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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London

So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

The girl that you met on a dating site may even be on fab (that would be me)

But I hope I'm trying to get my point across.

Fellas would you look at and treat an amazing woman differently if you met her in the "real world", but learnt she was on fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

doesn't sound like any kind of compliment to me, sounds like the words of a blinkered,misogynistic asshole....so as a status its excellent..shows people what they can expect from him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I haven't done too will with vanilla women, maybe a fab lady is the way to go.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In my opinion I think it says more about his views on fab and his thoughts on those who use the site.

Seems like a very naive outlook in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I already know I'm not sure material. Fuck I'm not even relationship material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He sounds like a douche just by using the word 'wifey'

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

"

In a word, yes, the majority in society still see it as such.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I hate when people's profiles say something like "here to have fun whilst between relationships". There is certainly an implication that a woman who is on here wouldn't be girlfriend material or that monogamy is still the prefered relationship format. I do know of people who have meet through swinging/ kink and had successful relationships so it is possible. There could do to be a dating site specifically for people interested in ethical non monogamy relationships

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not cut out to be a wifey, but he's more than likely saying we have too many partners for a man to want to marry us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, why would I treat her differently?

Depending on whether I was on it myself at the time I would like to learn her reasoning behind her, not to be nosy but just to find out more about her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He sounds like a douche just by using the word 'wifey' "

this! makes me cringe...but so does 'hubby'..

It's just how most men see most women..not specific to here..

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

The girl that you met on a dating site may even be on fab (that would be me)

But I hope I'm trying to get my point across.

Fellas would you look at and treat an amazing woman differently if you met her in the "real world", but learnt she was on fab? "

Some would and some wouldn't. The former aren't swingers. If you met a single guy that was a swinger then I'm sure he'd be delighted to become a couple and get married to the right woman from fab.

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I will answe very simple and truth becouse I was with mixrace girl for nine years who was working as a escort . I meet her when she work as escort and I get in love then I have choice accept that and be with her or leave it . Cos obviously I can't expect she will change what she do for me. I did accept that and was difficult but for me she always was my queen and everything . I never look at her as escort and never point it . She treat that as a work I did the same thing. And if tell you I prefer have escort for wife from girl who I meet on the street and I must pretend someone who I m not. We speak about everything and we have sex for 12 hrs. Mostly For girl what I meet on the date site we must pretend simple good couple for years before one of us will say what we want or will be catched cheating . Cos was to wired to tell the partner.

Perfect woman is wife in home and whore in the bed . I prefer fuck my wife deepthrow her and say how was it , on first date from here when we write messages and truth what we like instead pretend only bedroom without kinky things for year and then we finding out how perverts we are . But yes there is behind bad things what coming along . When some men don't have control when they argue with partner and there is possibility to use that as reason to attack . And another thing becouse she was in the world of cheating trust to me was very low even if I will give my life for her. So is depending who you meet. Anyway I try to write to you this in private but you got age block . I have hope that's help but this is only my opinion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger "

Or they don't know it ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple question how long is taking you girls say to me he guy what u meet on the steet . That you are swinger? Maybe never ?

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Well I will answe very simple and truth becouse I was with mixrace girl for nine years who was working as a escort . I meet her when she work as escort and I get in love then I have choice accept that and be with her or leave it . Cos obviously I can't expect she will change what she do for me. I did accept that and was difficult but for me she always was my queen and everything . I never look at her as escort and never point it . She treat that as a work I did the same thing. And if tell you I prefer have escort for wife from girl who I meet on the street and I must pretend someone who I m not. We speak about everything and we have sex for 12 hrs. Mostly For girl what I meet on the date site we must pretend simple good couple for years before one of us will say what we want or will be catched cheating . Cos was to wired to tell the partner.

Perfect woman is wife in home and whore in the bed . I prefer fuck my wife deepthrow her and say how was it , on first date from here when we write messages and truth what we like instead pretend only bedroom without kinky things for year and then we finding out how perverts we are . But yes there is behind bad things what coming along . When some men don't have control when they argue with partner and there is possibility to use that as reason to attack . And another thing becouse she was in the world of cheating trust to me was very low even if I will give my life for her. So is depending who you meet. Anyway I try to write to you this in private but you got age block . I have hope that's help but this is only my opinion "

I wouldn't (hypothetically) date an escort but only because I'd be stressed out worrying about their safety everytime they worked. I don't have an issue with the job itself but in swinging i can accompany my wife and guarantee her safety.

