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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Inspired by another thread but do guys on here just tell you what they think you want to hear?

Saying your gorgeous, i love your curves etc

Dunno why but i just struggle to believe it, most guys wouldn't look twice when i walk down the street, or dance in a club etc.

Anyone else feel the same??

Mrs S

X

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

I can take compliments on here better if they come from someone who doesn't want to meet... then I can kind of be sure there is no well obvious agenda...

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By *hatguyJoeMan
over a year ago

Preston

Well there is no chance of us meeting but your pictures are stunning.

I love lingerie but I love ladies who know have the conffidence to carry it off even more.

If you walked past me in the street in that outfit I would probably fall over.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they're attractive to me, why wouldn't I tell them

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•

when a guy sends out a compliment i do think most mean it.

what you gotta realise is that by making yourself sexually available then you're attractiveness goes up by default anyway, so if you don't get a lot of attention when off a fuck site it won't matter coz now the guys are looking for sex and you'll do for that...and as mentioned above you've gone up in attractiveness because you're available for sex and that person is looking for someone to have sex with. so if you're finding it confusing to now get compliments when you don't usually get any that explains that i reckon.

so, you are exuding sex appeal on here because you are available for sex and have boobs, bum, and a fanny, basically.

i do get attention off site also, and i noticed that the attention on here is shallow, simple, basic, and easy. offline men invest a lot more than they do here and this is the attention i prefer and feel i deserve.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"when a guy sends out a compliment i do think most mean it.

what you gotta realise is that by making yourself sexually available then you're attractiveness goes up by default anyway, so if you don't get a lot of attention when off a fuck site it won't matter coz now the guys are looking for sex and you'll do for that...and as mentioned above you've gone up in attractiveness because you're available for sex and that person is looking for someone to have sex with. so if you're finding it confusing to now get compliments when you don't usually get any that explains that i reckon.

so, you are exuding sex appeal on here because you are available for sex and have boobs, bum, and a fanny, basically.

i do get attention off site also, and i noticed that the attention on here is shallow, simple, basic, and easy. offline men invest a lot more than they do here and this is the attention i prefer and feel i deserve."

Yeah never thought about it that way.

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

•+• Access Denied •+•


"when a guy sends out a compliment i do think most mean it.

what you gotta realise is that by making yourself sexually available then you're attractiveness goes up by default anyway, so if you don't get a lot of attention when off a fuck site it won't matter coz now the guys are looking for sex and you'll do for that...and as mentioned above you've gone up in attractiveness because you're available for sex and that person is looking for someone to have sex with. so if you're finding it confusing to now get compliments when you don't usually get any that explains that i reckon.

so, you are exuding sex appeal on here because you are available for sex and have boobs, bum, and a fanny, basically.

i do get attention off site also, and i noticed that the attention on here is shallow, simple, basic, and easy. offline men invest a lot more than they do here and this is the attention i prefer and feel i deserve.

Yeah never thought about it that way."

nothing wrong with that either and doesn't mean there's anything wrong with any person in that type of interaction if it suits everyone involved. it's just how sexual attraction can be for many people.

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By *omerladyWoman
over a year ago

Taunton


"when a guy sends out a compliment i do think most mean it.

what you gotta realise is that by making yourself sexually available then you're attractiveness goes up by default anyway, so if you don't get a lot of attention when off a fuck site it won't matter coz now the guys are looking for sex and you'll do for that...and as mentioned above you've gone up in attractiveness because you're available for sex and that person is looking for someone to have sex with. so if you're finding it confusing to now get compliments when you don't usually get any that explains that i reckon.

so, you are exuding sex appeal on here because you are available for sex and have boobs, bum, and a fanny, basically.

i do get attention off site also, and i noticed that the attention on here is shallow, simple, basic, and easy. offline men invest a lot more than they do here and this is the attention i prefer and feel i deserve."

I have to agree with pretty much all of this.

I wondered about compliments when I first started out on here and as time has gone by, I do take them more and more as genuine. I used to think they were some sort of way people would use to keep me interested in them but now I have belief that the compliments are genuine.

More importantly though, I feel that I am worthy of those complements.

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Since being on this site my confidence has jumped up a lot because of the compliments that I get so ye I like getting them some ppl off the site may not want to speak to you when out with friends ect not known thair reactions but on here they have the balls to say what they think of you you are a beautiful lady so accept the compliments hun xx

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By *lixir of lifeMan
over a year ago

knob Creek

I hope people mean what they say ..

I certainly do .

I won't say something just to get a meet I don't have to .

And if this site is building the confidence of people on here then that can only be a good thing .

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

If we compliment it's because we mean it, I'm not in to sugar coating a turd!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If we compliment it's because we mean it, I'm not in to sugar coating a turd!!"

Lol

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?


"Inspired by another thread but do guys on here just tell you what they think you want to hear?

Saying your gorgeous, i love your curves etc

Dunno why but i just struggle to believe it, most guys wouldn't look twice when i walk down the street, or dance in a club etc.

Anyone else feel the same??

Mrs S

X"

Various times reading through forums, a man will say to a previous poster 'your sexy, gorgeous, very pretty etc' but when looking at the said profile, they contained one pic of genitals not a face or body shot.

So yes some men will say anything to increase the potential of a meet.

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By *exmadscotMan
over a year ago

alloa

do you actually dance in clubs?

jeez

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

It would depend on the complimetn and who from.

A random sending a message telling my I'm stunning, and I have no face pics on show, is saying what he thinks I want to hear.

A Fab friend who meets regularly and tells me lovely things is more believable.

And a cock is often a good gauge of your attractiveness to a man

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"what you gotta realise is that by making yourself sexually available then you're attractiveness goes up by default anyway, so if you don't get a lot of attention when off a fuck site it won't matter coz now the guys are looking for sex and you'll do for that..."

Same goes for gay or bi guys on here.

When I first joined fab, I still ID'ed as 'straight'...had a fair number of enjoyable meets, but most involved me making the 'first move.'

As soon as I started ID'ing as 'bisexual,' I suddenly found myself beating off offers with a stick...

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By *ilk_TreMan
over a year ago

Wherever the party is!


"when a guy sends out a compliment i do think most mean it.

what you gotta realise is that by making yourself sexually available then you're attractiveness goes up by default anyway, so if you don't get a lot of attention when off a fuck site it won't matter coz now the guys are looking for sex and you'll do for that...and as mentioned above you've gone up in attractiveness because you're available for sex and that person is looking for someone to have sex with. so if you're finding it confusing to now get compliments when you don't usually get any that explains that i reckon.

so, you are exuding sex appeal on here because you are available for sex and have boobs, bum, and a fanny, basically.

i do get attention off site also, and i noticed that the attention on here is shallow, simple, basic, and easy. offline men invest a lot more than they do here and this is the attention i prefer and feel i deserve."

You say a lot of stuff that makes me think. Sometimes even about you...

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By *exmadscotMan
over a year ago

alloa

wise up girls we call you beautiful sexy special adorable cos we want a shag!

and it works

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