FabSwingers.com forum: Why are people cruel

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Fab is about people having fun, but some seem to think No means Yes

We are just looking for some nice people to meet and when you say no they then get nasty i.e. calling Ju ugly or frigid sad people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They are throwing their toys out of the pram. Just rise above it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple solution.

Block them after you've said no. There's no comeback opportunity for said person/s then. You'll find your fab experience improves loads.

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

They don't like rejection! you are gorgeous sexy and they love your photos etc until you say No thanks not for me. Then they turn on you call you names and say you not worthy.

Just delete and block. Most people really are nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they can be.

Even easier on the internet when there is no face to face interaction.

And true, just rise above it and be the better person.

Oh and block...lol.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"Fab is about people having fun, but some seem to think No means Yes

We are just looking for some nice people to meet and when you say no they then get nasty i.e. calling Ju ugly or frigid sad people"

Take no notice and report any nasty messages before blocking.

What you need to remember is that if what people say isn't true it has no bearing or impact on you. A guy once called me a ginger pensioner (among other things). I'm not ginger (not that it's an insult anyway) and I have 6 years before I can claim my pension. We had a good laugh about it.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

Also just as you should ignore the bad stuff you need to take the good stuff with a pinch of salt too.

What I'm saying is know your own worth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite new to fab but can't believe the bitchiness in forums ect.

Shame everyone is not here for the fun we intend to have and seem intent on being clever, sarcastic, or want some kind of one up manship over other members due to experience ect

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By *ysexyslutCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

We have not once been effected by abuse just simply delete and block, how hard is that?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have not once been effected by abuse just simply delete and block, how hard is that? "

Some secretly enjoy the drama?

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"We have not once been effected by abuse just simply delete and block, how hard is that?

Some secretly enjoy the drama? "

No, not everyone is resilient. If you're not used to some of the stuff that goes on here it can knock you at first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have not once been effected by abuse just simply delete and block, how hard is that?

Some secretly enjoy the drama?

No, not everyone is resilient. If you're not used to some of the stuff that goes on here it can knock you at first."

I'll agree with that. Just had a guy message me who I blocked a while ago using a different name.

Really weird thing to do. Wouldn't you just move on and leave the person alone if they'd done that?

Some odd people out there who could easily get spooked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some do not handle rejection very well. It can be difficult at first, seeing the vile messages that some send. I try to see it as their issue now. Nobody is entitled on this site. With all the idiots on here, there are also some lovely people on here. I invest my energy on interacting with those people. They are the ones who keep me coming back. The rest I ignore

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By *eliciousladyWoman
over a year ago

Sometimes U.K

"Quite new to fab but can't believe the bitchiness in forums etc.

Xx"

Name calling is just plain nasty and childish, blocking is easy

I think with any 'forum unpleasantness' it's difficult to determine as not using visual or voice expressions, the written words can be interpreted the wrong way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You have to be pretty thick skinned in here. Some people on here have no manners or think they are better than they are due to the ego boost they get from the site. Take no notice. Sometimes beauty in the outside counts as nothing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Quite new to fab but can't believe the bitchiness in forums ect.

Shame everyone is not here for the fun we intend to have and seem intent on being clever, sarcastic, or want some kind of one up manship over other members due to experience ect

Xx"

I have found this myself great answer

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By *orum TrollWoman
over a year ago

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it's a problem with them and not you.

they think everyone will fuck them and if you don't then they feel bad about it and have to blame someone.

idk, they seem pretty moronic really if they don't understand that some people don't wanna fuck them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's their problem not yours. Rise above it as it shows what type of person they are. Block block block. Keep your head held high!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's in they're genetic makeup blame others got there failings and don't like the word no lack of respect for themselves and others

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By *ust RachelTV/TS
over a year ago

Horsham

"Fab is about people having fun, but some seem to think No means Yes

We are just looking for some nice people to meet and when you say no they then get nasty i.e. calling Ju ugly or frigid sad people"

It is due to you hurting the paper thin male ego, instead of saying 'No' it is expected that her clothes will fall off and that she won't be able to resist the pencil fucked neanderthal.

From what I hear though, there is the lesser spotted genuine male. They are extremely hard to find, but patience and perseverance will pervade.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

they must just be selfish idiots

and if its from not getting meets they must be doing something wrong

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By *entleman JimmyMan
over a year ago

Hove

Oh, to have the problem of people approaching me at all.....

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By *sontopMan
over a year ago

Billericay

Just ignore and block them Ju looks very sexy to me it's such a shame I live so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignore and block them with no more thought whatsoever and that will not give them the satisfaction of getting to you. Easy peasy lemon squeezy problem to solve. Or knock yourself out and send them a scathing rebuke and then block

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Fab is about people having fun, but some seem to think No means Yes

We are just looking for some nice people to meet and when you say no they then get nasty i.e. calling Ju ugly or frigid sad people"

I don't know? And it's killing this site for a lot of us trying to work your way through all these people trying to find the good ones? I'm fairly local to you if you want to message me I can promise you I'm a genuine guy and won't take offence if your not interested.

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By *leur de lisWoman
over a year ago

Buxton

"Fab is about people having fun, but some seem to think No means Yes

We are just looking for some nice people to meet and when you say no they then get nasty i.e. calling Ju ugly or frigid sad people"

If you have a problem report them and if you think they could be aggressive and dangerous take a screen shot and pass it on to friends. The last thin the site needs is someone being hurt by another member on here.

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By *mber GamblerCouple
over a year ago

rugby

There are cruel people everywhere and fab is no exception. There be dicks on the roads, at work and on the street.

I don't understand cruel people. There's just no need. I think most of them have horrible lives and want to drag everyone else down as well. Or maybe it's how they've been brought up. I've seen children being nasty and parents just turn a blind eye.

I'd love to know why they do it.

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