FabSwingers.com forum: Who's Duty to buy Condoms?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

As a guest I always bring my own.

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By *ogamuffinMan
over a year ago

slough

I'd say it's down to both parties that are playing to bring condom's.

It's both your responsibility to look after your sexual health.

Sometimes people have a preference over which type and brand etc.

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By *airymagicWoman
over a year ago

goblin city

I think your foolish, I buy my own. And in different sizes

I don't trust an man with my safety.

I expect him to have some as do you but I don't use them

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

I expect the guy to have some,although I do have my own as well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are pretty paranoid and always use our own condoms, just in case. You can never be too careful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i never assume the other person will provide them. I'm always carrying them to a meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *s_macWoman
over a year ago

Traffic land

I think it's my own responsibility to look after my sexual health, so I always take them with me, I'd say it was my duty.

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By *ea_CoffeeCouple
over a year ago

Near Kettering

Its always your own responsibility yo ensure you have comdoms.

We will always ensure we have them and expect others to do the same.

At the end of the day the only person you can rely on to have your best interests at heart is youtself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

I always keep a couple spare, hide them in the wallet trick. Means I always have one to hand.

Doesn't mean they get used though!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why relie on others to look after your own sexual health.

PTU xxx

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By *a Fee VerteWoman
over a year ago

Limbo

It seems sensible for the guy to bring his own, not least he knows what fits and feels comfortable. And of course, to turn up without any does smack of irresponsibility, or maybe even expectation of bareback?

Having said that, it also makes sense for the woman to have some too as back up - in case of genuine forgetfulness, or running out if you're stopping and starting over a long period.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

They go on his dick do he should bring them. I have some in case they "forget".

I however, bring the lube in case I'm in the mood for anal. You never know how turned on a girl may get.

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By *orders-cplCouple
over a year ago

middx cpl

we buy our own then we know they safe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Rubbers are for pencils.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In an ideal world you could discuss this prior to a meet.

As it's not an ideal world I always bring my own unless previously agreed otherwise.

The only time I would expect the other party to supply them is if there is a potential latex allergy on their part.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rubbers are for pencils. "

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK... I'm going to say this a bit clearer... It is the responsibility of ALL parties to provide safety. !!

All this I provide coz I don't trust theirs, I bring mine coz I don't trust yours!! blah blah.

If that be the case - why are you entertaining having sex with anyone at all if there is a trust issue?? IMO.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

Both should guy. If a guy doesn't have them with him, he won't get sex from me even if I have some.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

Both should guy. If a guy doesn't have them with him, he won't get sex from me even if I have some."

(BUT we always use mine, because it's me with the risk of pregnancy)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always have my own, but expect the other person to confirm before meeting they have as well as it is an indicator that they normally practice safe sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit difficult to say.

On one hand you would assume the guy should bring his own condoms, he knows his size etc.

On the other hand you don't know if you can trust the guy using his own condoms and might want to bring some yourself.

On the other, other hand the guy may have trust issues in regards to your condoms.

Too many worries not enough sex is what I would say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry my own and yes I know I don't wear them but it isn't going in without and would hate to be so horny and then can't because no one has them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say it's down to both parties that are playing to bring condom's.

It's both your responsibility to look after your sexual health.

Sometimes people have a preference over which type and brand etc.

^^^^^

This

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's"

BORING!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK... I'm going to say this a bit clearer... It is the responsibility of ALL parties to provide safety. !!

All this I provide coz I don't trust theirs, I bring mine coz I don't trust yours!! blah blah.

If that be the case - why are you entertaining having sex with anyone at all if there is a trust issue?? IMO. "

People on here are having sexton with strangers. You can't trust someone you do not know. Plenty of guys lie about safe sex and actually arrive without condoms so yes having a back up supply is essential. You sir are far to trusting!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prob gonna be jumped on for this but I've just brought some to keep in my medicine cabinet should my oldest daughter need them. Yes she is under age but I was sexually active at her age and whilst she is already on the pill for menstruation reasons this won't protect her from deaseses and infections.

PTU xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we take responsibility for our own sexual health so we always have our own. we then know that they have been bought from a reputable place, are in date, stored corectly and are of a brand we prefer. We have varying sizes too. However, we do look pretty poorly on anyone who turns up at ours without their own even though we wouldn't generalky use them...contrary ain't we!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Prob gonna be jumped on for this but I've just brought some to keep in my medicine cabinet should my oldest daughter need them. Yes she is under age but I was sexually active at her age and whilst she is already on the pill for menstruation reasons this won't protect her from deaseses and infections.

