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By *wcw OP   Couple
over a year ago

cheshire

Why dont guys read profiles before messaging. Then they wonder why there messages get deleted.

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor

They may do,but just chose to ignore what's written.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

It isn't just men who either don't read or ignore what's written. Couples do too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hardly anyone reads the profile. For me Friends requests without prior chat is automatic block... Interestingly couples appear to be the most likely culprits.

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By *ucklingsCouple
over a year ago

Rugby

Well, I realised lots of couples and even more men chose not to read our profile or for whatever reason chose to ignore what they read.

Before we wink or mail a couple or single female we always read their profile. Just to see if we are what they are looking for or vica versa.

Mrs D xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some probably send a lot of messages hoping for a bite. They probably see it as too time consuming to read the profile of every person they mail.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well, I realised lots of couples and even more men chose not to read our profile or for whatever reason chose to ignore what they read.

Before we wink or mail a couple or single female we always read their profile. Just to see if we are what they are looking for or vica versa.

Mrs D xx"

Lots of instant friend requests from couples, most before any interaction.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thing is you could read someone's profile and think iinteresting person, very compatible, hot in all senses of the word and going by the great Veris both amazing in bed cause in all honesty we're all here for the same thing. So you take the time to send a very genuine, decent length shit hot message and still get it deleted. As before in all honesty if you look at that person's picture and they're is no physically attraction your not going to reply just because they say they've read your profile just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think sometimes it can just be sheer laziness. People don't want to take the time to read a profiles text if it's more than a few lines in length.

As has already been suggested. Before contacting or replying to anyone, we always have a quick look to see whether or not we match others preferences and vice versa.

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By *ubSirVient-DefinitionCouple
over a year ago

dukinfield


"Why dont guys read profiles before messaging. Then they wonder why there messages get deleted. "

I wouldn't mind it took me all of 6 seconds to read your full profile! So, to be honest, I've no idea why you have this problem. It's not like you have a massive essay to trawl through. Some people are just lazy!

Aj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why dont guys read profiles before messaging. Then they wonder why there messages get deleted. "

I always read a profile and both respect what is written and/or decide if it's worth making contact...why wouldn't you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The biggest mistake that you are making with this post is that you assuming that the men can read!

Men here should learn how to be polite and courteous as they hopefully would be if they met you in public life.

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