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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go

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By *ustme6Man
over a year ago

tamworth

Wrong on so many levels...

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

Do people seriously do that?!

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go "

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By *arry247Couple
over a year ago

Wakefield

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go "

They are possibly trying by the fact you will play straight for couples but not for single men.

You are giving them the green light to try as you play straight when you want to.

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By *irty-milfCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

The answer is yes.

They really are that stupid.

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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

I hear what you are saying but profile is very clear on single guys part, i just think no man ever reads just looks at the pics, think we may hide all pics that way they have to read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pic hidden, they still don't read and try there luck, had it many of times

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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

The amount of straight guys contacting us, but now we seem to get alot who say they are bi and are not is getting to be a pain in the bottom

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go "

Some are yes, "orally bi" is a danger warning on that front

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By *y Favorite PornstarCouple
over a year ago

Basingstoke

"The amount of straight guys contacting us, but now we seem to get alot who say they are bi and are not is getting to be a pain in the bottom "

Yeah it's meant to be you giving them a pain in the bottom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people seriously do that?! "

Sadly that is the case guys do pretend to be bi to get to the ladies..... Conversley I have had many "straight" guys message me looking for fun and when pulled up on their "straight" profile admit they are bi but put straight as they don't want to affect their chances with the ladies

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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

Well D will with her strapon lol

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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

We have had alot of that too

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By *100Man
over a year ago

Essex

You should tell them they can only put their cock in your wife if your cock is in their arse at the first that should sort them out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You should tell them they can only put their cock in your wife if your cock is in their arse at the first that should sort them out"

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

That sounds Devine! Use me as your human condom

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

Well, on the flip side many a guy ( mf couple) would happily use the wife as bait just so they can lay hands on a naked male torso. The sad part is the female will be none the wiser.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, on the flip side many a guy ( mf couple) would happily use the wife as bait just so they can lay hands on a naked male torso. The sad part is the female will be none the wiser."

Good point sausage.... just goes to show the only person you can trust is yourself.... and even then we can let ourselves down!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well, on the flip side many a guy ( mf couple) would happily use the wife as bait just so they can lay hands on a naked male torso. The sad part is the female will be none the wiser.

Good point sausage.... just goes to show the only person you can trust is yourself.... and even then we can let ourselves down!!

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Is it that difficult to find genuinely bi men that you have to employ covert tactics?

I meet couples with bi men but make it clear that I'm only interested in the woman. I've never been tricked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions..."

Like what? They can easily tell you what you want to hear.

The only way is if gey action happens before are at least simultaneously with the hetero..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not just men who fake a sexuality to get at one half of a couple I assure you, I certainly know ladies who do. I find it perplexing to say the least.

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By *laytimenowMan
over a year ago

Essex

just tell them you are here to fuck his arse only

If it gets her in the mood to play good if not

You had some fun with his butt

Works out well for me in my experience .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do people seriously do that?! "
what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just men who fake a sexuality to get at one half of a couple I assure you, I certainly know ladies who do. I find it perplexing to say the least. "
you a couple then you certainly have a couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions...

Like what? They can easily tell you what you want to hear.

The only way is if gey action happens before are at least simultaneously with the hetero..

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they don't know what I want to hear, so no, they can't

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By *aughtyguy1Man
over a year ago

suffolk/essex/cambridge

I'm not surprised by this at all there are people on here who will say whatever it takes to get their leg over.... however setting up any meet arrange that you want to see guy on guy action and then John b in when your ready that way they don't get to touch the female before you find out if he is up for bi play or not

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By *hoenixandflamesCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

That's why we say in our profile, that we won't play with "straight" Bi men.

They can't be trusted.

Plus it helps fight the swinger scene Biphobia.

