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By *exy_as_fuck_couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

London

As the title says. How often do you have meets and would you like it to be more or less?

We probably have a met once every 3/4months on average I think.

This seems enough for us but at times I do wish we could meet more straight forward people and meet up spontaneously.

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast

For us the highest number of meets in a year is 4 and would like some more meets maybe extra 2 or 3.

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By *exy_as_fuck_couple OP   Couple
over a year ago

London


"For us the highest number of meets in a year is 4 and would like some more meets maybe extra 2 or 3."

So I guess you're the same as us. How comes you don't have more meets?

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By *amesxjonesMan
over a year ago

Guildford

I usually meet 5/6 times a year. I travel with work and work unsociable hours. People on here are very untrusting (and probably rightly so) of guys in hotels looking to meet.

I also find people don't believe me when they suggest a meet and I say yes. There must be loads of people to don't turn up when they say they will.

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By *aughty_nymphWoman
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I meet at 7pm on the 2nd Wednesday every month....

I joke I joke..... I meet when I click with someone enough and we are both free!

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By *ittleAcornMan
over a year ago

visiting the beach


"For us the highest number of meets in a year is 4 and would like some more meets maybe extra 2 or 3.

So I guess you're the same as us. How comes you don't have more meets?"

I was going to ask that. What slows you down? Logistics?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a meet Monday and Tuesday and one tonight so all depends when we have free time some months we don't meet at all so we make the most off our free time lol xx

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By *abe1200Couple
over a year ago

belfast


"For us the highest number of meets in a year is 4 and would like some more meets maybe extra 2 or 3.

So I guess you're the same as us. How comes you don't have more meets?"

Mostly is due to not getting free time or not finding the right meet when looking one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None at all

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By *urvymamaWoman
over a year ago

Doncaster

Usually only during school holidays when my girls go to Stay with their dad

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By *ambon2015Couple
over a year ago

sheffield

Nowhere near enough, too many time wasters unfortunately. It's a massive turn off at times it can get very frustrating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's as and when the school holidays occur although we would love to meet much more regularly than that. We can sometimes meet ad hoc at other times but that's Hotel meets only and so some people may not want thus resulting in no meets even when we have free time

Kinky

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

I have a wife and two regular partners plus a BDSM play partner who keep me pretty busy.

I have a lady from Fab who I see about 8 times a year and go to clubs once or twice a month.

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By *amesxjonesMan
over a year ago

Guildford


"Nowhere near enough, too many time wasters unfortunately. It's a massive turn off at times it can get very frustrating. "

Not enough as genuine couples don't believe it when I say I will turn up as they have been burned in the past. But I completely understand why they are sceptical.

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By *reedy_for_funCouple
over a year ago

My House

Not as often as we'd like anymore. Once a month would be ideal but we're averaging once every 3 months atm

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By *hubaysiWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I have a wife and two regular partners plus a BDSM play partner who keep me pretty busy.

I have a lady from Fab who I see about 8 times a year and go to clubs once or twice a month. "

Then he awakes from his slumber!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have met twice in one day before but usually it's maybe once or twice a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As and when i find someone i like enough to meet and we both get time x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too often. We are at some club or the other every weekend. We need to cut this down as we should be spending more time with each other, just like we used to

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By *aughtySxTV/TS
over a year ago

Wigan Bolton North West

Whenever I can. I don't live alone so it's hard - but when I get the chance to accom I sometimes have 1-4 guys in the same night

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as often as I'd like. Fab logistics huh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab meets, maybe once a year

How many women do I meet.... now that's a different question

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I definitely don't meet as often as I would like, but then the longer you go without you just get used to it

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

My desire for trying to arrange meets just to be sacked off has reduced a lot this year, so I stick with any passing FB and the odd social. Not done a club for ages.

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By *urchoicenowCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

We've met twice from here, both socials but go to a club every six or eight weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I need to get back to every weekend. Its been a while

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By *ungBlackTopMan
over a year ago

salford

1 every few month out of choice to be honest. Loads of meets don't interest me. Rather meet someone compatible and what usually happens is they become regulars so no need to have loads of meets. Prefer it that way as you can experiment with more filthy stuff.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me I meet as and when I have the free time, sometimes regular, other times once every few months it all depends as free time is rare for me, I would like much more regular meets at least once or twice a month would be great for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No where near as often as I'd like

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By *mmmMaybeCouple
over a year ago

West Wales

We did nothing play wise until January this year but have had five now in total. So roughly a monthly thing which is about right due to our free time & sitter availability.

S

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How often does Hell freeze over...?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4 times a year (on our old profile) but that is with posting a meet once a month

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By *rNaughtyNickMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

As often as a blue moon

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we meet once a month or so but when we do meet it has mostly been at a club where we have met a few people in one night.

