FabSwingers.com forum: Another mans cum in wife

By *aveieboy32 OP Man
over a year ago

Do you let another man cum in your wife ?

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By *estMidsHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Malvern

Of course!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do you just jerk off to the responses to your dozens of new threads Davieboy? Or do you ever actually meet people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and how is this thread substantively different from the one you posted 8 minutes earlier?

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By *_Jones_81Man
over a year ago

"Of course!"

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Love another guy filling her up with a nice load

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Do you just jerk off to the responses to your dozens of new threads Davieboy? Or do you ever actually meet people?

Seems to love starting pointless threads with closed questions

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By *ollie1Couple
over a year ago

murcia spain

no point otherwise

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

must post threads to turn him on and spank to the monkey

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By *amdacarrCouple
over a year ago

lincoln and chameleons

Personally i love multiple loads in me and partner seems to like it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Personally i love multiple loads in me and partner seems to like it too

play safe always, to many claps about

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We only play bareback and I live seeing my Mrs getting filled with another man's spunk in pussy and arse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why do people even respond to this crap!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some ppl live in fantasy land. Sure they get off with their own crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love it !! Xxx

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By *tterlysluterlyCouple
over a year ago

northampton

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By *tterlysluterlyCouple
over a year ago

northampton

Both of us would love to be able to do this but surely it's too risky to do nowadays?

If it wasn't for the chance of catching something she would love to & I'd be happy to see it ooze out of her also.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I don't have a husband so I let blokes cum in me when I'm comfy with them

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By *aveywMan
over a year ago

tramore

Why does anyone reply to this guys inane endless posts. I know he's lonely but it does get boring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes so I can eat it

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By *lkDomWhtSubBiCpleCouple
over a year ago

Somewhere / Everywhere /Kinksville

I don't have a wife. But I'd very much like one. I hear they can be very useful

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By *ocbigMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

I have cum, so that may help..

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

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By *andydan69Man
21 weeks ago

south west nr you mmm

Mmmm

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By *69meMan
21 weeks ago

Cambridgeshire

All the time.

...I love to clean her up

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By *hastityPleasureGiverMan
21 weeks ago

Rotherham

Having been in two cuckold relationships, it was never my choice whom my gf had sex with, with whom or if it was bare

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By *hefabtrioCouple
21 weeks ago

Carlisle

Our 3rd cums up my wife every week and I love it

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By *yeSureMan
21 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *unandcuriousCouple
21 weeks ago

Antrim

Great fun

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By *easeandplease99Man
21 weeks ago

exeter

"Great fun"

Would love to fill both of elaines holes with my cum untill and watch it dripping out

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By *sianTravellerMan
21 weeks ago

West Yorkshire

I am seeking hotwife meets

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By *irebrand 1263Man
21 weeks ago

near you

You can have my cum

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By *ittleMissCali_MrDJCouple
21 weeks ago

wonderland.

"Do you let another man cum in your wife ? "
No... it is something only Mr is going to do... we only do safe sex anyway

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Any videos of this happening

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By *edonist79Man
21 weeks ago

Trowbridge

Since we started seeing each other a few guys have come in my gf and I love when they do. If she doesn't know someone she uses a condom everytime. But people she trusts she loves feeling a guy shoot his load into her. I'd love her to fuck more raw. Turns me on knowing another man's used her pussy and left his come in her. Sometimes she doesn't tell me she's done something until we are fucking. And she will say another man has claimed her pussy and I'm struggling every few seconds not long after that trying not to come. She is so wet she always feels like another guys filled her anyway. And she's usually got her wand on and I can feel it really intensely. Tend to use aromas too with her during sex so it's all so sensative. I can usually last until she's at least come one time. Have to stop pretty often to not come and I know I'm literally leaking pre come like it's a tap I'm so close to coming. She loves that in her pussy.

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By *ister_EMan
21 weeks ago

Hayling Island

Firstly I came of age in a very conservative culture where sex before marriage and pregnancy out of wedlock were socially taboo. I also grew up during the height of the Aids epidemic in South Africa, so my entire life it had stressed that unprotected sex was genuinely a matter of life and death for my generation. And not something to treated casually!

Then there is the whole psychological aspect cumming inside someone's wife to take into account.

