FabSwingers.com forum: Ladies why bother?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ok whilst piercing on profiles I see a LOT of women are pissed off with this site,

Please read profile!

Face pic or delete

Men I'll find you

Etc etc, so seriously, why bother?

If it's for the chat ,there's plenty of sites for that AND you could hide your profile and chat away

Is all the arse ache you moan of really worth it,

I mean HONESTLY I just want fun and fucks!! Simple, I won't lie or hide the fact I tolerate the site because over the years I've met some absolute gems, but it seems a lot of females want the site to run how they want it, it will never happen. Most men visit looking for sex and those that say they don't are lying OR they should use another site.

Crack on

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

I'm here for my own reasons, so same could be said to men:

If you don't like my reasons for being here, move on, I really don't need to hear it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

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over a year ago

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Oh and we bother because there are some great men on here worth meeting

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

We all want the site to work for us.

If it's meeting, chatting, pic fabbing etc

Just look for similar and leave others be

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all want the site to work for us.

If it's meeting, chatting, pic fabbing etc

Just look for similar and leave others be

So opinions aren't allowed in forums either??

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female"

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Very well put xx

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

If you don't like a profile it is easy just to ignore and move on, no drama....try it, you might like it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

Hahah...someone feathers are ruffled, was it use of them word moan or single, I'm not angry flower and sorry I don't spout the same old same that you forumites love, and for the record I don't lower myself to show meets to be "approved" I'm making a point? It's you that has come out pecking

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

Have to disagree, OP.

Seems you are the one making yourself look the fool here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

Have to disagree, OP.

Seems you are the one making yourself look the fool here.

You took the words right out of my mouth

Good luck OP, I'm done

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all want the site to work for us.

If it's meeting, chatting, pic fabbing etc

Just look for similar and leave others be

So opinions aren't allowed in forums either??"

You gave an opinion, he gave his opinion. No one said you're not allowed to give an opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

99% of statistics are made up to suit the user

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

Have to disagree, OP.

Seems you are the one making yourself look the fool here.

Jesus I forgot how strong the clique was... this is why I don't do clubs

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels

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By *roticGoddessXXWoman
over a year ago

Richmond

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

Have to disagree, OP.

Seems you are the one making yourself look the fool here.

Jesus I forgot how strong the clique was... this is why I don't do clubs"

WOW----Does this mean I'm officially part of "the clique???????"

Let the party commence. I just thought I was stating my opinions.

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By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire

"If you don't like a profile it is easy just to ignore and move on, no drama....try it, you might like it

Very well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's definitely something in the water today..

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

"Ok whilst piercing on profiles I see a LOT of women are pissed off with this site,

Please read profile!

Face pic or delete

Men I'll find you

Etc etc, so seriously, why bother?

If it's for the chat ,there's plenty of sites for that AND you could hide your profile and chat away

Is all the arse ache you moan of really worth it,

Crack on"

OP i don't have any rules on my profile like the ones you say, but i do understand why many do. Whilst i don't say you must have read my profile and have a face pic i choose not to reply to those who don't.

If all of these pissed off women decided to leave the site there would be an even worse gender imbalance and the men would find it harder to meet than they already do now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it do make i larf when folk say its a swingers site not a sex site lol the whole point of swinging is the sex lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Asking people to read a profile or send a face pic, how does that equate to being pissed off with the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh and we bother because there are some great men on here worth meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok whilst piercing on profiles I see a LOT of women are pissed off with this site,

Please read profile!

Face pic or delete

Men I'll find you

Etc etc, so seriously, why bother?

If it's for the chat ,there's plenty of sites for that AND you could hide your profile and chat away

Is all the arse ache you moan of really worth it,

Crack on"

I think all that you are really saying is that women should have fae lower standards and fuck anybody and everyone?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"We all want the site to work for us.

If it's meeting, chatting, pic fabbing etc

Just look for similar and leave others be

So opinions aren't allowed in forums either??"

