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By *ittlemorespice OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

I mean I think I am more cynical and maybe even more patient... who knows? I dont suffer fools gladly either but then I never did. Swinging has helped my confidence for sure but probably more in a general way and also having a lot to do with parties as well as meeting people from here.

eg... today a single guy first apologised for being a bit funny for a while as he had been trying to have a relationship but had now given up and was back for good. Seemed very surprised that I didnt remember him or know what he was talking about. Chatted and he started banging on about my meeting alone. I warned him that I block guys who pressure me to do that because Im not interested. He then started talking about sex etc and when I told him that we only play safe and with people who feel the same as us about it he replied that he still has a gf and only plays with gorgeous blondes anyway so is fussy but it depends on situation. He ended by saying I seem hard work? lol I replied that if not meeting alone or playing bareback was hard work than I was guilty as charged and he should take care. The thing that surprised me was that I couldnt stop laughing. I would have been a bit annoyed when we first joined but now find it hilarious! Thanks Fab for teaching me a few lessons! lol

Mistress x

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham

Have to say that I used to get annoyed at some of the messages I received when people hadn't read my requirements but now I just sigh and delete. Life is too short to stress out lol

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By *opeye-OliveCouple
over a year ago

worcester

So many ways...

- Our sex life is much more adventurous, and we talk about sex all the time now.

- We're buying nicer cloths (and underwear) for meets, socials, and ourselves.

- We feel younger

- We keep smiling to each other in non-swinging company.

Is this normal?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since we first went to a club and I was able to compare myself, physique wise, with guys my own age I realised that I wasn't in bad nick afterall and so, I can concur with the point already made about swinging increasing your self esteem.

We "people watch" when we're out and look for signs that other people may share the same pastime as us.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

No I have always been direct and candid underpinned with sensitivity.

Often I manage, sometimes I mess up. If I do, I apologise if I think it merits it.

I have learned that friendships may carry a 'best before' date... and that is cool. People sometimes flutter to the next flower where the pollen is richer.

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but i love it the same as I did when I joined, am just wiser.

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By *andKCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

until about 5 minutes ago we certainly argued less, but now because of another thread we can't even agree when we started swinging

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By *ittlemorespice OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"So many ways...

- Our sex life is much more adventurous, and we talk about sex all the time now.

- We're buying nicer cloths (and underwear) for meets, socials, and ourselves.

- We feel younger

- We keep smiling to each other in non-swinging company.

Is this normal? "

Yes absolutely and the odd little flippant comment is agonising not to collapse with laughter over.

Mistress x

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

It hasnt changed us really...but its nice to know there are a lot of non judgemental nice people out there.

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By *anba2Couple
over a year ago

burbage

I get a lot less housework done now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have more sex, but no meet yet. but had fun doing pix, before, during and after

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By *r n mrs swingCouple
over a year ago

pontefract


"I get a lot less housework done now!"

haha me too x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Things like that never cease to amaze me

The way some folk think lol xx

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By *inkyboots84Woman
over a year ago

east yorkshire


"I get a lot less housework done now!

haha me too x "

lol same here x

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By *scottMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Made me more confident in myself. But the best thing that has changed for me, is that without Fab, I would have never met my better half.

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By *iddytoxcplCouple
over a year ago

Stoke/Uttoxeter


"So many ways...

- Our sex life is much more adventurous, and we talk about sex all the time now.

- We're buying nicer cloths (and underwear) for meets, socials, and ourselves.

- We feel younger

- We keep smiling to each other in non-swinging company.

Is this normal? "

Yes this is us as well.

We are getting younger by the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being on fab and swingings really changed me

i was married when i started im single now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've learned that men are a lot more needy and very much more sensitive than I ever imagined which I find extremely endearing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

horny all the time instead of most of the time lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hasnt changed me yet but fingers crossed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much being on fab because I was already on sites but being a tgirl has certainly opened my eyes to the shortcomings of my genetic group.

Boys are mean.

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By *ittlemorespice OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Cornwall


"Not so much being on fab because I was already on sites but being a tgirl has certainly opened my eyes to the shortcomings of my genetic group.

Boys are mean."

Beyonce knows what you mean.....

Mistress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not changed me at all .. just helped me meet people from all over the uk x

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By *woBiTwoCouple
over a year ago

north manchester

Well, we get a lot more choice of pussy and cock than we used to!

We love the people watching more than previously, as we can both openly comment and admire other people of either sex without any fear of the green-eyed monster jumping out. And as Jack said, it's taught us that we're not bad-looking for our age etc!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its helped me to feel a little more confident in myself and my body, and also taught me to take people at face value until you get to know them.

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By *cotscpl66Couple
over a year ago

Glasgow


"I get a lot less housework done now!"

Same here lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It has made us more loving to each other, erm, perhaps that's the wrong term, but it has brought us closer, we were very close to start with so it's hard to explain!

It has certainly helped with our sex life, we are much more open to new things and it makes talking about things between us easier!!

Hope this makes sense but we know what we mean!!!

It certainly removes any chance of that green eyed monster turning up!!

And it makes us at ease and happy!!

Sorry for rambling absolute twollocks!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well my journey since being on this site has been interesting and a learning curve. Things that used to bother me no longer do particularly in the directing chat rooms. Am more than happy to remind the guys to say please if they want to direct me.

Have introduced a few single men to this site and get them started some have been.more successful than others.

Made some lovely friends and now on another journey as I only play as a couple now so we are looking to find other local couples in our area and hope to get a good circle of friends there too.

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By *penyoureyes2722Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

I now spend a fortune on underwear now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i now have bad eyesight looking at the blooming screen for hours on end ,

yes no social life here just you lot , ahhhh , my buddies realy

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By *amschwingerzCouple
over a year ago

West

Gave us something better to watch on a Saturday night!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why get stressed about replies on here. We are all swingers, something that our " moral society" doesn't approve of, we are all interested in things that are very different and obviously this attracts some people who are odd, weird or just pain stupid. Just ignore and delete them and continue to find the really great people, of which there are many, who enjoy the "different" pleasures in life that we as swingers are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a lot more underwear now.

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By *ap AdgeMan
over a year ago

Wirral

much more open paul

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have loads more sexy underwear and shoes and i am more open about what i like in bed

and i have met some amazing friends

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By *ittlemorespice OP   Couple
over a year ago

North Cornwall

How positive most are.

Mistress x

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