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My first 50 000 emails and notihng

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Resulted in nothing and I am not hideous monster. What am I doing wrong? Single and 3 cats etc?

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't know if I can say without getting a ban... Fuck it.

Your profile is like a random stream of nonsense and your pm approach seems to be a copy/paste message sent three times in a row followed by some rather nasty abuse when you get a no thanks reply. Does that help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How did you send 50,000 emails when there are only 7,000 people in the world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Resulted in nothing and I am not hideous monster. What am I doing wrong? Single and 3 cats etc?"

Profile. Got bored right at the start. I think a profile should take 30sec to read and contain the fundamentals of who you are, and what you're about. The details get filled in with pm chat.

WRT pm's... don't say "Hi" or "Hi babe/darling/beautiful" etc. Just be upfront and honedt ie hi, read your profile, liked it, my name is (insert joke) etc. If you get no reply, leave it. We women get swamped with messages and so its all to easy for us to press delete. I've deleted several who've started messaging repeatedly when I'm busy.

Oh and "Hi, fancy a meet/ fuck" messages get deleted immediately. And never send a cock pic unless its asked for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So you've apparently sent 50,000 emails, all probably a copy and paste since you've been on here 2 weeks, and you don't know where you've gone wrong? Jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Okay...number 1...delete that whole write up

Number 2.. delete that whole wrote up .

Number 3 delete that whole write up ...

Boring ..odd .. immature ..need I go on....

Pic's aren't bad ... I find one or two of them a bit cheesy but that's bc a guy doesn't usually do boudoir style pics ..they are arty and better than a lot of guys though ..

Meets don't just fall In your inbox and land on your dick. .. effort ..... polite non copied messages ...chat in forums ..let your personality shine though..and get to socials ..mingle

Good luck

Ps .. delete the write up

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"Resulted in nothing and I am not hideous monster. What am I doing wrong? Single and 3 cats etc?"

Well I like your pics, and your profile made me giggle but its obviously a dating site profile - you need to do some research and rewrite it.

Oh and starting your profile with an insult makes you seem like a really unkind person - you might want to rethink that.

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By *risky_MareWoman
over a year ago

...Up on the Downs


"I don't know if I can say without getting a ban... Fuck it.

Your profile is like a random stream of nonsense and your pm approach seems to be a copy/paste message sent three times in a row followed by some rather nasty abuse when you get a no thanks reply. Does that help?"

Ah. Oops!

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow

lol don't take it so hard bud. many women on here get dozens if not hundreds of emails per day and must end up trying to get through them like an assembly line.

Don't get me wrong, I don't think it's unreasonable to expect a polite sorry you're not my type but you've also got to be a little sympathetic to the situation.

As my wee granny used to say civility costs nothing

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull


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lol don't take it so hard bud. many women on here get dozens if not hundreds of emails per day and must end up trying to get through them like an assembly line.

Don't get me wrong, I don't think it's unreasonable to expect a polite sorry you're not my type but you've also got to be a little sympathetic to the situation.

As my wee granny used to say civility costs nothing "

Errrm, are you, via your profile, aiming to win the Times Bestseller novel?

This isn't a dating site, as your Profile would suggest. For many people it is far far too long and will put people off for certain.

Plus, you've only been on here for two weeks! Did you think, or were wrongly advised this

was an "Instant Shag" site? If yes, dream on. It isn't!

You are up against so many other guys,

all seeking the same thing! You have to "sell" yourself, to make yourself stand out!

By all means, be different, but your Profile is,so so yawn inducing to the extent, you have gone too far!

Get into the Forums, go to clubs or socials; you have to be noticed!

It will take time, alongside stacks of patience, perseverance, & even more patience.

Best of luck.

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By *avrick15Man
over a year ago

glasgow


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lol don't take it so hard bud. many women on here get dozens if not hundreds of emails per day and must end up trying to get through them like an assembly line.

Don't get me wrong, I don't think it's unreasonable to expect a polite sorry you're not my type but you've also got to be a little sympathetic to the situation.