Did I say they weren't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female"

This site works for us as a swingers site. 100% of the people we play with or socialise with from Fab are swingers, and are a mixture of couples and singles. I don't know what portion of Fab are not swingers - high as 98%? Seems high, but maybe. Either way that high portion of Fab who are not swingers are probably mainly single men who would be better off on an escort site. It's annoying that these men highjack this site and cause the question to be raised as to whether swingers still have the right to call it a 'swingers site'. But it doesn't really matter, because we get what we want from this site.

Mrs

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Spot on!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female"

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging "

I think it's quite possible that single men using this site to get laid make up an extremely high percentage. And sadly because there are so many it does give the impression that it isn't a swingers site.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging "

Ffs ,,,me questioning people moaning about the site has fuck all to do with getting laid!!! I could be nose deep in clunge as I type, yet morons throw it about like a school yard insults, I posed a thought and you all spoon out on the defence scrabbling over each other to defend your ways...sorry I see differently to you all...and for the record my cock gets more action than Chuck Norris's" feet thank you very much.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging

I can see by all of your glowing veries. .... oh wait. ..

Watch this space - he'll say veris aren't important to him. Those without a green tick, who try to convince everybody that they get loads of sex, always say that

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By *asters-slutWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

"Ok whilst piercing on profiles I see a LOT of women are pissed off with this site,

Please read profile!

Face pic or delete

Men I'll find you

Etc etc, so seriously, why bother?

If it's for the chat ,there's plenty of sites for that AND you could hide your profile and chat away

Is all the arse ache you moan of really worth it,

Crack on"

I think everyone has their different reasons to be on this site

I think that the minority who moan about the site, are usually the ones that cannot make conversation on messages and so get annoyed that you don't just jump in the car and go for a meet after the first few messages

It lets it down for those who are genuinely interested in broadening their sexual experimentation.

Plus you never know what their circumstances are.

I personally have changed my profile numerous times depending on what is going on in my personal life

It doesn't mean I'm not interested in the scene or that I'm moaning about it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd like people to read my profile.

I read profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging

Sorry my mistake. I assumed your opening post bemoaning women who have a criteria to meet that you disagree, telling them how they will never get what they want on this site and how you tolerate the site despite them was bone out of frustration

Lime I say my mistake

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging

Lime I say my mistake

Don't mention it I understand white knights have a duty to address new males, and for the record the aim of my post went right over your bounce it seems.

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By *illy big bolloxMan
over a year ago

Newark

There are plus and minus to all the opinions on this thread, but i do feel that guys get the shit end of the stick 90% of the time...... i like to think i'm a very resectful guy and very open and honest, and only send messages to a profile that i tick most of the boxes the lady is looking for.. but pardon the french there are a lot of vile rude fucking women i have to say or just plain ignorant..

Is there any wonder sometimes that guys express there anger!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging

Lime I say my mistake

Don't mention it I understand white knights have a duty to address new males, and for the record the aim of my post went right over your bounce it seems."

White knights don't actually have a duty to address new males. And even if they did, it's irrelevant as he wasn't being a white knight

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging

Lime I say my mistake

Don't mention it I understand white knights have a duty to address new males, and for the record the aim of my post went right over your bounce it seems.

White knights don't actually have a duty to address new males. And even if they did, it's irrelevant as he wasn't being a white knight

This is a new one white "nighties"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all want the site to work for us.

If it's meeting, chatting, pic fabbing etc

Just look for similar and leave others be

So opinions aren't allowed in forums either??"

yes opinions are allowed and you seem to be getting some from others,

what did you expect everyone to agree with you

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By *ofia2014Woman
over a year ago

Galashiels

No point here..... always has an answer and his opinion is the only right one!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging

Lime I say my mistake

Don't mention it I understand white knights have a duty to address new males, and for the record the aim of my post went right over your bounce it seems.

