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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We are thinking of exploring my fantasy of MMF. I am very excited and nervous at the prospect.

Any advice or feedback of your own experience would be appreciated

XXXX

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

You may have better luck if you include a few pics of your male half in your profile pictures, as lovely as yours are, he's not in them.

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

PS you state that he's 100% straight, so maybe you are looking for a MFM as MMF suggests contact between the 2 Ms

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By *inkySlinkyCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree with the above about photos of the male and also some of you together would be good. Also mention on your profile you are looking to play with single males and not just couples. It also helps when you post in the forum to say which of you has posted . Good luck.

Sally

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may have better luck if you include a few pics of your male half in your profile pictures, as lovely as yours are, he's not in them. "

Actually I'd say it depends on what the dynamic of the Mmf is that determines whether people need to see the Male halfs pic.

I've had numerous MMF experiences with couples where the attention is on the woman, and her enjoying 2 men.

And if there is no guy on guy action then what the husband/boyfriend looks like isn't really a concern of the guy invited to join.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP, which of you is nervous and about what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say try and speak or maybe meet the other male so both males can see each other abd feel comphy with the arrangment

Also tge main rule is if you are going to have a mmf make sure its all about the 3 of you having fun

If its not fun then dont do it

Sex without fun is just x

Hope all goes well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience great great great, as with everything picking compatible play mates is key so there are no issues

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it when I meet a couple with a 100% straight male but he loves double virginal and going down on her after I've cum in her x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"PS you state that he's 100% straight, so maybe you are looking for a MFM as MMF suggests contact between the 2 Ms "

Woops............

Great point and thank you X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We are thinking of exploring my fantasy of MMF. I am very excited and nervous at the prospect.

Any advice or feedback of your own experience would be appreciated

XXXX"
you need two men yes can I be one ......has that helped ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I agree with the above about photos of the male and also some of you together would be good. Also mention on your profile you are looking to play with single males and not just couples. It also helps when you post in the forum to say which of you has posted . Good luck.

Sally"

Thank you X

Mrs Two

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool

MMF advice

you have to make sure to trust the guy first who you want to meet with, speaking from a guys point of view it can turn out awkward

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"PS you state that he's 100% straight, so maybe you are looking for a MFM as MMF suggests contact between the 2 Ms "

No it doesnt - this is yet another Fab myth. If it did how would you write MMMF or MMMMF where all the men are straight?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Update:-

Mrs Two posting this thread

MFM fantasy

Just wanted to know about other people's experience of this.

Thank you

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

The easiest way to organise a MMF or even a MMMMMF is to join a club. There will be more than enough willing guys to choose from and you will have chance to vet them before committing to play. This is one of the reasons we always play in clubs.

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"[Removed by poster at 11/05/17 10:11:07]"
think it helps if the mr is the instagater as the guest is more at ease, also as above Agee pics of u together or with friends sets the tone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"[Removed by poster at 11/05/17 10:11:07]think it helps if the mr is the instagater as the guest is more at ease, also as above Agee pics of u together or with friends sets the tone"

We do have together pics in our friends only gallery and are more than happy to provide them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

One woman satisfying two straight men.

Give me some pointers here please

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"[Removed by poster at 11/05/17 10:11:07]think it helps if the mr is the instagater as the guest is more at ease, also as above Agee pics of u together or with friends sets the tone

We do have together pics in our friends only gallery and are more than happy to provide them.

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*looks at google maps for Shropshire lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The other thing is it does say on your profile not looking for single guys your pics are very sexy by the way great figure

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By *ikstupp2Man
over a year ago

london


"One woman satisfying two straight men.

Give me some pointers here please

"
a fun element is good, being too serious or trying to b sexy seems to breed awkwardness. If u all can laff as ur chucked around the room it makes for a good night

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

I have explored this quite a bit recently with my partner and love it. It's been in clubs and I'm usually on the swing. Before hand I've told him who I like and then he is in charge of what happens. In short he will fuck me while I suck a cock and then swap. Also been fucked by someone while sucking 2 other cocks with him directing and watching as he loves that x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"MMF advice

you have to make sure to trust the guy first who you want to meet with, speaking from a guys point of view it can turn out awkward"

Thank you X

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"MMF advice

you have to make sure to trust the guy first who you want to meet with, speaking from a guys point of view it can turn out awkward

Thank you X"

No really, we had a right ass of a guy with me and my ex girl, pm if you want to talk about it, I'm open here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have explored this quite a bit recently with my partner and love it. It's been in clubs and I'm usually on the swing. Before hand I've told him who I like and then he is in charge of what happens. In short he will fuck me while I suck a cock and then swap. Also been fucked by someone while sucking 2 other cocks with him directing and watching as he loves that x"

Thank you. This is perfect advice. My husband would love being in charge. Obviously the other male will be treated as an equal and not just an add on lol

It's important to me for everyone to have fun X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The main thing is to make sure that everyone know what everyone else's limits are, and what they'd all like to happen.