Cumming inside anyone is amazing! For me it's always been a powerfully erotic and intimate act. Cumming inside another guys wife has a significance for me that goes way beyond the simple physical act of ejaculation.

The act itself for me implies significant levels of trust from both sides. Aside from the health risks, almost every ejaculation carries with it the potential (however slight) of creating a life

and to me that's not a minor thing!

Then there are also the social implications of 'planting your seed' in someone's wife and everything that that implies in terms of their relationship and the part you are playing in said relationship.

So it definitely something I really enjoy sharing with trusted partners, but only in the context of an ongoing and committed relationship of one form or another.

The first time I cum inside them is a significant milestone in that relationship. It definitely means we're taking things up a level in our relationship, which is exiting in and of itself. Even without taking into account how much hotter the sex suddenly gets!

Sloppy seconds, creampie play, cleanup, and a whole new world of kink and roleplay that is suddenly unlocked and it really elevates and intensifies everything for me in a

way that nothing ene can!

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By *wickers1Couple
21 weeks ago

Hounslow

"Firstly I came of age in a very conservative culture where sex before marriage and pregnancy out of wedlock were socially taboo. I also grew up during the height of the Aids epidemic in South Africa, so my entire life it had stressed that unprotected sex was genuinely a matter of life and death for my generation. And not something to treated casually!

Then there is the whole psychological aspect cumming inside someone's wife to take into account.

The act itself for me implies significant levels of trust from both sides. Aside from the health risks, almost every ejaculation carries with it the potential (however slight) of creating a life

and to me that's not a minor thing!

So it definitely something I really enjoy sharing with trusted partners, but only in the context of an ongoing and committed relationship of one form or another.

Sloppy seconds, creampie play, cleanup, and a whole new world of kink and roleplay that is suddenly unlocked and it really elevates and intensifies everything for me in a

way that nothing ene can!

Totally agree

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By *hippy57Man
21 weeks ago

Chelmsford

I know couples have different views on this,and they all valid,respecting people’s boundaries is paramount,also people’s health,there are certain boundaries couples insist on such as kissing some think this is to personal,if you really want to share your wife with another man personally I think you should share her fully,let her decide how intimate she wants to be,to give her boundaries it’s like going into a sweet shop and saying you can only have one or two sweets lol,

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By *orknmindy21Couple
21 weeks ago

Newtownards

Yes mmmmm with our bull then I reclaim xx

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By *eekingjoy777Woman
21 weeks ago

dorset

My ex loved me to swallow it then kissed me

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By *urenutsMan
21 weeks ago

waltham cross/Harrow HA1

"My ex loved me to swallow it then kissed me "

That's hot

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By *ools1964Man
21 weeks ago

Swadlincote

I would let them ... if she was up for it, which she isn't, she doesn't let me fuck her any more never mind any other fucker

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
21 weeks ago

Angus

As long as agree

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By *uncouplerk40Couple
21 weeks ago

We do

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By *etsbenaughty69Couple
21 weeks ago

Essex

We do..x

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
21 weeks ago

Angus

What a party lol xx

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By *xydadbodMan
21 weeks ago

Milton keynes

Sounds like a good party for sure

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
21 weeks ago

Camberley

Yes we do..... and love it if hubby goes in straight after and adds to it...... xx

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By *llGoodFun76Couple
21 weeks ago

Angus

Mmm x

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By *nlyessexCouple
21 weeks ago

Hornchurch

Love her full of another man’s cum especially when she has me caged and makes me clean up

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By *igblackchocolateMan
21 weeks ago

London & Essex

What if she gets pregnant?

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By *ricd321Man
21 weeks ago

Carlisle

I've always wanted a guy to fill my wife, she then comes home & I fuck her mmmmm

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By *amsoonMan
21 weeks ago

Stornoway

Always good when her lover has her for the weekend and fills her up

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By *ergus1622Man
21 weeks ago

Dundee

"Do you let another man cum in your wife ? "

Not in but over is okay as we only play safe.

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By *lirtingentMan
21 weeks ago

Stroud

I love giving another man's wife what she needs...

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Isn’t that what you are meant to send hot wives back to hubby? Dripping with your cum 😏

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Oh yes . I love other guys cum in my wife.