Interesting story though, thanks for sharing

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger "

Im not like this but i know alot of men that are. To get to the point they are feeble minded, they date women that they think they are supposed to be attracted to and lust after the ones they really want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I will answe very simple and truth becouse I was with mixrace girl for nine years who was working as a escort . I meet her when she work as escort and I get in love then I have choice accept that and be with her or leave it . Cos obviously I can't expect she will change what she do for me. I did accept that and was difficult but for me she always was my queen and everything . I never look at her as escort and never point it . She treat that as a work I did the same thing. And if tell you I prefer have escort for wife from girl who I meet on the street and I must pretend someone who I m not. We speak about everything and we have sex for 12 hrs. Mostly For girl what I meet on the date site we must pretend simple good couple for years before one of us will say what we want or will be catched cheating . Cos was to wired to tell the partner.

Perfect woman is wife in home and whore in the bed . I prefer fuck my wife deepthrow her and say how was it , on first date from here when we write messages and truth what we like instead pretend only bedroom without kinky things for year and then we finding out how perverts we are . But yes there is behind bad things what coming along . When some men don't have control when they argue with partner and there is possibility to use that as reason to attack . And another thing becouse she was in the world of cheating trust to me was very low even if I will give my life for her. So is depending who you meet. Anyway I try to write to you this in private but you got age block . I have hope that's help but this is only my opinion

I wouldn't (hypothetically) date an escort but only because I'd be stressed out worrying about their safety everytime they worked. I don't have an issue with the job itself but in swinging i can accompany my wife and guarantee her safety.

Interesting story though, thanks for sharing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I will answe very simple and truth becouse I was with mixrace girl for nine years who was working as a escort . I meet her when she work as escort and I get in love then I have choice accept that and be with her or leave it . Cos obviously I can't expect she will change what she do for me. I did accept that and was difficult but for me she always was my queen and everything . I never look at her as escort and never point it . She treat that

did the same thing. And if tell you I prefer have escort for wife from girl who I meet on the street and I must pretend someone who I m not. We speak about everything and we have sex for 12 hrs. Mostly For girl what I meet on the date site we must pretend simple good couple for years before one of us will say what we want or will be catched cheating . Cos was to wired to tell the partner.

Perfect woman is wife in home and whore in the bed . I prefer fuck my wife deepthrow her and say how was it , on first date from here when we write messages and truth what we like instead pretend only bedroom without kinky things for year and then we finding out how perverts we are . But yes there is behind bad things what coming along . When some men don't have control when they argue with partner and there is possibility to use that as reason to attack . And another thing becouse she was in the world of cheating trust to me was very low even if I will give my life for her. So is depending who you meet. Anyway I try to write to you this in private but you got age block . I have hope that's help but this is only my opinion

I wouldn't (hypothetically) date an escort but only because I'd be stressed out worrying about their safety everytime they worked. I don't have an issue with the job itself but in swinging i can accompany my wife and guarantee her safety.

Interesting story though, thanks for sharing

"

And was like you said "worry " that's way after time was more difficult cos I decide to drive . And believe me that was difficult more . Drive her and try noto be involved . To not see and not remember. Switch off . But help her in one way cos she leave agency and was independent . So she earn for her self well . Price was a big for me but she didt see it. And when I destroy my life we build her . And the worst thing was I done all that with knowledge I destroy it . But I didt care about me . So that's way now I try to get up from down when she is on top . But I don't regret even one day. At least I done everything I could but yes ppl do things what they say they will never accept . And when you are in the situation everything changing: . Everything what I go through is mine and there wsnt no one to say nothing . Cos what you will say to friends .!" Hey my future wife is escort " I lost my friends cos everyone hit on her , lol so I hade 9 years of be with someone but still alone . . Well life must go on . Thank you for taking time and reading

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The guy sounds like a douche!

Well I met the Mr at Xtasia and we have recently moved in together, he introduced me to his mum after we had been together less than 2 months so some "real" men have no qualms about being in relationships with woman they meet here.

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By *ive it to usCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

We met in a well known Manchester club 12 years ago. Both married at the time!

Moved in together 11 years ago! and have now been married to each other for nearly 8 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the guy in the OP sounds more than a little arrogant. It comes across as disrespectful to women on fab and women in general. It's perfectly possible to find a partner for life in this community. Sexual fredom is a life choice, as long as two people communicate and are honest then the two lives can work in harmony.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

In a word, yes, the majority in society still see it as such."

I've found that most men think that sexual women are only good for fucking. 'Nice' women don't fuck.

They marry the 'nice' women then get pissed off with just birthday sex and end up on here..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger

Im not like this but i know alot of men that are. To get to the point they are feeble minded, they date women that they think they are supposed to be attracted to and lust after the ones they really want. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Nope, why would I treat her differently?

Depending on whether I was on it myself at the time I would like to learn her reasoning behind her, not to be nosy but just to find out more about her."

I swear you had a different username before? Am I just going bonkers? Haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

In a word, yes, the majority in society still see it as such.

I've found that most men think that sexual women are only good for fucking. 'Nice' women don't fuck.

They marry the 'nice' women then get pissed off with just birthday sex and end up on here.........."

