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Why is it so hard to get a woman to meet any tips on how

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By *.spot77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon

I am a straight guy who has sent a lot of messages to women and I am not pushing for a meet and I have said to look at my profile I would like to have one looking at my profile but I don't i just keep getting the message deleted any help would be grateful?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe your just not there type ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok for a start. As a woman. get rid of the mug shot. The pics? Well. Santa claus really? 2 cock pics. Not even good ones. A bit more imaginative pics to attract attention. Profile says hardly anything. Read some other guys get some tips. Hope this helps. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stop acting like cocks and leave your ego at the door (before you sign on to fabs).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a lot of women look at profiles before reading messages, and a lot of women look in stealth mode so you'll never know.

Two cock shots and an odd screenshot from Facebook (I'm assuming that isn't even you) won't be doing you any favours. Smiley face photos, well shot torso photos, butt pictures. Focus on your best bits.

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By *.spot77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon


"I think a lot of women look at profiles before reading messages, and a lot of women look in stealth mode so you'll never know.

Two cock shots and an odd screenshot from Facebook (I'm assuming that isn't even you) won't be doing you any favours. Smiley face photos, well shot torso photos, butt pictures. Focus on your best bits."
thanks for your advice I will look at changing a few things you have mentioned

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and don't message loads of women as the scattergun method is obvious.

Focus on those who's interests match up with yours where you feel you could really bring something special to a meet.

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By *.spot77 OP   Man
over a year ago

Basildon


"Oh, and don't message loads of women as the scattergun method is obvious.

Focus on those who's interests match up with yours where you feel you could really bring something special to a meet."
thanks again most grateful

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm far from a pro on the matter, but your photos and profile text may be an issue

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

To be blunt, as others have suggested your profile needs a complete overhaul. It currently tells people nothing about you, other than you're either lying about your age, or put it in wrong when you signed up - you can get it changed once I believe, so if you've not previously changed it look into having it changed.

Your profile needs to act as your shop window, detailing who you are, what you are looking for and most importantly what you think you can offer. It currently does none of those.

Your pics are frankly awful, two cock pics and a poorly taken mugshot aren't going to come across well to most - suggest replacing them with some tasteful body shots and a better one of your face.

Good luck

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

From your post here, your pics and your profile... if I were a woman I'd give you an extremely wide berth. If you lived in Plymouth, I'd want to be living in Scotland...

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