FabSwingers.com forum: Seduction

By *nvercoupleCouple
over a year ago

Inverness

Depends on who is meeting.

Couples? Probably not.

Singles? Yes.

By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i haven't really found anyone willing to do that (except for guys i'm dating or the occasional flakey guy who doesn't really give a shit and you're just there to amuse him coz he's bored), and i'm not really arsed any more.

i think a couple of things now;

that a lot of men get way ahead of themselves and think coz you're on the internet you are automatically up for sex with them, they jump straight in with the sexual before a woman has even had time to check him out properly and before she even knows if she wants to fuck him or not. they often do this by offering something non-sexual, like a date/social and then if you agree it's all about sex then.

i know it's not swinging, internet hook-ups, but come on at least make sure you're attractive to someone before offering them sex. and do not presume chat means attraction coz it doesn't yet, it means we are checking you out.

i forget the 2nd thing, will be back if i remember (ffs kids are loud when they talk and interrupt your thought process)...

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Is there a place for it on the swing scene? Discuss

Mrs"

I think it's just a numbers game for some. But a bit more than just a shack up is preferable