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Its like the opposite of 'nice guys finish last' isnt it.

'Bad' girls deffo finish last when it comes to finding a real-life relationship but being highly sexed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's known as Madonna/whore complex, really has everything to do with the guy's own fucked-up attitude to sex.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"doesn't sound like any kind of compliment to me, sounds like the words of a blinkered,misogynistic asshole....so as a status its excellent..shows people what they can expect from him."

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

In a word, yes, the majority in society still see it as such.

I've found that most men think that sexual women are only good for fucking. 'Nice' women don't fuck.

They marry the 'nice' women then get pissed off with just birthday sex and end up on here.........."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm looking to date a sexy lady off here so much easier when you are both like minded

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By *reygorCouple
over a year ago

birmingham

a big YES to this.you fantastic fab females are the best .know what you want go get it .would live with you all[but k wont let me ]ha ha.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe there is a certain mentality with a small minority of men on here that if, as a single woman, you are on here you are damaged goods with regard to relationships. I've had messages from guys over the years basically implying that they wouldn't date women who have been on here. Its a very narrow minded judgemental view in my opinion.

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By *asters-slutWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

I've just gone exclusive with my dom

Telling friends I've met from this site, I had a lot of mixed reactions

I had a lot of "be careful, fab relationships never work" One even told me I was stupid

I think it's a ridiculous mind set if you can't give something a go

It's the same with any relationship, you don't know if it's going to work unless you try

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I've just gone exclusive with my dom

Telling friends I've met from this site, I had a lot of mixed reactions

I had a lot of "be careful, fab relationships never work" One even told me I was stupid

I think it's a ridiculous mind set if you can't give something a go

It's the same with any relationship, you don't know if it's going to work unless you try"

Dont listen to em. People fall in love in a million ways x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't have a problem meeting a women off of here for a relationship. Finding one on the other hand seems tricky lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are lots of people, of both genders on here who see this as a 'filler' in between relationships and will happily (or so they think) return to monogamy within a relationship... For them, it's going to be a 'thing' to start a relationship with someone from here. Probably mainly because they know from their own behaviour that they'll be drawn back.

It can be tough to accept that you're not cut out for vanilla life though, deviation from social norms and all of that... Plus a fear of ending up very alone.

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By *asters-slutWoman
over a year ago

nottingham


"I've just gone exclusive with my dom

Telling friends I've met from this site, I had a lot of mixed reactions

I had a lot of "be careful, fab relationships never work" One even told me I was stupid

I think it's a ridiculous mind set if you can't give something a go

It's the same with any relationship, you don't know if it's going to work unless you try

Dont listen to em. People fall in love in a million ways x"

They really do, and I think it's funny when people say they are open minded and then aren't open to that! Haha x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

Tbh I think it depends on the individual!

There are many men I've met who've been fantastic as meets but who are so 'fab focussed ' that they'd struggle to handle basic things like going out for dinner or drinks without turning it into something (that I'd consider) inappropriate in public. I'm sure some women on here are the same!

If I had a relationship with a guy from fab (which I'm totally open to doing) then he'd need to compartmentalise fab like I and many others do!

Someone who lives and breathes fab (which I must confess I've done in the past) might struggle - unless they meet up with someone else who lives and breathes fab too!

Peachy xx

Ps - if we're talking about the way some guys see women on here as a shag and nothing else then yep - we know it's shitty but we know it happens! From what I've seen though, guys tend to change this attitude when they've had more meets with women who have 'normal ' lives outside fab - ie most of us! then they realise we're just nice people who happen to love great sex!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tbh I think it depends on the individual!

There are many men I've met who've been fantastic as meets but who are so 'fab focussed ' that they'd struggle to handle basic things like going out for dinner or drinks without turning it into something (that I'd consider) inappropriate in public. I'm sure some women on here are the same!

If I had a relationship with a guy from fab (which I'm totally open to doing) then he'd need to compartmentalise fab like I and many others do!

Someone who lives and breathes fab (which I must confess I've done in the past) might struggle - unless they meet up with someone else who lives and breathes fab too!

Peachy xx

Ps - if we're talking about the way some guys see women on here as a shag and nothing else then yep - we know it's shitty but we know it happens! From what I've seen though, guys tend to change this attitude when they've had more meets with women who have 'normal ' lives outside fab - ie most of us! then they realise we're just nice people who happen to love great sex! "

She said it best

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Well, for us, both Phoenix and Flames, this kind of sexual liberation was a requirement for our next relationships (before we met each other!) - so for us to have a Fab partner would be a bonus not a penalty.

We met on OK C which helped reveal each others sexual interests.

And then revealed we both had profiles on here...

Getting married in mid August, but I already consider Phoenix my Hotwife

So... I guess my answer would be kind of skewed, as I was able to really be myself knowing we were both on Fab, rather than having to be all tentative saying "so... what do you think about threesomes?" or "if I asked you to peg me what would you say / do?"