PTU xxx "

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world.

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By *ornylady71Woman
over a year ago

near Bury

"I'd say it's down to both parties that are playing to bring condom's.

It's both your responsibility to look after your sexual health.

Sometimes people have a preference over which type and brand etc.

Yes me to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world. "

How I never got an std/I or pregnant as a teen I'll never know! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think it's my own responsibility to look after my sexual health, so I always take them with me, I'd say it was my duty."

This for me too. Although as I need latex free I have to provide them for all if we are playing in a group x

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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if you insist on using condoms then it's down to you to have them.

ideally both will have them, but if it's you specifically wanting to use them then you need to have them in. i don't always use condoms but always have them in for when i want to use them.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world.

How I never got an std/I or pregnant as a teen I'll never know! Xxx"

my daughter has just started her periods and i've had the pregnancy talk with her even though i know she's not sexually active. better to be safe than sorry.

i did get pregnant as a teen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bring my own but if I were a woman then I'd have some anyway for those last minute liaisons.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"i never assume the other person will provide them. I'm always carrying them to a meet. "

Spot on

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Its always your own responsibility yo ensure you have comdoms.

We will always ensure we have them and expect others to do the same.

At the end of the day the only person you can rely on to have your best interests at heart is youtself."

True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world. "

My daughters all know where I keep my stash and are not afraid to talk to me. Except the youngest but she still thinks boys are annoying and smelly

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

Like this answer

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

They go on his dick do he should bring them. I have some in case they "forget".

I however, bring the lube in case I'm in the mood for anal. You never know how turned on a girl may get.

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By *ndecidedMan
over a year ago

London

I always carry a few but I've had encounters with ladies who were allergic to some and they carried their own. Always cover your picker!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am always suprised guys do not have them. We always have a stash with us but if you are going to a swingers club or meet you would expect them to prepared.

S x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

Your new picture is so hot

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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"Rubbers are for pencils. "

Exactly. Cream pie?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I buy my own as I prefer skyns. I'm accountable for my own health and making sure that I have safe sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world.

How I never got an std/I or pregnant as a teen I'll never know! Xxx"
I'm glad I never got pregnant when I was a teenager.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world.

How I never got an std/I or pregnant as a teen I'll never know! Xxx

my daughter has just started her periods and i've had the pregnancy talk with her even though i know she's not sexually active. better to be safe than sorry.

i did get pregnant as a teen."

Yes I agree , n with h coming out last week I think it's the right time to buy them. Although thinking about it what do lesbians (hate that words it sounds harsh) do about protecting the.selves? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

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oh my its a worry well if not playing is in anyway a negative thing then maybe its a good idea you have some available a gent always provides mind

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

I take responsibility for my own sexual health so always have/bring my own. You can get them for free at the local sexual health clinic makes sense to me to drop in and get some with the latest check up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world.

How I never got an std/I or pregnant as a teen I'll never know! Xxx I'm glad I never got pregnant when I was a teenager.

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

Your new picture is so hot

I just had to get fabbing. What a perfect derrier

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

Oh thanks very much Hun

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

Your new picture is so hot

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Condoms in a sealed box.. For playing away from home.

The lady/couple can then see them being opened which should prove no tampering has occurred

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both parties should bring some

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

Oh thank you

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

Your new picture is so hot

I just had to get fabbing. What a perfect derrier

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world.

How I never got an std/I or pregnant as a teen I'll never know! Xxx

my daughter has just started her periods and i've had the pregnancy talk with her even though i know she's not sexually active. better to be safe than sorry.

i did get pregnant as a teen.

Yes I agree , n with h coming out last week I think it's the right time to buy them. Although thinking about it what do lesbians (hate that words it sounds harsh) do about protecting the.selves? Xxx"

idk how lesbians protect themselves either, someone on here might know and give you advice. as women we should know really but all i ever got taught about was condoms.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world.

My daughters all know where I keep my stash and are not afraid to talk to me. Except the youngest but she still thinks boys are annoying and smelly

I wish my daughter was still at that stage,less worry all round

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"if you insist on using condoms then it's down to you to have them.

ideally both will have them, but if it's you specifically wanting to use them then you need to have them in. i don't always use condoms but always have them in for when i want to use them."

We agree, if you person demands condoms be worn they should have a supply for the meet to use.

At the same time if the meet has been informed that condoms had to be worn it would be rather stupid for him or her to turn up without condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

idk how lesbians protect themselves either, someone on here might know and give you advice. as women we should know really but all i ever got taught about was condoms."

