FabSwingers.com forum: When they reply with Hi.

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are you suppose to write when you have taken the time to write a well thought out, punctuated message to someone. And they reply with Hi?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Up to you...either decide it wasn't worth the effort and move on, or send a further message are the two options.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet but I'm working on it

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Up to you. We find that if after a couple of messages people still haven't progressed beyond a couple of words its going nowhere.

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By *ive it to usCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Block....

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

Send hi back? they may have thought your first message was copy & paste.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Assume it's a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you suppose to write when you have taken the time to write a well thought out, punctuated message to someone. And they reply with Hi?

I've had this a few times. Delete and move on, one sided correspondence like this never leads anywhere

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd just amazed someone found the time to respond to my message!! Because normally I don't get a reply at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Replied. Everyone deserves a chance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank them for at least Replying?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

some of the profiles make me laugh when they ask for pics in first message (and they dont even in reply so double standards)

and also want you to write a short story with us single men knowing the chance of it being opened let alone read is slim lol

takes seconds to click a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I sometimes reply with a simple hi and yep often the guy doesn't respond. I will use hi as a simple acknowledgement. A polite way of saying I appreciate his message but not interested

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"takes seconds to click a profile"

And that's what we do, check out the profile first. And if it's lacking or full of cock pics it might put us off

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By *ot40sCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

"Up to you. We find that if after a couple of messages people still haven't progressed beyond a couple of words its going nowhere."

Or they are fake... we've had messages like this, then surprise surprise it's usually unlos !!

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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

I must admit some women are hard work!! Some just think they don't even need to try!! Just because they have a pussy they think they can do or say what they like and guys will just roll over!!?

Not all I will add. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

whats worse is when you get a reply like hi how are you? (seeing your online) and they instantly log off and your reply gets lost amongst the 100's

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Delete and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ask them is that it -

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Block...."

Block. Nothing good has ever come of continuing the conversation. You only get one chance to make a first impression and nobody with one line messages has ever subsequently redeemed themselves in our experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask...

How are you

What you up to

What you into

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If their first message to you is just a hi imagine how boring the social will be. I find it hard work talking to someone who doesn't have much to say because I can be quite shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it's not so much the "hi" but when they expect me to carry the whole conversation.

Communication is supposed to work both ways.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"Assume it's a man

Only true 99% of the time

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I must admit some women are hard work!! Some just think they don't even need to try!! Just because they have a pussy they think they can do or say what they like and guys will just roll over!!?

This also applies to couples

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"What are you suppose to write when you have taken the time to write a well thought out, punctuated message to someone. And they reply with Hi?

That they aren't that interested can't think of what to say back and it's just a polite Hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I feel your pain. -- I don't message people much. when I do I craft a message - it takes ages to try to refer to something in their profile (some of theirs have crap material to work with) avoiding the cliches (nice tits, great pics, interesting profile etc etc) and then getting a hi, or nothing, or blocked for my trouble.

of course, couples and women don't feel the need to work hard, and then complain that they don't get messages in the style they want (often without saying exactly what they want)

So, after a couple of years of intermittently trying to 'chat' to people here, I rarely bother now. - I post from time to time in the forum, read club reviews and occasionally poke my nose in the chat rooms.

Each to their own I guess, but I find it much easier talking to people in a club than here, in general

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"OP I feel your pain. -- I don't message people much. when I do I craft a message - it takes ages to try to refer to something in their profile (some of theirs have crap material to work with) avoiding the cliches (nice tits, great pics, interesting profile etc etc) and then getting a hi, or nothing, or blocked for my trouble.

of course, couples and women don't feel the need to work hard, and then complain that they don't get messages in the style they want (often without saying exactly what they want)

Each to their own I guess, but I find it much easier talking to people in a club than here, in general"

If they have crap material to work with why you bothering to message them

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

of course, couples and women don't feel the need to work hard, and then complain that they don't get messages in the style they want (often without saying exactly what they want)

Each to their own I guess, but I find it much easier talking to people in a club than here, in general

If they have crap material to work with why you bothering to message them

Presumably he is only contacting people locally?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

of course, couples and women don't feel the need to work hard, and then complain that they don't get messages in the style they want (often without saying exactly what they want)

Each to their own I guess, but I find it much easier talking to people in a club than here, in general

If they have crap material to work with why you bothering to message them

like I say, I don't much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I must admit some women are hard work!! Some just think they don't even need to try!! Just because they have a pussy they think they can do or say what they like and guys will just roll over!!?

Not all I will add. Xxx"

What you're describing is Golden Vagina Syndrome

Fortunately, I am immune.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a giggle & move on. Plenty more fish in the sea

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By *oluptuousWetOneWoman
over a year ago

Wokingham / Reading

"Have a giggle & move on. Plenty more fish in the sea

This

I always say more than a couple of lines is a complete waste of time, just because they are what you are looking for and you think you match, they see something completely different so even the most well thought out message won't work.

To me luck and timing have more to do with it.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

At least she replied .... so send another message

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to say I sometimes reply with a hi because im not sure what to say.

Often people send a nice message about how they like the profile etc then end with if you like ours come say hi.

Im not good with the whole flirting or starting conversation thing so I reply hi to show im interested and hope that conversation will start from there.

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are you suppose to write when you have taken the time to write a well thought out, punctuated message to someone. And they reply with Hi?

Maybe they aren't interested in you but are being polite......

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By *r_BBW_LoverMan
over a year ago

Swindon

"I sometimes reply with a simple hi and yep often the guy doesn't respond. I will use hi as a simple acknowledgement. A polite way of saying I appreciate his message but not interested"

Really? Blimey, I've never thought someone replying with just "hi" is an indicator that they're not interested. Them replying saying, "no thanks" or not replying at all makes it clear where I stand.

I'd honestly think they were interested but just not talkative if all they reply with is "hi".

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