Etc

Flames

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There are lots of people, of both genders on here who see this as a 'filler' in between relationships and will happily (or so they think) return to monogamy within a relationship... For them, it's going to be a 'thing' to start a relationship with someone from here. Probably mainly because they know from their own behaviour that they'll be drawn back.

It can be tough to accept that you're not cut out for vanilla life though, deviation from social norms and all of that... Plus a fear of ending up very alone."

I think that if you try swinging as a couple and like it then there's no going back. Reminds me of that old pot noodle advert with the guy desperately trying to enjoy his wifes wholesome sandwiches and then sneaking out to get something more satisfying.

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

In a word, yes, the majority in society still see it as such.

I've found that most men think that sexual women are only good for fucking. 'Nice' women don't fuck.

They marry the 'nice' women then get pissed off with just birthday sex and end up on here.........."

Hopefully that's what'll happen to the guy who posted that status. Then his "nice" wife can catch him on here and show him what am animal she can be - in a divorce court.

I'm starting to think that I couldn't do monogamy and would need a swinging relationship. I certainly don't think it matters if you met on here. If you click, you click. We're all just people, being on here doesn't make you fundamentally different to the rest of the human race.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are lots of people, of both genders on here who see this as a 'filler' in between relationships and will happily (or so they think) return to monogamy within a relationship... For them, it's going to be a 'thing' to start a relationship with someone from here. Probably mainly because they know from their own behaviour that they'll be drawn back.

It can be tough to accept that you're not cut out for vanilla life though, deviation from social norms and all of that... Plus a fear of ending up very alone.

I think that if you try swinging as a couple and like it then there's no going back. Reminds me of that old pot noodle advert with the guy desperately trying to enjoy his wifes wholesome sandwiches and then sneaking out to get something more satisfying. "

Love the simile lol..

It takes a lot of strength to be able to keep that physical/emotional boundary from getting in the way I think, I'll be honest.. until pretty recently I'd not have considered this lifestyle in a couple - I didn't have the confidence.

Its weird really, fab has two distinct sides, there's the open, confident and social souls who know where they are at and see things as they are.. then there's the insecure, maybe socially awkward ones who are here for a sense of self worth to be gained through others.

Obviously that's a sweeping generalisation and I'll probably get shouted at now, but I've been around the block a few times now and that's mainly what I see.

I'm a psychology student and I'm starting to think this would make an awesome dissertation topic lol

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"I'm a psychology student and I'm starting to think this would make an awesome dissertation topic lol"

See if you can get academic credit for it from Sydney University.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm a psychology student and I'm starting to think this would make an awesome dissertation topic lol

See if you can get academic credit for it from Sydney University. "

Lmao!! Maybe I could end up with a disclaimer all of my own!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I took off from my profile I was looking to date as I got so much grief for it.. over the last four years its been made abundantly clear to me that I am just someone you fuck not someone you date and introduce to friends and family

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr here

I think being on FAB would be a plus point for any potential wife, as it shows an interest in the lifestyle I enjoy.

Some guys (like me) actually prefer promiscuous women so it's a thumbs up from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doesn't sound like any kind of compliment to me, sounds like the words of a blinkered,misogynistic asshole....so as a status its excellent..shows people what they can expect from him."
oh my that word again I would actually say most men here love women not hate them

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I think if I was ever single I'd want a swinging wife and where better than here to find such a lady?

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By *wingsingMan
over a year ago

Berkshire/London


"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger "

My preference would be to date swingers. Again a bit of a generalisation but I find swingers more open minded about the world. Been to different types of socials in vanilla and swing world, and naturally gravitate to those who are open. We all wear different masks in different settings or with different people but if you remain as consistent as you can be with your true self then you will be happier and much more respected.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

The girl that you met on a dating site may even be on fab (that would be me)

But I hope I'm trying to get my point across.

Fellas would you look at and treat an amazing woman differently if you met her in the "real world", but learnt she was on fab? "
I certainly dont think like that but having said that promiscuity isnt exactly the ideal way to start a loving ,loyal 40 year relationship but who knows life is like a box of chocolate's you never know what youre going to get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

The girl that you met on a dating site may even be on fab (that would be me)

But I hope I'm trying to get my point across.

Fellas would you look at and treat an amazing woman differently if you met her in the "real world", but learnt she was on fab? "
I certainly dont think like that but having said that promiscuity isnt exactly the ideal way to start a loving ,loyal 40 year relationship but who knows life is like a box of chocolate's you never know what youre going to get

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By *onny MCMan
over a year ago

Crawley


"I'm a psychology student and I'm starting to think this would make an awesome dissertation topic lol

See if you can get academic credit for it from Sydney University.

