FabSwingers.com forum: Swinging outside of Fab

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Although I've had a few experience on here I still class myself as new to this, so sorry if this has come up before.

I have a mate who is married with kids. He's got a dirty mind, which is funny as hell because his wife just rolls he eyes every time he says something naughty.

He has said to me a few time he thinks I would really satisfy his wife, if she hears this she just shrugs it off. It has been mentioned in our circle of friends that they may be into this sort of thing. I've not seen them on here but it wouldn't really surprise me if I did come across them one day.

My question is this. How do I say to this couple that I have the same mind and would love a NSA session some time? The friendship could be hit hard or it could blossom into something very good in all our lives.

Has anybody brought up this subject with friends before?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Alcohol, directed conversation and patience lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wait for the right time, maybe respond to one of his suggestions with a joking sounding line like Tell me where and when and I'll be there. If they have no real interest you can always write it off as a joke, no harm done, but if they are genuinely interested it might give them the courage to ask outright.

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

"Wait for the right time, maybe respond to one of his suggestions with a joking sounding line like Tell me where and when and I'll be there. If they have no real interest you can always write it off as a joke, no harm done, but if they are genuinely interested it might give them the courage to ask outright. "

That's what I'd have said one decent line like "let me know when" with a half-hearted joking tone gives them the sign that you're interested while giving you both room to disregard it if they're not serious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Next time you see them grab her by the clunge and say fancy some cock snot up your fart pipe job done

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Next time he says it just say "ok, when and where?" If he is serious about what he says you then need to make sure his wife is too and its not just something he goes on about and she's heard a million times before hence the eye rolls.

Lots of people say they've been in situations like this and its worked well. It's not something I would be keen on myself, too much potential for bad feeling.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

The key to this is to plant the seed and then back off and see if it takes root. As other have said, respond to your mate's 'joke' positively, making it clear enough that you're up for it. Then leave it to him to process this and put it to his partner and see where that leads.

Don't press it after that. Leave it down to them to approach you if they're interested. You could possibly mention later on in casual conversation that you have an interest in swinging but don't connect that with your response to his 'joke'.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I have the feeling this is going to be a slow burner, but hopefully one day I will be able to come back to this post and update it with good news.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

Slow burn is better than no burn!

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

Most of our swinging is outside Fab, through contacts made over the years.

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