And Mrs Two, don't worry about trying to please the guys, in my experience it's much more fun if everyone is dedicated to pleasing the female in the group... but that might just be me!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From experience great great great, as with everything picking compatible play mates is key so there are no issues"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update:-

Mrs Two posting this thread

MFM fantasy

Just wanted to know about other people's experience of this.

Thank you"

experiance is fantastic, but the other guy must respect all your boundaries, so when you do decide to do it, make sure you tell him your do's and donts..

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow


"I have explored this quite a bit recently with my partner and love it. It's been in clubs and I'm usually on the swing. Before hand I've told him who I like and then he is in charge of what happens. In short he will fuck me while I suck a cock and then swap. Also been fucked by someone while sucking 2 other cocks with him directing and watching as he loves that x

Thank you. This is perfect advice. My husband would love being in charge. Obviously the other male will be treated as an equal and not just an add on lol

It's important to me for everyone to have fun X"

Oh absolutely. We have usually chatted and got to know someone first so we are all happy.

Good luck as it's amazing fun x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The main thing is to make sure that everyone know what everyone else's limits are, and what they'd all like to happen.

And Mrs Two, don't worry about trying to please the guys, in my experience it's much more fun if everyone is dedicated to pleasing the female in the group... but that might just be me!"

This is where I will find it tricky. I am usually the one in control. I am a natural giver and get sexual energy from pleasing and seeing the responses from my playmates.

Trust is key for me so I can completely let go..........

I am getting a clearer picture now if how things might roll.

This thread has been really helpful X

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool

You are defo gagging for it aren't you Two hehe

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Update:-

Mrs Two posting this thread

MFM fantasy

Just wanted to know about other people's experience of this.

Thank you

experiance is fantastic, but the other guy must respect all your boundaries, so when you do decide to do it, make sure you tell him your do's and donts.. "

Ok duly noted and thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"You are defo gagging for it aren't you Two hehe"

We have been swinging as a couple for a few years now. We have tried most things and experienced it all together. Mr Two wants to see this fantasy played out as much as I do. It's just a whole new ball game for us though............ not gagging for it. We just want to make sure we all have lots of sexy fun and it's a positive experience. X

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By *illerpinsMan
over a year ago

liverpool


"You are defo gagging for it aren't you Two hehe

We have been swinging as a couple for a few years now. We have tried most things and experienced it all together. Mr Two wants to see this fantasy played out as much as I do. It's just a whole new ball game for us though............ not gagging for it. We just want to make sure we all have lots of sexy fun and it's a positive experience. X"

Im sure you will have all the fun in the world

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck MrsTWO, whoever you pick will be a very lucky guy.

And I'm sure that you'll enjoy it, it's possible to be the centre of attention and still be in control and give the guys what they want!

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"PS you state that he's 100% straight, so maybe you are looking for a MFM as MMF suggests contact between the 2 Ms "

I tell you what, Mmf has always been 2 guys and one girl where the 2 guys fuck the girl in any hole/way possible. These days, you have to differentiate between gay/ bi guys playing with a gal. Why waste time, effort and ink?

Anyway, I don't know what the fuck I am saying. Maybe I just want to cause mischief.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"PS you state that he's 100% straight, so maybe you are looking for a MFM as MMF suggests contact between the 2 Ms

I tell you what, Mmf has always been 2 guys and one girl where the 2 guys fuck the girl in any hole/way possible. These days, you have to differentiate between gay/ bi guys playing with a gal. Why waste time, effort and ink?

Anyway, I don't know what the fuck I am saying. Maybe I just want to cause mischief. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I might be naive (I haven't done an MMF yet) but isn't this really about fantasising the solution. If you can't imagine what you'd do with two guys surely this isn't a fantasy for you yet? Sit and try and play out all the various scenarios you could do in your head and when one turns you on then you've found your solution... that's what you're going to try doing.

I think it's probably folly to try and double guess what the other guy is going to want from the situation. Just being invited would turn most men on. As long as you treat him as a human being, I'm pretty sure I can talk for most men when I say there's nothing more sexy than a woman enjoying herself. So be a bit dominant. Have your fantasy. You'll probably find both your guys are blown away by it. I know I would xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I might be naive (I haven't done an MMF yet) but isn't this really about fantasising the solution. If you can't imagine what you'd do with two guys surely this isn't a fantasy for you yet? Sit and try and play out all the various scenarios you could do in your head and when one turns you on then you've found your solution... that's what you're going to try doing.

I think it's probably folly to try and double guess what the other guy is going to want from the situation. Just being invited would turn most men on. As long as you treat him as a human being, I'm pretty sure I can talk for most men when I say there's nothing more sexy than a woman enjoying herself. So be a bit dominant. Have your fantasy. You'll probably find both your guys are blown away by it. I know I would xx"

I do have a good idea what I want from the meet. I am a very confident woman with 1:1 male or female. I suppose having all the attention directed towards me is something very different.

I wanted to see how others found their experience of it so I can make sure everything goes well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I might be naive (I haven't done an MMF yet) but isn't this really about fantasising the solution. If you can't imagine what you'd do with two guys surely this isn't a fantasy for you yet? Sit and try and play out all the various scenarios you could do in your head and when one turns you on then you've found your solution... that's what you're going to try doing.

