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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So we got chatting to a couple and they said that they would notexchange face pictures would you ever go in to a meet blind ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we got chatting to a couple and they said that they would notexchange face pictures would you ever go in to a meet blind ??"

Socially yes

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

No Never! Not even on a social, this is not blind date so if that's what they want to do they obviously have something to hide

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Intriguing....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"So we got chatting to a couple and they said that they would notexchange face pictures would you ever go in to a meet blind ??"

For a group social yes, for just me and someone else or two no, for sex no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, not under any circumstance.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"So we got chatting to a couple and they said that they would notexchange face pictures would you ever go in to a meet blind ??"

Definitely not. If they won't show me a face pic i'm not interested. There are plenty of other people on here who are happy to share a face pic.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Not a chance , why would anyone ?

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By *uessWhosBackAgainMan
over a year ago

London

I would never do this but i see so many people do it and it works for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wouldn't waste my time to be disappointed our time is vale to us imagine turning up and they not what you want be turning stright around lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, no chance. It's hard enough to find time to meet the people on here we've seen pics of and think there might be an attraction to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% no.

99% sure you'd be going to meet a single bloke or getting stood up

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"100% no.

99% sure you'd be going to meet a single bloke or getting stood up "

Or they are much older than they say they are, 2 stone heavier at least as well, like I said they have something to hide if that how they like to meet!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Spot on foxy x

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

So watching someone wandering around a pub looking for them is some people's idea of fun?

Not for me.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

No way, I would need to see a face.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only meet in clubs so doesnt really make any difference to me. I will be going anyhow I dont always send a face pic.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Spot on foxy x"

Not worth the risk is it? x

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

No never!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hell no

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By *ootlecplxCouple
over a year ago

Liverpool

not at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn't risk it for a chocolate biscuit

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area

Id meet for a coffee ....first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes.

We always meet for a social first anyway as we never send out face pics of us so we wouldn't expect them to send their face pic to us.

It works well for us and we have never had anyone not want to meet us to play.

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By *oneDoeWoman
over a year ago

socially distanced

Only in a club

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By *oneDoeWoman
over a year ago

socially distanced

[Removed by poster at 14/05/17 18:55:35]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes.

We always meet for a social first anyway as we never send out face pics of us so we wouldn't expect them to send their face pic to us.

It works well for us and we have never had anyone not want to meet us to play."
sorry we the opposite we would never meet what if the connection was not there we have family to time is vale to us x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"Yes.

We always meet for a social first anyway as we never send out face pics of us so we wouldn't expect them to send their face pic to us.

It works well for us and we have never had anyone not want to meet us to play. sorry we the opposite we would never meet what if the connection was not there we have family to time is vale to us x"

Plus you are looking for couples, so much harder for a 4 way attraction, no offence to the couple above, your only looking for single males, much easier to please I guess

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Yes.

We always meet for a social first anyway as we never send out face pics of us so we wouldn't expect them to send their face pic to us.

It works well for us and we have never had anyone not want to meet us to play. sorry we the opposite we would never meet what if the connection was not there we have family to time is vale to us x"

Snap, i don't get enough time to meet as it is so no way would I risk wasting time on a social if I haven't seen someone's face. Not when there are plenty of people perfectly happy to exchange face pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

We always meet for a social first anyway as we never send out face pics of us so we wouldn't expect them to send their face pic to us.

It works well for us and we have never had anyone not want to meet us to play. sorry we the opposite we would never meet what if the connection was not there we have family to time is vale to us x"

If the connection wasn't there when we met for a social then we wouldn't agree to meet them to play.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yes.

We always meet for a social first anyway as we never send out face pics of us so we wouldn't expect them to send their face pic to us.

It works well for us and we have never had anyone not want to meet us to play. sorry we the opposite we would never meet what if the connection was not there we have family to time is vale to us x

Snap, i don't get enough time to meet as it is so no way would I risk wasting time on a social if I haven't seen someone's face. Not when there are plenty of people perfectly happy to exchange face pictures"
spot on there we all on here for the same thing FUN lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had social meets that might as well have been blind, because the people looked nothing like their very out of date photos!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

We always meet for a social first anyway as we never send out face pics of us so we wouldn't expect them to send their face pic to us.

It works well for us and we have never had anyone not want to meet us to play. sorry we the opposite we would never meet what if the connection was not there we have family to time is vale to us x

Plus you are looking for couples, so much harder for a 4 way attraction, no offence to the couple above, your only looking for single males, much easier to please I guess "

Yes its possibly easier in some ways because we only meet guys however we have very specific things we want when we meet to play so that narrows down our choices.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes.

We always meet for a social first anyway as we never send out face pics of us so we wouldn't expect them to send their face pic to us.

