FabSwingers.com forum: Men posing as Women.

By *_and_J99 OP Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

We know it's been said in previous post as we have joined in the discussion.

However we caught our yet another. Really don't see what they get out of it. Why waste time trying to be someone you're not and spend more time on the person you are.

Best way to catch them is Kik message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They have a wank about it.

Trust your gut and you'll be able to spot them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just sad they need to get a life

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

We've caught a few out especially on kik x l&p x

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By *dstar01Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

ok... I am NOT a man no never i am a girl but i only want to meet girls to suck on my coc..... clit and pkay with my moobs... please add me im a girl i promise

hate not being believed... i have kik also... am defo not a man xx

all the very best Pete.... oops sorry Petra x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably why so many men complain they can't get a meet. Blame your brothers!

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By *ocoaXXXMan
over a year ago

London

Theres always one person who consistently makes a fake profile around 11pm without fail in my local area every day. First time they messaged me saying 'Are you bi'. Striaght away knew it was guy. Blocked and reported them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, we can't understand either on what they getting out of it ..why waste your time and as well as ours just to get a peek of the private pics or few hours chats ( bcoz they usually get caught in few hours though)? internet is full of nude pics and if you want naked pics they can get it there, so why pretend to be someone ?.... can anyone make sense of this behaviour ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone.

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

No we can't explain what they get out of it, they're inexperienced boys that haven't thought it through. They're so easy to spot after a while on here, and the ones we're unsure about we'll ask for a phone conversation, which you can't fake, if you can't chat on the phone you can't meet - simples

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As soon as a supposed single girl starts trying to get dirty chat out of you or private type of stuff alarm bells ring for me.

We had one mail yesterday and I said nikki can chat on the phone and never heard back. Haha fakes everywhere on here

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By *omtdhMan
over a year ago

IOM

Do you think that maybe they are closet gay? Lets face it they are after cock pictures so defo Bi if not gay. Not that there is a problem with that if they admit it but they do waste time for actual swingers who want to meet and just have nsa fun.

There are sites that they can use and not waste peoples time. Mind you a female friend was let down by a bloke several times turned out to be a woman so occasionally you get it vice versa! It's not Victorian times it is okay to be gay/bi and admit it on your profile and not waste peoples time.

I suppose it is whatever floats your boat but it often wastes peoples time and costs them if they attend a meet and the fake does not. That is just not fair on the innocent party. Mind you no different to multiple profiles.

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By *nddyoneMan
over a year ago

bicester

They must get a kick out of it spoils for rest of us

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

Veried couples profiles that are no longer both playing or no longer a couple seems to be pretty common here too.

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By *ordonBennettMan
over a year ago

dover

"They must get a kick out of it spoils for rest of us"

It only spoils it for those that get taken in by the fake ladies....otherwise it has no effect whatsoever on the rest of us...

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By *ficouldMan
over a year ago

a quandary, could you change my mind?

"Veried couples profiles that are no longer both playing or no longer a couple seems to be pretty common here too.

If you believe that is the case report and block.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Do you think that maybe they are closet gay? Lets face it they are after cock pictures so defo Bi if not gay. Not that there is a problem with that if they admit it but they do waste time for actual swingers who want to meet and just have nsa fun.

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It's peculiar and you're right that bi, gay and curious guys can find sex very easily, if they're attractive and sociable etc.

I wonder if it's a bit like an abusive power play for many of them who are insecure and want to assert control over others. As most will never meet, they don't risk their real identity being rejected.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone."

Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"They must get a kick out of it spoils for rest of us

It only spoils it for those that get taken in by the fake ladies....otherwise it has no effect whatsoever on the rest of us..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just puzzled how Kik can sort it out....its more anonymous than fab!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Veried couples profiles that are no longer both playing or no longer a couple seems to be pretty common here too.

If you believe that is the case report and block. "

Have done to numerous couples profiles we have found to be guys still using their old couples profile ..... result nothing as the profiles are still active.

Well nothing except you find yourself blocked from seeing that profile again by the powers that be !

