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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hello, I have been on this site quite a while now, and have been honest but it feels like its getting me nowhere. The ladies I have been messaging seem to go for the more experienced guys. I was wondering if I should keep searching on here, or if this is maybe the wrong place for me. I really want to explore my sexual side, its just very difficult to take that first step. Any tips?

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Improve your profile bit and some half decent pics might help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Better pictures and something written on your profile would be a start.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just wait and get a gf. Or hire an escort if you can't wait

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, Il try. Its difficult to write anything about myself with hardly any experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your a virgin? If so is a swinging place the best place to start I would have thought a been aged 15 at a party with a 2 litre bottle of cider and a group of mates is normally the best place.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pics with your hat on fire, a giant assault rifle and a 2 word profile just maybe contributing to your problem.

All you have to offer is "immature" pics and no imagination to your opening profile pics.

A couple of good cock pics, flaccid and hard in private for later messages, good clear face pics in public. Exposed torso in an open shirt and casual t shirt and jeans are the pics you need.

Tell the public something about you, who you are. What your looking for, what YOU can offer OTHERS.

Good luck and hopefully the next 12 months will be better than the last. x

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By *orkie321bWoman
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Thanks, Il try. Its difficult to write anything about myself with hardly any experience"

Even though it's difficult to write about yourself surely you can do better than just two words

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank you, I will change through it now. I appreciate the advice

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I'm changing the 2 words now. I had written more before but it wasn't working.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha, yeah I wish it went like that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, I have been on this site quite a while now, and have been honest but it feels like its getting me nowhere. The ladies I have been messaging seem to go for the more experienced guys. I was wondering if I should keep searching on here, or if this is maybe the wrong place for me. I really want to explore my sexual side, its just very difficult to take that first step. Any tips? "

Pictures of you on fire are a deterrent as much as your age, plus all men are outnumbered anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah It appears that pic may have to go, I quite liked It, I thought it made me look exciting. But apparantly not lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Don't just put all efforts into one place or person. In other words, use real life and fab options.

Select people who are happy meeting others with less experience as well as someone your age - keep your efforts focused.

The issue here is that some will want partners who are confidently experienced, so they are a waste of your time. I'm often in Cambs and there are lots of options for you here.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped."

Seriously?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped.

Seriously? "

No not even slightly serious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped.

Seriously?

No not even slightly serious "

Thank goodness for that. You would have ended up crucified lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped."

Nice idea!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped."

Aah, the 90's approach to being a young lad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped.

Aah, the 90's approach to being a young lad "

Ha you know I think things now are messed up you have 23 year old Virgin's who have been brought up on a life of computers get out there get shagging young life is about going out with your friends getting hammerd sleeping about and making memories not contacting the internet because no one wants to meet him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped.

Seriously?

No not even slightly serious

Thank goodness for that. You would have ended up crucified lol"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seriously though OP, if you're a genuine virgin and not just a fab one then I'd really recommend not making this your first experience.. it can be quite daunting to meet people in the first place without the additional pressure of it being your first time.

Plus, realistically, not many people are here to teach others what to do.. quite the opposite.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped.

Aah, the 90's approach to being a young lad

Ha you know I think things now are messed up you have 23 year old Virgin's who have been brought up on a life of computers get out there get shagging young life is about going out with your friends getting hammerd sleeping about and making memories not contacting the internet because no one wants to meet him"

It's a different world now mate.. even meeting someone 'normally' had a period of just talking online and nowt else.. so they meet, like the look of each other and then decide to not see each other and fking talk online - it's mental!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you tried going clubbing with your friends and pulling a fat bird with low self esteem that's just been dumped.

Aah, the 90's approach to being a young lad

Ha you know I think things now are messed up you have 23 year old Virgin's who have been brought up on a life of computers get out there get shagging young life is about going out with your friends getting hammerd sleeping about and making memories not contacting the internet because no one wants to meet him

It's a different world now mate.. even meeting someone 'normally' had a period of just talking online and nowt else.. so they meet, like the look of each other and then decide to not see each other and fking talk online - it's mental!

I preferred the meet on a Friday night out clubbing d*unk on houch bit of a snog then you go cinema with the girl on the Saturday and try and finger bang her on back row fail miserably and end up shagging her a week later in back of your vauxall nova with method man blaring out like the true gangster every 20 year old is

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Haha, thanks for the ideas guys. I wont give up hope on this just yet! But I have considered just getting back into the real world. I thought id give this a try as I thought it would be easier getting to know someone, where as real life is to easy to get your hopes up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha, thanks for the ideas guys. I wont give up hope on this just yet! But I have considered just getting back into the real world. I thought id give this a try as I thought it would be easier getting to know someone, where as real life is to easy to get your hopes up."

No hopes needed pal get out with your mates have a good time don't take life to serious or worry to much about sex just have fun and it will all fall into place don't go to magaluf that place is a sausage fest and you will not pull fact but definitely go on a few lads holidays soon find some woman in your life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile isn't too bad m8

The right girl will come along

Trust me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hello, I have been on this site quite a while now, and have been honest but it feels like its getting me nowhere. The ladies I have been messaging seem to go for the more experienced guys. I was wondering if I should keep searching on here, or if this is maybe the wrong place for me. I really want to explore my sexual side, its just very difficult to take that first step. Any tips? "

Maybe lose the first 2 pics and second from last. Also maybe say what type of woman ur looking to meet

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Or just get to a club and keep the virgin thing quiet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go to a club dude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where's the "patience is the key" guy??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Where's the "patience is the key" guy?? "

U mean shag lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Haha, thanks for the ideas guys. I wont give up hope on this just yet! But I have considered just getting back into the real world. I thought id give this a try as I thought it would be easier getting to know someone, where as real life is to easy to get your hopes up."

Can't you do both? Use this as a back up and not a go to?

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