, yeah I've encountered a couple of those. Nobody can argue that fabs doesn't pull in people from every corner of society.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

All been said here... socials... forums really good to get your personality across and also clubs and local meets where possible

You'll do fine, got a good attitude and seem a nice lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.

Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph."

I'd avoid that particular type of tine travel, thing is always breaking and a bugger to hide. Have you considered other choices? Stuey Griffin time travelling device? Or even a Tardis?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stick around the forums, people's preferences often become more flexible when a person comes across well. This thread and your reaction are a world away from the stroppy tantrums that are often seen on here which cam only cast you in a good light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I understand your struggles but as many have said, patience is key. I now have a few meets with couples planned now! Guys are always easy to meet though

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"

All been said here... socials... forums really good to get your personality across and also clubs and local meets where possible

You'll do fine, got a good attitude and seem a nice lad "

Cheers! All these compliments im going to have to start buying people drinks at socials

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.

Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph.

I'd avoid that particular type of tine travel, thing is always breaking and a bugger to hide. Have you considered other choices? Stuey Griffin time travelling device? Or even a Tardis?"

I didn't want to risk being busted by a gang of darleks mid romp but now stewies device is a great idea... anyone got the quahog yellow pages?

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Stick around the forums, people's preferences often become more flexible when a person comes across well. This thread and your reaction are a world away from the stroppy tantrums that are often seen on here which cam only cast you in a good light"

Appreciate the advice, you will be seeing more of me floating around the forums then. For better or worse

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"

All been said here... socials... forums really good to get your personality across and also clubs and local meets where possible

You'll do fine, got a good attitude and seem a nice lad "

All this can help remove your age as a barrier. Remember it's only a barrier to some on here, not all and the benefits of being young in the real world far outweigh the disadvantages on here. Just think, you'll be around in at least the year 2080 - in fact.....look out for my new thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

All been said here... socials... forums really good to get your personality across and also clubs and local meets where possible

You'll do fine, got a good attitude and seem a nice lad

Cheers! All these compliments im going to have to start buying people drinks at socials "

I don't drink, so water will do just fine!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's not entirely true OP, I have met two 21 year olds in the past week. Their stamina is unrivalled!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Stick around the forums, people's preferences often become more flexible when a person comes across well. This thread and your reaction are a world away from the stroppy tantrums that are often seen on here which cam only cast you in a good light

Appreciate the advice, you will be seeing more of me floating around the forums then. For better or worse "

Good attitude to have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your posts are well written..polite..taking on advice ..no abuse... showing maturity your going to do just fine xx

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"

All been said here... socials... forums really good to get your personality across and also clubs and local meets where possible

You'll do fine, got a good attitude and seem a nice lad

Cheers! All these compliments im going to have to start buying people drinks at socials

I don't drink, so water will do just fine! "

Fantastic I'll get you two!

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton

I've had one or two 21 year olds and have no problem meeting more obviously they have to be the right ones.

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"That's not entirely true OP, I have met two 21 year olds in the past week. Their stamina is unrivalled!"

I agree I definitely can't paint everyone with the same brush, just my own observation from my limited experience. I'm glad other 21 year olds are doing their bit to represent us well! haha

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Great advice here and fantastic reception from you op. You will be successful - I'd put money on it.

It's not your question but it tends to take single guys a long time to become established and find meets more easily - hence others mentioning patience.

Meet us socially as well as for potential fbs - you can get verified etc. Often a strategy with multiple lines of attack can be more productive than just sticking with one.

The west midlands is a great place for swinging - we have it all here

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Stick around the forums, people's preferences often become more flexible when a person comes across well. This thread and your reaction are a world away from the stroppy tantrums that are often seen on here which cam only cast you in a good light

Appreciate the advice, you will be seeing more of me floating around the forums then. For better or worse

Good attitude to have "

Thank you

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Your posts are well written..polite..taking on advice ..no abuse... showing maturity your going to do just fine xx"

Feeling much more optimistic thank you

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"I've had one or two 21 year olds and have no problem meeting more obviously they have to be the right ones. "

Naturally, even from my crowd in the "real world" there are some strange ones about

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Great advice here and fantastic reception from you op. You will be successful - I'd put money on it.

