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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

I have been known to delay ejaculation by many( wink wink) but I have this play partner who accuses me of being selfish whenever she senses me doing it.

What do others think? Is it a selfish act or is it for the general good of all?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep selfish defo selfish we crave that cum mr!!! More and more is needed

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Yep selfish defo selfish we crave that cum mr!!! More and more is needed "

But you see, after a cum, follows a period of downtime if you get me. And that helps no one, methinks

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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

Everyone is different. Some women like a man to have stamina and not cum for a long time and some like a bit of fun then you both cum together. Think you need to work out together what you like and don't.

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By *esparate danMan
over a year ago

glasgow


"Yep selfish defo selfish we crave that cum mr!!! More and more is needed

But you see, after a cum, follows a period of downtime if you get me. And that helps no one, methinks"

Im with you on that sausman

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Everyone is different. Some women like a man to have stamina and not cum for a long time and some like a bit of fun then you both cum together. Think you need to work out together what you like and don't. "

So which do u prefer Jo?

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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago

maidstone


"Everyone is different. Some women like a man to have stamina and not cum for a long time and some like a bit of fun then you both cum together. Think you need to work out together what you like and don't.

So which do u prefer Jo?"

I like a lot of ladies prefer playing in lots of positions then cumming together.

i like the feel of a cock just as it's about to cum, it turns me on even more and makes me cum harder.

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Everyone is different. Some women like a man to have stamina and not cum for a long time and some like a bit of fun then you both cum together. Think you need to work out together what you like and don't.

So which do u prefer Jo?

I like a lot of ladies prefer playing in lots of positions then cumming together.

i like the feel of a cock just as it's about to cum, it turns me on even more and makes me cum harder. "

And so when are you completing your house move? A bird whispered into my ears that ......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love it done to me also enjoy doing it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's impossible for me to stop myself when she looks at you in the eyes and tells you to cum. Bloody women, I know your game

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"It's impossible for me to stop myself when she looks at you in the eyes and tells you to cum. Bloody women, I know your game "

There's only one lady who does that to me. A sexy mature busty lady I've been seeing lately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It's impossible for me to stop myself when she looks at you in the eyes and tells you to cum. Bloody women, I know your game "

I can't be helped. When a women said cum for me, I just explode.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They know what they're doing

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

All depends on the moment Surely!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think it's selfish,especially if you need to rest straight after. The orgasm is not why I have sex.

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I like a happy medium. Too quick I don't cum, too long it hurts lol.

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By *igerlilycubWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

I love it as the more delayed the harder they cum when they do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A very difficult balancing act OP, delaying is good for me too then again I'm not into quick meets. I've never been accused of being selfish though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to prolong the moment and hold off from cumming, but I've been with women who want me to orgasm as soon as I feel it. I think a lot of women enjoy seeing their man cum, regardless of whether it's 10 mins or an hour into sex.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

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I've only managed to do it once and it was during my last meet, I was enjoying myself so much I just didn't want the excitement I was feeling at the time to go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I take a while to orgasm at the moment, possibly due to the side effect of medication I've recently started.

It was fun at first, and my wife certainly wasn't complaining, but now it's getting tedious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have found over the years i have been able to perfect a way as to hold back cumming until the lady has had a few orgasms and then i have been able to cum myself

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By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Dick likes to please me first then cum after

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By *otbrowneyesWoman
over a year ago

swindon wilts

Blacksausage your selfish full stop . Long your ok and get what you want .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to delay also. I like to to be driven wild with the imminent orgasm on the edge. When I'm ready to cum and finally let go it is much more intense.

So I get where you're coming from OP. No pun intended lol

Mrs Two

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No you are not selfish X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love it as the more delayed the harder they cum when they do "

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"Blacksausage your selfish full stop . Long your ok and get what you want . "

Welcome to the forum sweet delight, how have you been? You have to inbox me sometime x. Nice picture by the way. I love blue.

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By *otbrowneyesWoman
over a year ago

swindon wilts

It's ok will not be messaging. You . Think you got plenty to keep you going . You made it very very clear . You had steak on your door step and a click of a text . But you rather have cheap burgers

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

By the way, there is a BBC thread going on in the forums. Just saying.

Anyway, anybody else finds delaying cum awesome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mmmm steak or cheeaseburgers mmmmmm

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can delay but I also don't need any 'down time', I've found I can cum and just carry on where I left off! Leads to long sessions though but every meet is different and people have their own preferences

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport


"I can delay but I also don't need any 'down time', I've found I can cum and just carry on where I left off! Leads to long sessions though but every meet is different and people have their own preferences"

The joy of the first cum is the second...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Please someone tell me to cum, for fucks sake I cannot take any more

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By *ongtalljonMan
over a year ago

North Wales

I like to cum multiple times and the between times give me time to concentrate on the lady.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Not going to be all bravado and bragging.

I will admit that when it comes to delaying I can't, have tried and tried but when it's gonna blow its gonna blow no force on earth is going to holdback old faithful.

SPLOOSH!

It just means that you have to be more attentive to the woman's needs prior to me blowing my wod.

If we can get an orgasm or three done before actual intercourse hopefully she is just waiting for my deposit in her safety deposit box or at least all over the outside of it.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I'm all for delaying as I'm rather greedy.

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By *lacksausage OP   Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

15-20 mins, short break, start again,another 15-20 mins, break... And so on till i come then a proper break.

Thats the way i roll

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