Lmao!! Maybe I could end up with a disclaimer all of my own! "

So glad that amused you.

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By *iffaWoman
over a year ago

wherever

I am always surprised how many esp males have such conservative views here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well..

Seeing as though all my relationships fail I have to the conclusion ships that are called relation you run away from not towards.

Anyway. As I said I already know I'm not wifey material

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I think about quite a bit. I'm pretty open about being on this site, but when I want to date again, I'm almost sure it'll be a sore point. Obviously I wouldn't disclose this side of my life straight away, but it does seem like the majority of guys wouldn't date someone who enjoys sex with a variety of different people.

I'd actually be really interested in introducing playmates into any relationship I was in, and so I know that's already a big negative point for a lot of guys!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"doesn't sound like any kind of compliment to me, sounds like the words of a blinkered,misogynistic asshole....so as a status its excellent..shows people what they can expect from him.oh my that word again I would actually say most men here love women not hate them "

Do you think?

I have a female friend on here and I've seen some of the messages she receives.. they'd fit right into the category of objectification

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something I think about quite a bit. I'm pretty open about being on this site, but when I want to date again, I'm almost sure it'll be a sore point. Obviously I wouldn't disclose this side of my life straight away, but it does seem like the majority of guys wouldn't date someone who enjoys sex with a variety of different people.

I'd actually be really interested in introducing playmates into any relationship I was in, and so I know that's already a big negative point for a lot of guys! "

Some would be very open to it ;0 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger "

I agree with your point.

It's feedom of choice, personal preferences, believes

and morals.

Someone may only marry a virgin, another may want a 20y older than him experienced in bed and gangbangs.

OP has certain views. Why knock him down as some on here are doing? I feel that he's bitter, but who I am to judge him.

Live and let live!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This is something I think about quite a bit. I'm pretty open about being on this site, but when I want to date again, I'm almost sure it'll be a sore point. Obviously I wouldn't disclose this side of my life straight away, but it does seem like the majority of guys wouldn't date someone who enjoys sex with a variety of different people.

I'd actually be really interested in introducing playmates into any relationship I was in, and so I know that's already a big negative point for a lot of guys! "

I'd go the other way.. in fact I do!

There's stuff about my life that I've had be an issue before so as soon as I know there could be something there, I bring them up.

Gets it out of the way before becoming more complicated and painful

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

The girl that you met on a dating site may even be on fab (that would be me)

But I hope I'm trying to get my point across.

Fellas would you look at and treat an amazing woman differently if you met her in the "real world", but learnt she was on fab? I certainly dont think like that but having said that promiscuity isnt exactly the ideal way to start a loving ,loyal 40 year relationship but who knows life is like a box of chocolate's you never know what youre going to get "

We are both slags so we make a good match. Now we are slags together. 7 months in still going strong and live together. All good here

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

The girl that you met on a dating site may even be on fab (that would be me)

But I hope I'm trying to get my point across.

Fellas would you look at and treat an amazing woman differently if you met her in the "real world", but learnt she was on fab? I certainly dont think like that but having said that promiscuity isnt exactly the ideal way to start a loving ,loyal 40 year relationship but who knows life is like a box of chocolate's you never know what youre going to get "

Speak for yourself. We started swinging before we even dated and married 4 years now.

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By *ammy-leeWoman
over a year ago

Swansea

I'm on a dating site and I see a lot of the same men on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally I think the complete opposite !

If you meet a woman who is completely upfront about things like her sexual preference and things like that it's quite likely they will be upfront about everything else.

Nothing worse than a relationship where things are kept secret and hidden from each other in my opinion.

And yes I learnt the hard way just hoping next lady I find is more open and honest

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

In a word, yes, the majority in society still see it as such.

I've found that most men think that sexual women are only good for fucking. 'Nice' women don't fuck.

They marry the 'nice' women then get pissed off with just birthday sex and end up on here.........."

They end up here because the "nicer " women are on here, you see.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im wifey material. I just cant find someone brave enough

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Personally I think the complete opposite !

If you meet a woman who is completely upfront about things like her sexual preference and things like that it's quite likely they will be upfront about everything else.

Nothing worse than a relationship where things are kept secret and hidden from each other in my opinion.

And yes I learnt the hard way just hoping next lady I find is more open and honest "

Monogamy only survives on lies. Multiple studies have shown that the majority of married men and women are unfaithful at some point in the marriage and marriages don't even last as long as they used to!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've just gone exclusive with my dom

Telling friends I've met from this site, I had a lot of mixed reactions

I had a lot of "be careful, fab relationships never work" One even told me I was stupid

I think it's a ridiculous mind set if you can't give something a go

It's the same with any relationship, you don't know if it's going to work unless you try

Dont listen to em. People fall in love in a million ways x"

Truth love have nothing common with your brain . you do things what is not acceptable you your self .