White knights don't actually have a duty to address new males. And even if they did, it's irrelevant as he wasn't being a white knight

This is a new one white "nighties""

What's a 'white nightie'?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

Have to disagree, OP.

Seems you are the one making yourself look the fool here.

Jesus I forgot how strong the clique was... this is why I don't do clubs"

clubs are not clique, they are regulars who get to know and befriend others there ,

if you went to a club regularly you would end up being one of the clique then you would have a different opinion on clubs and you may actually have some fun too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The irony is the people commenting are imposing their opinion too, some in a rude and obnoxious way, with insults to boot...face it a lot of forum users see this as 'their little thing' it's like a little mwah mwah Facebook group, they just HAVE to comment, they simply can't resist, if you look at the posts you'll see the same old users saying the same old things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more rules someone have, it shows their insecuritys, those with less rules go with the flow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female"

Who died n put you in charge of the swinging rules?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all want the site to work for us.

If it's meeting, chatting, pic fabbing etc

Just look for similar and leave others be

So opinions aren't allowed in forums either??"

Yeah that was her opinion?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We all want the site to work for us.

If it's meeting, chatting, pic fabbing etc

Just look for similar and leave others be

So opinions aren't allowed in forums either??

Yeah that was her opinion?"

That was covered earlier pal, keep up

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"it do make i larf when folk say its a swingers site not a sex site lol the whole point of swinging is the sex lol

For a lot of us it's social as well not just about sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There are plus and minus to all the opinions on this thread, but i do feel that guys get the shit end of the stick 90% of the time...... i like to think i'm a very resectful guy and very open and honest, and only send messages to a profile that i tick most of the boxes the lady is looking for.. but pardon the french there are a lot of vile rude fucking women i have to say or just plain ignorant..

Is there any wonder sometimes that guys express there anger!!!"

100% disagree with this comment, I do very well on fab and appreciate all the ladies and couples, no one has been rude to me and I've been on and off here for 4 years. Maybe it's my attitude that makes me a successful single man?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You will be surprised of how many single males who have a DON'T list so it's not all about female's profiles.

You have every right to vent out in the forums but you will get next to zero who agree with your post.

I'm off for a beer ?? I'll stick me head back in later

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all want the site to work for us.

If it's meeting, chatting, pic fabbing etc

Just look for similar and leave others be

So opinions aren't allowed in forums either??

Yeah that was her opinion?

That was covered earlier pal, keep up"

Lol muppet, 2 veri's this week I must be doing something right. Just arranging my meets for next week, nice to have choices? Like I said earlier must be my attitude makes me popular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We all want the site to work for us.

If it's meeting, chatting, pic fabbing etc

Just look for similar and leave others be

So opinions aren't allowed in forums either??

Yeah that was her opinion?

That was covered earlier pal, keep up"

I can see on reading the forum and this post why 'some' women have rules.

You state some people replying are in a clique thats an assumption.

You say people are being rude yet there is so much aggression in your comments, maybe you don't like differing opinions to yours?.

Oh and for the record a verification mark shows when you have had a meet regardless of you showing said verification on your profile or not.

Maybe the reason you have had no meets on the site is because of your attitude? Only a teenager who watches too much Inbetweeners uses the word clundge.

Good luck on here happy single swinging

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

No matter whether you agree with the OP or not abuse won't be tolerated when seen. There was no need to attack the man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok whilst piercing on profiles I see a LOT of women are pissed off with this site,

Please read profile!

Face pic or delete

Men I'll find you

Etc etc, so seriously, why bother?

If it's for the chat ,there's plenty of sites for that AND you could hide your profile and chat away

Is all the arse ache you moan of really worth it,

Crack on"

What do the men want to see on profiles? The people looking for sex can still be respectful can't they?

I do think negativity attracts negativity.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

To the OP...lots of people are here looking for sex, why join if not?

