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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline." This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason.  | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. Other than that make sure you address both and make sure they respect you as an individual and not just someone who should be grateful for their attention. Socials are a good way to make contact and clubs are often advised. Good luck " Thanks for the advise...very useful | |||
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"It's much easier to meet couples than single women on here " Obviously i need some advise | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason. "Interesting advise | |||
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Due to the rarity of them, a single guy's message really has to catch my eye. I like a well written, thought out message. A bit of humour and wit is nice. Like it or not, single guys have many many to compete with. Also, remember that you have to click with anyone you meet so sometimes it won't happen because the couple don't feel the connection.
Best advice is avoid vulgarity and the 'fancy and fuck?' message and keep trying! X | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason. "We second that  | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason. "Courtney. I certainly wouldn't want to put someone like you off. I'm straight and was writing a profile focusing on how I enjoy being with a woman. Single women seem to want guys to put them first on their profiles so I had hoped writing it in this open way but saying at the end that I'd love to meet couples would work for both. Please could you let me know what it is you're looking for when a man talks about meeting a couple. I genuinely want to meet couples as well as women as I'm a bit kinky that way. But being straight my focus would still be on the woman. I'm comfortable around guys. But the kink of it for me would be seducing a man's wife whilst he got off on it... a proper threeway delight. Thanks for any help xx | |||
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"I'm comfortable around guys. But the kink of it for me would be seducing a man's wife whilst he got off on it... a proper threeway delight. Thanks for any help xx" Oops I should've added that I'm also into watching a couple and interacting with the woman. I'm straight so I can't really see what interaction I would have with the guy other than being friendly and gentlemanly | |||
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"We primarily want to meet couples, although I do enjoy the odd MFM meet when hubby allows it
Due to the rarity of them, a single guy's message really has to catch my eye. I like a well written, thought out message. A bit of humour and wit is nice. Like it or not, single guys have many many to compete with. Also, remember that you have to click with anyone you meet so sometimes it won't happen because the couple don't feel the connection.
Best advice is avoid vulgarity and the 'fancy and fuck?' message and keep trying! X"Agree with this! Also, we look for a guy who realises it's about him and hubby giving me the kind of experience I wouldn't get with one man alone, so how he and hubby 'gel' is important too. Addressing me alone is an instant turn off for us. | |||
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"I'm comfortable around guys. But the kink of it for me would be seducing a man's wife whilst he got off on it... a proper threeway delight. Thanks for any help xx Oops I should've added that I'm also into watching a couple and interacting with the woman. I'm straight so I can't really see what interaction I would have with the guy other than being friendly and gentlemanly " make sure you talk to both, friendliness and respect to both & you will go far  | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason. "We'll 3rd (or 4th) this. We're mainly looking for mfms but a profile that reads like you'd make do with meeting a couple because it's easier than finding a single woman is an instant no. We want to know you have a vague understanding of the dynamic, not that you're OK screwing her while he watches. | |||
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"Agree with this! Also, we look for a guy who realises it's about him and hubby giving me the kind of experience I wouldn't get with one man alone, so how he and hubby 'gel' is important too" Please could you give me some insight into this relationship between the man and your hubby. I'm yet to have an MMF. I'm straight so my sexual focus would be on the woman. I'd love to know what kind of relationship you women would ideally like someone like me to have with your partner. Would it just be friendly and welcoming and inclusive? Or are you looking for something a bit more kinky... maybe the two of us being cheeky boys or me talking dirty to him about what I'd like to do with you? I'd love to get some insight | |||
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"Agree with this! Also, we look for a guy who realises it's about him and hubby giving me the kind of experience I wouldn't get with one man alone, so how he and hubby 'gel' is important too Please could you give me some insight into this relationship between the man and your hubby. I'm yet to have an MMF. I'm straight so my sexual focus would be on the woman. I'd love to know what kind of relationship you women would ideally like someone like me to have with your partner. Would it just be friendly and welcoming and inclusive? Or are you looking for something a bit more kinky... maybe the two of us being cheeky boys or me talking dirty to him about what I'd like to do with you? I'd love to get some insight " Its different for every couple, you need to talk to them about what they want. You also need to ensure that they're listening to what you want. | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason.
We'll 3rd (or 4th) this. We're mainly looking for mfms but a profile that reads like you'd make do with meeting a couple because it's easier than finding a single woman is an instant no. We want to know you have a vague understanding of the dynamic, not that you're OK screwing her while he watches."Wondering...is that howmy profilereads  | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason.
Courtney. I certainly wouldn't want to put someone like you off. I'm straight and was writing a profile focusing on how I enjoy being with a woman. Single women seem to want guys to put them first on their profiles so I had hoped writing it in this open way but saying at the end that I'd love to meet couples would work for both.
Please could you let me know what it is you're looking for when a man talks about meeting a couple. I genuinely want to meet couples as well as women as I'm a bit kinky that way. But being straight my focus would still be on the woman. I'm comfortable around guys. But the kink of it for me would be seducing a man's wife whilst he got off on it... a proper threeway delight. Thanks for any help xx"I think the way you described it is fine. I don't expect guys to write their profiles specifically for couples - but if a guy is looking to meet couples because he genuinely wants to and not just because he is having a hard time meeting women, then it helps to not have a profile almost entirely tailored to single women with a simple "I'm also happy meeting couples" tacked on to the end. Saying a bit somewhere in your profile about what you want out of a couples meet and what you'd add to the dynamic is good enough, I'd imagine.  | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason.
We'll 3rd (or 4th) this. We're mainly looking for mfms but a profile that reads like you'd make do with meeting a couple because it's easier than finding a single woman is an instant no. We want to know you have a vague understanding of the dynamic, not that you're OK screwing her while he watches.
Wondering...is that howmy profilereads "No, but nor does it read that you have a particular desire to have a threesome. As a PP had said there are lots of guys who target their profile at meeting women and have a throw away line about how they wouldn't turn down a threesome, or they also fancy ruining someone's wife. It makes me cynical if there isn't something to indicate it's a genuine desire of yours. | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason.
We'll 3rd (or 4th) this. We're mainly looking for mfms but a profile that reads like you'd make do with meeting a couple because it's easier than finding a single woman is an instant no. We want to know you have a vague understanding of the dynamic, not that you're OK screwing her while he watches.
Wondering...is that howmy profilereads
No, but nor does it read that you have a particular desire to have a threesome. As a PP had said there are lots of guys who target their profile at meeting women and have a throw away line about how they wouldn't turn down a threesome, or they also fancy ruining someone's wife. It makes me cynical if there isn't something to indicate it's a genuine desire of yours. "Are u refering to my profile... | |||
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"We meet single men. You need to ensure that its clear that you want to meet couples because that's what interests you and not because its another way to meet women. With that in mind you might reconsider your profile headline. This, this, 100 times this! I've turned down more men who I was genuinely interested in for this reason than for any other reason.
We'll 3rd (or 4th) this. We're mainly looking for mfms but a profile that reads like you'd make do with meeting a couple because it's easier than finding a single woman is an instant no. We want to know you have a vague understanding of the dynamic, not that you're OK screwing her while he watches.
Wondering...is that howmy profilereads
No, but nor does it read that you have a particular desire to have a threesome. As a PP had said there are lots of guys who target their profile at meeting women and have a throw away line about how they wouldn't turn down a threesome, or they also fancy ruining someone's wife. It makes me cynical if there isn't something to indicate it's a genuine desire of yours. Are u refering to my profile..."The first line yes. | |||
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