Flames

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By *isty286Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go

Some are yes, "orally bi" is a danger warning on that front"

We are a couple who are not into anal, so orally bi is a good description for me, she likes to watch some oral guy on guy fun, most times not choosing to join in at all, if it's what she would like to see, who am I to deny her, doesn't make it a danger warning for us, when we do play this way it's because it's our choice for that meet, if a guy has agreed to meet for this, and then can't perform, he's on his way home very quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately there are guys out there who will blag it that they are Bi or curious just to get the girl. I've seen it happen at Chams in Darlaston on Bi nights too many times. Single guys there that aren't one bit Bi on a Monday because it's the only membership they can get. It's a shame because that place on that night is thee ideal place to settle any curiosities. I used to go quite a lot with my ex girlfriend as we are both Bi. We have however been in there and whilst we've been having fun or simply walking around we've seen guys openly playing. I remember the first time she shackled me to the cross and used her strap on, on me. There was a nice crowd all just watching. I was blindfolded so didn't see the crowd but when we'd finished I took off the blindfold to a crowd of smiles all round.

It's fair to say not all Bi guys or couples or even in fact gay guys are into anal sex. That said there should be no lies just to get the girl. Also for guys and couples there should always be that understanding that Bi play isn't essential unless clearly stated on a profile or lead up chat. I'm easy going, clean and safe with it so if I was invited to meet a female or couple or better still be involved in group play I can play it 100% straight. All told hetro, Bi, straight single or not there's gotta be lead up chat that sets boundaries.

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

Yep thats just desporate Crass and stupid behaviour.

The opposite of course are couples who think just becouse I am Bi that I am going to Man molest the straight partner so best not meet. What the Fuck is that about???

Straight or Bi Play its a choice and if you do not respect the wishes of the other person(s) than frankly you have no business on the scene.

Telling porkies to get laid is daft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go "
your wife does look very sexy mind but it wouldn't drive me to be bi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep thats just desporate Crass and stupid behaviour.

The opposite of course are couples who think just becouse I am Bi that I am going to Man molest the straight partner so best not meet. What the Fuck is that about???

Straight or Bi Play its a choice and if you do not respect the wishes of the other person(s) than frankly you have no business on the scene.

Telling porkies to get laid is daft."

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"Yep thats just desporate Crass and stupid behaviour.

The opposite of course are couples who think just becouse I am Bi that I am going to Man molest the straight partner so best not meet. What the Fuck is that about???

Straight or Bi Play its a choice and if you do not respect the wishes of the other person(s) than frankly you have no business on the scene.

Telling porkies to get laid is daft.

??"

Men saying they are Bi when they are not so that they can fuck the woman in a couple with a Bi Male.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"Yep thats just desporate Crass and stupid behaviour.

The opposite of course are couples who think just becouse I am Bi that I am going to Man molest the straight partner so best not meet. What the Fuck is that about???

Straight or Bi Play its a choice and if you do not respect the wishes of the other person(s) than frankly you have no business on the scene.

Telling porkies to get laid is daft.

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Men saying they are Bi when they are not so that they can fuck the woman in a couple with a Bi Male. "

A case of willy or won't he?

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"Yep thats just desporate Crass and stupid behaviour.

The opposite of course are couples who think just becouse I am Bi that I am going to Man molest the straight partner so best not meet. What the Fuck is that about???

Straight or Bi Play its a choice and if you do not respect the wishes of the other person(s) than frankly you have no business on the scene.

Telling porkies to get laid is daft.

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Men saying they are Bi when they are not so that they can fuck the woman in a couple with a Bi Male.

A case of willy or won't he?"

Lol

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By *owdyboy 890Man
over a year ago

Country West

Guys will try anything to get into anyone's bed xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is why it's so hard for bi men to meet couples. I want to meet a bi couple to have fun with the male while his wife/GF watches us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions...

Like what? They can easily tell you what you want to hear.

The only way is if gey action happens before are at least simultaneously with the hetero..

they don't know what I want to hear, so no, they can't "

Go on, ask a question since you are so confident. I'm 100% straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yep thats just desporate Crass and stupid behaviour.