I am guessing the women you are complaining about must be looking for that too or they wouldn't be asking for pics etc

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

i pretty much have left the site when it comes to meets, have no interest in meeting anyone off here now. i blocked all men though so they shouldn't be able to find me in search. no harm done.

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By *unandbuckCouple
over a year ago

Sheffield

Saying 'please read profile' and 'Men, I'll find you' doesn't mean they are pissed off.

Those phrases might just mean what they actually say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging

Lime I say my mistake

Don't mention it I understand white knights have a duty to address new males, and for the record the aim of my post went right over your bounce it seems."

I assumed that the aim was to moan about women, tell them the site won't change to suit them and how it's barely tolerable because of them.

So what was the point?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No matter whether you agree with the OP or not abuse won't be tolerated when seen. There was no need to attack the man"

Don't you worry about me, ugliness is on the inside, the people name calling and quick to get 'angry' are just showing their true colours when challenged, I won't rise to pathetic name calling, I made a post and as usual when peoples _iews are challenged they say the same old thing...

You can't/won't get a meet

You're just angry etc.

You can't take people's opinions

All these comments are textbook unimaginative frustrations, so to clear things up, I'm not angry, I've answered with no venom like others, It seems when someone goes against the grain the usual forumites show some hidden nastiness, I'm extremely happy in life, this site is a curious add on with some amazing people on. And then there's those that live and breathe it!

The 'nasty' bunch waiting to pounce.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more rules someone have, it shows their insecuritys, those with less rules go with the flow

Oh shag, what are you like?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

Showing "meets" is lowering yourself? Which meets are these...no green tick shows that the previous comment is near the mark.

I don't see any ruffled feathers but the OP.

The site is what it is. The people are who they are. If you don't like it I'm sure you know where the exit is....!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

Showing "meets" is lowering yourself? Which meets are these...no green tick shows that the previous comment is near the mark.

I don't see any ruffled feathers but the OP.

The site is what it is. The people are who they are. If you don't like it I'm sure you know where the exit is....!"

You missed the bit about me not being arsed about a silly green tick too, thanks for the advice mind.

I genuinely think people comment to appease others in the gang, there seems to be no substance to comments, just the same old waffle...

I desire the bold

Crave the brace

Lust for the different

Yes people sadden me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

Showing "meets" is lowering yourself? Which meets are these...no green tick shows that the previous comment is near the mark.

I don't see any ruffled feathers but the OP.

The site is what it is. The people are who they are. If you don't like it I'm sure you know where the exit is....!

You missed the bit about me not being arsed about a silly green tick too, thanks for the advice mind.

I genuinely think people comment to appease others in the gang, there seems to be no substance to comments, just the same old waffle...

I desire the bold

Crave the brace

Lust for the different

Yes people sadden me."

Maybe those you moan about also desire the bold, crave the brace and lust diffrent you maybe same old single guy to them.

Everyone wants different things hence preference on profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"it do make i larf when folk say its a swingers site not a sex site lol the whole point of swinging is the sex lol

For a lot of us it's social as well not just about sex!"

Indeed, if you weren't so far away I'd treat you to a pasty X

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Plenty of men moan on their profiles. Very easy to scroll on by too

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"it do make i larf when folk say its a swingers site not a sex site lol the whole point of swinging is the sex lol

For a lot of us it's social as well not just about sex!

Indeed, if you weren't so far away I'd treat you to a pasty X

I can do better than that I'll make you one

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

O o O oo

"No matter whether you agree with the OP or not abuse won't be tolerated when seen. There was no need to attack the man

Don't you worry about me

I wasn't. I was being a mod

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over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

I hear guys saying its a fuck/sex site all the time. Jeez- pisses me right off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No matter whether you agree with the OP or not abuse won't be tolerated when seen. There was no need to attack the man

Don't you worry about me

I wasn't. I was being a mod

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are here to meet with women and couples. Single men are not in any kind of short supply here, in clubs or anywhere else

- Mrs. J -

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Op - your conclusion that lots of women are pissed off with the site is just that, your inferred conclusion.