So, female-female transmission of infection is much less likely than male-female or male-male. However you can protect yourself by wearing gloves and using dental dams (or a split open condom), depending on what level of risk you are comfortable with.

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By *enny79TV/TS
over a year ago

chesterfield

I'd say both involved but I'd expect the man to b ready with some but I always have one or 2 incase

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

It's down to both of you - simples!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Ive always got condoms. The day i start to argue over a bloody condom i think id stop

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Always take your own!

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

I always have some in my bag at a club, and if he hasn't already put a condom on the bed I usually take one out of my bag as a reminder that I don't play BB.

But I have playing with a guy back I started this who tried to shag me without a condom, when I asked him to put one on he said I don't have any. That was the end of that, even though I had some in my bag any trust and respect I had for him was gone, so there was no way that I would continue.

So any guy who says I don't have any I won't play with, as to me it says that he has little respect for me.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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idk how lesbians protect themselves either, someone on here might know and give you advice. as women we should know really but all i ever got taught about was condoms.

thank you. i'm happy with 'high risk' so long as i feel comfortable enough with the guy to chat with him openly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

It's down to both of you - simples!"

Fair enough thanks for input

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

idk how lesbians protect themselves either, someone on here might know and give you advice. as women we should know really but all i ever got taught about was condoms.

Dental dams?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have some as the GUM clinic give loads for free. So it doesn't really bother me who provides them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a bloke shows up and claims to not have rubbers, tell him it's no problem.

Grab some JB Weld, roll some up to about 1/4" ball and stick it down his urethra.

I guarantee once he gets back from hospital he'll never go anywhere without condoms again.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If a bloke shows up and claims to not have rubbers, tell him it's no problem.

Grab some JB Weld, roll some up to about 1/4" ball and stick it down his urethra.

I guarantee once he gets back from hospital he'll never go anywhere without condoms again."

Haha sounds like a ball ache but will bear that in mind lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha sounds like a ball ache but will bear that in mind lol"

Basically nothing will be coming out of that penile hole without divine intervention from a surgeon.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I expect everyone to have condoms. We bring some, and so should the guy (or couple, or whoever we're meeting). Usually we go through a few condoms when we're meeting people, so they just end up around and we grab them as necessary.

Condoms benefit everyone, not just the guy whose dick it's on. So everyone should have them ready. In my opinion.

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By *obin_and_marionMan
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

We are a couple. We always make sure both of us have condoms to cater for all scenarios.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get them free from the local clinic and now i can send away for them free of charge. I can even choose the different types of condoms, medium, large, ribbed or flavoured. A great service if you ask me. I know this isnt the case for all cities or towns but there is no excuse for either women or men to get hold of condoms.

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world.

How I never got an std/I or pregnant as a teen I'll never know! Xxx

my daughter has just started her periods and i've had the pregnancy talk with her even though i know she's not sexually active. better to be safe than sorry.

i did get pregnant as a teen.

Yes I agree , n with h coming out last week I think it's the right time to buy them. Although thinking about it what do lesbians (hate that words it sounds harsh) do about protecting the.selves? Xxx"

The advice for STD prevention in lesbian play is

Using condoms on dildos, Wearing latex/latex free medical gloves for hand job purposes and dental dams for oral

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By *ubgirl66Couple
over a year ago

dunfermline

It's the mans responsibility to bring condoms with them what do you think we are boots the chemist. No condoms no playing it's simple guys

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

could not agree with poster above more, if the man does not care about protecting him and you you don't want his cock inside you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

idk how lesbians protect themselves either, someone on here might know and give you advice. as women we should know really but all i ever got taught about was condoms.

Thank you for this. She is only young but it's good for me to have the info to give to her should she need it. Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

PTU xxx

Fair play. I'd say that's good parenting. We don't live in an ideal world we live in the real world.

How I never got an std/I or pregnant as a teen I'll never know! Xxx

my daughter has just started her periods and i've had the pregnancy talk with her even though i know she's not sexually active. better to be safe than sorry.

i did get pregnant as a teen.

Yes I agree , n with h coming out last week I think it's the right time to buy them. Although thinking about it what do lesbians (hate that words it sounds harsh) do about protecting the.selves? Xxx

The advice for STD prevention in lesbian play is

Using condoms on dildos, Wearing latex/latex free medical gloves for hand job purposes and dental dams for oral "

Thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both should be responsible and take some ideally. I always take my own anyway. I am responsible for my own sexual health, nobody else!

