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On here for a month, still no contact whatsoever

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey,

Really keen to explore myself sexually but I've been here a month and still no interest. I'm still fairly new to all this so any advice would be appreciated!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

your profile says 5 months...and you have 4 words on your profile text...what do imagine people will respond to if there's nothing there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait longer

It's all about patience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait longer

It's all about patience"

This, however your profile does need a lot more content to make you standout from the hordes of other single men on here.

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Hey,

Really keen to explore myself sexually but I've been here a month and still no interest. I'm still fairly new to all this so any advice would be appreciated!"

The usual advice, write a profile that makes you stand out from all the other single guys and good luck!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I have no idea why the ladies are not rushing to meet you! Keep up the good work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be a girl.

It works for me

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Hey,

Really keen to explore myself sexually but I've been here a month and still no interest. I'm still fairly new to all this so any advice would be appreciated!"

Can you give a brief description of your expectations? It's often true that people join with unrealistic ideas.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wait longer

It's all about patience

This, however your profile does need a lot more content to make you standout from the hordes of other single men on here."

Agreed, your profile simply says your intrigued? Intrigued with what.... Exactly??

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

Your profile is your opportunity to sell yourself through words and pictures ... to make yourself as appealing as possible in the hope people might reply to your messages, or even send you one.

In all honesty there are so many men here, I skip straight over any profile which comes across as 'can't be bothered'. You can't expect people to be mind readers, or to do all the work for you. When I see profiles with barely any content *and* then see their owner(s) complaining about their Fab experience as well, it smacks of entitlement which will also go against you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have no idea why the ladies are not rushing to meet you! Keep up the good work "

- Mrs. J -

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By *ammyDodgaMan
over a year ago

Nottingham/and everywhere my location says i am ;)

Think like Guinness Pal.." Tick, goes tock, goes tick. Best things come to those who wait"

Now get off to the merchants and grab me a long weight. Haha

It will happen if you tick someone's box. But posting a woe is me, certainly don't help your chances..

But oooh wouldn't it be fun if every lady on here laid down her knickers and said yes

It's a swing site yes, but come on the chase still has to be there or it's no fun... ( respectfully chase though )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would you hand in a CV with that much effort and expect the job offers to come flying in?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I appreciate all of your feedback ?? I've made some changes. Is that better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appreciate all of your feedback ?? I've made some changes. Is that better?"

You need a profile pic

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY


"I appreciate all of your feedback ?? I've made some changes. Is that better?"

change that poor photo (selfies in a mirror never look good) find a nice face pic and use that,

women like to see a face, it makes a change from all the cock ones

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I appreciate all of your feedback ?? I've made some changes. Is that better?"

Your first paragraph doesn't need to be there. It smacks of disrespect to your previous partners.

The rest seems fine

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Who cares why you're here? Lose the negativity. No one likes a wet blanket

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"your profile says 5 months...and you have 4 words on your profile text...what do imagine people will respond to if there's nothing there?"

Dear OP - The current changes would not have me rushing to meet you. Whole thing seems to be all about what you want and not very inviting at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Patience is the key lol

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam. "

And the meets are piling up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam. "

Please be fab straight

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By *hirazxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam. "

I agree with this comment. Go to clubs and socials. Get your face seen and a few social verifications from nice people. It shud all follow on from there. I don't meet often outside of clubs but when I do I wanna know the person is gonna be good at what I want and that should be stated within the profile and the veris (all women have different wants. So I can't help you on what to put)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well normally you need a picture of your cock next to a sky remote

So, either get Sky installed or tell people a bit more about yourself!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well normally you need a picture of your cock next to a sky remote

So, either get Sky installed or tell people a bit more about yourself! "

Sky Q remote controls are tiny

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam. "
Agree with everything you said and we do read profiles, this is aimed at all male profile would you really meet a woman aged 99 for fun?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well normally you need a picture of your cock next to a sky remote

So, either get Sky installed or tell people a bit more about yourself!

Sky Q remote controls are tiny

- Mrs. J -"

not next to my willy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well normally you need a picture of your cock next to a sky remote

So, either get Sky installed or tell people a bit more about yourself!

Sky Q remote controls are tiny

- Mrs. J -

not next to my willy "

I don't believe you x

- Mrs. J -

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By *hirazxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam. Agree with everything you said and we do read profiles, this is aimed at all male profile would you really meet a woman aged 99 for fun?"

Hahaha now that made me giggle but yea if they got offered it they probs would. Im probs gonna be one of those 99 year olds one day!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah u have a good body!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam. Agree with everything you said and we do read profiles, this is aimed at all male profile would you really meet a woman aged 99 for fun?

Hahaha now that made me giggle but yea if they got offered it they probs would. Im probs gonna be one of those 99 year olds one day!! "
I seen a lovely couple last night in quest must have been in their 80s but she had fun with him on the sofa then disappeared into a room I was having fun also so never seen what they got up too xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah u have a good body!"
you do xx

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London

You want someone to break you in? Into what?

It's because we are in a swinging site, doesn't mean we are all experts that shag with impunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I appreciate all of your feedback ?? I've made some changes. Is that better?"

Still rubbish m8

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By *hirazxWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam. Agree with everything you said and we do read profiles, this is aimed at all male profile would you really meet a woman aged 99 for fun?

Hahaha now that made me giggle but yea if they got offered it they probs would. Im probs gonna be one of those 99 year olds one day!! I seen a lovely couple last night in quest must have been in their 80s but she had fun with him on the sofa then disappeared into a room I was having fun also so never seen what they got up too xx"

I was in quest on Friday night for the first time. I really enjoyed myself

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam. "

Exactly right. Too many single guys write a few lines on their profile and expect to get a long queue of people wanting to fuck them. We have loads of fun with single guys, but in clubs where we can see what they look like, and know that they are willing to put at least some effort into making contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You want someone to break you in? Into what?

It's because we are in a swinging site, doesn't mean we are all experts that shag with impunity. "
this is so true x probably better than them tbh men with all the promises deliver nothing its the quiet ones you need yo watch xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Exactly right. Too many single guys write a few lines on their profile and expect to get a long queue of people wanting to fuck them. We have loads of fun with single guys, but in clubs where we can see what they look like, and know that they are willing to put at least some effort into making contact."
exactly xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is fun to be had out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was a bit like you I struggled for meets too! It's weird because I'm fucking gorgeous!! There should of been a queue lined up out my front door of over sexed sexy fems wanting me. But the strange thing is I woke up in the land of reality not make believe. So in this world I've actually had to make the effort to connect with people. Like go to clubs, meet at a social, go on cam. Agree with everything you said and we do read profiles, this is aimed at all male profile would you really meet a woman aged 99 for fun?

Hahaha now that made me giggle but yea if they got offered it they probs would. Im probs gonna be one of those 99 year olds one day!! I seen a lovely couple last night in quest must have been in their 80s but she had fun with him on the sofa then disappeared into a room I was having fun also so never seen what they got up too xx

I was in quest on Friday night for the first time. I really enjoyed myself "
great ain't it xx I wanna try few more new ones xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am bloody ugly and still get meets

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