If they helpfully guide guys to read their profile etc, it's probably demonstrating wisdom - they've had some experience and are helpfully guiding others to ensure their efforts can be more effective.

Everyone uses the site as they need to - and personal needs fluctuate. We're not the Stepford Wives, we pick and choose how we individually want to.

Have you considered whether this anger etc you refer to is potentially projection?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more rules someone have, it shows their insecuritys, those with less rules go with the flow

I don't meet short men; I am very insecure

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Let's have a source for your 98% statistic and the actual definition of swinger doesn't include just couples.

You appear to be angry you've not got a meet yet and think it's the women's profiles fault?

99% of statistics are made up to suit the user

68% of the time statistics are correct everytime

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By *apillonNoirWoman
over a year ago

There...

Another one bites the dust...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

OP I just worked out who you are, very funny thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP I just worked out who you are, very funny thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok whilst piercing on profiles I see a LOT of women are pissed off with this site,

Please read profile!

Face pic or delete

Men I'll find you

Etc etc, so seriously, why bother?

If it's for the chat ,there's plenty of sites for that AND you could hide your profile and chat away

Is all the arse ache you moan of really worth it,

Crack on"

I so love the adoration. The boost to my self esteem is immeasurable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We do it because we can, it's our profile and our lives. Our preferences and our standards.

It's NOT a sex site, it's a Swingers site and until one understands the difference one will find that other s are having all the fun

Here we go the old "swinger" site thing...98% of users aren't swingers so and have no idea what it means, and traditionally it was a couples game so a little ironic coming from a single female

Single people looking to get laid and only seeking one on once sex aren't swingers,. Do you think they make up 98% pof the site?

Or do you think you can't see beyond your own use of the site?

The reason singlemen moan so loudly about not getting laid is because they think it;s a sex or hook up site and have no idea about swinging

Telling guys to read the profile is hardly moaning about the site. If anything it's telling guys if they don't meet certain criteria, don't waste your time messaging. Then those men won't be the ones moaning about deleted messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more rules someone have, it shows their insecuritys, those with less rules go with the flow

Hardly. It is someone who knows what floats their boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more rules someone have, it shows their insecuritys, those with less rules go with the flow

Hardly. It is someone who knows what floats their boat."

Very buoyant boat here.....

Code for ' sleeps with anyone'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The more rules someone have, it shows their insecuritys, those with less rules go with the flow

I don't meet short men; I am very insecure

- Mrs. J -"

Me too

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

I think that there are a lot of people with a list of things they don't want (myself included) because we want to find the things we do want. Surely that's what most people feel though.

Sometimes though I do wonder why I bother coming back, however I choose to and thats the key. Choice. We all have a choice. Ignore what doesn't please you, enjoy things that do.

However op in your defence for some people the list of demands does make me wonder how they find anyone!

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over a year ago

"The more rules someone have, it shows their insecuritys, those with less rules go with the flow

Hardly. It is someone who knows what floats their boat."

Precisely.

It shows that they know what sort of nonsense is going to flood their inbox, so they try to reduce it to save EVERYONE time.

Less messages deleted means less men feeling rejected. Isn't that a good thing?

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over a year ago

"The more rules someone have, it shows their insecuritys, those with less rules go with the flow

Hardly. It is someone who knows what floats their boat.

Precisely.

It shows that they know what sort of nonsense is going to flood their inbox, so they try to reduce it to save EVERYONE time.

Less messages deleted means less men feeling rejected. Isn't that a good thing?"

And more replies from the ladies as they're not having to deal with a shit ton of crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is brilliant hahahaha. reel em in op pmsl, so many people so serious here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is not a sex site for me!! I have had more fun through social meets

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By *ystical_InkedBBWWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the Shire of Derby

Having read the site rules, I didn't find a rule which said that people couldn't have rules on their profile

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