Doll x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I bring my own because of personal brand preference. However, females should have them on hand for these reasons- if you have a latex allergy, your playmate is forgetful or you have so much fun and exhaust his supply.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

We always take our own, I'm allergic to latex so if dick was to use one on someone a latex one and then have set with me I'd have a reaction. So makes sense to take our own.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bring my own because of personal brand preference. However, females should have them on hand for these reasons- if you have a latex allergy, your playmate is forgetful or you have so much fun and exhaust his supply.

Very good comments thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

Make sure you have your own on you. Simples

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

I always carry my own but i do expect the guy to have some too.

If he doesn't it is pretty clear he expects bareback sex and in that case i won't play.

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"It's the mans responsibility to bring condoms with them what do you think we are boots the chemist. No condoms no playing it's simple guys "

What do you think he is? Boots the chemist?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Whoever is punching above their weight should buy the condoms. Where would you even buy one?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

"
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By *uymartinMan
over a year ago

Manchester

I always bring condoms with me on a meet and sometimes lube !!

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Guys stop being tight cost fuck all and if your worried about buying them over the counter amazon sell 12 for £4...

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

It's everyone's responsibility to bring them.

If we meet guys who don't have any, we don't play with them ever. We always have and always will have them

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"It's everyone's responsibility to bring them.

If we meet guys who don't have any, we don't play with them ever. We always have and always will have them "

Seems pointless.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The males.

Gotta be. I wouldn't attend a meet and expect the lady to give me them. Go fully equipped as you know what you're going for.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

Not pointless at all.

Respect your possible meets and have some on you. They give them away free at gum clinics so no excuse.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I always have condoms handy, and wouldn't expect men to bring them. Why stop myself from having fun just to try and make a point? Seems a bit strange to do that.

It's the 21st century guys. My sexual health is my responsibility, not anyone elses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think your foolish, I buy my own. And in different sizes

I don't trust an man with my safety.

I expect him to have some as do you but I don't use them

same here hun x

Xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It is the responsibility of anyone who thinks they might need them. Better to have more than required if all parties take responsibility for their own sexual health than none surely?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Not pointless at all.

Respect your possible meets and have some on you. They give them away free at gum clinics so no excuse.

What's the point of you having condoms if you won't have sex with someone who doesn't supply their own?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry. If I had a pound for every time they have been needed... A novelty balloon always alleviates the boredom on a merchants corporate hospitality evening I find

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both parties bring condoms, saves the discussion and everybody takes responsibility for their own sexual health.

Flummoxed this question is even being asked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING! "

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

I guess i can see the point if a woman is fertile. But there's little point if its just sex between a couple of guys. Unless one of them is a gaymen.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING!

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

Oh cripes!

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I always carry. If I had a pound for every time they have been needed... A novelty balloon always alleviates the boredom on a merchants corporate hospitality evening I find "

Do you put them on your head and blow them up with your nose?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always carry. If I had a pound for every time they have been needed... A novelty balloon always alleviates the boredom on a merchants corporate hospitality evening I find

Do you put them on your head and blow them up with your nose? "

No!!... That would be immature and childish!!...

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I always carry. If I had a pound for every time they have been needed... A novelty balloon always alleviates the boredom on a merchants corporate hospitality evening I find

Do you put them on your head and blow them up with your nose?

No!!... That would be immature and childish!!...

I'm good at blowing, get it out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's always your own responsibility. At the end of the day the only person you can rely on to have your best interests at heart is yourself."

This exactly. I have a pretty severe latex allergy so I always make sure I have my own condoms

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

You might run out, might break, many things could happen. As long as the guys have a condom on them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you come over to watch the football, I'll lay on the beers and some nibbles, if I go to yours I expect you to do the same. I'll always take some beers with me to contribute, and I'd expect you to do the same should you come to me. Whose we drink is irrelevant or in which order.

I think the same goes for condoms. If you're both adults and you've decided you're gong to fuck each other, surely the trust thing has been covered off and so you can get in with having fun, regardless of whose condoms you use?

But saying that, I can see why women might be more cautious, there is always a risk and if you're the one managing the risk, well, it's less risk right.

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

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I don't think I've ever bought comdoms

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"You might run out, might break, many things could happen. As long as the guys have a condom on them. "

It's like a vagina key!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I don't think I've ever bought comdoms"

Mmmmmm do you fancy not buying condoms with me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get them free at the clinic so its not like they cost anything -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We having a gangbang at end of the month. If guys don't bring their own they ain't fucking her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I guess i can see the point if a woman is fertile. But there's little point if its just sex between a couple of guys. Unless one of them is a gaymen."

