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Alpha male by day, Cuckold by night?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cucks of FAB, would you describe yourself as assertive or confident, or "alpha" in everyday life? If so, how do you reconcile this with cuckolding?

Or are you more tending towards timid, passive etc, which would suit the cuckold stereotype better?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say my hubby is very assertive in day to day life. He spends a lot of his life being a strong character and when we have talked about it in the past, we think that his cuckold tendencies are a bit of an escape! It makes no sense and yet total sense.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I would say my hubby is very assertive in day to day life. He spends a lot of his life being a strong character and when we have talked about it in the past, we think that his cuckold tendencies are a bit of an escape! It makes no sense and yet total sense."

I believe there is agreement this is often the case

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By *ydrewMan
over a year ago

forest

I totally understand this. I cuckolded with a couple for quite some time. He was in a highly stressful job. Coming home to me fucking his wife and him being told what to do was his release. He could totally switch off and he enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Interesting, thankyou, any more experiences welcome

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By *r_BBW_LoverMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Not a cuck - obviously, as I'm a single guy. But I am an egalitarian when we're all naked, and not a dom or a bull.

I do have a stressful job that requires me to often be a bad ass motherfucker, but that's my work persona. I'm paid to be that person.

Outside of work, I don't want to have to put in the amount of effort I put in to my career. I don't have an endless amount of energy, so either my work would suffer or I'd have a nervous breakdown (neither of which is appealing).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I would say my hubby is very assertive in day to day life. He spends a lot of his life being a strong character and when we have talked about it in the past, we think that his cuckold tendencies are a bit of an escape! It makes no sense and yet total sense."

Exactly this!! Explaining the whole cuck thing (however your depth of being 'cucked')is so difficult, I was about to post a thread regarding just that point!

I'm an Alpha male, not lacking in size or ability either - yet in a relationship I like nothing more than to watch 'my love' totally satisfied by a guy hotter, bigger etc who would usually make me feel insecure....how does one explain that to a new love who hasn't experienced it? Without her running for the hills haha

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By *otwife and Him 69Couple
over a year ago

Preston

In "normal" everyday life my husband has a very stressful decision making job that comes with a lot of pressure and stress.

As a cuck he has nothing to worry about aside from how to please me as instructed, all decisions are removed and he can just do as he's told etc..

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