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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is there much hope for me meeting when I don't get much free time and I'm a bit of a depressant, it's bad really I know and if your gonna be horrible then thanks I do know what you mean just feel like chatting when I'm free and genuinely meeting nice girls when I can, but if you not like don't reply lol

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Hi op.why not try a club when you are free,might be a way to get meets when you are able.

Good luck

Miss

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By *arkside2698Man
over a year ago

luton

You need to go to your GP and get treated for your depression first OP. It can be hard for some to get meets on here and constant rejection may add to your mental state. Depression is a horrible illness and I wouldn't wish it on anyone. If you're not feeling confident and happy, you're not likely to attract people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mean this is a purely constructive way but if you're a bit low or suffering with any sort of self-esteem issues then this really isn't the place to be.

Rejection is common place and you're pretty much immediately judged on limited information.

Basically, it can be the worst bits of real life, but amplified lol.

It can be really good and positive too mind, it's all in how you approach it.

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Some very good advice here OP, have your depression checked first. This can be a harsh place even for the strong willed.

Good luck OP.

xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with foryourpleasure you need a thick skin on here and to have a positive outlook on yourself. Something I've got now but I do still sometimes slip in to woe is me mode.

Try not to see fab as such a big deal. Just chat to folk n see it as a social site not a sex site. This will hopefully build your self esteem.

PTU xxx

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By *aughtychopsCouple
over a year ago

Dartford

Going in chat can be fun if you're up

For chatting and having a laugh not just sitting with your cock in your hand lol

Things take time we've made some friends in chat and like to go in for a bit of banter now and then

Good luck xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Already been under my shrink for some years and on meds, just starting to wonder is this as the film says as good as it gets, thanks for all the replies you truly are lovely people and your right this may not be the place for me thanks again you guys peace and love as always

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

just keep the depression from any fab chat and a meet with someone until at least you know better

also long term sufferer myself but under meds that help though a balancing avt as they can heavily delay cumming

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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you're asking a lot really, to get NSA sex and for someone to put up with your depression.

i'm sure some will be able to handle it but for most this place is somewhere to escape deep or real stuff.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to delete or not to delete is my asking now if I'm asking to much to be accepted as I am or don't ask to be accepted and don't meet I suppose my point here is purposeless as well as complex, fab swing with mental health combined new site needed lol oh well thanks for replies

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By *gnitemybodyWoman
over a year ago

Onestepoutofthedoor


"So to delete or not to delete is my asking now if I'm asking to much to be accepted as I am or don't ask to be accepted and don't meet I suppose my point here is purposeless as well as complex, fab swing with mental health combined new site needed lol oh well thanks for replies"

It's up to you whether you delete or not it's your decision,don't overthink thing's. Stay and chat in the forum's or chatrooms that can be a little distraction from life at time's.

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