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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've noticed quite a few profiles on here where the person has multiples of verifications all by different people each saying they had a social meet but never see any saying a meet went any further. It makes me suspicious that the person is using this site for dates only when I thought it was a sex site. Your thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps they dont want to disclose what happened after or maybe they didnt feel comfortable going further but were happy to leave a positive social veri.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach

And if your "suspicion" proves right, what's the problem?

To me this site seems to be as much about the social aspect, as the sex.

If it's not what you're personally looking for, simply discount those people from your search.

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Ive had this. Tbh if you already have a veri from a person whats the point in getting another.

The veri is primarily to prove youre 'real' not a diary of every gory detail

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By *o1978Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

Socials are good to have a quick chat and see if there is any sexual chemistry between both parties.

It's not all about just fucking!! For me I have to want to rip their clothes off and fuck them for me to want to meet again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed quite a few profiles on here where the person has multiples of verifications all by different people each saying they had a social meet but never see any saying a meet went any further. It makes me suspicious that the person is using this site for dates only when I thought it was a sex site. Your thoughts "
much the same as people who say they are straight but they are looking for tvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely guilty. Alot of my veris are from social mot play meets. I really am not bothered about people knowing the gory details of what I get up to. Definitely do not use this site as a dating site tho. Dont want to date anyone but I have friends and aquentencies on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

-Sometimes people meet at a large social and get lots of verifications from people they have no intention of playing with.

-Sometimes people only display their social verifications because they don't want the details of their sexual encounters public for all the see.

-Sometimes people have a few socials with people they simply don't hit it off with so it goes no further.

-Some people may very well just be using the site to find dates. And really, why shouldn't they? Last I saw there were no rules in this site about dating. Plenty of people are on POF just for a fuck and I thought that was a dating site....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed quite a few profiles on here where the person has multiples of verifications all by different people each saying they had a social meet but never see any saying a meet went any further. It makes me suspicious that the person is using this site for dates only when I thought it was a sex site. Your thoughts "

A social to me is exactly that. A quick social drink to check if the person is who they say they are and to see if there's any chemistry. I don't expect anyone to pay for anything for me and I certainly don't want to be taken out on a "date" and have dinner etc

Some of my socials I have gone on to have a meet with and others I haven't for various reasons. Just because a meet veri isn't displayed doesn't mean to say a meet hasn't happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have a social meet first. It's to see if we are all happy to meet to play. We aren't dating them though.

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By *entralscotscpl7Couple
over a year ago

Falkirk


"I've noticed quite a few profiles on here where the person has multiples of verifications all by different people each saying they had a social meet but never see any saying a meet went any further. It makes me suspicious that the person is using this site for dates only when I thought it was a sex site. Your thoughts much the same as people who say they are straight but they are looking for tvs "

Lol he has named and shamed on his profile to which is against the rules.

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By *herbert fountainWoman
over a year ago

Hanley

I have always met for a social before planning a play meet so that would be when the verification is made. The verification is to prove that the person is who they say they are and has turned up not a cv of their bedroom qualifications.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The social aspect of swinging is probably as equally important as the social aspect of dating, so one shouldn't be surprised to find socials or dates (or whatever one wants to call them) on a swingers site. Of course not everybody here uses this site for swinging. Those, like the OP who regard Fab as a sex site, should probably just avoid those who like a good social as part of theirsexual experience. But to answer his question about why only social related veris are posted, I guess one veri after the social was considered sufficient. Or maybe after meeting socially there wasnt enough chemistry to take it further. Us personally would ask for a repeat veri if something went further, but thats because we like veris. We actually go as far as hiding most of our social only veris.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed quite a few profiles on here where the person has multiples of verifications all by different people each saying they had a social meet but never see any saying a meet went any further. It makes me suspicious that the person is using this site for dates only when I thought it was a sex site. Your thoughts "

Your presumption, is likely to be way off the mark. Not everyone feels the need to validate themselves, with published veri's.

I'm relatively new to Fabs, I'm lucky to know some gorgeous ladies, but I also found a special one.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I'm always suspicious of guy's who don't display any veris, not even a social one!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've noticed quite a few profiles on here where the person has multiples of verifications all by different people each saying they had a social meet but never see any saying a meet went any further. It makes me suspicious that the person is using this site for dates only when I thought it was a sex site. Your thoughts "

Sorry to be blunt, but whenever I have sex and who with is my business and nothing whatsoever to do with you nor anyone else. The fact you seem to think you have a right to know (clearly you do otherwise you wouldn't be annoyed) makes me laugh at the cheek of your post!

Do you honestly believe women like myself only joined this site and attend socials just for free drinks?? Lol. No Sir, often I buy my own drinks and the gentleman I'm meeting with.

Socials are my way to meet a guy in person in order to check he looks like his pics and to see whether I feel comfortable alone with him. I'm a single woman and I put my safety first. Plenty of guys on here understand that. Such a shame you do not!

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By *ustyWoman
over a year ago

inverclyde

Social meet first see how get on...if get on well then take to the next stage...but what goes on in the bedroom stays in it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meet first see how get on...if get on well then take to the next stage...but what goes on in the bedroom stays in it! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Social meet first see how get on...if get on well then take to the next stage...but what goes on in the bedroom stays in it! "

My point is that you can't have 43 social meets with no fun, it just seems to me that they just want a date with no fun. Sorry but I just smell a rat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Social meet first see how get on...if get on well then take to the next stage...but what goes on in the bedroom stays in it!

My point is that you can't have 43 social meets with no fun, it just seems to me that they just want a date with no fun. Sorry but I just smell a rat"

Ok you you stumbled across a profile and counted 43 social verifications. Big deal. There are hundreds of people using this swingers site who have no interest in swinging.

Mrs

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