It works well for us and we have never had anyone not want to meet us to play. sorry we the opposite we would never meet what if the connection was not there we have family to time is vale to us x

Snap, i don't get enough time to meet as it is so no way would I risk wasting time on a social if I haven't seen someone's face. Not when there are plenty of people perfectly happy to exchange face pictures"

We all do things the way that suits us personally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tricky? One 'blind meet' worked out brilliantly and we had a fantastic time that lasted all weekend. The second one was a complete disaster that was awkward and embarrassing so now its a case of once bitten twice shy and a pic is a must.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tricky? One 'blind meet' worked out brilliantly and we had a fantastic time that lasted all weekend. The second one was a complete disaster that was awkward and embarrassing so now its a case of once bitten twice shy and a pic is a must. "

That's the case with us. We went out on a limb with a couple and had a social with out seeing face pics. They were perfectly OK looking, it's when we got chatting about their reasons for not sending face pics, it got our backs up.

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford


"So we got chatting to a couple and they said that they would notexchange face pictures would you ever go in to a meet blind ??"

NO way, never ever. Don't even chat on here without face pics never mind meeting someone. That has to be desperate times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I social before sexuals take place so it's a no for me. I'd be curious as to why someone wouldn't share one before meeting.

I'd need to ensure there was an attraction before the social and the social is just to confirm that it's mutual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't meet without a fave pic but then again I don't give out face pics unless there's def gonna be a meet

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i have done and tbh they were better looking than the guys i'd met who had pics.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we got chatting to a couple and they said that they would notexchange face pictures would you ever go in to a meet blind ??

NO way, never ever. Don't even chat on here without face pics never mind meeting someone. That has to be desperate times."

We are not desperate at all, we just do things differently.

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By *oodprincess69Woman
over a year ago

over the rainbow

No not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we got chatting to a couple and they said that they would notexchange face pictures would you ever go in to a meet blind ??

NO way, never ever. Don't even chat on here without face pics never mind meeting someone. That has to be desperate times.

We are not desperate at all, we just do things differently."

It's not desperate why would I give someone my face pic if it turned out I had no intention of meeting them! Privacy is important to me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No never , could be a complete waste of time , there has to be a degree of attraction no matter what but not being judgemental , just our opinion

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By *carlettxWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Never ... you have to ask yourself why they don't show you what they look like !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't. No matter how I felt about them through chatting I have to have facial attraction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well it's worked both ways for me ..

Yes I've met socially without exchanging pictures. Decision was taken by the quality and the exchange of banter in messages. It's worked out really well .

I've met socially after exchanging pictures and the person has not looked anything like the picture they sent

Sometimes you can't win

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We never send face pics and haven't had any problems or disappointed people either

The way we see it we coukd be sending anyone's face or an outdated one so we either meet socially or chat on cam if that's preferred..we've met more who look nothing like the pic they send than not so for us in the flesh is much better.

We have nothing to hide and wouldn't say we're fugly either (imo)

Jane x

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"We never send face pics and haven't had any problems or disappointed people either

The way we see it we coukd be sending anyone's face or an outdated one so we either meet socially or chat on cam if that's preferred..we've met more who look nothing like the pic they send than not so for us in the flesh is much better.

We have nothing to hide and wouldn't say we're fugly either (imo)

Jane x"

To be fair there is enough of you on show to know if it would be a compatible meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do have non face pics to send to guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I wouldn't

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By *andomfodCouple
over a year ago

walsall

Too much a of a timewaster red flag for us. Plus how would we know who we were looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We never send face pics and haven't had any problems or disappointed people either

The way we see it we coukd be sending anyone's face or an outdated one so we either meet socially or chat on cam if that's preferred..we've met more who look nothing like the pic they send than not so for us in the flesh is much better.

We have nothing to hide and wouldn't say we're fugly either (imo)

Jane x

To be fair there is enough of you on show to know if it would be a compatible meet "

That's true and noones ever not managed to recognise us (well me) when we've met at a club or social haha

Jane x

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By *oderndaylivesCouple
over a year ago

Bristol


"We never send face pics and haven't had any problems or disappointed people either

The way we see it we coukd be sending anyone's face or an outdated one so we either meet socially or chat on cam if that's preferred..we've met more who look nothing like the pic they send than not so for us in the flesh is much better.

We have nothing to hide and wouldn't say we're fugly either (imo)

Jane x"

I don't do face pictures either. Because a) work, b) I have been recognised and followed round for months by someone off fab who I never 'met' and didn't know his identity (I found out in the end), and c) my partner lost a job because of it-although that was due to a guy he met at a club who contacted him in real life wanting money, then contacted his employers. That's what did it for us, it's just not worth the risk. I've never had a problem getting meets but nowadays prefer to do clubs than meets anyway. I don't ask for face pictures from others but I do like to see enough body/partial face/blurred to get an idea of what they look like.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

done it before and was very exciting

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

Go for a social first, at least you are on neutral ground if it is bad.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nah

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

have done- really good and really not good. can work both ways...

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