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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I live in Newcastle but travel to Liverpool and more often London with work commitments which nearly always a nice hotel stay.

To make the business trip more fun I normally have a look through profiles local to where I am and try and arrange a meet.

I have noticed quite a few profiles that state they are only looking for no strings fun but are not interested in people travelling to hotels on business trips, why is this? And what's people's thoughts on hotel meets? Some people don't seem keen on them Either?! (This is my first forum post, be gentle!!!)

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I live in Newcastle but travel to Liverpool and more often London with work commitments which nearly always a nice hotel stay.

To make the business trip more fun I normally have a look through profiles local to where I am and try and arrange a meet.

I have noticed quite a few profiles that state they are only looking for no strings fun but are not interested in people travelling to hotels on business trips, why is this? And what's people's thoughts on hotel meets? Some people don't seem keen on them Either?! (This is my first forum post, be gentle!!!)"

I am interested in the same sort of thing.

I think there are always some strings in NSA meets. It's the number of strings people feel comfortable with you need to contend with.

I guess not too many people genuinely do the last minute, FAF thing. Most seem to want at least a little rapport, and for ladies a bit of a safety check!

Planning well ahead and making contact with people in the area seems a sensible approach to me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I kinda like the idea of me & Mrs Rockstar going to a hotel to meet a guy or lady staying there on business. A couple of drinks in the hotel bar then up to the room to take things further.

It's definitely a scenario I'd like us to play out eventually.

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"To be honest, I kinda like the idea of me & Mrs Rockstar going to a hotel to meet a guy or lady staying there on business. A couple of drinks in the hotel bar then up to the room to take things further.

It's definitely a scenario I'd like us to play out eventually."

Hmmm, think I should add you to my hotlust!

;-)

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By *lwayshorny2009Couple
over a year ago

Redditch

I think meeting in a hotel is extremely horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love hotel meets but need a bit of notice due to work and family,but are more exciting

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I think hotel meets and sex are always really horny!!

That's why I'd like to share it with someone who feels the same!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe I should reconsider my stance on this fantasy

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Maybe you should get yourself down to London in Sunday!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Who's in London on Sunday ??

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Me!!!

Staying very near kings cross!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Me!!!

Staying very near kings cross!!!

"

cool....... meet me on platform 9 3/4

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Bring a long scarf and an owl!!! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bring a long scarf and an owl!!! X"

Only if you bring the nimbus 2000

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Always carry that just in case!!! You never know

X

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By *ickey and MinnieCouple
over a year ago

South of Bath

I always encourage Mickey to try to meet with a lady when he works away and send me pictures of what's happening. He's probably away 2 nights a week at least

No luck so far though

Minnie xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come home!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Always carry that just in case!!! You never know

X"

Always best to be prepared

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Who come

Home?!? X

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

If it wasn't for hotel meets I wouldn't meet at all. No, wait, that last guy stood me up. OK, I still don't meet at all then.

OP, you would bypass the 'no hotel meets' people more easily if you got a meet sorted in advance, instead of d*unkenly searching on here at 11.20pm after you struck out at the bar. I'm not saying that's what you do, but that is what a lot of people do, which can put people off meets in hotels.

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

I never message people in the day/night of the hotel stay as that does just come across as desperate and a "last option"

Sounds like it's a timing issue mainly then!!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I never message people in the day/night of the hotel stay as that does just come across as desperate and a "last option"

Sounds like it's a timing issue mainly then!!"

I misread your OP and see you already do exactly what I do. So your best bet is to just ignore the 'no hotel meets' people and contact the rest.

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

You're probably right!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in this camp and do spend a lot of nights in hotels on business.

I have been surprised at how difficult it is to find a meet in this situation. I normally change my postcode to the hotel a few days before and send a few messages out.

I do get a lot of knock backs due to the travelling businessman but I guess that's just fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess the "travelling buisness man " just screams of " married man seeks free prostitute "

Just saying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess the "travelling buisness man " just screams of " married man seeks free prostitute "

Just saying "

It's a good point, I work away and understand why women wouldn't find that exciting.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

See I spend a lot of weekends in Manchester, people will meet me in a club but not a hotel

It's just the way life is

But now I am working in central London it makes it easier to meet people for hotel meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

True and I know it's not for everyone but I don't see it being to dissimilar to meeting at your house or theirs when the wife is out etc.

I do prefer to spend an evening, go for some food and drinks and make a night of it but it is what it is.

It would be great to find a regular friend in certain locations where both can get out of it what they want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing that puts me off hotel meets with business men is that I enjoy regular meets, not one offs and usually business men are just after one offs. I also like to get to know the man before sex and it seems a bit pointless putting in the effort of getting to know him, for just one night. for me great sex happens when you have a connection with someone and I wouldn't get that with a man staying on business which is why I avoid them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I thought I wouldn't mind meeting businessmen at their hotels when staying in the area, but in fact I find I don't like it at all as it feels as if I am being summoned like a prostitute but without the money. I realise some women might get off on this, but not for me.