The opposite of course are couples who think just becouse I am Bi that I am going to Man molest the straight partner so best not meet. What the Fuck is that about???

Straight or Bi Play its a choice and if you do not respect the wishes of the other person(s) than frankly you have no business on the scene.

Telling porkies to get laid is daft."

Honesty is the way forward.

I meet bi couples but make it clear that the male has to restrain himself as I take no interest in gey play. Never had problems with anyone,couples are happy to invite me.

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!

"they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions...

Like what? They can easily tell you what you want to hear.

The only way is if gey action happens before are at least simultaneously with the hetero..

they don't know what I want to hear, so no, they can't

Go on, ask a question since you are so confident. I'm 100% straight. "

(popcorn)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm bi and I will even have sex with your wife while you watch and as I'm leaving I will shake your hand in a really bisexual way and say cheers geeza.Im off for 12 pints and a fab kebab to celibate my bisexualism

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it would be funny if they weren't bi at all but managed to get caught up in a meet!! Only for the wife to produce a strapon and say "me and hubby are gonna spit roast you now" lol.

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

I am sure if a duck had a profile it would be inundated with messages .

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By *oyuer99Man
over a year ago

PRESTON

Oh fook I am less popular than a duck, wails.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them they get the wife after you have had his arse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

' THE SINGLE GUY ' card used as a easy target yet again hahahahaha

I had a very pretty female friend on here that left due to couples constantly targeting her and saying the fem in the rel was bi and then after speaking it turned out it was the guy that wanted to get his rock off with her mainly.

There's deception from couples,Males,And just about everyone on here that puts temptation above morals.

The question that should be asked is.

If your jumping into meets without getting to fully know who your meeting and if your compatable with them then I'm afraid to say your a victim of your own stupidity.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Do people seriously do that?! "

They do

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Well, on the flip side many a guy ( mf couple) would happily use the wife as bait just so they can lay hands on a naked male torso. The sad part is the female will be none the wiser."

This happened to me

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"This is why it's so hard for bi men to meet couples. I want to meet a bi couple to have fun with the male while his wife/GF watches us"

A good way is to say f watches guys play and will join in later

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I'm not happy at all

This has never happened to me in over ten years of being in a bi couple relationship.

Am I so fugly that blokes don't want to pretend to be bi to get to me

I'm spitting feathers here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions...

Like what? They can easily tell you what you want to hear.

The only way is if gey action happens before are at least simultaneously with the hetero..

they don't know what I want to hear, so no, they can't

Go on, ask a question since you are so confident. I'm 100% straight. "

No thanks. I'm uninterested in what you have to say. My confidence in this matter is based on the outcomes I have experienced so you have nothing to add to that...

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

Annoying? Yes, this deception makes it difficult for genuine bi guys to get a meet as distrust is already there, but I do think all the talk of socials etc are relevant, if time is spent sorting out ground rules (without taking the fun out of it) then surely the "bi" guy who only wants the woman would lose interest/patience..actually prob not I guess, may be better to get on & play after all. Well that settled it all didn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions...

Like what? They can easily tell you what you want to hear.

The only way is if gey action happens before are at least simultaneously with the hetero..

they don't know what I want to hear, so no, they can't

Go on, ask a question since you are so confident. I'm 100% straight.

No thanks. I'm uninterested in what you have to say. My confidence in this matter is based on the outcomes I have experienced so you have nothing to add to that..."

No worries. You are the one to chicken out.

Enjoy your future experiences!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"' THE SINGLE GUY ' card used as a easy target yet again hahahahaha

I had a very pretty female friend on here that left due to couples constantly targeting her and saying the fem in the rel was bi and then after speaking it turned out it was the guy that wanted to get his rock off with her mainly.

There's deception from couples,Males,And just about everyone on here that puts temptation above morals.

The question that should be asked is.

If your jumping into meets without getting to fully know who your meeting and if your compatable with them then I'm afraid to say your a victim of your own stupidity."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions...

