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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Vanilla, kink and fetish...

What would say the differences are?

I read on a profile somewhere that a couple were only up for kinky meets and not vanilla, and it got me thinking, how do people define the difference?

Anal may be a standard thing for a couple so they see it as vanilla, but to another it could be a dark art saved only for the naughtiest of moments.

So what do you think, where are people's definition boundaries with these terms?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there is no standard definition, you've pointed out the reasoning in your post! If I see that on a profile then I'd find out where the line is via conversation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think there is no standard definition, you've pointed out the reasoning in your post! If I see that on a profile then I'd find out where the line is via conversation."

That's my definition I guess, I was interested in how other people define them, what do people consider vanilla vs kink vs fetish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's all relative surely, thinking about vanilla v kink. I expect if I told my mates we were on here they would think we were into kink. But to us a straightforward threesome is pretty vanilla and only verges on kink when restraints, inflicting pain or more niche games are involved. And to me a fetish is just a specific kink that someone particularly desires. If someone has a proper definition I'm all ears and ready to learn.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I have no idea. Ive seen people post "kinks" that ive thought where just vanila and vanila things ive thought where kinks.

To be honest id pass such a profile by far to open to interpretation

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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i find it's better to be explicit about what you want rather than use vague terms.

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By *irginieWoman
over a year ago

Near Marlborough

Boundaries move as well.

First time I went to a club and watched people fuck it was just about the kinkiest, jaw dropping thing I'd ever seen.

These days? Well ...... not so much.

V xx

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

The theoretical line in the sand, it really is about who is on which side of it and stood on it. We all see vanilla and kinky differently.

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