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By *ELLONS AND CREAMWoman
over a year ago

stourbridge area


"Bring a long scarf and an owl!!! X"

Your a wizard harry ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah I think if you just go to the room and have sex it's very much like that and not there best feeling.

Would you prefer spending an evening out with such a guy, going for a meal and getting to know each other first?

I'm not propositioning you just getting your opinions

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By *hoot45Man
over a year ago

Ramsgate

From time to time when I've been away I've gone into Fab and found someone staying in same hotel which is handy it seems to happen more in the big hotels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I think if you just go to the room and have sex it's very much like that and not there best feeling.

Would you prefer spending an evening out with such a guy, going for a meal and getting to know each other first?

I'm not propositioning you just getting your opinions "

Definitely this for me, but as mentioned above, many women, including myself, prefer to have regular meets rather than one-offs. I suppose though if visiting regularly on business, this could be possible. But in my experience few truly are.

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By *oghunter33Woman
over a year ago

on the hill NordWest of

I get a lot of those businessman messages staying in a hotel asking me if I could pop in. While I've no problem with hotel meets, I would never meet a businessman/tourist short notice in his hotel. Their messages always give me the impression they're looking for a free escort to sweeten up their stay.

Also I not much interested in once off meets, I like to have the possibility to remeet when their was mutual enjoyment.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yeah I think if you just go to the room and have sex it's very much like that and not there best feeling.

Would you prefer spending an evening out with such a guy, going for a meal and getting to know each other first?

I'm not propositioning you just getting your opinions

Definitely this for me, but as mentioned above, many women, including myself, prefer to have regular meets rather than one-offs. I suppose though if visiting regularly on business, this could be possible. But in my experience few truly are."

I would much rather prefer regular meets and build a rapport etc.

The areas I visit, I do so on a regular 6 week cycle. For example I visit Norwich every 6 weeks and stay over, so for me it's easier to have regular meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The thing that puts me off hotel meets with business men is that I enjoy regular meets, not one offs and usually business men are just after one offs. I also like to get to know the man before sex and it seems a bit pointless putting in the effort of getting to know him, for just one night. for me great sex happens when you have a connection with someone and I wouldn't get that with a man staying on business which is why I avoid them "

Ditto

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By *aughtywifeandhimCouple
over a year ago

bedford

That's the only time where we will purposely look for hotel meets when away with work or on holiday,as hotel booked for definate reason , we tried booking hotel for swinging before , to be let down at last minute . We do go on site and see if anyone nearby looks promising or we may think of looking for a random pick up in bar ( never found any yet ) ps at Gatwick hotel on Friday and 10 nights in cape Verdi if any horny people out there want to add to our hols lol , if we don't find any fun we make our own with wife giving a flash or teasing ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've managed some hotel meets when away with work. I find the key is prior planning - give as much notice as possible and try to get to know the person as much as you can before meeting. Most Fabbers are unlikely to jump at the chance to come to your hotel room on the same day you sent the first message

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

if someone is around and we are able to build up a rapport beforehand can be very fun... I generally don't do short notice unless I know the person. same applies. but I have had some very nice experiences

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By *hell and jWoman
over a year ago

Worksop

If love to arrive hotek for meet long coat naughty underwear few drinks sneak peek under coat then bk to room to drop the coat then sex lots pics too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel meets are just not for me

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Wow this really does split opinion!! Thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because op, they don't want to be seen as an unpaid cheap sub for an escort that's why. However I have.met a few in this way and been more than happy to meet for a social in the bar. One occasion we ended up in bed as we genuinely clicked and met on other occasions after that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because op, they don't want to be seen as an unpaid cheap sub for an escort that's why. However I have.met a few in this way and been more than happy to meet for a social in the bar. One occasion we ended up in bed as we genuinely clicked and met on other occasions after that"

By sub I mean substitute

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I thought I wouldn't mind meeting businessmen at their hotels when staying in the area, but in fact I find I don't like it at all as it feels as if I am being summoned like a prostitute but without the money. I realise some women might get off on this, but not for me."

Well put

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hotel meets are great! Dayrooms are perfect for when im on night shifts and cheaper lol

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

As I have said earlier in th post is always meet for a drink or coffee first and not just expect them to come up to the hotel room as that would be seen as a substitute escort

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By *omkingbillyCouple
over a year ago

welingborough

We meet a guy at a hotel last week was awesome but we had been chatting for months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I stay away in hotels a lot with work, and in all honesty it can be a pretty lonely existence at times. A bit of company, even if just for a drink and a chat, is always welcome. If it leads to more then great, but very rarely happens... at least not for me anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried this a couple of times. Always drawn a blank. One day maybe.

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By *portyNE OP   Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Looks like

I've sorted myself out a meet for Sunday night when I'm in London!! Happy days

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I'm a business woman that travels quite often, if I meet a man in the hotel bar & hit it off I'll go to his room for a bit of fun. But when it's over I'm back to my room alone

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"I'm a business woman that travels quite often, if I meet a man in the hotel bar & hit it off I'll go to his room for a bit of fun. But when it's over I'm back to my room alone "

As with all meets, if it's the lady looking to meet the success rate is much higher!!

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