Like what? They can easily tell you what you want to hear.

The only way is if gey action happens before are at least simultaneously with the hetero..

they don't know what I want to hear, so no, they can't

Go on, ask a question since you are so confident. I'm 100% straight.

No thanks. I'm uninterested in what you have to say. My confidence in this matter is based on the outcomes I have experienced so you have nothing to add to that...

No worries. You are the one to chicken out.

Enjoy your future experiences!

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not chicken at all...I have nothing to prove to you...and you're irrelevant to either my experiences or my outcomes...nothing to be gained for me by entering into that conversation with you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is entitled to an opinion but if you are outright straight why even look at a thread concerning bisexual fun, or for that matter get shitty!! No one is tarring all straight guys with the same brush...just some spoil it for genuine Bi people wanting to hook up.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Everyone is entitled to an opinion but if you are outright straight why even look at a thread concerning bisexual fun, or for that matter get shitty!! No one is tarring all straight guys with the same brush...just some spoil it for genuine Bi people wanting to hook up."

Well said...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"' THE SINGLE GUY ' card used as a easy target yet again hahahahaha

I had a very pretty female friend on here that left due to couples constantly targeting her and saying the fem in the rel was bi and then after speaking it turned out it was the guy that wanted to get his rock off with her mainly.

There's deception from couples,Males,And just about everyone on here that puts temptation above morals.

The question that should be asked is.

If your jumping into meets without getting to fully know who your meeting and if your compatable with them then I'm afraid to say your a victim of your own stupidity."

The deception being there was no woman in the couple, just a single man getting around filters

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is entitled to an opinion but if you are outright straight why even look at a thread concerning bisexual fun, or for that matter get shitty!! No one is tarring all straight guys with the same brush...just some spoil it for genuine Bi people wanting to hook up."

People can still be interested in something, even if it doesn't pertain to them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is entitled to an opinion but if you are outright straight why even look at a thread concerning bisexual fun, or for that matter get shitty!! No one is tarring all straight guys with the same brush...just some spoil it for genuine Bi people wanting to hook up.

People can still be interested in something, even if it doesn't pertain to them. "

Well said Mrs. Lib! People are very quick to jump on generalisations

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

I like the "I'm into anything" people

Or the couples that say they want a bi guy to play with both when really its the male half seeking

I'm bi and if a couple is interested in me I hope its both rather than just the Mr trying to be selfish..

So OP while some guys claim to bi with the sole purpose of playing with the Mrs... Bi guys run into that kind of issue as well...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like the "I'm into anything" people

Or the couples that say they want a bi guy to play with both when really its the male half seeking

I'm bi and if a couple is interested in me I hope its both rather than just the Mr trying to be selfish..

So OP while some guys claim to bi with the sole purpose of playing with the Mrs... Bi guys run into that kind of issue as well... "

Fair point!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is entitled to an opinion but if you are outright straight why even look at a thread concerning bisexual fun, or for that matter get shitty!! No one is tarring all straight guys with the same brush...just some spoil it for genuine Bi people wanting to hook up.

People can still be interested in something, even if it doesn't pertain to them. "

Exactly...see I like your slippers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone is entitled to an opinion but if you are outright straight why even look at a thread concerning bisexual fun, or for that matter get shitty!! No one is tarring all straight guys with the same brush...just some spoil it for genuine Bi people wanting to hook up.

People can still be interested in something, even if it doesn't pertain to them.

Well said Mrs. Lib! People are very quick to jump on generalisations"

Mmmm generalisation who started with that one then!!?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not just men who fake a sexuality to get at one half of a couple I assure you, I certainly know ladies who do. I find it perplexing to say the least. "

Yes indeedy doodly, perplexing and frustrating.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I hear what you are saying but profile is very clear on single guys part, i just think no man ever reads just looks at the pics, think we may hide all pics that way they have to read the profile "

You have written text ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go

Some are yes, "orally bi" is a danger warning on that front"

Not really. I'm definitely bi, but I prefer fucking with women rather than blokes. I'm happy to do anything else (kissing etc), just don't enjoy fucking so much.