It's not your question but it tends to take single guys a long time to become established and find meets more easily - hence others mentioning patience.

Meet us socially as well as for potential fbs - you can get verified etc. Often a strategy with multiple lines of attack can be more productive than just sticking with one.

The west midlands is a great place for swinging - we have it all here "

Noted I think you will definitely see me around once I have more time away from university

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By *he girl with dreadlocksWoman
over a year ago

need to know basis in Wolverhampton


"I've had one or two 21 year olds and have no problem meeting more obviously they have to be the right ones.

Naturally, even from my crowd in the "real world" there are some strange ones about "

There's no age limit on strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Great advice here and fantastic reception from you op. You will be successful - I'd put money on it.

It's not your question but it tends to take single guys a long time to become established and find meets more easily - hence others mentioning patience.

Meet us socially as well as for potential fbs - you can get verified etc. Often a strategy with multiple lines of attack can be more productive than just sticking with one.

The west midlands is a great place for swinging - we have it all here "

I'm yet to hit the club scene myself, but as the summers approaching, it's an inevitable outcome.

As you say, the midlands is a hot bed, so I'm onto a winner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had one or two 21 year olds and have no problem meeting more obviously they have to be the right ones.

Naturally, even from my crowd in the "real world" there are some strange ones about

There's no age limit on strange "

This!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central


"Great advice here and fantastic reception from you op. You will be successful - I'd put money on it.

It's not your question but it tends to take single guys a long time to become established and find meets more easily - hence others mentioning patience.

Meet us socially as well as for potential fbs - you can get verified etc. Often a strategy with multiple lines of attack can be more productive than just sticking with one.

The west midlands is a great place for swinging - we have it all here

Noted I think you will definitely see me around once I have more time away from university "

I'm glad my semester is coming to a close too

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By *TFSeventyMan
over a year ago

Weybridge


"Not yet, will be definitely looking to go when I build up the brass to turn up on my own."

Clubbing alone isn't that scary once you've been the first time and if you become a regular you'll always see people you know eventually. Give it a go you'll be surprised.

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"I've had one or two 21 year olds and have no problem meeting more obviously they have to be the right ones.

Naturally, even from my crowd in the "real world" there are some strange ones about

There's no age limit on strange "

ah touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try being 20

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Try being 20 "

You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being 20

You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!! "

GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!

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By *piritsonfabCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Your body and attitude... head to a club, you'll do fine

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Your body and attitude... head to a club, you'll do fine "

All smoke and mirrors really This thread has placed it firmly on my to do list .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.

Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph."

I'm sure you're not old enough to remember that movie

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


"Try being 20

You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!

GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!"

Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!

Bring it on!!

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By *entleman55Man
over a year ago

S’th West Mc/r

Just wait till you are 57 !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet many youngters - then ended up in a three year relationship with a guy from here who was 20 years younger. He was 18 when we met. However he seemed to get progressively more immature as he grew up ! Lol

Its put me off the young guys for now ..... but never say never

You look and sound nice OP - good luck xx

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire


"Try being 20 "

He did, a year ago

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

Don't worry about it. When you get to my age, you'll be sad that your too old for some profiles.

It's swings and roundabouts.

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Seems as though every profile I find most ladies lower age ranges are set at 24-25. Now I fully understand and can appreciate why people do it, I just feel like I've found fabs 3-4 years too soon.

Anyone have any suggestions for me that don't require me to build a flux capacitor and drive at 88mph.

I'm sure you're not old enough to remember that movie "

Fortunately for me it became a staple christmas movie

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Just wait till you are 57 !!! "

Haha stick around I'll let you know how it goes

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"I used to meet many youngters - then ended up in a three year relationship with a guy from here who was 20 years younger. He was 18 when we met. However he seemed to get progressively more immature as he grew up ! Lol

Its put me off the young guys for now ..... but never say never

You look and sound nice OP - good luck xx "

Seems like you found a curious case of behavioural Benjamin Button! Thank you anyway im hopeful x

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


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Plenty of hot women looking for younger guys to abuse... look around young padwan

double my efforts to search I must! "

May the Force be with you Youngling.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"Try being 20 "

I so wish! Lol now the old chestnut, if i knew then what i know now. Lol

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire


"Try being 20

You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!

GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!

Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!

Bring it on!!"

No spoilers I still need to catch up on sesson 5.

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown

You'll do fine mate... You're already displaying more humour and maturity than most 'look at me' posters.

I'm willing to bet you'll have several approaches by the end of the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being 20

You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!

GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!

Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!

Bring it on!!

No spoilers I still need to catch up on sesson 5."

I binged the hell outta the final two seasons in three days when I was behind! Enjoy!

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?"

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"You'll do fine mate... You're already displaying more humour and maturity than most 'look at me' posters.

I'm willing to bet you'll have several approaches by the end of the day.

"

Sir I think you owe me a drink! but thank you, it's reassuring to know.

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"Try being 20

You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!

GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!

Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!

Bring it on!!

No spoilers I still need to catch up on sesson 5."

Just remember to hold the door

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Try being 20

You know nothing Jon Snow!!!!!

GoT references are doing nothing to quell my excitement for the new season!

Tell me about it... 16thcof July for the first new episode !!!

Bring it on!!

No spoilers I still need to catch up on sesson 5.

Just remember to hold the door "

Heartbreaking scene!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me "

OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.

Mrs

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me

OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.

Mrs"

An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me

OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.

Mrs

An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach. "

Your age will be against you if it's the broader swing scene you are into, but maybe try getting to a club or organised social and see what happens. The fact that you are not looking for MF couples either will make it more difficult for you to experience something more than vanilla one-on-one sex. At clubs and parties, there's a lot of group sex and MFM threesomes, so if you could get your head round other men being present you are a step closer to experiencing something non-vanilla. But MFF are pretty much the holy grail - men and couple alike are looking for them. But if you just want kinkier sex with a lady friend, dont discount that from outside of Fab. You might be surprised at how many 'vanilla' women would be well up for something a bit different. It's not easy for single men to get a meet with a single woman on Fab, because there are simply not enough women to go round, so a lot of men will miss out purely due ratios. On the plus side, you won't be young forever.

Mrs

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me

OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.

Mrs

An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach.

Your age will be against you if it's the broader swing scene you are into, but maybe try getting to a club or organised social and see what happens. The fact that you are not looking for MF couples either will make it more difficult for you to experience something more than vanilla one-on-one sex. At clubs and parties, there's a lot of group sex and MFM threesomes, so if you could get your head round other men being present you are a step closer to experiencing something non-vanilla. But MFF are pretty much the holy grail - men and couple alike are looking for them. But if you just want kinkier sex with a lady friend, dont discount that from outside of Fab. You might be surprised at how many 'vanilla' women would be well up for something a bit different. It's not easy for single men to get a meet with a single woman on Fab, because there are simply not enough women to go round, so a lot of men will miss out purely due ratios. On the plus side, you won't be young forever.

Mrs"

Thanks a lot of good advice, im not against MMF but having never been in that situation i honestly don't know if I'd perform with the right build up I probably could

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me

OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.

Mrs

An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach.

Your age will be against you if it's the broader swing scene you are into, but maybe try getting to a club or organised social and see what happens. The fact that you are not looking for MF couples either will make it more difficult for you to experience something more than vanilla one-on-one sex. At clubs and parties, there's a lot of group sex and MFM threesomes, so if you could get your head round other men being present you are a step closer to experiencing something non-vanilla. But MFF are pretty much the holy grail - men and couple alike are looking for them. But if you just want kinkier sex with a lady friend, dont discount that from outside of Fab. You might be surprised at how many 'vanilla' women would be well up for something a bit different. It's not easy for single men to get a meet with a single woman on Fab, because there are simply not enough women to go round, so a lot of men will miss out purely due ratios. On the plus side, you won't be young forever.