H x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as often as we would like little free time ,whey we have the time no one interested unless we hold a party

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By *appy squirrelWoman
over a year ago

Norwich

trying to have sex once a week. but not always and definitely not always someone new. it's the mix that makes it interesting doesn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very rare, nowadays. I'd probably meet more, if I could find the time or motivation, to actually message anyone.

In the early days, when I was more proactive in contacting people, meets were more frequent.

There's no shortage of people on my hotlist, who I'd like to get around to meeting, someday - or even just chatting to. Maybe I should start using the wink button?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never

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By *oodnitegirlWoman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

Couple of times a week

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over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I meet about 3 times a year, it would be fun to do it every week, but I am just to busy with the gym.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None, not by choice obviously, and infinitely more, by choice if I could!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So I'm currently a student with no major commitments, which means that I can meet pretty much as often as I like.

My fiancé lives away so visits every other weekend, I see my regular fwb once or twice a week, and then I have a couple of evenings free to either do uni work or meet others when they take my fancy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't meet very often as couples generally aren't interested in us. Get the violins out !

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By *estmidscoupleCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

been on about 28 months and had 34 meets, but a few of these have been group sessions. We try and do something every 4-6weeks, life permitting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on how busy I am it can be anything from once a week to once every couple of months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We usually do something about once a month. Usually a private threesome or a club or party. We tend to meet the same people. Rarely have cause to meet anyone new.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We been on catch up after half term ....well that's our excuse and we sticking to it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About once a month in the summer, less in winter.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

- never

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By *istressZoeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

Every 6 weeks or so il have a special meet at the gatehouse club and il play in the dungeon x

I intermittently go to Sauna Sauna on a Wednesday x

I have a few close females friend who I enjoy playing with ehen it suits is both x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not very often

I will only meet someone if I connect with them.

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By *otgirl32Woman
over a year ago

Ashton Under Lyne

I live alone and am single (divorced). I can't go without sex for more than a week so usually have a sex partner over at least once a week sometimes more. Many of those "meets" are blokes I've known for a long time so it's just a matter of a text message and they're here - not a Fab "meet" in the traditional sense as there's no work involved (except in the bedroom heh heh). Many are from my life outside Fab. Others are new people I meet here.

x

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By *ryst In IsoldeWoman
over a year ago

your imagination

Not as often as I'd like, but apparently I'm a terribly fussy woman with a very definite type. I tend to meet the same people over and over as a result, but because the type of guy I'm attracted to is rare, most of my playmates are quite a long distance away from me and can't meet regularly. I'd love to be back in the situation of having someone reasonably local that I could meet a couple of times a week again

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Not that often as its tough to get the attraction between couples and neither of us will play,if the other isnt happy x

Miss

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By *uteLittleGeekWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I hardly meet anyone even for a social as not many people can stimulate my mind nor they are patient enough for this Miss. Hardwork

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By *iredhandMan
over a year ago

Manchester

What are these meet thingymajigs I keep hearing about?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't meet that often, time is in sort supply for meets.

Guys will chat on here, we get on well, and wish for a social meet, but tend not to be able to wait a week or so when I may have free time. I explain this they then think I'm a time waster and move on.

I tend now to meet only with guys I've met previously.

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I (mrs) try to get out a few times a month

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh I hope we can do something for that

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By *thwalescplCouple
over a year ago

brecon

Sometimes we meet a couple of times a month, sometimes less.

Over the last 12 months for various reasons we haven't met much, but we plan on making up for lost time when we can!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 or 4 times a month with regulars and some new people x

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By *ngel n tedCouple
over a year ago

maidstone

We'd like it to be more, but cba....

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By *lli_sissyTV/TS
over a year ago

Cambridge

Sadly i'm finding its 3-4 meets a year for dressing fun... would love more, but time is very short of late and i can be a bit fussy.

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By *iggles and BeardyCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

Now there is a nice club local, far far more often than we used too lol.

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By *rwolfMan
over a year ago

bristol

Im still curious over what millennium we are in to answer the question honestly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As it stands, we meet once every 2 years lol

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By *robertsCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We're quite similar we do 3/4 meets a year for various reasons .

We like it to be exciting so by doing it on that basis it keeps it fresh and the adrenaline is always there it doesn't lose its appeal . It's always exciting !

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By *D835Man
over a year ago

London


"1 every few month out of choice to be honest. Loads of meets don't interest me. Rather meet someone compatible and what usually happens is they become regulars so no need to have loads of meets. Prefer it that way as you can experiment with more filthy stuff."

My story is 100% identical to yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not often enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As the title says. How often do you have meets and would you like it to be more or less?

We probably have a met once every 3/4months on average I think.