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go "

State that the meet is with hubby, that you are going to watch. It might get rid of a few would be tryers.

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go

State that the meet is with hubby, that you are going to watch. It might get rid of a few would be tryers."

Good point.. But what about the bi guy that goes to meet the couple and then some how the female never had any intention to participate or some how my some strange misfortune she is mysteriously in able to attend

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go

State that the meet is with hubby, that you are going to watch. It might get rid of a few would be tryers.

Good point.. But what about the bi guy that goes to meet the couple and then some how the female never had any intention to participate or some how my some strange misfortune she is mysteriously in able to attend"

So you get cock, you are bi, so whilst misled...not a bad result...

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"I'm not happy at all

This has never happened to me in over ten years of being in a bi couple relationship.

Am I so fugly that blokes don't want to pretend to be bi to get to me

I'm spitting feathers here

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No not at all but your hubby does look hot. Lol

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

"I'm not happy at all

This has never happened to me in over ten years of being in a bi couple relationship.

Am I so fugly that blokes don't want to pretend to be bi to get to me

I'm spitting feathers here

No not at all but your hubby does look hot. Lol"

I'm just divining into this retort. I'm sure there's a compliment in there somewhere

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

I know two guys whi will "play" bi to get to the female. Sad in my opinion

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

"they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions...

Like what? They can easily tell you what you want to hear.

The only way is if gey action happens before are at least simultaneously with the hetero..

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I as the female usually say I love to watch the men play and do not always join in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go

State that the meet is with hubby, that you are going to watch. It might get rid of a few would be tryers.

Good point.. But what about the bi guy that goes to meet the couple and then some how the female never had any intention to participate or some how my some strange misfortune she is mysteriously in able to attend

So you get cock, you are bi, so whilst misled...not a bad result..."

It's not just about getting cock now is it. It's. Ice to get cock but hopefully get the female part of the trio suitably turned on she may wish to join in that's what a Bi threesome is all about...in my books anyway

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

North Devon-ish

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go "

Hope you dont feel rejected here, but the Guy might not fancy you ?

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"Are guys that stupid to think By saying there Bi, and not being bi that just cause the got through the front door that we would suddenly change our mins and say yes go on shag the wife, and then get pissed when you say ok not bi off you go

Hope you dont feel rejected here, but the Guy might not fancy you ?

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Mmm. I never looked at it this way before. Gosh u r good!

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

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"they're easy to out with a few direct pertinent questions...

Like what? They can easily tell you what you want to hear.

The only way is if gey action happens before are at least simultaneously with the hetero..

I as the female usually say I love to watch the men play and do not always join in."

At least you're not misleading

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By *lueEyedGuyMEMan
over a year ago

MancBoltonBuryWigan

"You should tell them they can only put their cock in your wife if your cock is in their arse at the first that should sort them out"

Now that sounds good! Does that mean I'm bi??

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By *andemanMan
over a year ago

bedforshire

"I'm not happy at all

This has never happened to me in over ten years of being in a bi couple relationship.

Am I so fugly that blokes don't want to pretend to be bi to get to me

I'm spitting feathers here

No not at all but your hubby does look hot. Lol

I'm just divining into this retort. I'm sure there's a compliment in there somewhere

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Lol i ment you are both most Comly. (Old English for scrummy looking)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pointless excersie in her book as does nothing for her at all nor me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Pointless excersie in her book as does nothing for her at all nor me lol "

Thanks for your contribution

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fully bi here

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By *ptimusDMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

The short answer is YES, there are guys that stupid.