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger "

That is an honest answer rather than them lying to you and not just here.

Women wants to be like men and there is a huge consequences for that. You just can't meet and shag your way through, nature dictates women needs to be more ladylike same goes for the guys to be gentlemen but society works in double standard all the time there are things that favour men and they are things that favours women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger

That is an honest answer rather than them lying to you and not just here.

Women wants to be like men and there is a huge consequences for that. You just can't meet and shag your way through, nature dictates women needs to be more ladylike same goes for the guys to be gentlemen but society works in double standard all the time there are things that favour men and they are things that favours women."

Before the women track you down and hang you by your gonads lol... How is enjoying sex a male trait?

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Well I will answe very simple and truth becouse I was with mixrace girl for nine years who was working as a escort . I meet her when she work as escort and I get in love then I have choice accept that and be with her or leave it . Cos obviously I can't expect she will change what she do for me. I did accept that and was difficult but for me she always was my queen and everything . I never look at her as escort and never point it . She treat that as a work I did the same thing. And if tell you I prefer have escort for wife from girl who I meet on the street and I must pretend someone who I m not. We speak about everything and we have sex for 12 hrs. Mostly For girl what I meet on the date site we must pretend simple good couple for years before one of us will say what we want or will be catched cheating . Cos was to wired to tell the partner.

Perfect woman is wife in home and whore in the bed . I prefer fuck my wife deepthrow her and say how was it , on first date from here when we write messages and truth what we like instead pretend only bedroom without kinky things for year and then we finding out how perverts we are . But yes there is behind bad things what coming along . When some men don't have control when they argue with partner and there is possibility to use that as reason to attack . And another thing becouse she was in the world of cheating trust to me was very low even if I will give my life for her. So is depending who you meet. Anyway I try to write to you this in private but you got age block . I have hope that's help but this is only my opinion "

If the shoe were on the other foot do you think she'd have supported you the way you did?

Just asking

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By *egasus NobMan
over a year ago

Wandsworth


"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger

That is an honest answer rather than them lying to you and not just here.

Women wants to be like men and there is a huge consequences for that. You just can't meet and shag your way through, nature dictates women needs to be more ladylike same goes for the guys to be gentlemen but society works in double standard all the time there are things that favour men and they are things that favours women.

Before the women track you down and hang you by your gonads lol... How is enjoying sex a male trait? "

I never said women don't enjoy sex in fact I (know)think women enjoy sex more than men. There are consequences for being promiscuous both good and bad.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

In a word, yes, the majority in society still see it as such.

I've found that most men think that sexual women are only good for fucking. 'Nice' women don't fuck.

They marry the 'nice' women then get pissed off with just birthday sex and end up on here.........."

Does seem to happen that way - but I married someone I was not sexually compatible with, how in the hell do we manage that!

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Personally I think the complete opposite !

If you meet a woman who is completely upfront about things like her sexual preference and things like that it's quite likely they will be upfront about everything else.

Nothing worse than a relationship where things are kept secret and hidden from each other in my opinion.

And yes I learnt the hard way just hoping next lady I find is more open and honest

Monogamy only survives on lies. "

Not true, many millions have had happy lifelong marriages without infidelity.

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"Personally I think the complete opposite !

If you meet a woman who is completely upfront about things like her sexual preference and things like that it's quite likely they will be upfront about everything else.

Nothing worse than a relationship where things are kept secret and hidden from each other in my opinion.

And yes I learnt the hard way just hoping next lady I find is more open and honest

Monogamy only survives on lies.

Not true, many millions have had happy lifelong marriages without infidelity."

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By *anny lad121Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Doesn't matter one bit what the lady has done in the past . As long as your in love nothing else matters ...love conquer all..

would love to be with a lady from fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met several women from here....who if I was looking (I'm not!) would certainly be "wifey material". Both parties already swingers/happy with open relationships etc....ideal.

I have a friend I met on here who has actually listed me as her "next of kin" on forms etc on more than one occasion. (She did ask first lol). I was second on the college "emergency call list" when her daughter was at college.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a man realises I can cook AND suck like a Dyson AND loves anal he's down on one knee, proposing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a man realises I can cook AND suck like a Dyson AND loves anal he's down on one knee, proposing "

That's some amazing multi tasking!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Interesting post, honestly I would know till i was in the scenario. Nothing wrong with being on fab, would be hypocritical to say 'shes on a sex site not wifey material' seeing as me the fella am also a swinger haha

I think either opinion is ok just personal preference. If roles were changed, & say the guy has shagged half of fab wld, ladies think 'yes' he's hubby material? Food for thought

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Interesting post, honestly I would know till i was in the scenario. Nothing wrong with being on fab, would be hypocritical to say 'shes on a sex site not wifey material' seeing as me the fella am also a swinger haha