A gayman? Is that like a drayman?

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By *iss.HoneyWoman
over a year ago

...

"I don't think I've ever bought comdoms

Mmmmmm do you fancy not buying condoms with me...

Sounds like fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both parties should have them

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"We having a gangbang at end of the month. If guys don't bring their own they ain't fucking her "

Oxford or Cambridge?

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By *inkyChrissy99TV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Everyones responsiblity!

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By *rs-Naughty_Mr-CuddlesCouple
over a year ago

Nr coleford

Bring your own as a you know where they came from and also you know they haven't been tampered with

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"I guess i can see the point if a woman is fertile. But there's little point if its just sex between a couple of guys. Unless one of them is a gaymen.

A gayman? Is that like a drayman? "

More like a caymen.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"get them free at the clinic so its not like they cost anything - "
unfortunately many clinics dont have decent latex free ones .. so we buy ours x

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By *dy-ukTV/TS
over a year ago

Alcester

If I was a woman, I'd carry my own and only trust my own.

Wether he had them or not, I wouldn't trust them, he can keep them!

I never have sex so isn't an issue

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
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over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING!

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

Lol

It's Clem. You never take anything he says seriously

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING!

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

Lol

It's Clem. You never take anything he says seriously

It's too late! My reputation is in tatters!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd say it's down to both parties that are playing to bring condom's.

It's both your responsibility to look after your sexual health.

Sometimes people have a preference over which type and brand etc.

Totally agree

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over a year ago

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Should just wait until marriage instead"

I'm married, does that count?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING!

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

Lol

It's Clem. You never take anything he says seriously

It's too late! My reputation is in tatters!

Hey

You got me all excited when I saw your Lucky Bitches thread, only to find out you didn't mean it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Should just wait until marriage instead

I'm married, does that count? "
as long as it's just missionary for procreational purposes only

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry them .I like to buy the ones I like

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING!

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

Lol

It's Clem. You never take anything he says seriously

It's too late! My reputation is in tatters!

Hey

You got me all excited when I saw your Lucky Bitches thread, only to find out you didn't mean it

Nobody lives near me. Its not worth getting my hopes up.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Should just wait until marriage instead

I'm married, does that count? as long as it's just missionary for procreational purposes only

Procreational i CAN do!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We having a gangbang at end of the month. If guys don't bring their own they ain't fucking her "
she looks hot but can't see any condoms in the pics you have in public gallery but guess that's you maybe with the other guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always have some in my bag at a club, and if he hasn't already put a condom on the bed I usually take one out of my bag as a reminder that I don't play BB.

So any guy who says I don't have any I won't play with, as to me it says that he has little respect for me."

I have my own but he should have some too. If they turn up without any they clearly don't give a shit about me.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING!

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

Lol

It's Clem. You never take anything he says seriously

It's too late! My reputation is in tatters!

Reputation?!

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING!

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

Lol

It's Clem. You never take anything he says seriously

It's too late! My reputation is in tatters!

Reputation?!

Even a prick has a reputation.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Am i the only one that actually discusses condoms before a meet?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think both should have condoms at the ready .. we are equally responsible for our own bodies x

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By *yldstyleWoman
over a year ago

A world of my own

Its beyond me why anyone would ever arrange that sort of meet and not have them. Its as important as cleaning your teeth and having a shower surely??

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING!

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

Lol

It's Clem. You never take anything he says seriously

It's too late! My reputation is in tatters!

Reputation?!

Even a prick has a reputation.

I'm sure you're not a prick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one that actually discusses condoms before a meet?"

What do you say? I expect them to have them. Why would someone turn up without unless they just want bareback?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We having a gangbang at end of the month. If guys don't bring their own they ain't fucking her "

Omg ..her pics!!!! Stunning! Wow

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Rubbers are for pencils.

And people who like not transmitting/catching STI's

BORING!

Because treating stds is so much fun???

At least your giving ppl heads up of who not to meet ...

Lol

It's Clem. You never take anything he says seriously

It's too late! My reputation is in tatters!

Reputation?!

Ah. .are you fking with me? Loool

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Am i the only one that actually discusses condoms before a meet?