On the flip side, there are equally stupid male halfs of couples who think because you're balls deep in their wife you wouldn't mind or notice that they're cupping a feel of your bum cheek, or suddenly always seem to be taking positions where their cocks are dangling close to your face like a pendulum, or you need help to get your condom off

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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

We cant me as a couple and Only play as a couple and have no problem on saying if we like someone or not, and so should everyybody else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can you be orally bi? Is that acceptable by couples

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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago

Dublin and London

How any guy thinks this would work is beyond me. Firstly the male half of the couple will have bi desires, whether that is to suck cock, have his cock sucked or full on male on male fucking, he will want it to happen, and he will want it to happen at the start of the meet. That's probably why they have chosen a bi male!

As soon as the straight male will refuses to engage in some bi fun, then he is kicked out the door.

How could it end any other way??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can you be orally bi? Is that acceptable by couples"

Totally acceptable for us

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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

With us anyway and cant speak for others its the wife that drives the bi mm play, she is the one who insist that the other guy is bi Not me, but i do enjoy the play and get imence pleasure from our bi mmf plays.

I am not girly but will wear pantys and stockings for the wife as it is a thing she likes me to wear. Be it a turn on or for her to crack up laugghing.

We did nt judge but we thought being on a sex site and being completly upfront we would get the right not the wrong type of person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's frustrating from a genuine bi guy's perspective too. I'm finding that being straight about being bi (see what I did there?) immediately puts you on the back foot generally.

Then hearing that guys who have lied about being bi getting 'valuable' meets with bi couples when I'm struggling to even get my first meet, it's disheartening to be honest.

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By *istressdandsubt OP Couple
over a year ago

caterham

True but, the Only good thing is when you do get the right person and the play flows there nothing like the buzz you get

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's frustrating from a genuine bi guy's perspective too. I'm finding that being straight about being bi (see what I did there?) immediately puts you on the back foot generally.

Then hearing that guys who have lied about being bi getting 'valuable' meets with bi couples when I'm struggling to even get my first meet, it's disheartening to be honest.

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Don't be disheartened, stick to your guns. Don't pretend to be something you're not just for a shag, trust me, Ive been there.

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By *ick-brown27Man
over a year ago

worsley

Trying to work out the logic in this especially while meeting a bi couple and how people think they wont be found out haha

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By *ubmichellestarTV/TS
over a year ago

Kent

Is funny how many 'straight' guys message me !

Think they maybe a tad delusional 9r desperate lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There should be a blow job test lol but yes "iam bi but don't have it on my profile " "I can play bi" iam orally bi" all terms we hate

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By *ubmichellestarTV/TS
over a year ago

Kent

"There should be a blow job test lol but yes "iam bi but don't have it on my profile " "I can play bi" iam orally bi" all terms we hate"

Well is a quick way to show there worth get them to as soon as they enter or close the door behind them as they leave lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They just spoil it for us genuine bi guys!!

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By *ick-brown27Man
over a year ago

worsley

I like that blow job test

with bi play its still something i am exploring i havnt gone further than oral( which i have enjoyed ) giving and recieving but i am hoping to take it further i still have so much to try

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By *ubmichellestarTV/TS
over a year ago

Kent

If rather the wives strap on haha

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By *ick-brown27Man
over a year ago

worsley

"If rather the wives strap on haha

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Had and enjoyed strapon fun and wouldnt mind a couple spitroasting me

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By *ubmichellestarTV/TS
over a year ago

Kent

"If rather the wives strap on haha

Had and enjoyed strapon fun and wouldnt mind a couple spitroasting me

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Sounds ideal to me !

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By *lacksausageMan
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"They just spoil it for us genuine bi guys!! "

Lol. That's a statement I could have bet my big fat one on not hearing; ...well, until now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having looked at your profile the pretenders are missing out on a lot so more fool them!

M x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple solution, fuck hubby first. Works for me, then both fuck the wife

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By *nEnglishmanAbroadMan
over a year ago

Holborn

It's also a lot more fun when the guys put on a show for the wife before she joins in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's also a lot more fun when the guys put on a show for the wife before she joins in.

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