Mrs

Thanks a lot of good advice, im not against MMF but having never been in that situation i honestly don't know if I'd perform with the right build up I probably could"

I would not advise a man to pursue MFM if they are not interested in it - from a couples point of view there is nothing worse than a man using a couple in order to have sex with the woman! However, if you want to experience non-vanilla that's the sort of thing that takes place in clubs. MFF is rare. Just to manage expectations.

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me

OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.

Mrs

An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach.

Your age will be against you if it's the broader swing scene you are into, but maybe try getting to a club or organised social and see what happens. The fact that you are not looking for MF couples either will make it more difficult for you to experience something more than vanilla one-on-one sex. At clubs and parties, there's a lot of group sex and MFM threesomes, so if you could get your head round other men being present you are a step closer to experiencing something non-vanilla. But MFF are pretty much the holy grail - men and couple alike are looking for them. But if you just want kinkier sex with a lady friend, dont discount that from outside of Fab. You might be surprised at how many 'vanilla' women would be well up for something a bit different. It's not easy for single men to get a meet with a single woman on Fab, because there are simply not enough women to go round, so a lot of men will miss out purely due ratios. On the plus side, you won't be young forever.

Mrs

Thanks a lot of good advice, im not against MMF but having never been in that situation i honestly don't know if I'd perform with the right build up I probably could

I would not advise a man to pursue MFM if they are not interested in it - from a couples point of view there is nothing worse than a man using a couple in order to have sex with the woman! However, if you want to experience non-vanilla that's the sort of thing that takes place in clubs. MFF is rare. Just to manage expectations. "

Good job I wasn't trying to actively pursue it I'm more laid back about the entire thing and I know im aware I was just listing things as examples.

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me

OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.

Mrs

An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach. "

He's a clever little shit this one ain't he!!

Dude you are going to have no issues on here. I'm going to be very surprised if you've not already got a few vaginas dripping with your great pics, and the attitude and maturity you've displayed will only fuel them cougars. I'd be even more surprise if a few of your "boxes" get ticked off within weeks!

Happy Fabbing kid! Played an absolute blinder lol

Aj

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me

OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.

Mrs

An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach.

He's a clever little shit this one ain't he!!

Dude you are going to have no issues on here. I'm going to be very surprised if you've not already got a few vaginas dripping with your great pics, and the attitude and maturity you've displayed will only fuel them cougars. I'd be even more surprise if a few of your "boxes" get ticked off within weeks!

Happy Fabbing kid! Played an absolute blinder lol

Aj "

Haha I'll take it and we can only hope!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"21, great physique, witty...????

Mate I'll swap you for a week, lad your age should be fighting em off each weekend, why the fuck would you frustrate yourself with this site?

Haha thanks bud, I'm not here because I struggle to get laid as such (although it's not even close to matching my libido), I'm just here to experience the less vanilla side of life and the kinds of women I wouldn't find on a typical night out. I don't feel the pressure to try and get some so I guess the frustration misses me

OP, just out of curiosity, what sort of non-vanilla stuff did you have in mind that you don't feel you can get from women that you meet in regular life. Are you sure single women on Fab are particularly different? Older maybe, and that of course might be what you were interested in.

Mrs

An older woman is some part of it I suppose, but I was referring to the entire experience than just the sex itself, socials, meets and parties with like minded people. As far as the sex is concerned for me as soon as it's put into a fabswinger context it's no longer truly a vanilla situation but I'd quite like to role play, use toys, experience an FFM (suprise) among other things I'm sure I'd be open to given the right approach. "

I'm pretty sure you can meet women like this on normal nights out?

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By *ot Wife and HubbyCouple
over a year ago

Preston

If you are ever my way id love to see you, Claire x

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By *nglishdoodMan
over a year ago

Morristown


"If you are ever my way id love to see you, Claire x"

I hope he sees this. Lucky kid!

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"If you are ever my way id love to see you, Claire x"

I may hold you to that. I don't mind the travel all that much as long as we plan x

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By *hooselife OP   Man
over a year ago

Coventry


"If you are ever my way id love to see you, Claire x

I hope he sees this. Lucky kid! "

Off to buy myself a lottery ticket

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