I think it's probably folly to try and double guess what the other guy is going to want from the situation. Just being invited would turn most men on. As long as you treat him as a human being, I'm pretty sure I can talk for most men when I say there's nothing more sexy than a woman enjoying herself. So be a bit dominant. Have your fantasy. You'll probably find both your guys are blown away by it. I know I would xx

I do have a good idea what I want from the meet. I am a very confident woman with 1:1 male or female. I suppose having all the attention directed towards me is something very different.

I wanted to see how others found their experience of it so I can make sure everything goes well.

"
every mmf ive had and ive had a few has been great enjoyed them all immensely ,the nerves on their part especially

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I might be naive (I haven't done an MMF yet) but isn't this really about fantasising the solution. If you can't imagine what you'd do with two guys surely this isn't a fantasy for you yet? Sit and try and play out all the various scenarios you could do in your head and when one turns you on then you've found your solution... that's what you're going to try doing.

I think it's probably folly to try and double guess what the other guy is going to want from the situation. Just being invited would turn most men on. As long as you treat him as a human being, I'm pretty sure I can talk for most men when I say there's nothing more sexy than a woman enjoying herself. So be a bit dominant. Have your fantasy. You'll probably find both your guys are blown away by it. I know I would xx

I do have a good idea what I want from the meet. I am a very confident woman with 1:1 male or female. I suppose having all the attention directed towards me is something very different.

I wanted to see how others found their experience of it so I can make sure everything goes well.

every mmf ive had and ive had a few has been great enjoyed them all immensely ,the nerves on their part especially "

The best Mmf I have had is where both guys are not related to the chick in anyway!! It is heaven.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I was just looking at your profile (btw I love the photo of your beautiful eye... But then I would lol ) ... I see you're a soft swap couple. Is this threesome intended to be a soft swap too? If so, I can see how that would complicate things as far as satisfying everyone.

Maybe some guys who've done a memorable soft swap threesome can explain what worked for them?

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By *wcwCouple
over a year ago

cheshire

Going a club would be good for this to. You can start off with one guy. Then invite a other guy to join in. Less pressure at a club. As for the experience of two guys at once is great. God luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had experience of both full and soft swap MMF threesomes.

Both types are really enjoyable for me as I particularly like giving and receiving oral, so penetration or lack of it isn't an issue.

The main thing is that everyone involved has had fun in every threesome I've had.

I've found that they actually go best when everyone finally gets comfortable in each other's company, although nervous flirting is fun too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"OP I was just looking at your profile (btw I love the photo of your beautiful eye... But then I would lol ) ... I see you're a soft swap couple. Is this threesome intended to be a soft swap too? If so, I can see how that would complicate things as far as satisfying everyone.

Maybe some guys who've done a memorable soft swap threesome can explain what worked for them? "

Not soft swap no. We have decided to do MFM as a full swap as that is what I want to fully experience my fantasy X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not soft swap no. We have decided to do MFM as a full swap as that is what I want to fully experience my fantasy X"

Well you're going to make a guy very happy. I'll bough out now so others can give you better advice. All I'd offer is that my partner and I have found fucking one person whilst kissing another is very kinky, whether you're kissing your partner whilst another man fucks you or kissing another man whilst your partner fucks you. Both can really blur intimacies between you all and, at least for us, are kinky as hell. Maybe this will help give you some ideas Good luck

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

MMF is good fun just relax and go with the flow as long as you follow ground rules and boundaries

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

More than happy to join a couple, just give me the chance....!!!

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I've only ever dome it once and it was definitely my best sexual experience to date. Why? Because I already knew and trusted one guy (you have that) and he knew the other guy. We chatted about it and decided it was all about me (ya!!!)

My advice take your time choosing the guy, maybe meet him first to see if you all get on. Most importantly though go with the flow and have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love my girl taking 2 cock's

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've only ever dome it once and it was definitely my best sexual experience to date. Why? Because I already knew and trusted one guy (you have that) and he knew the other guy. We chatted about it and decided it was all about me (ya!!!)

My advice take your time choosing the guy, maybe meet him first to see if you all get on. Most importantly though go with the flow and have a great time "

Thank you my lovely X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love MMF . X

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i've never been a part of a couple doing 3sums but i've done a variety of them and enjoyed most of them.

my best one was with 2 fairly random guys off here (one i'd chatted to on and off but never met him, the other i'd not known him long so hardly even chatted to him).

have had one were the guys were fairly selfish and i didn't enjoy that one so much, but mostly i've had great 3sums from fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"i've never been a part of a couple doing 3sums but i've done a variety of them and enjoyed most of them.

my best one was with 2 fairly random guys off here (one i'd chatted to on and off but never met him, the other i'd not known him long so hardly even chatted to him

have had one were the guys were fairly selfish and i didn't enjoy that one so much, but mostly i've had great 3sums from fab."

Thank you for sharing x

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