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By *ucktastic33Couple
21 weeks ago

North Wales &

It's a requirement

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Love the idea of it but it would never happen we’d only ever play safe (mr)

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By *bcplCouple
21 weeks ago

Aberdeenshire

Can’t wait for the day! But only with someone we trust.

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I’ve done it a few times now. It’s a great feeling seeing the wife’s face as she takes another man’s cum load 😈

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By *l3sumCouple
21 weeks ago

Dartford

Have a regular guy who’s clean and tested who can fill her up. Love going in afterwards.

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By *rNightMan
21 weeks ago

Coventry

It’s happened with my partner a few times but rarely. I do love it though, the extra lubrication

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By *onynickiCouple
21 weeks ago

Bournemouth

I love another man’s cum in me

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By *hipdaleCouple
21 weeks ago

Greenhithe

Most definitely

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By *8warrenMan
21 weeks ago

"Most definitely "

On my bucket list

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By *pitfiremk10Man
21 weeks ago

Gloucester

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By *igh PinkCouple
21 weeks ago

Manchester

Yes all the time

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By *mizhereMan
21 weeks ago

Thame area

Let's lots do the ex and my fuck buddies

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

Over me.

Not in me

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By *ornynwukCouple
21 weeks ago

blackpool

We both love heavy cummers

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By *emptusboth777Couple
21 weeks ago

oxford

Excited to try it

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By *ingomountbattenMan
21 weeks ago

North country boy / girl

Anyone want me to cum in their wife?

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
21 weeks ago

coventry

a big part of what we do, as long as hes a trusted partner

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By (user no longer on site)
21 weeks ago

I would love to watch another man fill my wife's bald pussy

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By *iveshowcouple2Couple
21 weeks ago

Manchester

Over. In. Whatever.

It’s their choice and she is very obliging

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By *andydan69Man
20 weeks ago

south west nr you mmm

Have done this quite a few times with trustedsoo hot

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By *antstoexploreCouple
20 weeks ago

wales

Yea and love fucking her after it

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By *edandwhiteroseCouple
20 weeks ago

Leeds

Absolutely!

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By *pitfiremk10Man
20 weeks ago

Gloucester

It's where it is meant to go.

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By *eakgent53Man
20 weeks ago

Buxton

In or on , wherever they both want

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By (user no longer on site)
20 weeks ago

My best friend came in my wife pitty she doesn't play with him anymore

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By *nlyessexCouple
20 weeks ago

Hornchurch

What’s not to like seeing her full of cum then being ordered to clean it out while being cock caged

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By *ee1967Man
20 weeks ago

watford

Loved seeing it in my ex wifes pussy.

But preferred seeing it over her huge tits

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By *ilva69Man
20 weeks ago

stockport

Balls full

For any willing wife

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By *oldAndBoundlessMan
20 weeks ago

Bradford

Me personally it’s a NO!!! But I’m not apposed to filling some one else’s wife up though

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By *yeSureMan
20 weeks ago

Glasgow

Hopefully in time

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By *ommyone99Couple
20 weeks ago

liverpool

yes

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Would definitely give it ago

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By *intteaMan
19 weeks ago

London

Love it xx

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By *exy couple 2025Couple
19 weeks ago

belfast

Yes its so horny and naughty

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By *ausage_n_SmashedCouple
19 weeks ago

Huddersfield

She loves it. Dripping

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By *estiswestMan
19 weeks ago

glasgow

So intense yes

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By *he Whole PortionCouple
19 weeks ago

in & around

"Do you let another man cum in your wife ? "

Don't you?

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By *hartlonHMan
19 weeks ago

Greenhithe

Always wanted to cum in another geezers wife ehile he watched

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Wife had another man's Spunk once as it was my best friend

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
19 weeks ago

Watermouth

If i trust the guy not to have an STD, fuck yes, fill her up.

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By *igad999Man
19 weeks ago

wolverhampton

Did years ago when wife used to play

Was a mate and yeah young didn’t think but filled all the time and his gf was too

Nowadays she’s past the pregnancy thing but long as clean etc for sure

Cleanups all day

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By *DerryMan
19 weeks ago

Dublin/Derry/Belfast

"If i trust the guy not to have an STD, fuck yes, fill her up."

So hot

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By *ony MannMan
19 weeks ago

South Newton

"Wife had another man's Spunk once as it was my best friend "

Was? Not anymore?