This seems enough for us but at times I do wish we could meet more straight forward people and meet up spontaneously. "

Sometimes it's weekly, other times it's far more infrequent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once a week

I don't always wish to be verified however and lately have asked guys not to verify as I aware they are mounting up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never now! ...after receiving a somewhat abusive message where I was basically called a prostitute!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rarely and would LOVE it to be more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For the last few weeks I meet with a reg every Thursday for the eve/night.. But other than that, not many as for me there needs to be mental stimulation and well as sexual chemistry..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Once a week

I don't always wish to be verified however and lately have asked guys not to verify as I aware they are mounting up"

Maybe you should think "f"@k it verify" those people who judge people because they have loads of veris are not worth you meeting, who wants to meet judgemental idiots?

It works as a great filter for us

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Once a week

I don't always wish to be verified however and lately have asked guys not to verify as I aware they are mounting up

Maybe you should think "f"@k it verify" those people who judge people because they have loads of veris are not worth you meeting, who wants to meet judgemental idiots?

It works as a great filter for us "

Us too

We meet at least three times a week , and often have multiple meets on the nights we are out .

We would probably meet more often if we had time .

Since most of our meets are now with vanillas in the real world , it doesn't look like we meet as much as we used to on our previous profiles .

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By *dores blackmenWoman
over a year ago

incognito mode ;-)

2 to 4 times a month x weekend off this weekend

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Every Thurs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since being on fab I average about 1 a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

once or twice a week

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a regular fb so try and meet him once a week. Other meets are incredibly rare due to life being busy at the moment.

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By *sGivesWoodWoman
over a year ago

ST. AUSTELL, CORNWALL

I've had two this week other times it can be weeks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As and when due to work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not as often as I'd like, but apparently I'm a terribly fussy woman with a very definite type. I tend to meet the same people over and over as a result, but because the type of guy I'm attracted to is rare, most of my playmates are quite a long distance away from me and can't meet regularly. I'd love to be back in the situation of having someone reasonably local that I could meet a couple of times a week again "

I'm the same as you. Definitely would like more meets xx

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By *ynecplCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

Depends on what we are doing but it is roughly once every two months. A lot of our meets are socials which may or may not lead onto to play meets.

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By *inzi LTV/TS
over a year ago

The Garden of Eden in Beautiful North Wales

It used to be once or twice a month with a 'special friend' for one on one cd/tv lezzie fun or hotel party meets with other tgirls for 3somes and more some's)... but it's been a while now, mostly down to free time, finances and the obvious... too many idiots!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends how we feel, we travel abroad frequently so it's all depending on if we are around. Usually twice a month as an average..

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

As often as I feel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About twice a week, sometimes 3 times but usually with the same guy

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By *unlovingheroMan
over a year ago

DEVIZES

Waiting on first meet. But would love a couple a month

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By *auradCouple
over a year ago

glasgow

Not as often as we would like, but real life and family take precedence.

Probably average a couple of proper meets a year, but we like socials first and not every social becomes a proper meet.

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By *unlovingheroMan
over a year ago

DEVIZES


"Not as often as we would like, but real life and family take precedence.

Probably average a couple of proper meets a year, but we like socials first and not every social becomes a proper meet. "

Naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

none right now, life's about other stuff at the moment but last year i was having about one a month...less before that, it varies as to my mood and what life is up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol. It never seems like often enough. Maybe one or two times a month.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least once a week OP, sometimes 2 depending on how I'm feeling.

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By *habsMan
over a year ago

Fortress of Solitude, Middlesex

Here's a question: is it really swinging if a single girl is only meeting one single guy, and he in turn is only meeting her,.. ie they don;t meet anyone else for...over 3 years?

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By *unkydesignCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Not very often lately, not by choice but by circumstance. House moves, shift work, death of a parent, illness etc have temporarily put our swinging fun on hold. Hopefully we will be back to it very soon.

Probably about 4 meets a year is all we could manage as we both end up on opposite shifts often and we do like to spend some of our rare time together being a regular couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not as often as I'd like to, it takes a lot of time I don't have, to ilk out the normals.

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By *loswingersCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


"Here's a question: is it really swinging if a single girl is only meeting one single guy, and he in turn is only meeting her,.. ie they don;t meet anyone else for...over 3 years?"

Of course it isn't !

But there may be some who will argue it is , nothing surprises me in here any more

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can go months without being interested and have done a meets one weekend followed by the next.

We prefer to keep it infrequent or it gets boring

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Initially it was 3-4 times a week but I've had some health issues this year.

Starting to feel better and hoping to get back to that

Problem is, I can no longer accommodate and I'm too old for outdoor and car fun! x

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By *rx1Couple
over a year ago

Near Okehampton.

4 / 5 a year, don't want to come across as greedy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

would love more - somtimes manage a couple a week sometimes nothing for a few weeks - i fill in with socials

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It averages twice a month. It would be more but we travel lots, and the process of meeting through Fab is tortuous.

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By *londie8399Couple
over a year ago

blackpool

We have had three this month but it varies cos we caint get time off all the time

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