FabSwingers.com forum: Would you be 'a first'?

By *irtywildside OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

I've always been hesitant and have ultimately declined the offers I've had from guys and couples to be their 'first' . Anyone got any stories / advice on how your meets have gone with 'first timers'?

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

Surely you must of been a 'first timer' once?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met a couple of people now that were new to fab, turns out they were fully developed normal sexual human beings before joining so all was good

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By *ateshead dudeMan
over a year ago

durham

would you rather be their first or their hundredth ??

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have been the first for a couple from another site. Although we wouldn't turn first timers down we would be very careful another time.

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By *irtywildside OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

Of course, scared shitless , almost walked out, probably looked like a right fool but the guy was experienced . Same with all the couples I've met, they have all been experienced and so I have never had to worry about hubby suddenly realising that while the fantasy of watching his wife with another man is great, the reality of it happening right in front of you might be different.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I've met first timers before, both single women and couples, you get a feel for people in here from their messages, and can tell whether they are genuine or not. Everyone is someone's first

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By *irtywildside OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

Yes that's what I was looking for. Had the same where I've got an uneasy feeling by the initial messages that not everyone was fully on board so to speak. But at some point you have to make the call yourself as to whether the night will go well or otherwise. Any other indicators that their 'first time' will end in smiles or with a kitchen knife stuck in your back?

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By *lla_maiWoman
over a year ago

staffordshire

We all have to start somewhere. My first meet from here was my first time with a lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well we're technically looking for our first as a couple yet we both have been on the scene for years with previous partners and as singles so I would say firsts are not all they seem sometimes.

But yes would be someone's first as long as good communication is there and boundaries are set

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Yes that's what I was looking for. Had the same where I've got an uneasy feeling by the initial messages that not everyone was fully on board so to speak. But at some point you have to make the call yourself as to whether the night will go well or otherwise. Any other indicators that their 'first time' will end in smiles or with a kitchen knife stuck in your back?

Meet socially first. You can often but not always pick up on any reluctance on behalf of one partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet socially first. You can often but not always pick up on any reluctance on behalf of one partner."

This

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

Definitely not meet but I would do a cam veri as a first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Frequently get requests from "couples" where the lady half is "too shy" to converse with, asking me to be her first. I'm here for mutual fun, not to tick off other peoples' fuck it lists. Particularly when I massively suspect my FF fun will end up being one F down.

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By *irtywildside OP Man
over a year ago

Barry

Yes it's bad enough when the F half of the MF Couplr suddenly disappears or has an emergency/gets taken by aliens etc etc just as I am setting off only for the M to very kindly offer to have some fun 'just the two of us' ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My first my last my everything!

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By *orthyorkypairCouple
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

"Surely you must of been a 'first timer' once? "

We all were!!! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was newbie once myself.

I have been a cpls 1st meet aswell

just for the books she was stunning unlike myself lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been a few men's firsts on here. They went the same as any of the others. Some I met again.

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By *ilthyDebaucheryWoman
over a year ago

Oswestry

I arranged to meet a couple in a club years back They had veris on their summary so assumed experienced It was only when we got in the playroom they admitted I was their first 3sum

Suffice to say we all had a great time but I was far more restrained than normal being their first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're happy to be some ones first time. But they've got have a bit about them and understand what they want and don't want.

We wouldn't want them to be passive and expect us to constantly take the lead. It's a recipe for disaster.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We're happy to be some ones first time. But they've got have a bit about them and understand what they want and don't want.

We wouldn't want them to be passive and expect us to constantly take the lead. It's a recipe for disaster. "

Yep. I think most people with a little experience understand that everyone has to start somewhere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm more than happy to be someone's first.

I chat the same way to a newbie as I do to the more experienced so at the end of the day if I'm happy to meet then I'm happy to meet. Being a first doesn't really come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all have to start somewhere. My first meet from here was my first time with a lady

same here lol x

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By *eybert77Man
over a year ago

Ramsey

I'd be happy as it would be my first too..

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By *orny IrishMan
over a year ago

Rural Wiltshire

"My first my last my everything!"

And then they are gone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we have had a cple of meets with first timmers no problem and good fun watching them relax after a nervous start

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By *egs11ABCWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I still meet my 1st meet so i mustv done something right.

Felt really nervous as I'd just come out of a 20 years realationship and he's 20 years younger than me x

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

We get asked quite a lot about this. Either to experience BDSM or bi male play.

We haven't obliged so far. Both make me feel uncomfortable really. I mean if the guy changes his mind it would be very awkward. Plus we don't get time to play much, so we don't want to chance it.

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