What do you say? I expect them to have them. Why would someone turn up without unless they just want bareback?"
i wouldnt know as its never been an issue. I always say i have condoms then if they want to bring their own they can. It also covers the safe sex talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We having a gangbang at end of the month. If guys don't bring their own they ain't fucking her

Omg ..her pics!!!! Stunning! Wow"

We maybe at xtasia on Friday night so you can see her for real xx

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By *laskan lovers 1984Couple
over a year ago

West midlands

We allways have our own condoms when we meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have my condoms with me although if the woman offers me one I would accept as it's a nice gesture

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We having a gangbang at end of the month. If guys don't bring their own they ain't fucking her

Omg ..her pics!!!! Stunning! Wow

We maybe at xtasia on Friday night so you can see her for real xx "

Really?? Oh please do! Her body is unreal xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Actually don't ..all the guys will want her ! Your probably best having a night In front of the telly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

I always bring a selection of different sized condoms to every meet. I also prefer to be the one to put them on and take them off afterwards, that way I am doing my best to ensure the correct fit of protection for each partner as well as making sure there are no rips or tears in the latex after he has withdrawn. I value my health. And this I feel gives me a better level of control over it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one that actually discusses condoms before a meet?"

nope we do too...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Am i the only one that actually discusses condoms before a meet?

nope we do too...

Nothing to discuss, if I don't cap it doesn't go in.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

"Am i the only one that actually discusses condoms before a meet?

nope we do too...

Nothing to discuss, if I don't cap it doesn't go in."
i always discuss whose supplying the condoms

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I always bring my own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always carry one in my wallet, along with a sachet of lube.

Two or three in the watch pocket of my jeans or floating around in a pocket on my cargos.

But I am a bi male and we are well known as the origin of sti

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always carry one in my wallet, along with a sachet of lube.

Two or three in the watch pocket of my jeans or floating around in a pocket on my cargos.

But I am a bi male and we are well known as the origin of sti "

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By *alandNitaCouple
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I'm opening up this discussion as a single female and wanted other ladies opinions and guys chip in of course, when meeting I think personally it's the guy who should have the condoms?

I find it quite annoying when a guy I meet says he doesn't have any??

What is he thinking???'

Obviously I practice safe sex and usually have some lurking about but not always.

One meet I had we couldn't even play because he didn't have any!!!!

Personally if I was a woman, I would make sure that I had some if I was having a meet... and if I was a bloke, I would also make sure I had some otherwise I may no "get any".

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By *uncouple_12Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Personally I think it's both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK... I'm going to say this a bit clearer... It is the responsibility of ALL parties to provide safety. !!

All this I provide coz I don't trust theirs, I bring mine coz I don't trust yours!! blah blah.

If that be the case - why are you entertaining having sex with anyone at all if there is a trust issue?? IMO. "

I always use mine. My sexual health = my responsibility. At least with mine I know they are in date and haven't been tampered with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just carry a roll of clingfilm much cheaper than condoms and does the same job.

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By *illythejockMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I bring my own, like to get the right size...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just carry a roll of clingfilm much cheaper than condoms and does the same job. "

Pffft, posh git, carrier bag is the way to go.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

I always take some with me, in case my meet has 'run out'. I pop in to the local sti clinic for regular checks, and condoms are free in there, so no excuse not to have any

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I bring my own, like to get the right size..."

Oh Christ! Well hung issues eh lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I always carry one in my wallet, along with a sachet of lube.

Two or three in the watch pocket of my jeans or floating around in a pocket on my cargos.

But I am a bi male and we are well known as the origin of sti "

Lubricant check, good idea as I'm fairly dry these days being a mature menopausal woman lol

Did I just say that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I just carry a roll of clingfilm much cheaper than condoms and does the same job.

Pffft, posh git, carrier bag is the way to go. "

Yeah but some carrier bags have holes in so kids can't suffocate so it's not 100% safe and I take my health very seriously if I run out of clingfilm I do use crisp wrapper but not salted flavour stings to much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We should all carry condoms

The end

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"I bring my own, like to get the right size...

Oh Christ! Well hung issues eh lol

In these times of austerity, lots of things seem to be getting smaller.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I always carry one in my wallet, along with a sachet of lube.

Two or three in the watch pocket of my jeans or floating around in a pocket on my cargos.

But I am a bi male and we are well known as the origin of sti

Lubricant check, good idea as I'm fairly dry these days being a mature menopausal woman lol

Did I just say that

Mature at 39? Please stop saying that, lol.

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over a year ago

Everyones but I always ensure i'm protected

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

To be honest it is both of your responsibility to buy condoms, as the responsibility to be safe lies with each other you equally.

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