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By *_and_J99 OP Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

"I'm just puzzled how Kik can sort it out....its more anonymous than fab!"

When You ask for a now pic it comes up with gallery or says camera if it was taken and sent. Simple thing to do is ask them to write the date on a piece of paper and take the pic.

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Its when you play along and call them and they talk in a high pitched voice

"No im a laydee"

All i can see is david walliams in a dress

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone.

Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it.

I've had several of them today lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We know it's been said in previous post as we have joined in the discussion.

However we caught our yet another. Really don't see what they get out of it. Why waste time trying to be someone you're not and spend more time on the person you are.

Best way to catch them is Kik message.

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lol kik is the in app for most fakes

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone.

Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it.

I've had several of them today lol"

Me yesterday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lots of weird sad bastards on here then if they do that...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it.

TBH I have sent messages like this to fems looking for married guys but only after we have met the woman in question as a couple beforehand and given my OK to her in person Lois x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone.

Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it.

I've sent these on behalf on my FB.

Kik is easy to spot. Just ask for a live shot then you get a camera under the photo proving they're real.

As I don't show my face I don't get believed that often.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We know it's been said in previous post as we have joined in the discussion.

However we caught our yet another. Really don't see what they get out of it. Why waste time trying to be someone you're not and spend more time on the person you are.

Best way to catch them is Kik message.

lol kik is the in app for most fakes "

we had one today wanting our kik so his gf could chat to us.

told him what i thought of his idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shoot them all snell snell ze vermin not as annoying as the fck yards that go through the whole gig till you send contact details n either go quite or TX on day then call as fun starts n say they lost or cant make it and ask what shed wearing n doing yes you know who you are you sad weird man lol god dam freaks why wank over a thought when the tea deals out there if you have a bit about you

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Quite simple. Ask for a phone chat sooner rather than later. It soon sorts things out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pmsl we must blatantly be weird lol we use our real names on kik when we do use it but its very rare use here n phone numbers most numptys freak at a number so cuts a lot a them out n down from start

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By *_and_J99 OP Man
over a year ago

Cirencester

"Fed up with it you spend time sending mails and chat etc. And next thing is my Wife girlfriend at work etc would you like to play with the man alone.

Or you get a message 'My Man wants to meet you for some fun with my Ok / permission etc...' you know it's the bloke who's typed that message and thinks you're stupid enough to believe it.

I've sent these on behalf on my FB.

Kik is easy to spot. Just ask for a live shot then you get a camera under the photo proving they're real.

As I don't show my face I don't get believed that often. "

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

"Quite simple. Ask for a phone chat sooner rather than later. It soon sorts things out. "

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By *RnMrsFreakCouple
over a year ago

Hull,England

"Its when you play along and call them and they talk in a high pitched voice

"No im a laydee"

All i can see is david walliams in a dress

Hahaha, thought it was just me with that image, mind you... mmm David Walliams...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't come across that yet as no woman or wo-man has written to us and we are too nervous to write to any

- Mrs. J -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Phew .. had to re-read this thread given the title

I hate time wasters and guys like this are very sad as are single guys posing as part of a couple. Unfortunately you get them on most sites and it seems little can be done other than to report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just ask for a fem fem chat or vid chat that usually scares them off

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

"No we can't explain what they get out of it, they're inexperienced boys that haven't thought it through. They're so easy to spot after a while on here, and the ones we're unsure about we'll ask for a phone conversation, which you can't fake, if you can't chat on the phone you can't meet - simples"

The other thing I ask for is a picture of their hand; sorts the men from the er, women

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By *vetteBondTV/TS
over a year ago

English Riviera

They're totally missing a trick! If they really want guys chasing them and sending them dick pics they should go the whole hog and become a tranny!

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By *inge61Couple
over a year ago

n/wales

Had one today check the pics with tin eye etc sad really they just spoil it for gen folks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"They're totally missing a trick! If they really want guys chasing them and sending them dick pics they should go the whole hog and become a tranny! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are new to FAB and have come across a few, after wasting ages!!!!

Why? we don't know but it's really annoying.

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