I think either opinion is ok just personal preference. If roles were changed, & say the guy has shagged half of fab wld, ladies think 'yes' he's hubby material? Food for thought "

Bugger meant to say 'I wouldn't know till i was in that scenario' haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if a guy is on here and is looking to meet women and say something like that inferring that women on here demand less respect or have less morals just shows that he doesn't respect the encounters he hopes to share on here, doesn't value the lifestyle and is only here to get his rocks off in the crudest sense of the word

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By *anger69104Man
over a year ago

Lincoln

If I was looking for a wife the fact that she is a swinger would be a bonus. It would be hypocritical of me to be on a swinging site and turn a woman down because she was a swinger. However, that is one of many considerations to be taken into account.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger "

i believe this too.

to elaborate further on my thoughts i think they want a woman not in control sexually, someone who will be compliant (and faithful to him) but also docile enough to put up with him cheating on her -so he can get the good sex he actually wants.

i think he wants a woman that does not understand how/why cheating happens and therefore won't be suspicious of him when he does it.

one that won't figure out his lies or question him. a woman that thinks he is a decent person (and he might be decent or not himself but for wanting a sexually liberated woman [i]he thinks he is not decent[/i] so needs a woman to make him appear so, to himself and everyone else).

that's based on a fake relationship i had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger

i believe this too.

to elaborate further on my thoughts i think they want a woman not in control sexually, someone who will be compliant (and faithful to him) but also docile enough to put up with him cheating on her -so he can get the good sex he actually wants.

i think he wants a woman that does not understand how/why cheating happens and therefore won't be suspicious of him when he does it.

one that won't figure out his lies or question him. a woman that thinks he is a decent person (and he might be decent or not himself but for wanting a sexually liberated woman [i]he thinks he is not decent[/i] so needs a woman to make him appear so, to himself and everyone else).

that's based on a fake relationship i had."

I take a bit of exception to this being aimed solely at men tbh.

I dated a girl from here, we agreed to leave.. so I left. Things didn't work out and it transpires that despite her insistence upon exclusivity... She'd signed back up.

To see if I had apparently, which I hadn't. Dishonesty isn't a trait that's gender specific

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So this is about single women, not married ladies or those in a relationship.

Just seen a status update of a single guy stating that if he were to meet the beautiful women of Fab outside in the "real world" he might mistaken them for being "wifey" material.

I'm sure that could be interpreted in different ways, but seemed like a back handed compliment to me.

Does being a single women on fab mean that we can't be taken seriously because we may be sexually liberated, promiscuous, know what we want, etc. That it devalues us as women, that we aren't the wholesome girl you would take home to mama?

The girl that you met on a dating site may even be on fab (that would be me)

But I hope I'm trying to get my point across.

Fellas would you look at and treat an amazing woman differently if you met her in the "real world", but learnt she was on fab? I certainly dont think like that but having said that promiscuity isnt exactly the ideal way to start a loving ,loyal 40 year relationship but who knows life is like a box of chocolate's you never know what youre going to get

We are both slags so we make a good match. Now we are slags together. 7 months in still going strong and live together. All good here "
ha oh well just 39 years 5 months to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im wifey material. I just cant find someone brave enough "
brave enough to marry you ?will you wear white

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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"Generalising here but seems most chaps want a relationship with a nice, safe, motherly type wife to save face, take home to the folks etc.

But they want to fuck liberated women.

Numerous of my FBs have admitted to me they'd never date a swinger

i believe this too.

to elaborate further on my thoughts i think they want a woman not in control sexually, someone who will be compliant (and faithful to him) but also docile enough to put up with him cheating on her -so he can get the good sex he actually wants.

i think he wants a woman that does not understand how/why cheating happens and therefore won't be suspicious of him when he does it.

one that won't figure out his lies or question him. a woman that thinks he is a decent person (and he might be decent or not himself but for wanting a sexually liberated woman [i]he thinks he is not decent[/i] so needs a woman to make him appear so, to himself and everyone else).

that's based on a fake relationship i had.

I take a bit of exception to this being aimed solely at men tbh.

I dated a girl from here, we agreed to leave.. so I left. Things didn't work out and it transpires that despite her insistence upon exclusivity... She'd signed back up.

To see if I had apparently, which I hadn't. Dishonesty isn't a trait that's gender specific"

OP is on about men who think women aren't wifey material. don't take my comment out of context but by all means add your own experiences and opinions to it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not after a wife lol.

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By *aura66Woman
over a year ago

Belfast

There are definitely some on here who have that Madonna/whore complex thing going on.

One guy even said to me he couldn't ever imagine having anal with his wife , she was the mother of his children after all!!!! But, Women on fab were good for that kinda thing ...

Loser

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Personally I think the complete opposite !

If you meet a woman who is completely upfront about things like her sexual preference and things like that it's quite likely they will be upfront about everything else.