It was a turn on when it happened

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By *pslad99Man
19 weeks ago

ipswich

Did do when we where married the look on her face as she was looking at me to when he cum in her was such a turn on and re lane sex was amazing

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By *unkymale65Man
19 weeks ago

Worksop

Yes young lad of 20 spunked inside my ex girlfriend she was 45. I loved fucking her after

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By *eeds fun guyMan
19 weeks ago

yorkshire

"Did do when we where married the look on her face as she was looking at me to when he cum in her was such a turn on and re lane sex was amazing"

Did you clean up

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By *DerryMan
19 weeks ago

Dublin/Derry/Belfast

"Yes young lad of 20 spunked inside my ex girlfriend she was 45. I loved fucking her after

Young guy here if you need a hand with this again lol

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By *yeSureMan
19 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *anger79Couple
19 weeks ago

Virginia

Always! She loves it and so do I

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By *hurrock couple for funCouple
19 weeks ago

Thurrock

We both enjoy it tbh

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By *ust want fun 888Man
19 weeks ago

nearby

Just wondering, would you like me coming into her or over her,

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By *ee1967Man
19 weeks ago

watford

I love to eat it out

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By *abuma65Man
19 weeks ago

Gloucester

Mmm me too I wanna be the Wolf 🐺 ie clean up guy 😛

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By *hurrock couple for funCouple
19 weeks ago

Thurrock

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I would like to cum in another man’s wife if I got the chance

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By *astbourne coupleCouple
19 weeks ago

Eastbourne

"Do you let another man cum in your wife ? "

A trusted couple of "friends" do

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By *andydan69Man
19 weeks ago

south west nr you mmm

Love this doing it especially

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By *untimescolchesterMan
19 weeks ago

Colchester

Done this with a few trusted long term couples, amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Taking cum is the only way

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By *RcplSldnCouple
19 weeks ago

London

Hopefully soon...

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By *ieutenantMan
19 weeks ago

london

If you think russian roulette is Deadly.This ocean of fantsy is full of deadly spike.

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By *ustforfun8824Man
19 weeks ago

Limerick

It’d be so hot!

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By *unnesscoupleMan
19 weeks ago

around

I would if she wanted it

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By *aylamoonCouple
19 weeks ago

Darlington

Love seeing other men cum deep inside the Mrs, love fuckimg her afterwards feels awesome!

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By *nglishdelightMan
19 weeks ago

mansfield

im here

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

I’m available to cum inside another man’s wife

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By *23RouteCouple
19 weeks ago

Huddersfield

Yes xx

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By *Ci LutherMan
19 weeks ago

Cumalot

Any guys seeking cum check out my latest video

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By *omRachCouple
19 weeks ago

Wirral

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By *ornyNylonfan1761Man
19 weeks ago

Enfield

I would love my partner to enjoy other cocks and the decision of if they cum in her would be hers. However, would happily clean her out and also would love to see her take a messy facial

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By *andydan69Man
19 weeks ago

south west nr you mmm

Love cumming in wives

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By *yeSureMan
19 weeks ago

Glasgow

Would love to see it

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By *mizhereMan
19 weeks ago

Thame area

Ex loved it so why not

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Always happy to help and cum in another guys wife or girlfriend.

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By *sj75Couple
19 weeks ago

castleford

Yes

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By *iFruityCoupleCouple
19 weeks ago

Watermouth

Better when there are more

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By *hong80321967Man
19 weeks ago

Wakefield

Shes not up for it but i wish she was

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

O yes please. That is my ultimate dream. Sadly she said it will never happen.

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By *pookymanMan
19 weeks ago

Stockport

My ex fucked a lot of men when we were together, always bareback. She hated condoms and loved the feeling of guys cumming inside her. Had the pleasure of sloppy seconds and more on lots of occasions. Great times.

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By *yeSureMan
19 weeks ago

Glasgow

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By *forfuntimesCouple
19 weeks ago

Sheffield

We have no issue with it... love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
19 weeks ago

Definitely would love to try

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By *ary 121Man
19 weeks ago

East Bergholt

Whether right or wrong seems peeps engaging with the op. Wish it was that easy on here all the time🤷‍♂️

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By *yeSureMan
18 weeks ago

Glasgow

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