As my wee granny used to say civility costs nothing

Errrm, are you, via your profile, aiming to win the Times Bestseller novel?

This isn't a dating site, as your Profile would suggest. For many people it is far far too long and will put people off for certain.

Plus, you've only been on here for two weeks! Did you think, or were wrongly advised this

was an "Instant Shag" site? If yes, dream on. It isn't!

You are up against so many other guys,

all seeking the same thing! You have to "sell" yourself, to make yourself stand out!

By all means, be different, but your Profile is,so so yawn inducing to the extent, you have gone too far!

Get into the Forums, go to clubs or socials; you have to be noticed!

It will take time, alongside stacks of patience, perseverance, & even more patience.

Best of luck."

Erm think you've quoted the wrong person (me) instead of the OP mate been here longer than 2 weeks

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By *iSTARessWoman
over a year ago

London

"No fat monsters" at the top.

I didn't bother reading further.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep postive my friend, you never know if the 50,001st message will be the one to hit the inbox of Ms Right!

Assuming this is genuine and not one mahoosive piss take and wind-up (which it's just GOT to be, right!? ) then as others have said the copy and paste profile from your dating site profile might be the issue! This is a swinging / casual sex site and whilst I would always encourage everyone to 'be themselves' and express their true personalities on their profile your sense of humour won't be understood or appreciated by everyone!

Good luck and have fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are so many dull profiles on here with the same approach of made up accomplishments which I guess are from a film or book or something.

I just ignore them when I see that, because they obviously think they are hilarious but are actually incapable of writing anything interesting about themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Also, slut shaming on a swingers site is really, really fucking uncool:

"Shag anything that moves – not interested but good luck, just not with me."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe, to those you messaged, you are a monster.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe if she hasn't replied after 50,000 emails you should move on to the next woman

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By *essyMan
over a year ago

Hereford

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By *essyMan
over a year ago

Hereford


"Maybe, to those you messaged, you are a monster. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


""No fat monsters" at the top.

I didn't bother reading further.

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I read the profile or first few lines but got bored then I saw the heading. No wonder no replies.. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How did you send 50,000 emails when there are only 7,000 people in the world?"

Are you Diane Abbott ???

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By *asters-slutWoman
over a year ago

nottingham

Dude you were brave posting a thread with that profile!

You sound like an obnoxious, self-centred, patronising pillock.

Your profile makes you sound like you want a woman to come and help light your pipe and fetch your slippers

It doesn't specify what your into sexually, all it says is what you don't want.

And quite frankly, your limiting yourself to probably 5% of women/couples on this site!

You might want to stick to match.com or plenty of fish

This site is for sexual experimentation and enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Resulted in nothing and I am not hideous monster. What am I doing wrong? Single and 3 cats etc?"
hey that's longest profile write up ive seen for a guy but to answer your point its all about personality in a text bit like having a CV that gets put at top of pile you have to stand out many men and few women to go round ,good luck

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

Have you had a restraining order issued yet OP?

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

The no fat monster's remark would put me off straight away,good pic's,profile bumpf too long.

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I'm sure you've been here before under a different name, I've read that profile before.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

'No fat monster's is off putting and not nice.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"I'm sure you've been here before under a different name, I've read that profile before.

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He has, I've been here 5 weeks now and this is his 3rd profile in that time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm sure you've been here before under a different name, I've read that profile before.

He has, I've been here 5 weeks now and this is his 3rd profile in that time "

That's good going ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Dude you were brave posting a thread with that profile!

You sound like an obnoxious, self-centred, patronising pillock.

Your profile makes you sound like you want a woman to come and help light your pipe and fetch your slippers

It doesn't specify what your into sexually, all it says is what you don't want.

And quite frankly, your limiting yourself to probably 5% of women/couples on this site!

You might want to stick to match.com or plenty of fish

This site is for sexual experimentation and enjoyment. "

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By *loppsyWoman
over a year ago

marlow

Not sure what you are doing wrong but that may be because I nodded off reading the text..........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not sure what you are doing wrong but that may be because I nodded off reading the text.........."
up late last night were we

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