Nothing worse than a relationship where things are kept secret and hidden from each other in my opinion.

And yes I learnt the hard way just hoping next lady I find is more open and honest

Monogamy only survives on lies.

Not true, many millions have had happy lifelong marriages without infidelity."

Yeah but there's 7 billion people in the world. The percentage of people who marry and are faithful until death do us part is less than c20%. So when the majority can't follow it, it's continued existance is based on lies

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

Most single guys wouldn't want to marry a swinger , and that's cool , it's their life .

Promiscuity amongst women is still a valid reason for men not wanting to marry them .

It's a preference , like any other .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There are definitely some on here who have that Madonna/whore complex thing going on.

One guy even said to me he couldn't ever imagine having anal with his wife , she was the mother of his children after all!!!! But, Women on fab were good for that kinda thing ...

Loser "

Ah the good old Madonna/Whore complex. Women certainly do tend to be lumped into the women you shag/women you date/women you marry category. Guess what fellas - it cuts both ways.

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There are definitely some on here who have that Madonna/whore complex thing going on.

One guy even said to me he couldn't ever imagine having anal with his wife , she was the mother of his children after all!!!! But, Women on fab were good for that kinda thing ...

Loser

Ah the good old Madonna/Whore complex. Women certainly do tend to be lumped into the women you shag/women you date/women you marry category. Guess what fellas - it cuts both ways."

Of course men tend to be lumped into the category of men with that complex. Personally i absolutely love sluts and find prudish women a complete turn off.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"There are definitely some on here who have that Madonna/whore complex thing going on.

One guy even said to me he couldn't ever imagine having anal with his wife , she was the mother of his children after all!!!! But, Women on fab were good for that kinda thing ...

Loser

Ah the good old Madonna/Whore complex. Women certainly do tend to be lumped into the women you shag/women you date/women you marry category. Guess what fellas - it cuts both ways.

Of course men tend to be lumped into the category of men with that complex. Personally i absolutely love sluts and find prudish women a complete turn off. "

Me too , but I totally understand guys that love sex with sluts but want to marry prudes

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"There are definitely some on here who have that Madonna/whore complex thing going on.

One guy even said to me he couldn't ever imagine having anal with his wife , she was the mother of his children after all!!!! But, Women on fab were good for that kinda thing ...

Loser

Ah the good old Madonna/Whore complex. Women certainly do tend to be lumped into the women you shag/women you date/women you marry category. Guess what fellas - it cuts both ways.

Of course men tend to be lumped into the category of men with that complex. Personally i absolutely love sluts and find prudish women a complete turn off.

Me too , but I totally understand guys that love sex with sluts but want to marry prudes "

I understand them but they are fools who spend the opening 30 minutes of every morning jacking off in the shower because they dreamt there was someone dirtier in bed next to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fine by me if a man doesn't want to marry me, but being on here looking to stick his dick in as many holes as he can is funny

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By *ancs MinxWoman
over a year ago

Burnley


"I think the guy in the OP sounds more than a little arrogant. It comes across as disrespectful to women on fab and women in general. It's perfectly possible to find a partner for life in this community. Sexual fredom is a life choice, as long as two people communicate and are honest then the two lives can work in harmony."

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By *uited staffs guyMan
over a year ago

staffordshire

I think here is the only place i would find a wife - I'm not sure I could after being on here be with someone very vanilla in their outlook sexually any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Most single guys wouldn't want to marry a swinger , and that's cool , it's their life .

Promiscuity amongst women is still a valid reason for men not wanting to marry them .

It's a preference , like any other ."

Fair point.

I wouldn't want to date a swinger either. Not because he or she was a slut, just because I wouldn't live up to their expectations. Perhaps the man the OP was referring to felt the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd gladly marry a swinger. I genuinely would love to share this exciting journey I'm on with another like minded partner. I think it's hypocritical to even contemplate not settling down with someone because of their sexual preference. If love is real then it shouldn't matter one jot!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a man realises I can cook AND suck like a Dyson AND loves anal he's down on one knee, proposing "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are cracking me up, Ms. Lib!

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Most single guys wouldn't want to marry a swinger , and that's cool , it's their life .

Promiscuity amongst women is still a valid reason for men not wanting to marry them .

It's a preference , like any other ."

Yes it is a valid reason - i wouldn't marry a woman who wasn't promiscuous! Can't think of anything less exciting personally.

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By *aeBabe OP   Woman
over a year ago

London


"There are definitely some on here who have that Madonna/whore complex thing going on.

One guy even said to me he couldn't ever imagine having anal with his wife , she was the mother of his children after all!!!! But, Women on fab were good for that kinda thing ...

Loser "

That's really bad logic on his part. So women on fab are good for anal because it's such a bad thing that fab women who are ruined/whores/sluts should experience it? What a disservice to his wife!

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